₦airaland Forum

BellaElla:
Oga morning o. In my opinion I believe you are too involved in their marriage. Firstly it is only an irresponsible wife that visits neighbours everyday without reason. You and ur wife shouldn't have let it get that frequent. Its not a behaviour to encouraged and breeds over familiarity and disrespect. Another thing is when she started complaining about her marriage to u people, you should have known the kind of woman she was. That woman can set u up, she can cause issues between u and ur wife . She is not a wise person to associate with. However its not late to disassociate urself. Distance urself from their issues. Stop calling the woman. E no concern u. Let the man and his family sort it out. It would surprise u that when they are talking about their wahala or name would be mentioned. Over familiarity between neighbours dey always bring insult.

Well said. The aspect of having her always in their apartment is wrong. Also the op trying to impress the the woman by helping his wife out on domestic duties while the lady is watching is another problem hence her complaint as to her husband not coming close.

The lady is a full time housewife of which which she has nothing doing while her husband is out working and coming back home late of which must have been reasons for not having time in helping the wife out.

Op, you should stay clear from this problem and allow them resolve their problems.

snakie86:
They dated for over one and half years. The friend has been the one picking the wife's phone since on Monday whenever the line was available.

The friend is married too but the husband told me yesterday that a friend to the lady's husband has told him before that he should warn his wife not to be discussing their marriage with the friend. It led to argument between them with the wife maintaining that she doesn't discuss anything with her friend.

The wife is not a full house wife, she works in a flexible environment and she do come home way early before the husband

The female friend who kept picking the calls should be the one responsible for the lady getting out of the house. It could be that she is a bi-sexual and her female partner wants her to get out from her matrimonial home.

I have had an experience where I dated a lady and I never knew was a bi-sexual in Atlanta, Georgia.I had a party and the lady came and never wanted any other person to dance with her. She only wanted to dance alone with my lady and anytime I get to wanna have a dance with my lady, she gets jealous and moody. She later went and sat down somewhere and I started suspecting her moves. I called my lady to the room and asked her to tell me what was in-between them and she confessed to me and told me that she was confused and don't know how to get out herself out from the lady.

I just want to let you know that it could be that she is in-between hence her action and complaint.

SirJeffry:
Thanks for this sir but I can't come down to check the work.

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Well, sometimes we make mistakes when we have not taken into consideration certain things in order to get things right with the person we entrust to get things done in our absence. If you know the antecedents of that your cousin, you stand in a better position to take the best judgement.

In our lives, we make or take wrong decision over someone when we entrust things like the subject on them.If he can get the said house to that level and has given you that cost in handling the roofing and electrical job for the house,you can give him since he has started the job. Allow him to get it finished for family reasons.

Note that if you get another person to get this job done for you, you cannot trust the person because I have come to realize that you can only TRUST yourself.Nobody can be like yourself. Sometimes, allow things be. Even if you contract the so called people who claim to know better here, they will even mess you up.Stick to your cousin. There are people you give that same amount of money, you will not get the building to window level.

Op, it all depends on the quality of the house you want him put for you. The kind of roofing, or fittings you want to be used.
Building materials are too high now. What I will suggest you do is to just take a trip down to have a look at what he has put in place and take the cost of what he has already put in place before sending any money to him. I am not saying for now that he has cheated on you.

building a house to the stage you have just mentioned is just the beginning of the project. Finishing is where you spend money. The quality of the roofing materials you needed, the type of electrical work, plumbing and other relevant things needed are what maters. Plastering of the house and other things costs a lot. Building a house this days is not a child's play. Materials has gone to high.

I put up a 5 bedroom ensuite, and I can tell you that I spent a lot on tiles for the floors, toilet fittings and other electrical works.

Travel down to see things yourself before the roofing.You can ask him to hold on and pay him a surprise visit. Never tell him that you were visiting in order to take him by surprise.

If this case is not made public and the officer dismissed and jailed for life, then there is no single hope for the government of APC.

If Aisha Buhari as the First Lady of this country fail to stand to see that justice is done for this young lady, then I have lost hope for Buhari's government. I so much love The President, Buhari because we have never had a corrupt free President like him.

I believe the government should see that this officer is sent to jail.

Also, the moderator should send this to the front page.Child rape is a serious crime all over the world.

