₦airaland Forum

The thing is when it comes to the thing of the heart, we all get hypocritical. We are scared to look weak so we are always quick to say "move on" "there are billions of guys out there" and bla bla. If you've never been heartbroken, then I don't pray it happens to you. It's a poison to your soul.

Even if you every recover from it, you change from the sweet natured person you were to become this bitter, cynical, skeptical person who would never completely give their heart to someone who may love them completely. Ruining not just one life, but couple of lives in the process.

It's easy to tell her to "move on" "there are many fishes in the river" and all, but the thing is, if the girl is so hurt she's contemplating murder, then the guy himself killed her soul. Robbed her of her innocence, destroyed something in her that cannot be replaced. Why should he go off free, unhurt and happy.

Well, I don't want him murdered literally, but I want karma to visit him and screw him up badly.

Idowuogbo: am disappointed. smh!

Why now?

Go ahead and shoot the mothafucka. These men need to be taught a lesson.

And you donald, do you know what it means for a lady to invest all her all in a relationship only to be rubbished in the end.

All I see in you is just a big desperation for marriage. Since you said you're 'young' why the rush?

FYI, when a man senses desperation in a woman, they can't help but take advantage of that.

For all you know, even this Mr goody abuja is just a fraud that will gladly use and dump you too.

My advice to you is break it off with this two guys and stop being desperate. Live life for life.

She just wants to you use to satisfy her intimate needs.

You'll only be called when her hubby is away and she happens to be h.o.rny. You don't really want to be just a tool for s.ex do you?

Plus you wouldn't want your own wife to do that to you.

ferhyntorlah: Hehehehehehehehehe, you're funny. I guess happiness and joy know no bounds.

Omo mehn. This is going to be narialand wedding of the year. I better join the wedding train early nah. So I go dey assured on the beta beta sovenirs wey I go pack go house.

Idowuogbo, I go block you for that side nah. Make una include me for all the asoebi arrangement. If I hear say I no go that wedding. I wan jam my own bed maga guy too.

Sweet lemonade, shey we're cool?
Ignore all this haters that hate to see 'our' star shine.

P.s babes, I take God beg you, I want an IV to the wedding. Abeg!

Sweetlemon: Pharoah or warreva your name is,you don't know a thing about Nigerian girls. Some of them even start planning aso ebis soon as soon they notice the guy getting serious with them!
Lol!
I don't have much time to plan a dream wedding. So I wanna start now so as to avoid rush hour. I want every single minute detail taken care of cos I v been dreaming of this day for ages. I want to have variety of choices to choose from and not just what one or two people suggested for me.
Thanks

This your explanation is slowly letting doubt slip in. You got proposed to yesterday, and you're talking about aso ebi and wedding planner today? Off.

Sweetheart, will I get an invitation to the wedding? I really mean it.

Sweetlemon: Don't worry. The thread served it's original purpose WELL. Now that I'm back I don't regret it! Not one bit!
As for the thread putting me in a bad light, any reasonable person with a mind of his / her own looking through the thread will see clearly the deliberate attempt to paint me black here.

So sweetheart, how did it go?

I know of men that marry beauty queens (that meet all their physical qualifications) for a wife and still cheat, what we will call that?

Yeah physical attraction should play a role in choosing a partner, but not a major role. what would should be of paramount importance in seeking a life partner is character and compatibility.

^^^ ogbo my friend is snitching!

Osareime: I might not be mature enough to give advice on a post ad unnecessary as this but you should read what I wrote first instead so defensive.

You lost the privilege of anonymity when you showed us your pictures! Don't you understand that? Now we know you anywhere we see you we would recognize you.

How do you know the family members you are tryn to impress have not already seen this thread? These details are not many when you are anonymous. But you are not and these details are toooooo many.

You are not faceless anymore don't you understand that?

Don't you understand that I can be anybody? I might be someone you see everyday.

I mite be his sister or his cousin it his friend.
You seem like the type to tell your biz to
the world and it's not a good trait.

We all make the mistake. Instead of you to take correction you are hastily typing replies.

When he finally gets the D feel free to give us details. If you guys dont get married. We all here now know the whole story of your dumping after he got the D.

Get this! We know your face! Ahn Ahn.

Correct!!!

Why is Tiwa savage and Tonto Dikeh perpetually trending on the first page?

What killed nigeria was the british colonialist who fused so many tribes and so many ethnic groups into one country. If the overpopulation did not kill us, then the internal division (caused by the diversity) explains the mass looting of our funds, bribery and corruption e.t.c. No one should ever compare Nigeria to kuwait.

Kuwait is a rich country because there are so few population and plenty oil. Not because their leaders are so pure and holy. If nigeria had such a little population and that much oil, bad leaders or good leaders, we'd all be rich.

@Op, for just a friend/innocent bystander you seem to know a lot. You also even know the workings in the mind of the parties. I think you're the guy in question.

Now OP, what would you like to hear? What will make it alright to you? Her admission of guilt? Tears? Confession to peer pressure. People don't ask questions there's no answer to.

You're just complicating it for yourself. It's clear you're still in love with the first and only started dating others because you weren't getting as much attention as you hoped you would. Stick to the first and let the others go gently. Don't carry the other two along as you'd only hurt them in the long run. Your heart is still with the first.

What I still can't fathom for the life of me is how fellow Nigerians talk about their own country with so much disgust and hate. America will never be your father land, neither will canada, UK and the likes. You are Nigerians, and no matter the citizenship and passports you acquire, it's blood still courses richly through your veins. Be proud! Everyone wants to run away, "it's not working!" they say and everyone wants to point a finger at the government rather than our poor history. If Nigeria is corrupt, then you too are corrupt and will do exactly those things we accuse our government people of if we were in their shoes.

Funny thing is the more you search for the good life outside your shores, the more you under develop your own land. Rather than be second hand citizens in people's land, why can't you make other people second hand citizens in your own land. Be proud of your country and your heritage, it's yours no matter how you'd want to disassociate your self from it.

I have nothing against people going abroad especially to get a quality education, but come back with that knowledge and better your (own) country. I love my country no matter how bad they say it is.

We complain about the terrible economic situation here, but pray tell, how were you able to finance such a big trip with the money you made from such a poor country.

Be a patriotic Nigerian today. Develop your own nation.

Amya.

It's getting hot in here!

Lalaosky is on the short side #nooffense. I doubt he'll come to my shoulder level.

LUCENZO: dark as chocolate, tall, ripped, masculine and handsome. What more can I ask for.

Can I have you for breakfast lucenzo *bats lashes*

Lalaosky is fine o, but he's not as sexy as lucenzo.


Lucenzo can I have your number


#teamlucenzo

I vote LUCENZO as MR NAIRALAND

Lalaosky is a fine guy

Don't think I'd bother with this elimination stage.

Yam and vegetable egg sauce

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]Men r indecisive first they want to marry the " wife material" then when they get the wife material they want to cheat with that girl they always told " u will never get married". Then they say women don't know what they want [/quote]Exactly!

They make up rules on who they deem marriable. "She must be this and must be that" putting aside the most important things and going for shallow and vain. Later they talk about marrying a second wife.

For unmarried folks, I've said this before and I'll say it again, MARRY YOUR FRIEND!

Romance section Nairalanders; all of them are a bunch of wieners and gonads

Kandikane . . . Ashewo kobo kobo. Swooning over sexy bods.