₦airaland Forum

carammel:
This Guinea boy,see as e black,let's hope he wouldn't be another waste of money.

foladara777:
Rwily... A year u only won FA and community shield is d one u are hyping like this?? Omo! Man u don't suffer ooh

youngest85:
30 days small na!


Go to those white garment churches and see whr people go on trance for 40 days and above wtout tasting anytn

herbie27:
@Antina, for my kind of person, i loved being around guys, cos they're 100% sincere in friendship, and fun to be around, i kind of build strong friendship around guys than my fellow girls, because of our wahala, i hate back bitting, and girls are fond of doing that.

If i make a guy my friend, nothing will make me to start developing feelings for such guys, and i tend to be very open with them, the first one i felt for him, wen i said i wasn't interested, he even made the sister to talk to me. and then my second encounter, hmm!.

firstking01:
Girls are careless sets of creatures...i'm yet to see a girl who's not careless.

loifez:
woow.....

It is amazing that some people still traffic drugs when on the visa issued, it is clearly written that drug offences carry death sentence.

I believe they were fully aware of the consequences of their action and still went ahead.

People's destinies are being destroyed because people like these decided to move drugs around.

They will meet their creator at home.......

Ajewealth123:
show ur face you are telling me you know Niyi, ayodeji the tall dark dude? And our own favorite female tomboy! That girl with brain! What's her name again?

Zealoy:
bros ur added advice can still make a difference and safe a soul pls cus am losing my mind I don't plan for this.

Ajewealth123:
I can relate, studied Biosystems myself

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Nice one, but I hope you know she lied to you.

Prophetess ko! [/color]

Yewandequeen:
If i have to listen to music, I will listen to the sad ones.

Yewandequeen:
I don't know if this is weird or normal #just a random thought.

When am sad and I don't feel good about something, I console myself with food will just keep eating anything I come across for the rest of the day.

I know it vary with individuals,some resort to hanging out, some becomes Hot, some prefer to be alone etc

So please share your views, what works for you?


How do you manage sad moments?

AmuDimpka:
The annoying thing is that

They use palm oil to cook their stew
They don't even bleach the plan oil
They don't deep fry their tomatoes to let the water dry
They just add tons of pepper


You just wonder what the hell is this

Then the mother of their soup ..is that ewedu..that greeny stuff that looks like vomit and they top it up with that lousy stew


That's why most of them group and troupe to igbo and Calabar restaurant


Their men are even running away from their omen

Eg

The paramount ruler ooni

He dumped the Yoruba wife for a non Yoruba wife

Where is onila

greatdeal1408:
if she should continur with the pregnancy ... the marriage will not work. such men dont forgive

toby2:
Today 16th of July 2016, while i lay me down upon my bed... I saw in my dream a great massacre of not just Christians but every non hausa speaker... I really don't know how it started all i know was that the law enforcment agents and the millitary joined the Northerners, and were killing every other tribes. I witnessed great killing of both young and old. As much as i think death was a means to a peaceful end, the horror of the sight was sickening. Pls pray for Nigeria, that God should pls avert this evil.
Toby is my name

Aigbofa:
So you eat your moinmoin with stew? I can see the writer was trying to be humorous but if you think everything she said is true then you are definitely not a Lagosian.

247notire:
You and madridguy have managed to tribalize this innocent and thoroughly hilarious thread.

You both need to stop that shiii, it ain't cool.

Everything must not turn Igbo vs Yoruba for Pete's sake

osec007:
it seems you're lacking blood,its called vegetables not grass,have a nice day

faustinalove:
Part 4. thanks to al that read this far, u will never be a victim of such.

