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FamilyRe: See The GUTS Of My Wife by apatheticme(f): 12:31pm On Dec 31, 2021
Rtk5:
My brother, you're right on point, the parent are even over struggling. Do you know anytime she packs and go to her parent's place if i don't go to beg them amd her to come back, she would forever remain there?
When they advice you guys to marry ladies from responsible backgrounds, from good homes, not ghetto girls who were raised by hussling parents and don't know how to love, manage and care for their spouses and children, you will say no!

Why?? Because good girls are usually decent, and plain. They don't look so attractive with lashes, make up, glamorous wigs, big bums and boobs, so of course the typical Nigerian dumbass male will say no, and will run after the Broke ass ill mannered, ill brought up ghetto girl he met in a club with big nyash with equally entitled and stupid parents!

Such ladies would usually be lazy, jobless and have nothing to contribute to the home. When they say marry working class, that has money and can contribute financially to help you when you're down, you will say no because you want a jobless housewife you can control and turn to mumu. Forgetting that most of the downtrodden people are the most entitled set of persons on earth, selfish and always care only about themselves.

See what you're experiencing now, you will then generalize all women and their parents to be like that.

A colleague at work told me just last week that when his wife put to bed, his father in law sent 100k to him, apart from other toiletries and clothes for the baby. Is that not a family?? And his wife is very nice, homely and well behaved. But you will never see her with fake bum, lashes and rubbish!

May God help us all.

Should you eventually divorce, make sure you remarry from a good home. It matters a lot. There are still good women out there who can go to any length to care for their husband and children.

I can't even imagine leaving my child alone at home not to talk of a baby.
RomanceRe: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by apatheticme(f): 11:58am On Dec 31, 2021
Ojb194616:
But u know, people go into dream relationship thinking this might work and get really disappointed.
They keep finding true love in the process keep meeting wrong guys.
Sometimes , men torture this girls.
If not , how can u profess love to a girl..sleep with her without a condom..get her pregnant and ask her to go do arbotion.
We really need to talk to men.
Lots of them are hypocrites, they're not ready for this conversation!

They claim to sleep with different girls daily as a bragging right and they're hailed 'bahd guy' amongst their friends, with lots of accolades for having slept with so many girls just because of the bandwagon mentality in a bid to feel among, but they want brand new chaste virgins when they want to settle down!

Yet, they criticize girls for being promiscuous. Who are the girls Fornicating with?? Ghosts??

Men are not ready for this conversation, seeing as this is the social media age and most folks would rather please friends and anonymous supporters online than do the right thing. Little wonder why morals is at an all time low right now in our society!
Car TalkRe: Man Arrested For Using Expired Tyre Discovers FRSC's Van Tyres were also Expired by apatheticme(f): 9:14pm On Dec 28, 2021
omanzo02:
I can't save you from your ignorance though, but I am very conversant with the DOT (American) and EU conventional tyre codes which are mostly used internationally and legal technicalities, you are interpreting the codes wrongly.
Ok
Car TalkRe: Man Arrested For Using Expired Tyre Discovers FRSC's Van Tyres were also Expired by apatheticme(f):
omanzo02:
Production date not expiring date!
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Car TalkRe: Man Arrested For Using Expired Tyre Discovers FRSC's Van Tyres were also Expired by apatheticme(f): 10:01pm On Dec 27, 2021
omanzo02:
Tyres DON'T expire, they either wear out or deteriorate. Get you fact right
If tyres don't expire, why do they have expiry dates boldly inscribed on them??
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid, Davido, Burna Boy Perform At Tony Elumelu’s Christmas Party (Video) by apatheticme(f): 4:03pm On Dec 26, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
That's really nice. Good to have more professionals on the forum. But tell them to go to the hospital, please!!!!

Before one guy will take pics of his son with boils along his spine, and then someone will remember that your post and quote it for him cheesy grin cheesy This forum haha

A Merry Christmas and Happy New year to you.
ROTFL @bolded

At any slightest opportunity, when I have spare time on my hands, I don't hesitate to counsel people to desist from self medication!

