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It is not a 9ja thing. The same thing is applicable all over the world. Women naturally don't go for engineering courses, but they like social sciences courses.

DaInferno:
Normal thing with engineering courses herein 9ja

Na social science and courses like MCB the ladies the full

Please don't ruin this with that nonsense of society not being fair to the girl child. Which law states that girls can not study engineering? Of course no law states so, that is why she went and studied engineering and graduated.

Nothing is stopping girls from studying engineering. It is just hat naturally girls don't go for such courses. It is not a new thing.

doggedfighter:
Femi, do you think our society has been fair to the girl child?

Very true

doggedfighter:
A diva.


They must have spoilt her with pampering and care



It's really fun being in the midst of boys. You're

everyone's 'baby' and they go all out to look out for you.

So how has this helped him or his wife?

falcon01:
you sir is mentally unstable and I pity any woman that comes across you

This is pure gold. It is one of the reasons i strongly believe in letting your spouse know when they offend you, instead of over looking it. Because he/she might continue to do that thing that offends you, without realising that they are offending you.

Sometimes, unresolved anger from previous misunderstanding piles up and then it leads to a violent burst at the littlest provocation.

Stephen0mozzy:
No Sir... The first step to resolving a problem is to own up to responsibility. It's not without any reason...you need to find your trigger... What are those things that happens or leads to the unholy act of hitting a woman you once couldn't stay a day without hearing her voice.


Sometimes, unresolved anger from previous misunderstanding piles up and then it leads to a violent burst at the littlest provocation.

It's okay that you have seen that it is wrong... Now the first thing.....this evening, apologize to her....kneel down and win back her trust as you knelt down to propose to her.


If it's her attitude or nags that makes you hit her... Beg her that you don't like what her actions are making you become...Ask her what you can do to be a better husband and truly make the effort.

When she does something you don't like, no matter how petty... Tell her...vice versa

those people that participated in the beating are as heartless as the bike thief.

He said rape apologist. I've been called a rapist before. So, you calling me a rape apologist tells me that you're still in nursery school when it comes to trying to shut me up.

You're the one who needs to grow up. You failed to realise the manipulation that the girl is doing.
You talk about women being more than sex objects, but in this case she is clearly a sex object, that is getting paid through the guy accommodating her.

Their relationship is transactional. She is bringing her body(sex object) to the table, while he is bringing his home to the table.

Like I said before na una type women dey manipulate well well.

Awon rape apologist

Readability:
Lolz, should I call you a rape apologist or maybe you're ignorant that women are equally a human being like you? Grow up bro, women are better than just sex object and learn to respect a woman's no.

Insane or sane. Still story for the gods.

Mmadu2:
Story for sane people. Totally not for the insane.

@Kevv420 you don't need to do anything for her to be happy.
Just like I said before break up with her and get another girlfriend. NEVER BEEN A WOMAN FOE SEX!! is you do it you would always be begging her for sex.
Majority of the people who replying beg women for sex. That is why they are encouraging you to make her happy.
Ask yourself what you did to make her before, when she was giving you sex freely? I'm sure you're answer would be nothing. So why must you now make her happy before you get sex?
As for those who claim you raped her please ignore those ones.
A good number of Nigerians are looking for entertainment to distract them from poverty.

Please go through this thread or better yet download, the rationale male positive masculinity by Rollo Tomassi. It explains a lot about female manipulation
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/917#107445787

I repeat never beg a woman for sex. You don't need to do anything to make her happy.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

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Kobojunkie:
You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again?

Seun, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg...

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tunize:
You raped her because you want to fulfil what? When she gets you arrested now we will start hearing another. You raped your girlfriend and you are here foolishly asking for advice I pity the girl when nor fit even burst your head.

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[[s]quote author=Emperor2020 post=107448200]So if this gal rise up and go on a bad move on you or kill u out of wat u did,who we go blame,or u tink poison no fit work fr ur body...come to tink of it,can't u help someone without manipulation[/quote][/s]

Better go and read the rationale male positive masculinity by Rollo Tomassi. If not you would one day find yourself doing incredible things so that your girlfriend or wife would be happy enough for her to spread her legs for you.

