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halfricanadian:
If only every one can humble themselves and expect nothing from friendship

Expect absolute nothing

Really? What's the use of the relationship then

So I saw this on a friend's phone and I thought about it...its not about the picture but about what the girl said.
That is enough reason to keep off preying guys, and it shows a girl that's serious about her guy and her relationship.

Imagine me asking a girl out for 5months and I never saw anything about her b.f.... I had 100% authorized access to her phone and there was noting like SMS, chat or pictures that proved she had one. I later saw the pic of the guy I suspect she's dating on her dp one day but she denied him, saying he's just a friend. Then I realized I had been friend zoned!

I believe some ladies just enjoy being courted around by guys, hence they make you believe they're single...just for them to enjoy the whole attention. I think this is the real cause of friend zoning... LADIES LET US KNOW WHERE YOUR HEARTS BELONG! STOP FLIRTING AROUND!!!

''And no one pours new wine into old wineskins...... Instead, new wine is poured into new
wineskins.'' Luke 2:22

The place of relevance i.e the the best places in the world are meant for those who carry what is needed in the society. What value has one got if everybody has what you have? Such fellow hustles with a great multitude having his level of ability, therefore the relevance of such fellow is easily taken away by someone else.
Whereas, there are levels above the multitude that's reserved for those who have got abilities, skills, knowledge and expertise that the multitudes don't have. this is the ''new wine skin'' that's reserved for
the ''new wine''. These set of people carry stuffs that cannot be turned down, hence they
continue being relevant because everybody wants a taste of the ''new wine''.

Learn, Practise, Study... do whatever is possible to get what others don't have and you'll
see yourself going places where ordinary men don't go. are you up there? people are
coming after your place! so run, move up higher!

#WisdomForLiving
#RemainRelevant

Cc Lalasticlala

And why does that man look like Former Gov. Fayemi

petkoffdrake2:
Mhen! Excellent!




He should swerve into music and give lil Wayne a better way to rap... Instead of saying pu'ss'y

He can do both really...just that he's not gonna be a professional artist.

Awesome...great rap and engineering skills
Engineers rule za world!

maxiflexy:
puhahahahahaha

AGAIN
JUST NOW JUST NOW

Funny enough, I'm just chatting with a girl that turned me down some days ago! Really painful...I asked her out for 5months!
But over the years I've come to realise that God has a way of replacing better things with the best ones! She'll keep on being my friend no doubt...coz I love her beyond words....and to the guy that took her before me...all the best o! You'll only get jealous when my own bae arrives

By the way, I don't do ANY of what op listed there....those things only show that you never loved the girl.

See what nysc posted on their Facebook wall today...

MadCow1:
12'k Designer Sunglasses na Gbanjo Sunglasses o!
Original top designer sunglasses starts from 25'k up

yeepa! Na to just sell am, use the money take buy fuel o!

12k glass....she wants you to be seeing the future

ivy gini
a beg next

Fxwarrior:
Op so what's your point exactly, I mean exactly?
Last time I checked there were skill acqusition centres and trades one can learn without going to school.

Like my father would say, in any case its not everybody that has the brain for formal education, it doesn't mean you should speak ill of it.
#Just saying

you already made my point..but so many people are ignorant of this in Nigeria. blindly pursuing certificates and leaving profitable things behind. that's one of the reason for gross unemployment in the country.

I wouldn't say school is over rated, but the earlier we begin to live by this reality, we'll begin to see more success.

....and at the end when you decide to ask her out, you realize you've been friend zoned!
some ladies are so clueless, indecisive, weak, wicked, self-centered, selfish..... make I just shut up...coz I don dey vex!

In other news...

In other news...

I just saw the second pic on facebook....and I remembered that I had seen something like that
All in the name of getting ''likes'' and ''comments'' somebody did this!
Must we lie?

I haven't read it thoroughly...but I saw USA, chine and Russia. but what about that spoilt brat in North-Korea!

jeytee:
You are really from the bush...maybe jungle to be more specific...where in heavens name have you heard of a first class student spilling?JESUS!!!...im short of words

haha...oh yeah! the best student in building tech in my school two years ago had a carry over! its real

lawflec:
Oboy.... Five months abi years.... You too try ooooo
If o never ready I no dey even show face self... How u go allow girl do u lik this... But truly, am guy, but your type of feelings is hard to come by these days,,, the girl may come back if u change that your habit that she hates now...

xtervaganza:
From the message in the last screenshot you posted it's crystal clear she knly wants you for a friend, nothing more
You seem to be the one trying fruitlessly to push it beyond that

Marinza:
This is definitely a girl talking. Op life is not a movie o...pls look at this comment and say to yourself.. I am not a whimp. Go for what na? Someone that led u on for five months? All fine girls you are comfy with are the one in my opinion.