However it is what it is. In This country, a lot of people would rather self medicate, patronize quacks etc before remembering that hospitals exist.

May God help us all!!
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid, Davido, Burna Boy Perform At Tony Elumelu’s Christmas Party (Video) by apatheticme(f):
BRATISLAVA:
Never knew you were in the health profession. Hopefully demystifying it will not cause self medication among readers.
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HealthRe: My HIV Experience As A Married Man by apatheticme(f): 5:05pm On Dec 25, 2021
EMILO2STAY:
people who tested positive only to be negative in another country, people who reversed there situation with alternative medicine.
Surely you read about it, or you assumed and believed them without evidence based information.

Talking about experiences, HIV/AIDS is not just real, it is also debilitating and has killed lots of people who erroneously took it for granted and refused the HAART.

Do not mislead people based on fallacies.
HealthRe: My HIV Experience As A Married Man by apatheticme(f): 4:56pm On Dec 25, 2021
EMILO2STAY:
my references are one my own experience with people who suffered the sickness called AIDs.
then dr Robert willner-- THE GREAT DECEPTION
dr TC FRY--- the AIDS HOAX
professor Peter duesberg--- INVENTING The AIDS Hoax
Deconstructing The AIDS Myth by Gary null
AIDS INC by Gary null.
@bolded, what experience are you talking about??
Are you a health care professional? A doctor, nurse, clinical counselor or medical lab scientisthuh

I'll definitely check out these names you mentioned.
HealthRe: My HIV Experience As A Married Man by apatheticme(f): 4:28pm On Dec 25, 2021
EMILO2STAY:
I believe you wanted to type ode to throw insult. you see it's a pity that most of you know only ashawo joint and usless things like champions league. the very useful information in life you don't know.

now let me inform you; HIV was first discovered in gay men in new York in the early 80s initially called gay men's disease before it was called HIV.

Robert gallo who said HIV causes aids did not isolate the HIV virus to study and see if it causes aids or not ,he just made it up and said that in a press statement .there is no prove anywhere that HIV causes aids and that it is transmisible through sex.

this fact can be confirmed by the inventor of the PCR test used for treating HIV known as curry mulis a noble prize winner, professor and scientist Peter duesburg, dr Robert willner who injected himself with blood of aids patients severally and still tested negative, German biologist steffan Lanka.

human immune deficiency is caused by ones unhealthy life style. which include alcoholism , excessive drug use and abuse lack of proper dieting,

this is why the illness was first discovered in a group of homosexually who sexed multiple patners a week and use what they call poppers (amonitrate) for sexual stamina.

homosexuall activity cause blood poisoning and infection because the anus tear and then faecal matter is mixed with condom liquid and blood this goes into the blood stream and causes infection causing the gays to take a lot of antibiotic and antibiotics are well known immune suppressants it's only a matter of time before the immune system is totally suppressed due to drug abuse and the persons body becomes open to several diseases and this is when they will you have aids.
Is this evidence based??

What is your source? What about References? Statistics, figures to back up these claims.......
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid, Davido, Burna Boy Perform At Tony Elumelu’s Christmas Party (Video) by apatheticme(f): 3:48pm On Dec 25, 2021
siyeke2023:
Hello Nairalanders,

A doctor wrote this multivitamin for my 3months old, i cant make out the name.

Doctors and their writing.

