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DoctorOlasDesk:
You broke tins think every one online is as idle as you. You started this 8am today, you're at it 6pm today. What a wonderful way to waste existence.

Back to my work. Continue wasting your time

BRATISLAVA:
This boring anthem again?

Grow up. Be a man. Change.

Bye Felicia.

BRATISLAVA:
What point have you made since you began? Or you think it's your usual failed diversionary tactics that are the point?

[b]You haven't logically faced anything apatheticme stated. [/b]You're only searching the online nooks and crannies for your mythical "simps". You haven't said anything beyond that. If you logically can't stay on point, what are you still doing looking for who to mention to soothe your frayed ideas?

You're a simpleton with undescended scrota. Change.

BRATISLAVA:
You forgot dic_k_wagging.

There's nothing new forum boys will come up with. They can't even hold intellectual discourse successfully beyond their dry red pill talking points.

This one is jershals apprentice, and he can't even learn the trade well.

BRATISLAVA:
It's 2022.

The real men are moving mountains and developing the world, but you are here whining and chasing your tail while whimpering about simps?

You are a simpleton. Change.

Gamesmart:
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Gamesmart:
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Gamesmart:
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Gamesmart:
That's cold!!!

That's cold!!!!!!

GIRL!!!! WTF!!!!!

Don't tell a Simp you have never noticed his existence. That is hurtful.

Come on, apatheticme. You are a biiitch, babes!

That is just outrightly mean.

That got me lmao!

DoctorOlasDesk:
Oh, na this doctor be this. Now, i remember who i'm talking with/to


@ the people mocking you,are the fools now, they're going to realize their folly when they eventually grow up (if they ever will).

We all should not need external validation from 15-18 years of age. I hope all gets okay with the generation coming behind. Like you said, the universe may take care of them...

DoctorOlasDesk:
Oh, na this doctor be this. Now, i remember who i'm talking with/to

Gamesmart:
What narrative am I pushing?

DoctorOlasDesk:
Now, my fear is this. That often tines some weird ideologies pushed online gets into the heads of people in marriage and such narratives veins to form contrary ideas to values that hold such relationships.

stinflame:
The reply on this topic is detestable, annoying and above all shows how badly the society have degenerated.
Most people commenting here are chronic womanizers, prostitute patronizers and above all chronic masturbators and are just been scared to give up that freedom.
There is just one thing ever individual should know provided there is life , we all will live to see the result of our choices.

Gamesmart:
More foolish conjectures to gradually move the debate she cannot win to senselessness.

apatheticme, when are you going to come back with logic, facts and points to make strong arguments?

Gamesmart:
Get these facts below straight.

Fact 1: It is an argument.

Fact 2: She is a woman.

Fact 3: The two facts above mix up to ensure she does not feel the need to make sense. She will say anything she feels to back her position.

Gamesmart:
You missed the point again!

It is not about what is forced by life to happen. The point was about what is sought and planned to happen.

Gamesmart:
Sorry I am going to be blunt!

This is a typical illogical way a woman argues against a point she does not like or want to accept. She switches to using the exception, minority or self to make a general rule.

For example, tell a woman that: Women tend to lose their looks as they age and cannot easily attract a desirable, high-earning man by the time they are 50+ years old.

Typical women's response: That is a lie. Look at Jennifer Lopez! She is still pulling men in her 50s.

Gamesmart:
As for the claim that "Marriage ain't a goal for me", I suspect that is just another case of a typical illogical way a woman argue against a point she does not like or want to accept: Just lie outrightly to win the point!

Lets go back to that essential thing called FACTS: Women around the world, and especially Nigeria, generally want to marry. It is their goal and what they look forward to.

Cut the nonsense about "you". I am sure you are lying. Even if you are not, it is not good point. Stick to facts!

Gamesmart:
Una see?

The same woman who said "Marriage ain't a goal for me" would be the same one who gets angry when men don't want to marry or condemn the institution of marriage. That is when you know she just lied outrightly to desperately win the point.

If the facts and logic is too strong for women and does not favour their, they tend to try and make the argument become senseless or derail it.

Gamesmart:
Marriage is a useless institution for the modern day man. The downsides outweigh the benefits to gain from it.

Gamesmart:
Don't worry how they take the decision of what they want in their lives.

Don't get angry about their decision.

Gamesmart:
Simp DoctorOlasDesk, you are free to back her up here. You will get your pat on the head, boy.

DoctorOlasDesk:
Atleast 60% of homes are financailly run by women but boys in 20s don't know cause they've not gotten to that bridge yet.

Everyone brags until reality sets in. Same way everyone talks tough until they get beaten up badly.

No too stress am

DoctorOlasDesk:
Aunty these spanking don dey too much na. Take am easy na.

Gamesmart:
Are women paying for all these mens' expenses?

You appear to have missed the core point of his argument that you addressed.

Favfables1:
1. You talk about fallacy and yet you can confidently make this?? LMAO

Yes my assertion could go either ways, both men and women sleep around bla bla bla, but women still don't take care of all financial expenses ...

