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That is a possibility

dawnomike:
Take her for pregnancy test... She might be pregnant already unknown to you.
Women misbehave alot when pregnant.

This has nothing to do with whether the woman is working or not

Fourwinds:
Guys should avoid (I will manage with you) kind of women.every woman na material being.dem like good things and naso GOD create dem.

Many of you commenting about the wife working are just trying to force the issue in that direction.

Whether a woman works or not has no bearing on how appreciative she would be as regards her husband.

Also, the OP made it clear that they have been trying to conceive and the stress is getting to her.
Women have been known to behave differently when something is disturbing them.

From what the OP said i can reason that she is trying to look for something to distract her from the issues they are facing, hence her giving her husband attitude and complaining.

This has nothing to do with liability.

phorget:
Make una no marry liability una no go hear...
Why should I be the one to set up a lady? What has her parents been doing? And such parents will still expect me to pay bride price o.

This has absolutely nothing to do with whether the wife works or not. The woman has other issues that are eating her up.

Bola146:
Then he shouldn't complain, if the woman he married wasn't working when they got married, he struggled to get loan she is still complaining, then he should get the woman what she wants if that is what he told her before he married her, most responsible married men are really struggling alot seriously, the wives should understand their wahala up and down, it's not easy ooo for this Buhari. Some men committed suicide because of wahala from homes, no words of encouragements, no sympathy at all. Both of them should sit and talk because what would happened if they start bringing in kids They should know better besides they are not kids.

There is no faulty foundation.

Bola146:
Wahala in marriages especially when the foundation is faulty I'll never advise a idle lady to go into marriage, she must have something little to support her husband at home, she should learn a handiwork or business, instead of spending much on wedding, they can use it for her to start a business and do a low key wedding. If she can't understand your financial condition as an adult and how Nigeria economy is so bad now, I don't know what else she needs. Emotionally she might be disturbed for infertility.

Me too. I don't see a faulty foundation.

iliyande:
I am not seeing a faulty foundation here

Is the wife taking it easy on him?

You people sometimes just type nonsense.

silvoclaira:
@Op I feel for you and the family. Things are really expensive out here and money nor reach.

https://www.nairaland.com/6853192/inflation-women-please-pity-husbands

Please just take it easy on your wife. The pressure on you is the same kind of pressure on her too.

Things are really hard this times in Nigeria, so we only have to be patient and try absorbing all the shocks okay.

I believe you are a good man, your wife is a good woman.

If She is into business which is a daily thing so she should know how tough things are today so you both can work it out better, you both should have a honest discussion of what os on ground today.

Lastly try and be in your best mind and shape, eat food. Take care of yourself and be healthy.

OBO!!!
Davido is so relatable

Well, sometimes you might not want to convince anyone. But to help stop the spread of lies and fake news, you MUST counter it with facts. That is the best way.

Afriqan:
I am not here to convince you or anyone. If you can't do your research, you are free to hate the FG all you want. Free world.

I am facing front oh!

Tyche:
Face front ... I can take care of my self

You have a point.

vandersave:
Mention one South East state that patronises Innoson than the FG.

Even if the country is not United in the first instance, it does not mean that we should add more fuel to the disunity.

LLiKYekoba:
Causing division? Was the country united in the first instance?

That would be a good start. The question is why aren't they doing so?

Kobicove:
I wish all the states in the South East will adopt Innoson as the official vehicle of the state governments

If you have any information to back up what you said please post it along with your comment. It would help a lot.

Afriqan:
FG isn't patronising Innoson? Please stop this display of ignorance and school yourself.

If there's anything like patronage, he has gotten a lot from the FG.

You people should stop causing division in the country simply based on your thoughts. Do your research.

Lol we would still be importing vehicles. This is because brand new vehicles are really expensive for the average Nigerian.

DUNDEEMASTER:
If only the FG gave this man the full support that Dangote is enjoying..Y we will be importing vehicle

Lol. But you started it. If you had just said, "where did you hear it from," maybe he would have replied differently.

Tyche:
Never knew I was trying to be reasonable with a pig

I am not knowledgeable about the spare parts business. However, I am knowledgeable about the hike in transport fares for no justifiable reason during the festive season.
It is indeed sad.

asanausana91:
Infact if igbos were to be incharge of our agriculture ( farming) I swear many people for don die of hunger.
Just look at cars spare parts which they control, everyday prices of spare parts is increasing and when you ask them why they Begin to blame buhari.
During the festive period transport fare from Lagos to Enugu will be three times higher than Lagos to sokoto.
These people are naturally greedy and very wicked.

That is a possibility.

asanausana91:
greed. Igbo over charging their fellow Igbo's.

Didn't they power on the phone for you when you bought it?

