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casualobserver:
I don’t have to watch the video to know. He’s had it coming. I’ve never seen such arrogant quackery in the Solar world.

Smilinsun is a cowboy a quack, I’ve said it long time ago. The annoying thing about him is there is nothing worse than someone with half knowledge who refuses to learn or be corrected and Carries on as if he knows it all. Worse still is he insults or questions anyone who questions him or if he cannot explain a situation because of his limited understanding or knowledge he attacks the installer or the product.

I only pity those who patronize him or watch his videos.

I said it long time ago:

Yes chief, I remember this your last quote then, you did say so and called it right.

PS: I studied History and Economics , abeg take it easy on us in future, our book no "plenty" so we haven't lost the ability to develop new interests , joorr ooo

Seun:
I'm looking for an all-in-one with at least 5-8kw inverter and 15-20kwh battery. What do you guys recommend?

DaddyJapan:
How old is Don Jazzy? How old is Tiwa Savage?

Does your Omoluabi ethos extend to going prostrate for your younger boss at work?

FEGEITOK:
I was fortunate to watch it before it was taken down.

I will share something on the video later today

dollarnaira:
@Fegeitok and androblaze what is the video all about? Video is no longer available.

Kobojunkie:
1. I was also making you know that men also emotionally cheat, and it is already serious at that point when men emotionally cheat on their women.

2. Women do the same thing, often. Fantasizing about sex with other people IS NOT emotional cheating. By the way, women also fantasize about having sex with other men, only they don't talk about it much like men do.

3. Before a man can have sex with another woman, he has shifted his emotions from his woman to focusing on the other woman he desires to have, and this is where you see the man connecting with the other woman, and maybe begin arranging to have sex with that woman. That emotional work that they do to eventually get them up until the physical encounter is what is regarded as emotional cheating.

A man does not magically find his dick falling into an outside woman's vagina, even if the woman is a pr0stitute. He literally has to emotionally decide to explore the option of another woman for it to happen. That is where emotional cheating comes in. It is there, only some men(and women too) can have it happen almost at the same time that the physical cheating is taking place. Yes, women can and do, on occasion, act on impulses, but that does not mean there was no emotional cheating before that physical act happens, even then

4. Wrong! A woman can have a one-night stand and pretend it never happened, just like a man can. There are lots of stories online told by women in marriages who, at one point or another, had a one-night stand, some of them in the same house while their husbands slept, either with a friend or a relative of their husbands, zero-ed their mind of it afterwards, and their husbands never found out. You will be shocked that maybe even your own grandmother or mother may have such stories to tell. Women, like men, know how to hide their game well.

5. My post suggests nothing of what you claim since I made clear that men and women can do exactly the same things, only one tends to do it more frequently than the other(at least that is what we believe at this point in time)!

Onegai:
Dierich (even your name is immature )

You need to mature and mature very quickly.

Your marriage has hit the 7 Year Itch. That's the period in any relationship where the love has faded and both of you have forgotten why you liked each other in the first place and suddenly the grass looks very green outside. 7-10 years period.

Now, if we are to believe you, your wife has admitted to an emotional affair. Yes it hurts, but you caught it on time.

What your wife seems to be suffering from is Limerence (please look it up). Limerence lasts from 3-18 months and has no rhyme or reason (she won't be able to give you concrete answers why she likes the guy so don't bother. Her brain is playing tricks on her, it's why she blames the devil).

Now, locking up emotionally and threats will only make her feel lonelier, crazier and make that guy look like Banky W (fine and elegant) mixed with Bovi (good sense of humour) and Nathaniel Bassey (upright Christian).

Meanwhile the guy is a mix of Yul Edochie, 2face and Emeka Ike in real life.

It's the 80:20 rule: what she liked about him is 20, what is rubbish is 80, but she can only see the 20 and her math skills and logic have failed her.

By the way, this happens to men as well

So what you really need right now is COMMUNICATION! Open phones, open laptops, shine torchlight everywia (because the devil thrives in secrecy). Talking frequently and not about the man (she will want to stylishly bring him up, remember it's not love shes just om crazy brain chemicals).

The type of love she needs is stable love not you competing with the man (God forbid!) or you throwing ultimatums in hurt and pain.

Then she needs ACCOUNTABILITY! Now is the time to look for an older Mama in church or somewhere who will start guiding her and screaming into her ears about Consequences. And the best consequences will be losing access to her child via shared custody after Divorce. No Mother wants that.

Finally, you need FORGIVENESS. She's not ready for remorse (she's lying if she apologizes now). So you need to forgive her now for breaking your trust. And only God can give you that strength, now is the time to delve into the bible deeply. She will join you.

