₦airaland Forum

APC has done well...!

We knew they will mess things up especially in the second term, but they far exceeded our dark expectations!

To wish person happy Christmas today even strong for mouth!

I have never seen so much despair in a December!... This is historical!

Nigerians! Forget this nation jare...!


Anyone who thinks wickedness has limits has clearly never visited and stayed in this contraption!

This is what happens when proper enlightenment and publicity or sensitization are not done before releasing new notes.


Na until Dem kill person on top this simple matter una eye go clear.

To kill don dey hungry these people for years...!

Kanu and Ipob simply gave them the needed cover and excuse to show their true colors!

Truvelisback:
Angelfrost, just hear what this hopeless fool is saying above.

I don kukuma comot for thread...! My head dey pain me already.

What madness will drive an average earner to buy an edible bird for 12k regardless of the sheer size?!!!... Haba!


Still wondering how minimum wage earners survive in this Buharinomics!

Well done Mr. President...!

We are all eager to see the end of your administration.

padi94:
So we in Nigeria escort people come this world? Why can't we enjoy things like these

It's simple...

You can't employ or appoint wolves as shepherds then wonder why your sheep keep getting missing!

You can't enjoy good things when you keep electing evil people as leaders!

ModCaller:
Black SA people too lazy. They won't even be using the toilet to shît if not for white people.

Just stop sir... You have embarrassed yourself enough.

Beautiful... Almost breathtaking!

His points are salient... A stitch in time saves nine.


It's still pertinent to say that these agitations would never have existed if proper transparent leadership were in place.

limcar:
if you say change is the only constant thing in life, then why do i have to stick to one person for the rest of my life?

You have said it all here...! Thanks.

Fiscus105:
.........if ur personal life not rossy, did u discard it because of that? I biliv u find way(s) to amend it
The more u think u can behave the way u like as a "married man or woman", without looking at emotion of ur partner, the more marriages will continue to crash, for those who ready to reach compromise they would succumb whatever storm Thay may arise and enjoy it.

Your words ring true, and I abide by them personally.

However, it's a free world... There is no compulsion for any man or woman to apply this simple life principle.

That's why we will keep having divorce rates skyrocket while some other homes built on sound principles continue to thrive... Different strokes these days.

Times have drastically and remarkably changed, so have emotional stability and principles of most people...!

Do what works for you, and don't harshly judge another for failing the same test.

My case is rested here! Compliments of this season!

deyplay:
really since the God of Malachi is not the same God that Jesus was quoting in Matt 19:6-8. Bible commentator!

Bible student, most stringent laws of the Old Testament were modified in the era of grace:

Tithes
Offerings
Circumcision
Harvests
Etc...!

I can give you references, but why bother when you can actually study and learn for yourself.

Let me help you a bit with the following:

1 Corinthians 7:10-20. Please, study and grow sir.

Who knows, with adequate knowledge, you may become less judgemental and tolerant of people's choices. Peace!

That outfit screams Desperation!

The deep insatiable hunger to be noticed at all cost!

arantess:
Ok

These clowns still calling atiku a unifier...

How can a bigot unify the country of diverse ethnicities?

Well, he can't divide the nation any worse than what Buhari and APC have done in less than 8 years in power.

deyplay:
"For I Hate Divorce," says the Lord: Malachi 2:16 ... You mean this bible verse back you up?

Please, read further into the New Testament... There you will find that divorce is not frowned upon if both parties can no longer kick it.

Don't be like pulpit hirelings who begin and end their piety in Malachi.

kazyhm:
Who are the perpetrator of these marital abuse, stigmatization, domestic violence ?

Who charged the cultures world over... ?

Do African have the word celibacy and single parenthood in their dictions ?


They say...in a relationship, one person is always right and the other person is a male

The more the modern people get educated, the less smart and intelligent they become.

Your opinion is well noted sir, but no where close to fact!

Fact check: This is a dynamic and ever changing world with cultures changing with the times... It has been this way since time immemorial.

Even the culture you were born into was a different version of your parents'.

Modernity is relative and progressive!

Thanks for stopping by.

2blessed01:
Eweee..!!!
So after 12 years she realize say he no get Sense..
This woman no get Sense

Well, there are men who realize they are married to a demon after over 2 decades!