Swisschi:
I got a new phone on saturday 17th October,2021.On getting the phone i read the palmphelt and noticed that my sim isnt supported by the phone.I finally got my sim upgraded to 4g by mtn after 6days of going there regularly due to the queue.Out of excitement i got home and started downloading apps like snapchat,facebook,whatsapp and instagram only for me to notice that the phone had faults: the graphic display was very poor,blurry pictures, when doing whatsapp video call more than half of the screen was foggy.To the extent that my infinix hot 5 that i have used for 4years is better than the xiaomi redmi note 10s(a phone that should be 6times better due to cost and equally in terms of specifications).So i called and returned the phone on sunday only for them to tell me to go back with the phone and return it on tuesday if it continues.I did that but before that i called and they noticed that the phone was actually faulty.Now my phone stayed in their store till tuesday the following week.They kept posting me telling me to come back today come back tomorrow.Now after it finally got to their service center i was told to wait another two weeks.This is a phone i havent even used instead of royalline technologies ltd to exchange the phone with a new one the story keeps changing.please everyone is it fair that am been given a faulty phone that is been repaired for a phone i havent even used which they know is faulty.

I don't know about the minor part. But the truth is that these things happen and would continue to happen.

Men would always leverage their positions to get something whether it is sex, money, bribe etc. Women. Do it too but to a lesser extent.

My annoyance is that, so many people on this thread have tried to make it look like it is peculiar to Nigeria.
There are many examples of men in positions of authority or power outside Nigeria having sex with women.
So why try paint it as peculiar to Nigeria

https://panatimes.com/azerbaijan-mp-huseynbala-miralamov-fired-after-video-of-him-touching-his-secret-eatery-ass-during-a-conference-call

Gerrard59:
Toasting a woman isn't the problem but using his position as someone who approves a scholarship is the issue. It's unethical and wrong. It's akin to sex for grades in teritary institutions. The evidence had at least eleven women as potential victims! How can a man be so effortlessly useless and stoopid in the name of wooing women regardless of his marital status?! It shows he's very irresponsible and unfit for sensitive positions. In fact, he can be charged for having sex with a minor.

There is no place on earth where there is no issue of inequality.
There is inequality in the US, UK etc.

Inequality is not our problem in Nigeria. Our governance structure is the problem we need to restructure Nigeria and start practising true federalism.

If you don't believe me you can read this article about how the economy of Nigeria was structured before the army came and turned things upside down.

https://nairametrics.com/2021/11/15/reviving-palm-oil-exportation-by-solving-the-derivation-controversy/

athaboi:
There's money in Nigeria, the problem is inequality...money concentrated in the hands of few! In the same country where 130m is raised in hours, some can't raise 1dolar even if it means to kill them

OBO

To God be the glory.
8 years of awaiting trial?
The criminal justice system is in need of an overhaul, not just in Nigeria but in many parts of the world.

EkenmaPeter:
I posted a story here about My Dad Among The Escapees Of Owerri Custodial Centre https://www.nairaland.com/6505030/dad-not-among-escapees-owerri
After the prison break his court case has not being had, after many months a date was announce for the continuous trial. After the judge heard about how he return back to the prison after they ask them to go. She granted him bail of 200,000 with a surety that pays tax. The other person who was bribe to lie against him but refuse and they later accuse him of being part of the murder ran away during the prison break, he would have be among this victory news.

I thank everyone for their encouragement and to those who sent me mails to know about the update. Thanks every one.
He is currently taking treatment in Abuja with his daughter and was opportune to celebrate his grandson 1 year birthday last week.

Glory be to God.

Oh there is a point, but as usual you try twist to suit your own narrative.
Why weren't you calling out most British men as sexual felons when a British minister was caught with a married woman on CCTV? Maybe it's because the British minister is not black or Nigerian abi?
Stay on point. I struck out the offending part of your comment and commented on it. But you are trying to push it back to the story of the thread.

BRATISLAVA:
What bearing does this have on the tech guy forcing sex on a minor because he has a desk and a little power?

Some of you will compare an apple and a bowl of spaghetti to make a non existent point.

Of course it's not good. But people still do it anyway

Sunisonflex39:
Missing business with pleasure is not good

Asin eh.
Hypocrites made their home on this thread.

proxillin:
everybody is saint until caught in the act...

I can see oloshos insulting nigerian men...

same olosho with with over 500 body count.

for the record, i am not a saint...i expore.

Bros, mad things dey happen everywhere. It is not a matter of 9ja tech.

Mad things dey happen for British parliament, mad things dey happen for Washington DC.
Mad things dey happen for Nollywood, Bollywood, Hollywood.

Mad things dey happen for Italian fashion industry, French fashion industry. Etc

You people should stop making it seem as if it is peculiar to Nigeria.

truthsayer009:
Be like say you just enter Nigerian tech scene, mad things dey happen oh. Mad things.

Sense would not kill you.

Magnoliaa:
That's very st*pid, though. If you needed women to ask out, he couldn't have done it else where?

I'm trying to pity him small, but the more I know the more my quota of pity is running low.

Any how. Whatever. Godspeed to him and with his reckless decisions and consequences. I've lost interest.

Lemme just sit back and watch the agenda committee deliberating over his matter and that of all Nigerian men in turn.

You just throw around the word paedophile without knowing it's meaning.

JBoss25:
Bloody Paedophile, and the fool is even married inyama

E dey happen. He is not the first neither would he be the last.

In fact it is possible that right now one married man is making his move.

jaxxy:
I hate when people leave their job description to start doing nonesense. Seems very unprofessional besides the moral implications.

Left application to talk about blunt and sex and the idiot is even married?

I tire.

Phcmayor:
The dude is not forcing them so why make it a public discussion