Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Never Look Down On Menial Jobs by apatheticme(f): 5:43pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Cutezt: They actually look down a lot on menial jobs not knowing those people cash out far more than they that are working salaried jobs.
One time, a company contacted me to shoot a video commercial for them and at first, they were pricing me like garri, then I ignored them but they kept on pressing and then I told them I have price packages for my jobs and sent them a quote alongside my portfolio site carrying my name as the website URL and they realized they were not dealing with your everyday point and shoot guy.
Then on the day of shooting, they were shocked when I and my crew pulled up in a Venza, they were expecting someone sweating with equipments up and down. Summary, till date, we still work together but their perception of me and my work has since changed and we deal on a professional level now, you want me to work for you? No problem, I send you a quote, you either pay or not, no dragging up and down.
My 1 day job is way above the monthly salary of your average Nigerian office worker. It's all about packaging and knowing your onion fam. @bolded 100% true! |
Crime › Re: Andrew Nice Raped Me Inside A Bus, Says Victim, Presents Evidence by apatheticme(f): 4:54pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheSourcerer: They say if a hundred plane takes off , if 1 crashes and 99 survives , the media would focus on the one . After all bad is is ironically good news I understand! |
Crime › Re: Andrew Nice Raped Me Inside A Bus, Says Victim, Presents Evidence by apatheticme(f): 4:54pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheSourcerer: I will be glad if this made you st least loosen your hate for the menfolk , really don't let words texted by random kids upset you  I'm not upset, I just Serve them a dose of their medicine. As a matter of fact, I do not hate menfolk. I grew up with great responsible male personalities all around who are doing fine and also have mutual respect for women. I just call out certain misogynistic comments on this forum! I've always been calling out the extremely crazy and bizarre comments targeted at inciting hatred, callousness and ill treatment of the girl child. You will agree with me that some comments here are just simply heartbreaking. Many of them glorify rape, assault and anything that results in pain for the girl child. This is wrong. The mudslinging here is second to none, slut shaming, intimidation, name calling even in situations that are uncalled for. I wonder where this recent crop of uncouth kids sprung out from. But then again, it is what it is! These are some of the negative side effects of social media. It is left to us to do the right thing and train our kids to do right by everyone regardless of their gender. Maybe the society will become a better place! |
Crime › Re: Andrew Nice Raped Me Inside A Bus, Says Victim, Presents Evidence by apatheticme(f): 1:34pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheSourcerer: Well if it makes you feel better which I hope , these population are literally our children ,think about it where are our six year olds ,seven , nine , our teens......?Men don't have time to specificay target women , we were trained to protect our women , our sisters , our mothers, this surge of womanhate , is not MANLIKE ,,, I was so disgusted I made a topic about it back then in 2022 , I'll try and get the thread now...
https://www.nairaland.com/6317707/surge-womanhate-redpills-simphood-pussy True, I agree. @bolded,never knew such thread existed. I'll definitely check it out. I'm sure such thread would not be pushed to front page, which further butresses your point that only bad news thrives in our media space now. It's kinda like people are allergic to good news or morals these days. Only God knows where this sudden surge of misogyny came from, infact, they now even boldly call their parents simps for being more tolerant towards women. It is well! |
Crime › Re: Andrew Nice Raped Me Inside A Bus, Says Victim, Presents Evidence by apatheticme(f): 12:44pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheSourcerer: not Rare , media is just specific on the sort of 'men' they focus on .Good Morning Media or not, if a random sampling of views, opinions and comments on this forum is analyzed, you'll agree with me that majority of the menfolk here are just full of nothing but hatred for the female gender. Though findings of such survey may not be generalizable to the entire population of the country, but at least it gives a snippet of the mindset of the average Nigerian male towards women! Good afternoon. |
Crime › Re: Andrew Nice Raped Me Inside A Bus, Says Victim, Presents Evidence by apatheticme(f): 9:02pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
TheSourcerer: nope , not all men are this way ,Good Men exist . Yeah, sure!! Apparently, the good ones are rare these days! |
Crime › Re: Male Vs Female Prisoners: Pictures Spark Reactions On Social Media by apatheticme(f): 9:44am On Mar 13, 2022 |
NairalandL0RD: person don already create thread posting her pics and inquiring about her crime. He said he's ready to pay and settle the warders any amount just to get her released You're nothing but a troll using various monikers to threaten people on this forum. Until you can provide evidence of me scamming people on this forum, get the hell outta my mentions! Mynd44 seun lalasticlala justwise seun Rule 2, 3 and 19 One of the alternate account of the notorious troll defaming me and others here, it's high time you ban his IP |
Crime › Re: Male Vs Female Prisoners: Pictures Spark Reactions On Social Media by apatheticme(f): 12:37pm On Mar 12, 2022*. Modified: 9:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
NobIeKING: you will regret this I swear. Be like this forum don taya you .