Marvel1206:
it seems you haven't been following up the story.. He was earlier caught and handed over to the authorities.. But he got out again and raped a woman, brutalised her daughter. And got scot free...
This is his second attempt after his release and dem catch am again.. Are you saying he should be handed over to the authorities again Taarh! Even the gods will sigh* on their matter when dem no mumu.. After reading this and u still feel jungle justice is not appropriate for this fellow, allow baddo taste you and u'll sabi the feeling

Read my post. I am in support of what they did to the guy. People like him deserve jungle justice. How can one rape and kill their victims and expect to be alive.

This lady @raayah:,was saying that she is not supporting the issue of jungle justice on those who rape and kill and I was telling her that the same badoo or his likes will visit and rape her or maybe kill her then let me hear her people support her.

raayah:
I hate rapists, but I hate jungle justice and murders. If we had an accountable justice system, may cases of jungle justice would be reduced.

Don't worry about them.They will visit you and then we shall wait for your decision.I hope you are who you are- woman, and you love what they do to women, you will have their experience.

Why cant those living in those areas too, carry their own sword? Since the herdsmen carry arms, you all should carry arms too. Had it been that the pastor had his own sword, what stops him from cutting the so called idiot's hands or neck off.

It is time for people living within those environment carry arms and challenge the herdsmen.

osymerga:
How can these lawmakers be this daft ? Can they invite Obama before them ? They should go for an International Relation course...
Just negodu the embarrassment they are causing us...

The so called lawmakers are just pen robbers who does not even understand their duties. They think they can just have anybody invited to their chamber.

calliope:
Gay wit 2baby mama's and prospecting others lined up

Nigerians sha

Yes, some gays are bisexuals and can have children too.They like men and also women.Not saying the guy is gay but wants to let you know that some guys do men and ladies.

Whomsoever that did this shall never see the end of this yr. This poor woman who has been using this to take care of her children should not be left by the Edo government without taking care of this issue.

The so called idiots should be arrested.

That is one bad attitude of we Nigerians. A minor is missing and someone is attributing it to boyfriend-girlfriend issue.

For God's sake, at 12, she is still a minor and anybody no matter who that person is, whom she must have been with, whether by her own will or not, that person has committed an offense and should be arrested and prosecuted.The person must have taken an advantage of her innocence to exploit her.

I pray she is with someone and the person don't have any bad motive rather than s3xual issue. God will get the person exposed and arrested.

Good for him. How I wished that he was given the jungle justice. He would have ended up using the child for useless sacrifice. I thank God he was caught. Who knows how many children he must have kidnapped and killed.

modelsms:
Well, I don't pity you. How could you have thought it possible to get 5gb at 1500?

Again, what type of customizes sms is that?
And whats the person's username?

Exactly on point. Op just messed himself up. Anything like this goes to show one that 'it sounds soo good to be real', run away cus you will be the fool at the end.

You must tell him the truth in order for him to be able to understand the case and how to defend you. Also note that you can ONLY be proven guilty if there was clear evidence and proof, that you truly committed the offense. The court must establish intent to commit and also establish proof of murder. It could be that you committed murder as a result of provocation or self defense. A good lawyer can get you manslaughter which carries a lesser sentence, as they fell under a felony.

So, tell him the truth.

1st pix shows that FKayode's mouth had mouth odor after he left detention camp, hence she never wanted mouth to mouth kiss.

Can't believe this is from such person. Devil and his members are same.

WildChild00:
This woman orginally is a troublesome woman, she need to calm down, and make peace with Dino, Dino on the other hand too is somethine else, he went too far, by tell such to a woman, dey should have settle scores within their self, instead of this kind of disgrace coming frm distinguish senators lik dem.

Who told you that they are distinguished senators? These are people who rode to power at all cost, has no interest of those they say that they represented.

For now, none of them should be regarded as a Distinguished Senator.Mad individual who are after their selfish interest.

Let The Human Right Commission be contacted to confirm if this is true, then the IG should be contacted immediately for the is the worst crime on the face of this earth and the officer should be meant to be dismissed and prosecuted, jailed for life.Too bad.

Can one imagine this kind of force we have in this country? If the IG fails to deal with the officers involved, then the senate should invite the Police commission over this disgraceful act by its men. Since Op can identify the police station this happened, the Commissioner of police in Lagos State should step into this issue to see that the police officers are arrested and dismissed.