They asked for my own part of what happened, i told them and they called him on d phone to say his own part. He kept talking and talking, he left d issue at hand and started saying many other things that happened in camp and in d past btw us. These were all issues i had knelt down and apologized for. He talked for like an hour over d phone, it got to d point that my dad told him to stop talking so that we could look for solution. I hav never seen a guy that talks that much. He also forwarded ALL d angry sms i had sent to him in d past each to my mom, dad and his sis phones! These were mssgs i had apologized for in d past, mssgs totally unrelated to d topic at hand. Unfortunately for me, i usually delete his angry sms from my phone immediately i read it but i never knew he saves all mine! I learnt d hard way that he is someone who likes using enough evidence to win any case. When everyone read the mssgs, everyone turned to me and scolded me. I was d one at fault. Even from my parents. I kept crying that day. They were like no matter what a man says, a woman should never reply. Thats how igbo men are revered as semi-gods in my place. Then my dad called him and asked him what he wants me to do that will make him forgiv me. He said i hav to beg him. I swallowed my pains and begged him to forgive me over d phone. Then my dad asked me  what he should do too that will make me forgive him and i said he should beg too. Then my dad told him to beg me over d phone and he said he CANT beg me! He disobeyed my dad and my dad was shocked. Then my dad told him that if i am important to him, he should come to ogun state to see me. Guess what he said too, he said he wont come to ogun state and that i will be d one to come to lagos to see him! I felt terrible but my parents had no option than to tell me to go back to him in lagos cos they had no money to give me to go back to abuja. With all d shame in me, i went back to lagos, had to beg him and did everything he wanted(constant sex even with my condition) cos he was d only source of finance to me. After all that he finally came to do d introduction and few days after d introduction, i left for abuja.
Things seems normal when i got back to abuja until abt two weeks later when he started telling me to come back to lag cos he was feeling Hot. I begged him to understand my condition and that i was still recovering from d stress of d journey bk to abuja. He was angry and accused me of having another guy in abuja who was 'servicing' me. I ignored the comment cos i didnt want another fight and kept begging him until he seemed to hav agreed. A week later he told me he has called someone to send him d list of bride price payment and that i will have to come home around ending of july for bride price payment. I was happy and then told him it would also be advisable if we could do a registery marriage when i come home for d bride-price payment so that i could submit d certificate to nysc so that nysc will post me to lagos so that i can be with him permanently and also give birth there too. He agreed and called my mom to help him find out d requirements for d registery marriage. My mom did and sent him d requirements. Two days laters, he called me early in d morning to tell me he would no longer do d registry marriage. I asked him y buy he didnt hav a gud reason. It was later i learnt that he called his sis to tell him i wanted a registry marriage and his sis told him never to try it that he is dealing with an educated girl and that my plan is to take over all his property and everything he has worked for. My ex is a man who cant take decisions on his own, he would either call his sister or a friend to confirm before deciding and he always takes a third party advice. The only decision he takes alone is on his business. I felt bad abt his change of mind and i told him i wont come home if he doesnt want to do d registry marriage too since i cant keep passing through d stress of travelling. He got angry and didnt call me for days, i refused to call him too. I didnt know he took it too far cos he stopped sending me money for i and d baby's upkeep.  Abt few weeks after, i got a shocking text frm him. The text read(in his own words): "I thought u mean to be my own, i never knew dat u are not. If u say d child u are carrying is my, i will come and take it later. 'For marriage, i can never marry u". Those were d exact words he used. D mssg is still saved in my security inbox up till now. I called my mom and told her abt d mssg and all she could say was that i should call him and beg him. I made up my mind that i wont keep begging cos if i keep begging him, i will have to keep begging for d rest of my life with him. As days went by i kept waiting for him to call and apologize for such text and i was already 3months gone. Few days after my scan, he called my dad and my people in d village to tell them he is no longer interested in d marriage and that he isnt responsible for d pregnancy! My whole life shattered that period. Then i made up my mind to go for an abortion cos i know being a single mom in my place is like an abomination cos no one marries them expect a divorcee or old men and my future will never remain d way i planned it. I went for d abortion last week thursday and i am still recovering from d body pains.  It was a tough decision but i had to do it and everyday i keep begging God for forgiveness cos it wasnt intentional. For those that will blame me for d abortion, how many of u will agree to marry a single mom? Up till now he hasnt called. Thanks nairalanders. for nlers like sorextee, u didnt comprehend anything and FYI, i am used to some nairaland guys negativity and bad words towards most nairaland girls, thanks.

madridguy:
Go back to your village. Shikena

Jaraworldsms:
He should also help us here in Cross River. Our people are dying of road accident due to the deplorable condition of the federal roads. We now spend 9 hrs travrlling from calabar to Uyo instead of 45 min drive.