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komanderz:
Bro,
Better do what ever she needs to make her happy. You said when was not working you always have it so why don't you believe her if she said she's tired etc..

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Mtcheww
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sundaygray:
If that girl get sense make she leave you. A man like you cannot control your urge abi? You think say by her living with you na steady sex. Ask married men how many times they sleep with their wives in a year. ;DYou almost raped her, in fact you rape am! Shoo... you came to nairaland to even type this rubbish. You get mind well well sha, dey tear woman pant like say she owe you money

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Its your type that beg women for sex.

Ofadaman:
Someone you aren't married to.
Aren't you even working?, I'm not sure you are, she comes back from work and the only thing in your mind is sex.

She could have managed but some things may be at play here.
1) she's worn out at work and needs her rest
2) She's no longer in love with you,
3) Someone else is doing the work wella

Truth is , at this stage, you will not be getting her back, she's gone for good and you used your hands to do it.

If you've taken a different approach, would it have played differently ?. E.g.

You run her bath before she gets home, do your bit to tidy the place , get some wine , chill music and, you give her a massage?..

Don't know why everything with some guys na fight fight, at your age you dey drag pant with your own babe, even if you come enter the place and she dey dry how u wan take enjoy am or after the 3mins sex what next?. .. how una dey even enjoy unconsensual sex self, abeg get small sense na..

Story for the gods.

Mmadu2:
Imagine the level of entitlement. Someone you haven't paid her dowry and you feel she must give you sex or die. You see your life.

Even when you are fully married to a woman sex is not do or die. If she says she doesn't want you have no right to force her whether wife or girlfriend.

Mtcheww. Na una type dey beg woman for sex or just the tip.

Readability:
Bro, honestly you did all this just to have sex with a woman? I'm disappointed at the act of a fellow man like me. I mean, this is uncalled for to say the least. You have your hand and if you can't fap, you give her time. You don't have a choice, it's her body not yours. Why don't you understand that it doesn't have to do with you, she could be going through stress like she said and this is the best you can do to comfort her?
I get it, I'm in the same situation as you mine has been more than 2 months now, with no explanation from her. All she said is, she needs a break. Bro, no allow this kind thing do you again, nah person pikin she be too ooo. And you can't take it if such is done to your sister or your daughter. So, be careful and pull her close, apologise to her and promise her never to do such again. No be everything be gragra for this life ooo. Thank goodness she no use something hard hit your head,maybe nah your story go dey fp tomorrow morning.

Find another girlfriend. That's how it starts. Women denying men sex is manipulation. She feels she's the only one giving you sex. So she can hold you to ransom.
Get another girlfriend simple

Breaking Bad things

But what about the glass? If the correct glass was used, we wouldn't have this thread at all.

lalasticlala:
As shared by Osaretin Victor Asemota @asemota



https://twitter.com/asemota/status/1457269112082767874

His experience is really sad.

Like someone said previously if the job has to do with modelling then the company is right, if not the company is wrong.
she gave birth so its logical that her stomach would be big. The women and girls(yes even some girls) that i have issues with, are those wey never born but their stomach dey pop out.

This evil liar and Used Nokia 3310. She is the one that falsely accused Reno Omokri of making a pass at her some years back when Reno was a special assistant to Goodluck Jonathan.

If Reno did not have evidence and a strong alibi some people would have believed her, even when she could not produce any shred of evidence.

Lol. Una go chop in Jesus name... Amen. But only chop legally.

Shey it would be best to deal with agents from big estate agencies? This has always been in my mind. To only deal with agencies that have a physical presence.

grandstar:
The legal fee is what is used to prepare the legal agreement. This should be given to a lawyer to prepare. Though the prospective tenant is charged 10% by the landlord, he might just pay the lawyer 5%. Many a time, the landlord simply uses a draft from the previous lettings so no payment to any lawyer. So, the landlord pockets everything.