Nturguy1122:
I hope i dnt end up like this too....I cant always find the right words to tell this irl how much i love her nd she always makes time to see me...Ohhh Lord why is there anything like Love in our hearts...Op just take heart ur the only one there

IamLEGEND1:
A recent survey has confirmed beyond any reasonable doubt that there is no escaping the friendzone- "Your residence is permanent" researchers say.

I've decided to give her some space..but at the same time I'm not gonna ignore her completely. There's a part to this story I didn't tell. The other guy's family somehow helped her in going to school. So she feels indebted to them perhaps.
I've now seen that she's the one in a bigger problem. As for me, I've gotten over the issue...I'm a kinda person who doesn't wallow in disappointments... But for her to be ''chained'' to a guy who wouldn't call, text or chat with her just because she feels indebted. She's the one in a totally confused case now!

Feranchek:
Bros your name na mourinho. In full..... JONZING Mourinho!!

Lool
I gree o

Marinza:
LMAO.... Which hope pls? She said thank you and she didn't ask for a confession message. Kaii anyways keep having hope. Good luck with that..

Lool....I've been DUPED

Okay....look at this texts
One evening she called and requested that I should send her a message...I think we couldn't chat that day cox she was preparing for school exams.
What kinda guy wouldn't have hope with this?!

Mjshexy:
Just give her some space, take ur mind off her & when she realizes ur distance she may reconsider her steps, presently her love doesn't have her time & doesn't fill the space she wants him to fill so u were placed as a matter to occupy space(friendzoned). Draw back a little sir

Hmmmmn...you're very right! I just realized this fact this morning.... I'm even thinking the guy might not even be in love with her anymore...coz I really can't imagine a guy who wouldn't call, text or chat with his girlfriend no matter how busy he is.. She could just be having false hopes over there too!
I'll give her space though...once beaten twice shy!

cruzita:
bro,at least yours was just for 5months ,but all the same SORRY

I can't imagine how many guys are under your clutches ooo
You go wicked small

Maxi112:
too much of calling and chatting with ur crush is not good ohhh!!!

give them space

Of coz...there's got to be some space now...thank you jaree

lilzcee:
don't approach ur crush when u are not mentality ready to woo her

Mentally ready...I don't get that

goldbim:
That girl is not smart!!bros,you sef...for a whole 5months you could nt predict you are in a friendzone....you are a nice guy,sha..its well,move on with your life,she'l come back begging but it might be tooo late.

I hope she comes back...I'll gladly accept her.
Also, I feel 5months isn't too much for somebody I trully love. I thought I had found somebody to spend the rest of my life with. All is well sha...thanks

lilzcee:
I rather stay away from my crush than go close to her and be friendzoned

I guess this is one of the things I learnt, infact I don't get close to ladies...it takes a strong willed guy not to ask a single lady out in 4years...but ofcoz that can't go on for life

cruzita:
bro,at least yours was just for 5months ,but all the same SORRY

I don sorry o

I'll make this as short as possible...
I've know this girl for close to two years now, over the years we've become close friends. however, 5months ago I decided to ask her out, and I told her I really wanted to marry her. she first told me she had nobody she was dating, later she said she had somebody, but that it wasn't a serious relationship.
our friendship became stronger, we could spend the whole day chatting, we had night calls, since we weren't at the same place, we exchanged pictures too. she told me things about her life that she wouldn't even tell her closest friends or parents. all these gave me hope! but yesterday, I had to ask her what was really going on between us with the hope of getting a YES that I thought was long overdue.
Lo and behold! I began to hear stories of how she started dating a guy some three years back, and she's still with him even though the guy hardly calls or chat with her. hmmn, I've been duped! I just wonder why she made me wait for 5months before telling that. But I forgave her immediately, and I told her I still love her and I'll keep on to be her friend.
I've been single for the past five years and now I've been disappointed by somebody I finally fell in love with. anyway, I've got so much believe in God, perhaps he's got a better plan...that's what I've taken as a solace.