Please who can help with the name..See the picture
Syrup Medamin 2.5mls daily for 10days
CelebritiesRe: Zlatan Ibile Announces N7.3m Reward For Anyone Who Finds His Designer Glasses by apatheticme(f): 6:03pm On Dec 22, 2021
nedekid:
He knows it wount be found by anyone cos it is not missing in the first place. grin
Sense wee nor kill you!!!
PoliticsRe: Tony Kabaka Gives His Life To Christ! (full Video) by apatheticme(f): 10:41pm On Dec 20, 2021
BanevsJoker:
Where was his life in last week's BBC Documentary?
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Chai!! Nairaland sha, una too funny
RomanceRe: If You're Good In Bed, Your Girl Will Always Want You..picture by apatheticme(f): 6:17pm On Dec 19, 2021
Ofadaman:
Op I don dey chat your babe o and she dey respond to threatment well. I go soon open thread on how I take fvk your babe. U surely no go see her around this Sunday trust me!
Lol

Y'all wanna give this guy high BP
RomanceRe: If You're Good In Bed, Your Girl Will Always Want You..picture by apatheticme(f): 6:16pm On Dec 19, 2021
JovialJune:
The hypocrisy with you guys is that you don't see beyond your nose, or you all intentionally refuse to remove the big wood in your eyes, imagine this one preaching Jesus and quoting bible.for.me cos this happened to Op, a male

If it was a lady that came here hinting us about her bf having a tiny pinky finger diick, screenshot her bf begging her to not leave him because of it, then display his number for all to see, we would be on the 10th page by now with comments full of insults from you guys, but the thing is, we ladies will never do that cos we are more sensible than you all, most of you are so crass that sex to you all is a big deal, like there is a trophy or billions of dollars attached to your sexual prowess,

Op created a thread with screenshots on display and you call that a mistake? the fool waited until candidlady told him she got his gf's number and would tell her before he deleted it, yet you call that a mistake? Why did he have to wait till someone called out his bullshit before he realised he is full of shit by rectifying his stupidity?

Yet none of you could call out and caution the fool, only mufasalion and candidlady called him out on FP, yet the rest of you decided to castigate those that called him out? crass things

No wonder ladies will continue to use you guys through sex to get what they want and achieve way more than you all cos in this century, you all still think séx is an ultimate unshakable achievement, go and advise those that value sex that they should change this stupid mentality and get a grip of their existence in this cruel unfair world, my two cents.
Don't mind them!

Imagine remembering Jesus now when it suits his own narrative, seeing as his fellow blockhead is being dragged!
FamilyRe: Marriage Is A Case Of Fools Rush In Where Angels Fear To Thread by apatheticme(f): 5:43pm On Dec 19, 2021
greenie77:
INCEL fire! Can they afford to be celibate? cheesy
I just tire!

They're simply hypocrites, many are just online to make mouth, they're married with kids offline in real life.

They only make use of this anonymous platform to chase clout, brag and pour their real life frustrations on the totality of women.
TravelRe: Uber Driver Attacks Woman; Uber Deletes Her Account After She Reported To Them by apatheticme(f): 4:55pm On Dec 19, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
Start with Justice for a case, and not for your gender, because if we are looking for Justice for men that driver ought to be in jail.

Who said that men are the only people with anger issues that they are justified in getting violent by other men? Why are you playing that innocent game of hypocrisy?

A woman said something to you that you don't like, something other men have said to you and probably said worse, and you never battered those men, but because it's a woman you need to batter her? Why are you scared to batter men who do things you don't like to you? Because you won't get away with it, right?

Do you know there is a difference between physical violence that could kill or maim her, and verbal abuse which they could both walk away from? Or have you been so consumed by gender based violence that your will see how to justify evil to satisfy your tendencies?
Word!
FamilyRe: Marriage Is A Case Of Fools Rush In Where Angels Fear To Thread by apatheticme(f): 2:45pm On Dec 19, 2021
JovialJune:
The moral lesson in your story is;

1) Men, never take your wife with you abroad so that you won't cry like close to 50 year old Op is still crying after more than 10 years of separation with two grown up kids cry

2) Only Nigerian women divorce abroad so don't marry them, marry whites or other races cos if you decide not to lift a finger at home and decide to be the head that your naija culture mandates, or you do the whole house chores and still wash her pants, she will not divorce you, divorce cases you see and hear over there are all fake, so marry them smiley

3) Divorce/separation of Nigerian couples is always the wives fault, never the husband, they are saints and blameless cry