Dem nor dey know person finish!

limcar:
do you know marriage is the only thing that disobeys the concept of change?

Interesting statement... Please, do throw more light here.

I love teachable moments.

Thanks ahead!

deyplay:
hmm, really?wisdom of a mule. Then choose and pray for the experience of modern marriage over old generation marriage

I'm happily married sir!

Been happily married for many years... I have no plans to change this, but if tomorrow things go South, we will move on and still succeed in our lives.

It's not a do or die affair!... A broken marriage is better than a marriage seethed in pretence, violence, hatred and bitterness!

It's a good thing that people stay happily or blissfully married for life... It's also good that couples who can't bear to stay married move on to singleness.

It is not in society's place to make marital demands on people in the name of preserving culture and traditions!

My stand is simple... Even the Bible backs me up on this! Thanks!

kazyhm:
This is wrong and half truth.
The falsehood of happily ever after is the problem.

Is realistic you'll be happy all year round ? Do you get good news all year round ?

Our forefathers didn't divorce because they understand life beyond personal feelings.

The westerner sold lies to you and you took it line and sinker......the lies of soul mate, falsehood of happiness, butterfly in the belly, masculinity is toxic etc.

African were way more sophisticated and ahead than the west in area of marriage, religion, moral and integrity..........but the west corrupted all the beautiful things African had going on well for them.

African women endured marital abuse, stigmatization, domestic violence, etc!

Please read! Let's not squabble over historical facts!

I never said I believed in happily ever after nor bought any European culture of divorce... The reality of today's life can't have men and women enduring marriages sir.

Even beyond marriage, cultures have changed world over... That's life!

Some people even choose celibacy and single parenthood nowadays... This would be unheard of back then, not just Nigeria but Europe and America.

Blessedmercy8:
My dear people change.

I just hope Basketmouth is not looking at those other celebrities dumping their spouses and going for smaller girls. Men can copy bad things, you know.

Even in the animal kingdom, not every animal likes to be tied down to a mate.

Not everyone can endure being hitched for too long!

That some can pull it off doesn't mean everyone should or must do the same.

Mrkumareze:
very soon, Nigeria will turn to Philippines where almost all their women are separated or divorced .

Socialisation is the father of all this sh*t, we left our culture for a white man's own, now we couldn't even manage homes .. out forefathers married more than 5, they all lived happily.
The earlier we come back to our culture, the better for us..

Actually, there is clear evidence that those past marriages of our fathers were not all happy or rosy.

They didn't divorce not because they were satisfied or prepared to stick it out... They stayed because they were being compelled by a harsh culture to keep up appearances.

Marriage is not for everyone! Know this and know peace!

Let's not keep deceiving ourselves hiding under ancient cultures.

tctrills:
You must be very sick. You go about monitoring people's crashed marriages. What is wrong with you.

Really sick and stupid!.... Don't mind him.

I don't blame him, na Nairaland Mods wey push am go front page I blame!

Okay... So, what exactly are we supposed to do with this meaningless information?!!


What's so special about a celebrity's marriage that it should be newsworthy when it crashes?!!


Y'all need to quit this tomfoolery next year abeg!

Dear Wike, enjoy your 'dictatorship' while it lasts!

Handover no far again!

CoronaVirusRelo:
When you have money, women going nowhere!

Imagine Yul and Davido were poor men! May and Chioma would have dumped their ass!

If you like, impregnate 50, they ain’t going anywhere!

Really?!! So wetin happen to the Anitas (Oyakhilome and Okoye)?!!

Honestly May, people like me have never given a fvck from day one.

Forgive or don't forgive, na una know! Especially that attention seeker of a husband!

Matters that should be resolved at home should remain at home! Mtchewwww!

Honestly can't remember the last time I celebrated that pagan festival!


The only enjoyment I get is the holiday from work!

Even while in Primary school, I already took my mind away from inheritance or any semblance of it.


Some young men are actually existing solely on the hope of inheriting and living off a parent's financial legacy or bequest.

That's some unusual level of indolence!

Even in the fairest and freest of elections Sowore still won't come out in the top 5!

Still, he is right!


Heavy rigging will definitely happen in Lagos, Kano, Rivers, Imo, etc.