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Crime › Re: Male Vs Female Prisoners: Pictures Spark Reactions On Social Media by apatheticme(f): 12:31pm On Mar 12, 2022*. Modified: 9:53pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
NobIeKING: you will regret this I swear. Be like this forum don taya you .
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Family › Re: So Unfair To Women by apatheticme(f): 12:03pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: The average Nigerian man doesn't see training his children as his job. But if they turn out well, he will claim them as his.
His job is to cheat, demand respect, act egomaniacal and generally irrational to prove he is indeed a man. His example to his children is negligence, anger, pride and insolence. Afterwards he will say the woman didn't train them right. She did. But what is lacking is any training whatsoever from their fathers. And that is why Nigerian men are largely dysfunctional. They never had a good example. Word!!!!!!!! |
Crime › Re: Male Vs Female Prisoners: Pictures Spark Reactions On Social Media by apatheticme(f): 11:14am On Mar 12, 2022 |
NobIeKING: idiotic illiterate spotted. come no allow make I reason your Matter for this forum oh Abeg, reason my matter! I eat confused pained-pillars like you for breakfast  E pain am!!!!!!!!!!!
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Crime › Re: Andrew Nice Raped Me Inside A Bus, Says Victim, Presents Evidence by apatheticme(f): 8:29am On Mar 12, 2022*. Modified: 9:02am On Mar 23, 2023 |
YinkaOlusesi16: Assuming the man was not caught he don Bleep you sara be that. |
Crime › Re: Male Vs Female Prisoners: Pictures Spark Reactions On Social Media by apatheticme(f): 1:12am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Tomek09: I agree with you.
Succinctly deposited.
Those Future is Female crooners won't advocate for equality here.
Hypocrites. Y'all said you were superior and logical now, and that y'all are basically superhumans. Y'all cuss out women all day here and claim they age like milk, while y'all age like wine. You basically drag womenfolk through mud here on a daily basis while high-fiving yourselves for being the best gender, so why y'all turning around to wail and lament again! Y'all should enjoy your patriarchy in peace and let us hear word biko. Always reacting upandan this forum like Russian nukes  and ever ready to start a tribal war even with the most trivial issues, yet they are the logical gender. On international men's day, let men wear branded Tee's and compete for Mr Cell too, Ofone! Una mates for Asia, Europe, Australia, North America dey reason how to improve their societies and advance technology, una dey here dey compete with female prisoners! The black man is under a serious spell! Una go wake up one day sha, hopefully! Jobless e-rats  |
Crime › Re: Male Vs Female Prisoners: Pictures Spark Reactions On Social Media by apatheticme(f): 1:00am On Mar 12, 2022 |
NoFucksToGive: World health organisation said that At 25 years old a man's heart has aged to 50 years dues to over working from high BP thinking and stress , at 40 years a man's heart is 80 years [/b]sold in age this is why 99% of heart failure and heart disease patients around the world are men ..
[b]At 30 years as a man your heart is already aged to 60 years while a woman's heart is still the same age as her body...
How many women have you ever heard of in the world having heart surgery ? Almost zero
As men Our bodies wear out , cancer , heart disease etc because you will think of house rent , fuel, mummy's money , children's money , your wife or gf money, NEPA bill, generator repair, car repair , transport money, loan app to repay, debt you owe bank, debt you owe your friends, contribution you haven't paid , your younger ones school fees ..younger ones house rent, hospital bill, Why won't our heart wear out ?