If it is a big estate agency handling the property, the estate firm may handle the legal themselves and collect the fees. They may either use an in-house lawyer or employ the services of a lawyer. Large estate firms would most likely engage a lawyer each time so that if any problem springs up, the solicitor that prepared the agreement can be engaged. If they bypassed the lawyer and did an agreement without his input or authority, he is not liable to defend them and that may put them in trouble.

For the agency fee, that goes to the estate agent. We no go chop? My friend, what are you saying? No make I declare mental here?

The rent is strictly for the landlord while the agency fee and legal are supposed to be for the respective professions

Asin eh!
I feel really bad for kids who are born with one deformity or the other.
The fact that we're healthy is more than enough to give glory to God. There are people out there with ailments that have no cure, in fact scientists don't even know what causes it.

There was a time I saw a picture of the skull of someone that had cancer of the bone. The way the skull was jagged and pointing out like needles, you can only imagine the 24/7 pains and agony the person was going through.

bukatyne:
What a thread!

Keep it coming.

Inspection fee? Is that even legal?

skasto:
They never carry you go uncompleted building to pay .. That is will be ready in 2weeks.. The 2k inspection fee is the worst part.

Well I later get 270k..2bed at apete inside .. Make 1 agent no come send me back to my village

Is there his real estate agent a professional, Asin those work for the agency in charge of the house or is he just someone the owner of the house hired to be collecting rent?

Also is the house in an estate area?

Ijawboy:
Lately I have been scouting for a 2 bedroom apartment in Ibadan for residential use.
See what a greedy Real Estate Agent charged me for a 2 bedroom apartment in Oluyole estate, here in Ibadan:

Rent - N700,000
Agency fee @ 20% = N140,000
Legal fee @ 10% = N70,000
Caution deposit =N70,000

Just imagine being asked to pay N980,000 due to sheer greed of this Estate agents in collusion with greedy landlords☹️

Unfortunately, this is the norm out here as other agents I spoke to were not any different.

Kindly share your experience with Ibadan Real Estate agents or even their greedy colleagues in other states and how you handled them.

I have 2 questions to ask please.
1.What is the use of legal fees?
2. Why is the agency fees and legal fees separate from the rent?

grandstar:
They're basing their agency fees on 2 years rather than one. 10% of 700k which is one year's rent is 70K. But though you're paying for a year's rent, they assume you're paying for 2 years, which is 1.4m, and charge you 10% of that.

This was also done in some parts of mainland Lagos. I know it used to be done in Ikeja. However, the last letting I did in Lagos (I am an estate agent) was in 2015 so I am a bit out of touch. I don't think it's done on the island.

The greedy system started when the then governor, Fashola limited residential rents to 1 year in advance rather than the then customary 2 years. Estate agents in order to prevent a cut in their fees, now charged commission based on 2 years rent rather than 1 year.

Know what?

killmods:
Lol...If only u know

Please which YouTube videos did you use to learn how to trade? Because if want to trade the inu coins you suggested I have no idea how to go about it.

iLegendd:
It's a meme coin — a sh!t coin and they pump like crazy. Sh!t coins will make you more profit in the short term, but cash out on time and wait for a crash as you grab some real coins like ADA, MATIC, Sol, BTC, etc.

I trade mostly coins with Inu as the surname at the moment. Things like Floki Inu, Kishu Inu, Sanshu Inu, Shiba Inu, Kishimoto Inu, and the list goes on. The risk is high, but the reward is much. I target these coins when they are depressed. There are more than 50 coins with Inu as their surname.

Thank you

iLegendd:
It's a meme coin — a sh!t coin and they pump like crazy. Sh!t coins will make you more profit in the short term, but cash out on time and wait for a crash as you grab some real coins like ADA, MATIC, Sol, BTC, etc.

I trade mostly coins with Inu as the surname at the moment. Things like Floki Inu, Kishu Inu, Sanshu Inu, Shiba Inu, Kishimoto Inu, and the list goes on. The risk is high, but the reward is much. I target these coins when they are depressed. There are more than 50 coins with Inu as their surname.