Don't marry out of SYMPATHY because you cannot and will NEVER have any trust as her past MUST continue to hurt and hunt you.


What you don't know cannot kill you. If you get married to her in future, every of her move, you will keep suspecting her even if she is not guilty.

Op, for coming hear to voice it out, from what you stated herein, you cannot love her no matter what. Take a walk and allow her be.

It takes the grace of God Almighty to forget and forgive an issue like this. A white man can let go an issue like this, but a black man has the heart of a lion when relationship is involved and tend to be more over possessive of their women.

Don't marry out of SYMPATHY because you cannot and will NEVER have any trust as her past MUST continue to hurt and hunt you.


What you don't know cannot kill you. If you get married to her in future, every of her move, you will keep suspecting her even if she is not guilty.

Op, for coming hear to voice it out, from what you stated herein, you cannot love her no matter what. Take a walk and allow her be.

It takes the grace of God Almighty to forget and forgive an issue like this. A white man can let go an issue like this, but a black man has the heart of a lion when relationship is involved and tend to be more over possessive of their women.

Remove your mind from her as the luv she claim to have on you is just fake.Just note that.

LizGray:
Nawa o everybody just dey born. Una plan am? Anyhow, congrats to them.

Just dey there and be watching and no go do your own.Stomach dey, nyash dey boobs dey and the track to pikin dey, why wait?

Dino is just nothing good and a waste to his generation. Dino is nothing to Tinubu hence Tinubu is not saying something. The best answer to a foo---l is just silence.

A dog that wants to die do not passive the odor of feces. Dino is just a time bomb. He can rant now because is not normal.

DIVINE78:
God bless the couple.
I asked God to grant me and my spouse the same GRACE.

Amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnand we all receive that great blessing. May God grant the couple many more yrs ahead.

eating fetish food as an oath for their master, Fayose.

Victorakats:
When you take away food from an ordinary man and take away job from him, he will no longer have a place to call home and the conscience to do what is right.
Crime and criminality becomes attractive to him.
One of the painful lessons this government is yet to learn is that stripping a good man of a decent living will definitely turn him to a threat to the nation.
I hope that this phase of our nation will be a thing of the past in no distant future.

Well said my brother. It is getting to a point whereby the poor will start feeding on the rich.No security anymore as the Police that should be protecting us are out there collecting/extorting money from people.Since the last IG left, the police has now returned back on the road, for extortion which is part of their life.

amokeme:
It's her inbox... she has every right to reply who she wants to reply, and ignore who she wants to. However the guy in question also have the right to STOP sending messages to her inbox after she didn't reply his 1st and second message... but he didn't exercise his right, so that's his problem!

My sister, you are right. For me, I think the guy is mentally sick and needs help. His people should look for a way to get help for him.

The guy MUST be mentally sick and needed help. No normal person would react the way the idi....ot acted here.

How come that a man would go on air to abuse a lady who NEVER abused him because she never sent him message for her birthday? I cannot understand this kind of a man. Too bad. Some people need to be quarantined cus they have a disease that can destroy a whole nation.

Op, note that when you see a young lady referring an older/elderly man as uncle, 95% of such cases are people fvcking them but due to the age difference, they will love to hide the status of such relationship.

Your lady is fvcking the guy because no right uncle will be annoyed over an adult like her dating another person. Her parents knew that the man has been the one taking care of them and sponsoring the lady in school. Maybe he plan marring the lady after seeing her through school, but at the back of her mind, she loves you but cannot do without fvcking the man in order to get her fees for academics.

Either you take up her responsibility or allow her play her game.The man is a Pay Master to the family.

MadamExcellency:
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I just read this part the second time and I begin to wonder if the Abuja High Court wants to influence the Court of Appeal before it even sits?

Is this not the same Registrar who prepared the copies of the judgement at the speed of light against all norms?

What authority does Justice Abang has to interpret the judgement given by Justice Allagoa?

It's now obvious that Abang is trying to save face from the obvious which everybody knows. He fumbled hence this press release which amounts to sub prejudice.

It is becoming clearer by the day that this judgement was bought and it was intended to mount a political coup in collaboration with INEC Chief who signed Certificate of Return immediately the judgement was given, two days before Uche Ogar asked for it.

I am beginning to put one and two together to arrive at three. Now I understand.

The judgement was bought. At the end, the truth MUST come out. The judge has personal interest hence his judgement.