₦airaland Forum

Karlifate:
What a wild dream!
Hope Barrister Olusegun Bamgbose will not be contesting under APC.

Every tiny, backyard, and makeshift political party will more than likely be working directly or indirectly in favour of APC or PDP!!!... This is no longer news.

Coldie:
Seriously what is at play here is above ur level of intellect. Its better u seat on the sidelines

If you could intelligently wade through his sarcasm (let me even presume you caught on it), you will clearly see how angry, upset, and agitated he is about the current status quo.

Sigh... How can an elder be so naive and clueless??!... We seriously need to retire these old politicians!!!

What's the point of the group picture with everyone wearing masks??! One can't tell who is who...

maynia:
Totally superfluous.

If I may, how so??!

If the ruling council of UAE takes action, and starts deporting people of both nationalities, people will cry racism... How can we be misbehaving in foreign nations??! Is that how foreigners misbehave in our nations??!...

People who should be hiding themselves, or keeping low profiles are acting like Dubai is their hometown!!! Smh!!!

Abike Dabiri don hear am!!!

Under normal circumstances, Buhari, El-Rufai, Buratai, and the idiot called IGP should be made to face the waiting panel in Hague for enabling, if not facilitating such senseless murder of innocents....

The same president who wasted no time in unleashing military force and might on Shi'ites and IPOB, has allowed this travesty go on for this long... There has to be ulterior motives!!!

In all, this is unforgivable, atrocious, ridiculous, and very unacceptable!!!!

bukatyne:
@Bold and healthy common sense boundaries.

That is part of the solution in addition to training boys and girls on comportment, decency and self-control.

Yes ma...

Honestly, we need to train our kids and youths better, especially males.

Primary and secondary schools should do better sex education, and continuously warn against all forms of sexual assaults...

I sense we are not doing enough as parents, teachers, counselors, clergy, and society!!!

bukatyne:
@Bold:

You need to update your dictionary:

Now, a girl in the bold can claim to be raped if when you start thrusting, she says no and you don't stop.

There has to be consent per time of the act.

True... But, that's the part I referred to in the aspect of "being on the same frequency"!!!... If she has a last minute change of mind at the peak of ecstasy, then a guy has to man up, grit his teeth, and go dip his erection in ice!!!

Sigh... At the end of it all, it takes serious self control to back out when walls spring up, and self control is the hallmark of manhood and maturity...

In any case, this is why we religiously preach abstinence!!!

Blackking98:
so if tolu wakes up one morning and tweets OBi raped her, obi is automatically guilty because the word of the accuser is final? . We need Christ in this country seriously.

Honestly, it is a very sad and terrible situation...

When you calmly and wisely choose to take the fifth in the glaring absence of evidence, many will term you the insulting tag of 'Rape Apologist'!!!

Anyway, this is why a victim (Male or Female) should endeavor to quickly go for medical exam and documentation, before proceeding to law enforcement...

We truly need salvation... And, we all have to take heed to ourselves!!! We have to be careful of one another!!!

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

Not trying to pointlessly dissent from your well written argument, but I still beg to differ...

I have had so many trysts with a lot of ladies since teenage, I have never felt the need to continue once I noticed the slightest hesitation from the lady, least of all when she clearly voiced her negation. It mattered none if I later came off as a fool to her.

Come to even think of it, before I thought about laying hands sexually on a lady, who is not a wh*re I paid for, I would be clearly certain we are both on the same sexual frequency or that the feeling is highly mutual.

Maybe some guys need new or better orientation on this lawful and safe principle especially with this dangerous trend!!!

Nooil:
Exactly. But the struggle did feel like rape. What if he wasn't a virgin?

My point exactly... Even indecent touching of a fellow person or without mutual consent is criminal.

maynia:
What's your aim now?

Aim??! Just proffering simple explanation and perspective... What's the point of your query?!

blockgeek69:
It seems every lady is now using this opportunity to hang rape cases on guys that they have been sacretly admiring in the past but somehow he refused to give them the needed attention or even look their way...

If she give you greenlight, you throway face, tomorrow she calls you a rapist just to get back at you... Spits*

It's just a pity!!! But, that doesn't mean this rape issue is not escalating!!!

Everyone of us guys should start respecting himself and taking caution! Be very careful not to find yourself in compromising positions where you eventually have to defend your good name from false rape charges... Have an alibi at all times.