Even if you are sick you go out of the house , you can't rest , your in laws will carry all their load and put on you . Omo sometimes when you think of going home you want to run away to any where , were no one knows you so you can just disappear Hmmmm, the Logical gender with their usual wailing and competitive rantings!!! I thought y'all hypocritical foul mouthed lots always brag that "Men age like wine and women age like milk" blah blah blah. So where is this statistics and wailing coming from again When the situation favors your gender, you brag and pour invectives on the totality of the female gender, but when it doesn't favor y'all you wail bitter tears and commence a pity-party fest! Yall are just overpampered babies forming Alfa. The gods of the female gender must be alive! Una doh  |
Crime › Re: How 13-Year-Old Lagos Girl Was Gang-Raped By 7 Men by apatheticme(f): 1:50pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
marsup: Say no to rape. Rapists must suffer. Then again, at 13, she is not a virgin, according to doctor's findings. A lot needs to be done in our society. Clap for your self. So according to this wicked and befuddled mind of yours, the crime is lesser because she wasn't a virgin at 13 bah  Because I don't understand how you came about the fact that she wasn't a virgin at 13 or how that is even related to this news! The logical gender has spoken, she's not a virgin at 13, so she should be raped. |
Politics › Re: House Of Reps Rescind Votes On Gender Bills by apatheticme(f): 1:47pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Alexgeneration: No special seats for any elective position. Go and contest if you want to lead. The people who designed the SDG can do that in their kitchen and don't bring it to our polity.
You lots shouldn't push your luck too much by trying to destroy our democracy cos when push comes to shove, men will send you where you rightly belong, and believe me nobody will save you and nothing will happen - You can ask the women in Afghanistan.
P.S Go ahead and call me names cos that's the best you can do. Yeah I get it, people like you would rather move backwards, than forwards! Since everyone is moving forward, improving their societies daily, reviewing and renewing policies to develop the society for a seemingly ideal future, which will better the lives of women( seeing as educating and empowering women results in a better society) disgruntled keyboard cowards like you and your sorry lots will only wail and wish we were all sent back to live like the barbarians unfortunate enough to be birthed in the Middle East!! Well, if Afghanistan dey hungry you, jejely pack go dey live there na so that you can return to the stone age, hateful mumu like you. If dey put Western countries and Afghanistan down, I'm sure you'll be the first to opt for Western world. Yet you are here trying so hard to propagate hatred against a gender who doesn't care if you exist! Lazy oaf! |
Politics › Re: House Of Reps Rescind Votes On Gender Bills by apatheticme(f): 11:13pm On Mar 08, 2022*. Modified: 9:51pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Alexgeneration: No leadership position is exclusively meant for anyone cos of their genitals. Every gender can vote and be voted for in any elective position but some people with vagina thinks they should be give special seats while mouthing equality.
If you want to lead, contest and win. You lots claim to be half of the population, gather yourselves and tilt the election to your advantage and not constituting nuisance on the streets and asking for handouts.
Special seats are dead on arrival cos it reeks of inequality cos there are no "special seats for men. .
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Politics › Re: House Of Reps Rescind Votes On Gender Bills by apatheticme(f): 5:39pm On Mar 08, 2022 |
Alexgeneration: Well, they can reconsider their stance but women are not getting any special seats cos they have vagina. One wonders why all the seats should go to y'all cos of a deek  Ever wondered why female inclusion is important in global politics?? (No of course not. Cause just like the bimbos you follow about, your brain is stuck in your deek). It is well known (by people with actual brains of course) that women comprise half of any country's population, and yet they hold only about one-fifth of government elected positions. Women in key positions in government have shown that they are as capable and effective as their male counterparts in assuming leadership and decision-making roles. Thus, it makes sense that half of the population of a country with vaginas (as you succinctly put) should not just get to vote only during elections, but also have equal rights to be voted for or have seats reserved in the house for them that they can compete to enter. At least 30% female participation is not too bad for any forward thinking country. Its a way of creating an enabling environment and improving female inclusiveness. Besides It's simply within women's constitutional rights to have positions thrown open for them to aspire to. Don't be greedy cos you gat a pen.is  |
Politics › Re: House Of Reps Rescind Votes On Gender Bills by apatheticme(f): 3:45pm On Mar 08, 2022 |
