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Gamesmart:
Civil?

By being the first to start insulting me repeatedly, while I kept quiet?

Aunty of "civility":

https://www.nairaland.com/7047493/why-there-many-single-guys/17#111491721

https://www.nairaland.com/7047493/why-there-many-single-guys/17#111497436



You can't take your own medicine because you are "special"?

Unlike you, there in no single insult in my post you quoted, I just highlighted my thoughts and perception.

Gamesmart:
You come across like I vision husband.

Same energy and mentality.

Gamesmart:
Feminists will hate this with a passion!

Apatheticme?

TheSourcerer:
according to the media , bad news is good news remember , Abeokuta is peaceful , you know good people do good things bad people bad things no matter the geographically moral upbringing.
If 100 planes fly and 99 lands safely, the media will focus on the one that was lost ...... The media is in depth Scam smh though , You cruise Lagos?

TheSourcerer:
haha ! I see you caught that .. Maybe you could join me on one someday....Nightlife is a different world from daytime life I promise you.

TheSourcerer:
Random hello !!!
Don't forget to smile it helps

crackheadZara:
30 billion and he has this ugly, awful, forlorn, sullen, unabashed disarray of a hairline, can't even afford the tiniest of disciplines required to stick to a basic workout regime, not to mention the foul arrogance of his attitude and the broad cleft in his intellect. I am of a strong conviction that if this man wasn't born into a family of wealth, his sort of person would end up in the drabbest and grimiest places where only urchins and louts thrive.

Sureplug123:
funny coming from you. Same you that said naija guys value Caucasians more than our own women.

RedpillAnalyst:
@ damo2014 The easiest way to get yourself killed is by messing with another man's wife. If turning women on is your thing there are many women hot in their panties leave married women out the pool. These married men are very emotional and may not hesitate to take you out.


@ iLegenddNoReply Let us be realistic, No man will consistently blow a woman's back out. It is delusional for men to think they can sustainably do this. Most sex-starved teen boys think this is the way until life starts happening. You have work to do, finances to take care of, parents to support, business to grow and all and adding purn level performance to the equation is not possible. You think Dangote or Otedola was laying the pipe down consistently and billions started coming in

LovePeddler,s will be LovePeddler,s anyways, you will wish for nymphomaniac until you find one and you will realize that is the worst wish that ever came to fruition. if a woman can't inhibit herself that is on her.

Gamesmart:
Nonsense!

In an ideal union of marriage (or any intimate relationship between men and women), the man should be the leader.

In non-ideal ones, where the woman is more competent, then it is okay for the woman to lead or be equal.

If a women is leading a relationship, like apatheticme does in her house, then she definitely settled and is in not a great relationship. Such relationships are less harmonious, on average, than relationships where the man is a leader.

A man being the leader does not mean a woman should not be allowed to have her own opinion, freedom or freewill.

Winters23:
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Winters23:
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The code is a universal language, it belongs to no country...

Connected1:
You can correct someone without mocking them, if you did it in a polite way like I was communicating with you earlier, instead you decided to bring toxicity into the conversation and act like you know better than me in a bid to massage your ego.

I may not be older than you but I am glad you see me as a teenager, I have no time to argue about age, it's not a criteria for living, I take it that way but I can tell you that circumstances didn't make me enter school at the time I wanted.

If I was the one mocking you now, I am sure you would have been raining insults on me now, somehow it's not all about how old you are but how reasonable and mature you can be.

I accept corrections if I see it as genuine and unlike yours, your saw the argument/debate as a means to mock me but I take it that way, if you can buttress your skin glow then what can I do, I want the best for you.

Winters23:
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Lols

There's no "we" here, it's only you the wannabe westee that will forever remain a slave.

Africa will be great without losing her identity.

I am a true Pan-African conservative who'll have to deal with your likes every once in a while.

Connected1:
That's the reason men here insult you women all around, you talk too much, I am familiar with the word cock and not rooster but somehow I felt you would understand and be reasonable as I even had to tell you about a comic scene I saw that's nor related to the topic, instead you decided to pick out the errors and use it as a means to step on my ego.

Moreover for that part where you said I live with my parents, I find it funny though and I assume you are foolish because ASSU is on Strike and I have been at home now for months, moreover I pay everything for the house from rent to cable subscriptions except clothings for my younger ones, at this stage of my life I have no serious girlfriend so I spend all my money on my parental family and my personal investments, their encouragements and motivations took me this far so I made a personal obligation to spoil them.

I work and I am student, just so you know I didn't want to rent an apartment at my home because I have one at school and I can't chase all the women coming to me nor can I escape getting one pregnant but since I am at my parent's house they can't come and be forming madam of the house.

Winters23:
This is Africa, take your gender equality nonsense to quora and Reddit

Connected1:
Money is just a mere factor in this cases.

Only those with poor mentality see money as a criteria for being a head, leaders are not made based on net worth but rather capabilities.

The Natural abilities and capabilities of a man is superior to a woman and that's why a man is not equal to a woman.