Nooil:
It was not a penetration. He was a "virgin", so he did it between my laps.

Not exactly rape, but still a criminal offense... I believe it is termed 'Molestation'!!!

rentAcock:
Seems like this is the Me Too movement version 2.0. They should expose all rapists but we shouldn't be too fast to judge anyone until we have all the facts.

Facts??! What facts exactly??!... A video of the incident??! Pictures??! Voice or tape recording??! Credible witness accounts??!...

Other than the very word of the accuser against the accused, where do you get backing facts??!

daddytime:
Corona go just tanda for one corner, cross leg, put hand for chin just dey laugh.

That's assuming Corona even has our time... If that virus mean us as it mean Europe and America, a quarter of our population would have been six feet by now.

Kingseex1:
Covid19 must take the blame na something tells me that over 30% of covid19 deaths all over the world may not be actually caused by covid

Speak for your duplicitous country... Developed nations carry out proper autopsies before declaring cause of death.

Your people here are more interested in padding figures in order to belong with the rest of the world.

naptu2:
P Square ft Alaye - Temptation



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yt5st0F4tNY

P-Square tried in this jam, but forget it... Alaye's rap was simply the truth!!!....

This nation was on an upward rap trajectory: Alaye, Freestyle, Da Capo, Alabai, Blaise, Jesse Jagz, Eva Alordiah, Terry, etc...

How did everything go belly up?!

Jakemedg:
living us in suspense

Leaving....

HazardMan:
But why buhari no de wear mask?

The very same reason Trump doesn't wear... Corona fears them!!!

MrMcJay:
The President - Hausa,
The Foreign Affairs Minister - Igbo,
The African Development Bank - Yoruba.

By the time Akin Adesina a Nigerian is sworn in for a second term, the world would know that a United Nigeria can not be stopped by anyone, not even the USA.

United Nigeria??! What United Nigeria??!

Corporate2020:
It's settled. Akinwunmi Adesina has visited the President of Africa. White dirty pigs in White House in America who were saying nonsense about Akinwunmi Adesina are currently facing protests and riot. Trump stepped on the wrong toes this time around.

This is very incoherent and off topic... Please, what exactly are you on about??!

Unnerve:
What did they discuss?

Photos don't tell complete stories...

Well, what else would a soon to be predecessor discuss with his soon to be successor?! Likely transition details!!!

lexxwiz:
OBO easy oo. You never even start to Dey use elevator and you don Dey break leg.? Get well soon son! Cheers

What exactly is the correlation between elevator use and leg fractures??!...

koxi:
You know he has a wife, right?

#i’mjustsaying

You know there is something called sarcasm, right??!... You may be forgiven if you are seeing her comment for the first time. It's all humor.

Aystarz:
Even listening to his 'OK' solo alone is enough to see why Freestyle was easily the best and most loved. However, we all know El, by a long mile, was the more successful/influential.

Kaboom, I hear, hosts a rap show on radio these days.

Eldee was always going to outshine the others... He basically had the backing of family, connects, and had the intelligence to go mainstream... Kaboom, for me, is all quantity, less quality...

Aystarz:
You didn't like Eldee and Kaboom as much?

They were alright... But, as far as Trybesmen was concerned, Freestyle was the true lyrical god!!!

naptu2:
He is one of my all time favourite Nigerian rappers. I think he is underrated.

He was just too underrated!!!... There were times I sensed he was in the wrong country or continent. So much talent!!!

What he did on the song "Sip Easy" with Tuface was 'Monstrous'!!!

naptu2:
Freestyle ft 2Face - Sip Easy (2007)



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCDRGWcfVY4

Honestly, Freestyle of Trybesmen was a true lyricist on the roll... I had very great expectations from him, Ice Prince, Jesse Jagz and Mode-9

I expected people, especially youths, thronging to House of Assembly... That's the very place the turning point will begin!!!

The fact that the lawmakers have even kept mute on this issue says a lot... I expect laws to be passed making rape punishable by very harsh measures.

Sharon6:
When do all these killings stop? Things keeps going worse in this country. May God help keep us and our love ones safe cos its obvious our leaders do not care.





Please check my SIGNATURE

The killings will stop when we decisively draw the line!!!... These marauders feel they are above the law, and that the host communities can and will do nothing but cower.