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2000 pages of undiluted truths.



Shout out to all the OG's both old and new, who have contributed immensely to this thread. You guys are awesome.

marlow1962:
Almost naked is understatement.


Does this show in ur browser too?

Yes, It started today. Thought I was the only one experiencing this.

ubunja:
didn't know you guys really liked those...

We sure do. We'll really appreciate it if you keep posting them.

Am I the only one missing those photos of ubunja's miseducations? I think we need more of it.

Congratulations to her.


Are there any seafarers on naira land? Let's know ourselves.

I don't want to involve myself with anything that has to do with affiliate marketing and referrals.

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JESHAL:
You are just spreading misinformation and disinformation, all the countries you listed above are dictatorial nation's void of human rights and they were liberated by the west, it's citizens are now enjoying the benefits of democracy or at worst waging in civil wars to enjoy the benefit of democracy except of Afghan and Syria who lost theirs to dictators, China will give you loans that's hard to sustain and seize your National assets eg Uganda airport, I believe you are a paid propagandist for Russia media outlets or you consume too much of their contents, they are just like any other nation with it's propaganda arm

You need to unplug yourself from the matrix. Study deeper and make research about global politics. You are red pilled in romance but blue pilled in politics.

iLegendd:
In that case, let's vote for APC because they are the evil we know.

Good analogy. That's a perfect reply.

I experienced this today. I simply uninstalled the app and downloaded it direct from opera mini.

This war will get more interesting during winter.

ubunja:
the miseducations are dead. At least on Nairaland. They'll continue on another site, hopefully one that I'll own personally. And yes,, I've shared a lot of stuff here that no one has to miss the miseducations.

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True. More ink to your pen boss. Keep rising and stay blessed

ubunja:
"you made me spread my bad side with you"...
That's all women are looking for. A man to show their darkness to. Women spread their darkness to other women all day long. If you have ever eavesdropped on that girl chat you'll know women are very very explicit in their sexual talk, like Indecency explicit, and they use the most vulgar terms ever,, but when they interact with men they switch to clean vocabulary. But they really love a guy they can be explicit and vulgar with. So when they find such a guy he becomes valuable. Now to learn later on the guy was just faking everything,,,, well it pisses them off.

What we fail to realize as men is that the world is like one big prison for women. It's a man's world. Women can't speak, dress or live the way they really want cause they've to project that image that will be favorable with men so they can benefit from men.

Which means women ,for the most part, live fake lives to impress men. So that one man who has it in him to allow a woman to express her truth and show her darkness, that man they'll love. It's one of the reasons why women will always have a special place in their heart for players, thugs and lowlife jerks. Those guys are not fazed by female nature. They have the darkness to match the darkness of women. And in them women find a kindred spirit.

Remember women are drawn to men more depraved than themselves because 1)no judgment 2)women feel at home around these men 3) women feel a moral superiority 4)women get to satisfy that "beauty saving the beast" instinct in them by trying to purify the man.

Many times a woman will dump a good man and go back to her lowlife ex boyfriend who has no morals and lives a depraved life cause she feels at home in that moral darkness and there's no judgment. Where the good guy had a moral superiority over her and she kept trying to live up to his standards,,,, with a lowlife thug SHE has the moral upper hand and the jerk has to struggle to live up to her standards. For many women this is a far better setup than having a man who's morally better than you who makes you look like the devil of the couple. Women want to be the angel of the couple.

Guys would be refreshing your profile all the time, waiting for when you will drop a new miseducation not knowing all of the new ones are littered all over this thread

pansophist:
It's not actually pain, its muscle breakage. Repeat it again another day despite the pain lol, that's how you get over it. Pain is part of the process. I personally feel pain everyday, unless I take a break.

But what you'll get despite the pain are physical strength, strong muscle and breathe resilience, assurance, and calm.

Alright sir I will try again. Thanks for the explanation.

pansophist:
Don't do the 50push ups at a go, but maybe 10x10, 20x5, just break it down to pieces.

I did 30 push ups in a row, 50 squats and over 40 high knee taps and now I feel pains, severe pains.

Danny50:
Can you prove it bro?

Here you go

hahn:
So we bought this fish yesterday but we don't know the name.

Any ideas?

It's a mud fish but over here in warri we call it "breast fish"

I am saving this thread. Too much information.
Information overload! I just hope this posts don't get deleted. The op of this thread is the real MVP.

advanceDNA:
I bet you didn't know


390km/hr is fvcking fast.....though not horizontal or vertical flight....it achieve such impressive speed when taking a nose dive at a prey

Nah, I knew about this one.