derecho: I listened to Pauline Talin with another lady on NTA this morning and I must say I was ashamed that they could not articulate why women should be allowed to have those seats reserved for them. All they could say is we are your mothers bla bla bla...we know those that are our enemies in the house...we'll go and tell the women in their wards not to vote for them... Kai. I just shook my head.Most of these women in politics are just embarrassing women. It is a well known fact that the Nigerian political space is hostile, not just for women, but for men also. Thus, intellectuals both male and female generally avoid Nigerian kind of politics like a plague. Hence, the political space of course would be filled with dumbasses and bimbos who will possess lots of confidence in talking rubbish, with connections and money to pursue political power. The major reason why we are where we are. Mediocrity gets to the top and governs the intellectuals. It is what it is, not necessarily a women thing! Men in our political space have said worse at various occasions, including our darling president. |
Family › Re: Is It proper For Married Woman To Do Abortion? by apatheticme(f): 2:31pm On Mar 08, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: Hey mama. I no drag you here to come and fight o. Or to smear you or anything like that. Lol @bolded. I understand Magnoliaa: Someone is asking how an average feminist's life is like (now that I think of it, it sounds crazilyyyyy entitled). Why the fk would you want to know how feminists live their lives? For someone that doesn't even talk about his own oh. Yeah, of course most times, they are entitled because they already have some nonsensical mindset about women. Forgetting that this ain't the 80s any more, when women were drilled to be zombies and just accept whatever men do to them. Magnoliaa: Anyway, he claimed some of us are hypocrites because we don't talk about how things happen in our homes, and I told him you're someone who references thing in your home front from time to time on here. This is purely reverse psychology!! Males use it a lot, especially so called Redpillers and Alphas. They try to guilt-trip you into spilling your story, poke holes in it and still call you names for being sincere. I generally just ignore their whims  Magnoliaa: You talk about what you do, how you do it, duty-sharing and so I directed him to your profile. Sure, I really love using my experiences, other people's real life experiences to learn and teach other women. And I also talk about this whenever I have the opportunity; online or offline. Magnoliaa: He MIGHT start poking or wanting to be asking more questions, you don't have to oblige and engage. I understand, no crime in being inquisitive or being curious, however I'll be waiting for him if it borders on the usual name calling, slut-shaming and mud slinging misogynistic campaigns they engage on here. Hell definitely meet more than his match! Magnoliaa: I have sha shown him a feminist on NL that talks about some of the things she does offline. To back up her belief.
I even tried directing to other feminists on Twitter and FB who are very open, since those places are less anonymous, but Oga say no, na NL women im wan chook mouth into...
90% of people on NL are private, has nothing to with beliefs or being scared in this case. How you do then expect to find about 20-50 feminists baring their lives? Because of what? How many traditional people or redpillers do that? Exactly, you've done your best. Keep up the good work, keep shining, Keep your head high, Keep your circle nice and trim. Stick to whatever works for you. Happy International Women's day to you and every woman out there. We rock!! |
Family › Re: Is It proper For Married Woman To Do Abortion? by apatheticme(f): 12:27pm On Mar 08, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: @Acidosis, I have mentioned Kawulia, Hanny (@Hannysmilez), and Apathetic (@apatheticme). I said a whole lot of things in that post. Yet you just skipped right over it to comment on the ones you want.
These are few of the women I know who share their personal stories and experiences on here.
You mentioned feminists on NL. Stop setting up Coco to be the only one and demanding she tell you things. Hi!! Tnks for dragging me down here. Been a while I posted here though, I've been really busy. I'll go through the thread and comment appropriately. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Terrifying Moment Russian Tank Crushed A Civilian Car In Ukraine (Video, Pics) by apatheticme(f): 5:22pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Hmmm, innocent ordinary everyday citizens are the ones I pity most in this needless war. |
Politics › Re: Minister Onyeama Walks Away When Asked About Nigeria's Stance On Ukraine (Video) by apatheticme(f): 12:54pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Better! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Share Your Experiences Living Close To A Church by apatheticme(f): 12:41pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Portable Travels Outside Nigeria For The First Time To Perform His Song (Video) by apatheticme(f): 1:19pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
Egein: A rageddy dreg from the innermost recess of the dingiest ghetto.