A 40year old man may not be able to sustain a family, but he can sustain himself, so why should he marry? Because at the end of it all, if he cannot carry out his responsibilities "as a man", you think his wife will do it without complaining and yet still respect him? ...

2. First off...
I'm not trying to push anything on anyone, but it seems like you are ...
Secondly...
Everything I wrote in the earlier post can be backed up with facts and facts don't lie ...
Thirdly...
What makes you think I'm frustrated?
Or is this the "fallacy of hasty generalization you spoke about" ....
Fourthly...
You sound like marriage is a goal for you, and if more men see it as a sham, then you won't achieve your goal...Pele o
Fifth...
What you bolded in my earlier post that led to all this plenty write up, is a question I'm currently asking myself, because I'm considering marriage, do you think a man who can consider marriage now, in this economy is "frustrated"? ...

3. Another fallacious statement ...
So in your mind, the reason I'm not an advocate of marriage is because I haven't met a "good woman with a good source of income" ....

And besides...
A woman's income does not in anyway benefit me, because at the end of it all, "his money is our money and my money is my money" , abi no be so? Abi will it be "manly" to split bills with my wife ?

4. Yeah....
I agree with this 100%
But you also forgot to add, "Marriage isn't compulsory" ....

Favfables1:
The day I realized that women who were practically nobodies could become billionaires on account of just divorce alone, was when it really sank in that this marriage thing doesn't favour men one bit...

A woman doesn't have to work at all, just marry a rich guy, give birth to a couple of kids for him, divorce him and Bam! Half of everything he worked for his entire life time belongs to you ....

It's little wonder why over 80% of divorce are intiated by women ...

Yes! One may argue that, that doesn't happen in Nigeria, I agree...

However...
Why should I be responsible for ALL the expenses of an adult who practically have slept with other men, acts like a child, throw tantrums, nags at every slightest opportunity and yet still wants to be treated with "love"?

And besides...
Everything an average wife has to offer can be replaced with money, so why not focus on making money, get those things and be free from the trouble that comes with marriage ...

thesicilian:
All of you who do not know the first thing about cryptic pregnancy shouting upandan. Just shut up pls and learn to be quiet when you are confused

thesicilian:
I'd be too ashamed to reveal this level of dumb ignorance to the world

Ventura1:
Who are all these? Was hoping to see Kanayo O Kanayo and Saheed Balogun. I can reckon with less than 5% of these personalities

alsudan:
These Witches have collected bribe from thiefnibu, or are these not the same witches that said Jonathan would win the 2015 elections?

slickycee:
Bad girl , Bad boy, Good girl and good boy are just labels we put on people..

The person you think is a bad girl might just be daring and adventurous, but our olodo society might call such people bad. It's just a tag , don't let name decieve you.

That good girl you're thinking of , might just be a homely , shy and churchy girl.

All these traits don't make any one bad or good they're just different characters.

Good or bad is in the heart.
The more selfish a person is , the more likely vhe or she would do wicked things.

Secondly,
You need to remember life is not the same for all of us,
That girl did this and is enjoying life, doesn't mean you would do it and enjoy life too.

God would bless everyone according to his wisdom and time.

Don't envy people or compare, God sees the heart , me and you don't.

Thirdly.
You are not for everyone and everyone is not for you.
Even if you try to be a bad girl, the same guy that you think Is confused and always pick bad girls, would still ignore you.

You can't be for everyone !!!
It doesn't work like that.
Jesus Christ wasn't even accepted in his home town.
His own people asked for him to be crucified.

It's never personal, but everyone is not for you. And even if you do surgery to look like them , or change your name to theirs, they won't still accept you.

Just love yourself and be confident I yourself.
Don't let social media or Tv fool you.


Let me say this again,
A quiet person doesn't make them good.
A shy person doesn't mean a good person.
An emotional or cry baby is not always a good person.

Those are just traits, so don't mistake them for good and bad.
We know the personality types, sanguine, melancholy, phlegmatic and choleric.
None is good not is bad.
It's what people decides to do.


Lastly,
The grass always seem greener on the other side.
Humans are naturally ungrateful, and never know the value of what they have until they Lose it.

They're many people who think bad people are having life easy, but they feel cheated , being ungrateful for the peace and blessings they enjoy.
Like my role model , J Cole said.

There's no such thing as a life thats better than yours.

They would always be someone richer than you, finer than you, more talented than you.
Like your latest would always be someone outdated, your choice would be someone Godforbid.
But you would never be happy untill you learn to love yours.



So love yourself and the things you have and believe better days are surely ahead.
If you believe what you're doing Is right , and you feel it's something that doesn't compromise your peace , please keep at it

Don't let labels decieve you or make you question your beliefs.

Stay true to yourself.

Ocholu:
And when you cum dear OP; you come to your genuine senses. Thoughts of "why did I dive in raw" emasculate your medulla.

Both of y'all. Sitting quiet in the dark wanky room. The echoes of diapers, milk, bills, take the bliss away.

secnelly:
77 yrs later....
Japan still experience the repercussion .

budaatum:
And the 5000th sharers are apatheticme and TheSourcerer.

There would have been a price but I wouldn't want buda accused of buying likes and shares!

There are two because they are both worth it.

We will all live very very long.