CaveAdullam:
1. Anger, sadness, retaliation, arrogance (light or heavy), joy, pain, anxiety, etc. are emotions rooted in the human psyche. The degree of expression may differ across individuals or groups, notwithstanding, it is a feature of the human psyche, not a bug.

2. You are angry because someone offended you. And you want to argue because your opponent is wrong. It is understandable.

3. Via arguments new things may be learned. But the outcome of arguments always ends in futility. It is better if you abstain. The only time you should is if your opponent is as intelligent as you or even better. On the flip side, this is no longer an argument but an intellectual debate that involves comparing notes and trying to decipher issues from different perspectives, and parsing of nuances. They may not accept each other ideas in the end, however, they go home changed with pounding hearts about their opinions and those of their opponents.

Know who you are dealing with before any argument or intellectual debate. You must be able to judge their intellect from afar or based on familiarity. With women, avoid every form of argument, only mere chit-chat. Women and other emotional individuals cannot comprehend logic and empiricism, they do base their claims on ego, fear, and guilt-tripping. Avoid them!

4. Why are you angry? Righteous anger: Anger because you smell something fishy, something manipulative, something evil, and disappointment which makes you want to fight back. Or, useless anger: Because you were pranked, called out for your mistakes, scolded for your misdemeanors, victim mentality, and teased.

These two types of anger can help you determine why you are angry. If it is the former, you don't just vent all the time, sometimes you talk, while other times you call fire and brimstones. Doing so will bring to the attention of the manipulators or evil-doers that you know what's going on and will never be a victim. You must do this from a place of power and/or confidence.

In serious conditions, you get angry and kick them out. The God of the old testament Christians' Bible is an example of this character. Sometimes he is cool towards evildoers, and other times, he slaughters everyone.

For the latter type of anger, you just need to develop more competence in doing things so that you will not always be sanctioned by people. In truth, humans don't know how to address pertinent issues on the ground. It takes one who has transcended to be able to deal with humans and draw you closer when you make mistakes.

When people make jest of you or tease you, counter them with your own. Because once they sense your sensitivity to teasing they will continue to do it. If you counter them always whether funny or not, they will start ignoring you. You can even take them to a level they don't understand and mock them for their foolishness.



Solitude!

1. Do what you love in secret, void of human distractions. Solitude is a good way to build yourself amidst the noises that surround us.

2. Sleep early and you will wake up early. Do the most useful things of your life in the early hours of the day.

3. What are your dreams and ambitions? Arrange them on a scale of preference and follow accordingly. You don't need too many things. Quality always beat quantity all the time, every day.

4. Don't force yourself on people. You will make new and good friends from what you are, what you know, and what you share. This helps to minimize the number of idiots you will come across daily.

5. Be curious and versatile. Pursue truth, wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. You will find peace despite the chaos that abounds and rules.

6. Don't be ego invested in anything. Once you sense light, move higher.

7. Study more and enter circles that fit your desires.

8. The early hours of the day are raw, pure, and silent. Think deep, draw out a map for yourself and how you will meander your way. That silence brings calmness to your soul.

9. Appreciate the beauty in whatever form you find them. The more you do this, the more things get clearer for you. It grants you the ability to draw beauty from chaos and your worst experiences.

10. Learn from every experience. If things go well, try and improve. If things go bad, take correction.

11. Love people.

Humans come with a baggage of flaws, but you must be compassionate enough to look past this. This doesn't mean that you must bear all their exuberance, but like a good shepherd: you use the rod during the day and bring the sheep close to your bosom at night.

Thanks.

PS: Food is ready Anchor19.

Sir I really don't know how to thank you. I am short of words. You hit the nail at the head!! This is exactly what I need now, especially when you said I should do the useful things in the morning. I've realized that whenever I postpone them to later in the day I'll find it very difficult to do them because I have engaged myself in other meaningless things like playing video games, discussing vain topics with my co-workers, heavy social media usage (I have deleted and reinstalled tiktok, facebook, instagram and others countless times in my phone). At the end of the day I won't be able to do the things that actually matter. I will screenshot this post and read it over and over again because everything you wrote up there was accurate with me. And I'll stop over thinking and start doing the activities that matters first before any other thing.


I do read books, that is,books that are concerning my career but when you said I should study, what kind of books should I be studying sir? I spend time a lot in nairaland reading people's post and comments, can that also be considered studying?