An uncouth wretch with a most-fleeting, undeserved fame as was with other upstarts before him e.g. Mr. Spellz; the laughing Ghanaian cab driver; the 600-years-of-suffering pastor and other talentless dingbats who have returned to the eventless obscurity from whence the emerged. Hmmm, quite apt! But then, it is what it is since Time and Chance Happens to all. Even stars with more substance all faded away over time. It's his own moment, he should use it well. |
Politics › Re: Maria Saro-Wiwa Is Dead! Ken Saro-Wiwa’s Wife Dies (Photos) by apatheticme(f): 1:56pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Jakumo: Wow, you are such a brilliant detective. Who would have guessed that a black woman from Nigeria would also be a "negro"?
You should consider enrolling in the FBI or MI6, considering your genius-level deductive reasoning. Jesus!!! The guy offend you before  But seriously, we share this NL space with lots of dumbasses! |
Romance › Re: Lady In Tears As US-Based Fiancé Dumps Her For Her Bestie A Week To Wedding by apatheticme(f): 8:07pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
Mercychen: Which money? Most of them are taxi drivers, pizza delivery man and gutter cleaners. It's girls who don't have levels that want to die on top their neck.
Guys with cool bar na naija you go see them. 100% true! |
Romance › Re: Man Asks Wife On A Date At Their Minibar At Home (Pictures) by apatheticme(f): 6:11pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Nigerian Arrested For Online Romance Scams In Cambodia by apatheticme(f): 2:51pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
OptimmusPrimme: Oh my God! It’s these Indigenous Cannibals of Biafra (ICOB) again. Dem no dey tire? 
We built Lagos with our skills & money
We developed Abuja with our industrious spirit & nature.
Port harcourt is our Igweocha (capital of Biafra).
All Igbo men are Billionaires.
Without the Igbos, Nigeria is a Zoo.
Foolish, Loud-Mouthed, Despicable, Vacuous, Cannibalistic, Hypocritical, Incestuous & Criminally-Minded Lots! Omor!!!!!! Dem offend you before  This one na full dictionary oh |
Family › Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by apatheticme(f): 1:51pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
yuping: Good idea, I still remember when popsy did not get any contract for 2years mom was up and doing that woman sabi manage house even they feed neighbors, our last born takes after her. Sometimes whenever I read about bad marriages here on NL I always use my parent to have confidence that I can have a family of my own 32+ of marriage no be beans, but nairaland women/girls don't like saying their own side of the story sha. Still sums up to their lazy altitude and negligent. Women of nowadays don't want to do anything at all even in class they will still beg you to do their assignment. They should just do more, I'm not trying to bash them or anything I have sisters too but they should do more and be more in the society in general. @bolded This is not entirely correct! Most ladies here would want to contribute intelligently to most threads, but they desist from doing so because they'll be bashed if they share their Honest opinions and it goes against the popular opinion. Guys on this forum are mostly immature, razz and foul mouthed, so most ladies would rather keep silent and read news or change their gender to m. Only few have the confidence to contribute on various topics. I've commented severally on issues bordering on marriage in the past, and how I bring a lot to the table to help my spouse and support him and everyone started quoting me left right and centre saying all sorts of crap. I just quietly made up my mind to stop passing comments on this forum, especially positive ones. It's almost as if they're allergic to good news or good marriages because theirs didn't work out. Of course we know that offline, in the real world, a lot of women are the breadwinner in their homes, toiling day and night to support their spouses, send the kids to school etc. Who are the women in the markets selling different stuffs, teachers, caterers, canteen operators, nurses, bankers, hairdressers, tailors etc toiling day and night in their shops to make money?? Are they not our wives, daughters, mothers, sisters etc...... So why would somebody say women are lazy and don't want to do anything?? Maybe the slay queens and jobless students y'all hang out with sha, but everywhere around me, lots of women are Hardworking and bring a lot to the table, even sometimes more than their spouses. Yet we women don't go about opening countless threads to wail about how we bring money to run the home and our husbands do nothing to assist even when the workload is unbearable. |
Family › Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by apatheticme(f): 1:37pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
inumidun2010: Eccl.7.21 - Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee: Eccl.7.22 - For oftentimes also thine own heart knoweth that thou thyself likewise hast cursed others..
KOGBAGIDI.... Hmmm..... True! |
Celebrities › Re: Kanye West Buys $4.5m House (Pictures) by apatheticme(f): 12:57pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
BarrElChapo: Kanye truly loves this Kim ooo.... red don comot from him pill  ROTFL @bolded |