Eventually, once you bring her close, she will tell you the 20% that attracted her to that man. I assure you, it is something that she's lacking in herself, that she went to look outside for, rather than look inwards and fix up.

Human Beings struggle mightily with reflecting inwardly.

If you weather this storm, your marriage will be stronger because you would have matured, lead her and protected your family. She will be eternally grateful that when she lost her mind, you were there to pick up the pieces.

Eventually, she'll want to leave her job, when she's recovered and you've fixed your marriage. Shame will not want her facing that man on a daily basis. Let her do so.

Kobojunkie:
Your sense is not sense-ing at all. Both men and women are made up of moods, which link back to emotions.

2. Men cheat with their bodies, yet a man can, while even with his wife, be completely turned off because his mind is wrapped around thoughts/fantasies and emotions he has about another woman, whom he has developed a crush on?

3. Huh? This reads like gobbledegook.

4. This applies to both men and women, actually.

Many men hesitate to leave a relationship for many reasons, one of them being that they would rather not lose the benefits— access to emotional labor, mental and physical labor that the woman can still offer them — they still have in their existing relationship before they have secured the next relationship. It is called monkey branching, and studies have shown that this is the major reason why men hold on to relationships even when they no longer have any feelings left for the woman they are with.

Women have this ability to monkey branch, but to a reduced extent than men, as well. But many women feel a relationship simply becomes an unnecessary burden to them to bear once their feelings are no longer there, and it takes a considerable length of time for them to lose that feeling compared to men. That is why many more women would rather just leave the relationship altogether than hang on to it when there are no real benefits to be had in remaining in it.

Both men and women have the capacity to emotionally cheat, and both men and women are capable of monkey branching.

Diamond098454:
the lady is not cheating rather he's suspecting them and he want his wife to stop communicating with the man

villagereporter:
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I think your generation is lazy, including your unborn or born children.

Is that the best you could do?

Why not repeat another story for the gods.... or your intellect no pass APC/PDP matta

villagereporter:
Nigeria has been cursed since 2015 thanks to APC d lieing party.

bigpicture001:
I pity u my guy, politicians have really dealt with ur ability to critically look at something...

So to u.. this is progress...?

How much is ur child skl feez now compared to before tinubu.. are the teacher now using vsat and AI plus space science tools to teach ur pupil..?

What made the cost to jump..,? Ok.. we all should celebrate because of 40k increase in wages.. when inflation rose by 300%...

See, u mentions the wrong fella... I am a grounded data statisticia , na u go run

bigpicture001:
Why not rewind the price before tinubu came in...

Yeye analysis!!!

Fuckyoumod:
Africa, well it can't happen in Nigeria.

No Nigerian leader can try it, excerpt you don't like yourself and the air you breath by daring to stay in power for more than 8 years.

Kastonkastroll:
That Paul biya self. Instead of him to retire but at his old age he is still dragging presidency. But rumors have it that the wife is actually the one ruling the country indirectly.

allen113:
How you go sign something you no understand?

Make them beg una ooh

Jagabanfromcali:
Can some one point out where he said that in the passage ? It can be interpreted that he wants more slots for European countries just like more slotted have been allocated to African and South American continents but sensationalism sells

LagosOrigin:
Bad market for all those Ogun, Oyo and Osun people claiming Lagos 😂

We said it that time will come that the true indigines of Lagos will be separated from chaffs from other south west states claiming Yoruba is one .

Who told you that Yoruba is one?

If you're not an indigine of Lagos, you don't have the right to claim you're from Lagos. Infact, you're no different from the Chinedu from Enugu and Ahmed from Kano living in Lagos.

Lol, una funny, the way this Lagos matter is scratching you, it's more visible than the best of tribal marks sef

Yorubas can never be worried by this development, as we can read between the lines to know who this is targeting.

olaideeeedris:
I imagine our national team with the likes of:
Bukayo Saka
Noni Madueke
Manuel Akanji
Tobi Adarabioyo
Kareem Adeyemi
Eberechi Eze
Oliseh (Bayern Munich)....
Nigeria would have been a force to reckon with in the world of football

Benbellamor:
You have comprehension issues, lets straighten your comprehension here

first
the land was approved for parks and recreation by a previous FCT administration, which is why the former CNS cannot build and develop it for personal use and was apparently "duped".

Second
He said that CNS on his Own Now convert, "redesignated" the land for "public buildings" and "corporate offices". But the previous FCT administration (Not This) Refused to Approve it for "public buildings" and "corporate offices". Lere further shows proof of Evidences to Butress his point

Of course they are Important, But CNS has failed to produce APPROVAL, and thats why Wike will demolish it and return it to original plan to build roads on it

lISTEN to the video again...this time around with Open mind kpelle