Yes concerning the anger part you are right, I'm usually ego invested and don't want to back down from an argument, I'll be the first person to bring out my phone and open google to prove my point.They've even teased me that I argue for a living. But those arguments always end in futility.I'll desist from such henceforth.


This write up will help me a lot, thank you very much sir. Thank you.

CaveAdullam:
Alright man. I will pen down something for you between now and Wednesday.

Keep refreshing your mention.

Thanks for the kind words. I do appreciate it.

Thanks boss. I'll look forward to your response. That post you made on the thread created by THE5DME was refreshing to my soul. It's a very realistic post that made me realize that success is never guaranteed until it is achieved.

CaveAdullam:
1. When you have an athletic or a wrestler kind of body, the number of persons that will upset or provoke you will lessen. They will think twice before doing anything with you. You are like a monster, a giant that must not be treated with disdain. Your body physique passes a message to their subconsciousness that you are in for the game at any time. Even jokes and banters will be carefully calibrated.

The gym is where you sharpen yourself and build strength.

(Ectomorphs, we must get there; by fire by force).

2. Extroverts will commonly conflict with people because they are outgoing and social. Introverts don't have this as much a problem.

The key here is to limit the number of people you relate with. Or, relate with people that have the same frequency as you.

3. Humans are fluid in their behaviors and actions. Someone you love in the morning can turn into a crazy melodramatic mosquito at night.

Before you react try and understand the cause of that person's behavior. It is difficult though. Humans are first led by feelings before they come to reality via logic. As an individual, you must become the horse rider of both your feelings and rationale. Logic application is optimal and must come first. But that shouldn't deprive you of emotions towards others or yourself. Knowledge and proper application are imminent.

4. When someone provokes you, leave immediately. Don't reciprocate insults. Don't try and let them see any reason with you. Just leave.

5. Not all the time you leave and allow ignoramuses to have their fill. You must also learn to put them in their place. You must become confident. Once they notice that you don't take a sh!t and don't back down easily, they will maintain their lane.

6. Don't hit first during any argument. It is better to avoid arguments because it doesn't end well. Once you have stated your points, go mute. Every new day comes with new learning. Your opponent may not learn via argument but by other methods.

Don't force yourself on people.

7. Define every relationship you enter. Wives will challenge the authority of their husbands. Ditto for children and their parents.

It is good the man maintains order in the home at all times. Discipline and order must not be made inconspicuous by romance or care.

8. Men react with force when they feel threatened. It is how they were built by mother nature/biology. While women run to men for protection when threatened.

When a woman upset you as a man, don't feed her ego with a counter or argument. Ignore and walk away. Women have a high verbal intelligence than men, they will always win with their mouths (insults, abuses, banters, cries). Though you feel threatened as a man, you must not fall victim. Society is already on her side because women are seen as the weaker sex. Just walk away.

But if you have established order and stand by it, her bullish!ts will minimize. She will try by all means not to provoke you. However, no (sexual) relationship is free of conflicts.

Women should learn to curtail and control their mouths and feelings.

9. For religious people pray and study more. For the non-religious, you can practice meditation and study more.

The more you pray/meditate and study, the more you elevate yourself above others and the usual problems that come with them.

10. Create time for retrospection, find those areas you did wrong, and make corrections.

11. Learn to know the arrogant and histrionic and separate yourself from them.

Prevention is better than cure.

Thanks.

Thanks for this wonderful piece sir. Anger and the urge to argue and prove my points to people are still one of the things I'm yet to control. Most times I know the argument will end in futility but I'll still go ahead and jump into it.

How can I practice meditation sir? I think I really need it now. I'm in a stage in my life where I just want to be alone and focus on my goals. But there are too many distractions. I'm just confused and angry with my self. I have a lot of things to say but I'll stop here. I'm below 20yrs.I just want to learn and practice how to meditate, reflect and focus on my life.

Originalsly:
So why don't China and Saudi Arabia be referred to as pariah States? ... do you call them such when the names appear?... or have you seen them being called such? If not.. why not?... and why is pariah State reserved for North Korea only when it is not the only one?

Because they don't asslick the west

emmaodet:
Have replied you bro

I've just replied you sir.

[quote author=emmaodet post=114190356][/quote]Boss I've just sent you a PM

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Good morning sir. Can I PM you? I've got something to tell you.

Damn. This thread is fully loaded with miseducations today. Shout out to comrade ubunja. Man, you're a blessing.

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Sir how true is this? Have you been paid before?

tosaino95:
It Good To Have You Here

Thanks bro. It's good to be here.