This evening at my mom's house I saw something very funny 3 hens fight energetically that I even had to video some seconds of it, guess what, they were fighting over who would mate with the only available female hen who was just there lying down waiting for the victor, at last they got tired and they all took turns in mating with her, I was like that's the best thing to do na. LOL

Winters23:
Lols

You know nothing about me…

You probably have one of the apps I developed on your phone as we speak

realG101:
Frankly, you cannot compare a man's ego to a woman's. Me I don't even think woman have ego.

The urge to man up and earn your own living as opposed to waiting for someone to wife you and take care of you is one valid way to distinguish a man and woman in terms of ego. Largely, woman don't have much ego.

So it is very difficult for a man who can't provide in a marriage to be submissive. Most men will rather become toxic in the marriage or opt out.

However, note that equality does not suggest two captains on the ship. But the captain thing should be a fluid concept. It should not be a taboo for a woman to make critical decisions for the family, esp if she actually has a superior grasp of the situation at hand. Then she can be the captain at that material time. Not the man insisting his decision is final when his decision is not the best for the family.

Winters23:
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woke fo0l

is it only gender equality you can learn from the west?

why not marry your fellow gender in the name of same s*x marriage ?

it's not okay to embrace some and leave some, take it all, Mr black slave!

And yes a village agbero is better than a woman professor and that's how it is around here

Connected1:
Is that a condition for equality?

ednut1:
Dont be deceived alot of women are breadwinners in many Nigerian marriages

Winters23:
No matter how Africans tries to copy western degenerate culture, Africa will never be western!

Here in Africa A MAN AND A WOMAN CAN NEVER BE EQUAL!

One drunken man is more intelligent than three women with PHD!

A wife will forever be under the husband

A girlfriend will always be a bitch to her guy

Don't ever bring this nonsense gender equility cum feminism here, take it to quora and reddit where the western pigs massage their ego.

Gee64:
I'm a male- an experienced one at that! You boys will not understand the secret of a lasting relationship.

BRATISLAVA:
Sons of Adam.

Raping monitor lizards and killing women. Insulting and fighting. Hating and destroying. What else do they contribute to their world but pain and evil? Swallow red pills?

Over to you, sons of evil.

(Naijacoverblog truly There Is No Single Day That Will Pass Without Coming Across One Bad News Or The Other In This Country Nigeria.)

akinade28:
Dear sis, Nairaland is the least place for me to seek male validation.
Yes, I agree some women are financially stronger than their husbands, but their percentage is a lot lesser. All over the world, stastics has shown that women earn lesser than men.

akinade28:
please re-read my post:
I am not in any way justifying domestic violence from any gender, in fact, no gender should justify domestic violence, we should all, love, accept, tolerate, forbear and forgive one another. However,
1) my first statement was a counter response to emmanuelbrown's claims that no man will beat a woman for no reason.
2) men are found of blaming women for their action as if they are perfect or saints. You people believe you can justify domestic violence and shift the blame to women, you can just shove anything down our throat just because we are women. See any gender can justify domestic violence if they wish to, women are not as complicated as men's belief. Most of these women you claim provoke you are only reacting to your actions and inactions the best way they can. No human will condone any form of hurt or irrational behavior from the other party for example irresponsibility or cheating(adultery). Because women are not as strong as you are either physically or financially, so, they get back at you emotionally.
3) the best thing for any part is to walk away when you can no longer bear it instead of justifying domestic violence or blaming your actions on the opposite gender
4) the second paragraph acknowledges the fact that there are some unreasonable human beings (both men and women) existing who are very wicked, but that can never justify domestic violence.

BRATISLAVA:
Just look at the very emotional post and his deeply emotional reaction to it. His whole argument is based on one teary story by some guy.
No statistical approach, which would be logical. Just male emotions.

Many males who seem to fight against domestic violence on men are doing it to score emotional points and trigger misogyny. It's an old tactic. Stale diversion, actually.

ImaIma1:
Men will turn blind eyes to this comment. They don't like this kind of hard truth, especially the guilty ones. Their power and authority comes only when it's women involved. Their fellow Nigerian women.

Ask them to repeat the rubbish they spew here to an American woman. The whole story will change. The hypocrisy is really getting out of hand.

Sureplug123:
drop points! I'll respond. Learn from Tonye and Mindlog

Sureplug123:
I'll will not hit her, I'll shoot her and face the consequences. People do it everyday.

One thing I mentioned earlier, if you can't obey the basic laws of marriage, then don't go into marriage.
One Igbo doctor was set ablaze by his ex, the guy died eventually, infact he knew he was going to die because of the degree of burn, another "only fans" Jezebel recently killed her partner.

Its now a matter of kill or get killed. That's the reality, let's forget about all these ideal situation or assumptions and focus on what's happening in our society.

If you check, you will see that majority of husbands die before their wives, what is killing these men?

1+1=2, you cannot add 1and 2 and expect the answer to be 2.
You made mention of the number on your receipt, this shows that even with the laws, DV is still prevalent.