4) Nigeria grandmas and grandpas living together abroad for more than 30/40/50 years are fake people, they exist but don't exist embarassed

5) The system abroad is the fault/cause of divorce/separation of Nigerian couples cos it favours only women, in fact, other nationals, race, and other Nigerian couples still together for decades and counting, in that same system have two heads, they are insane for still being together, how can a man and woman happily cohabit peacefully in a system that only favours women? In fact married people shouldn't exist there cry

Op we have heard and seen your sob story, yours is the basis to judge all Nigerian women cos you are the only one that has gone through this in the whole of Nigeria, thank you for the heads up smiley
Lol, lovely sarcasm!

You still have time for all these AWALT people!

Las Las they'll tow the INCEL path, which is fine by the way!
EducationRe: Dowen College: Family Hires Femi Falana Over Sylvester Oromoni's Death by apatheticme(f): 12:59pm On Dec 08, 2021
OLDESTWARRIBOY:


It seems the school owners and the alleged suspects are well connected so this is what will happen:

Sanwo Olu go order panel...dem release Pink, white and blue paper say nothing happen say true true naa football cause the poor boy death. Him go order peace catwalk for the dowen college. No be Lagos again?? When money exchange hands
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Which one be pink paper againhuh?

Una too funny for this forum aswear!!
CareerRe: Is It Advisable To Go For Army Short Service? by apatheticme(f): 10:02am On Nov 24, 2021
27yo:
My elder brother lasted 3 months

I hope you last longer



Modified:
Yes he was killed barely 3 months after he completed his training.
Bokoharam killed him.
His friend told me after so much persuasion.
Till date, the Nigerian Army has not called to inform my family.
My elder brother practically died for nothing. I'm not even sure he was paid for the 3 months.
After going from one barracks to another here in Lagos, with officers avoiding me like a plague, I was later told to travel to Maidugri for his belongings ( you can imagine sad )
One officer was saying that we should go to the senator from my state to help us get his benefits ( If any angry ) meaning NO STRUCTURE, NO CLEAR DIRECTION...
This is so sad. Really terrible a nation.

My condolences to you and your family. May God soothe your pains!!
HealthRe: Please Help Me Get Rid Of This Disorder On The Side Of My Face by apatheticme(f): 6:02pm On Nov 23, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
What side effects? I'm sure you've never heard of it before or seen one in your life to be running your mouth like a loose parrot. Retin-A/Tretinoin can treat many skin conditions and hyperpigmentation is one of them. Other than a little peeling of the skin (it speeds up collagen production of the skin, which means the foremost layer of the skin is gradually peeled off while new skin resurfaces) and accompanying dryness, it has no major side effects. I've used it for years and still do (not for hyperpigmentation or any skin condition), as it's golden for having and maintaining beautiful skin. It can be used for these purposes alone. I have NEVER had any side effects apart from those two. Personally, I don't even consider them side effects because they're no issue for me. Some people may get excessive peeling and other side effects like redness if they're slapping it on their skin, thinking they need to use a lot, which can be counterproductive. With the lowest dose and even the highest, it can take at least six weeks to start seeing a difference in the skin, as it's not an overnight miracle. It takes its time to regenerate the skin but it's so worth it once the patience is exercised. A lot of people actually give up during this time because they think it's not doing anything for them, when it is and can do wonders for their skin. If I throw away all my skincare products (which I won't do, ha!) and have just Retin-A/Tretinoin and my favorite SPF moisturizer, I'm good. It's that amazing.

Learn not to run your mouth when you're ignorant about a subject.
I bet you don't know that Retinol and associated products are contraindicated in women of child bearing age due to it's teratogenic effect!!!

You might wanna slow down on your use of retinol based products!

Cheers!!!
CelebritiesRe: Olu Jacobs Has Dementia – Wife, Joke Silva Reveals Actor's Health Condition by apatheticme(f): 2:30pm On Nov 22, 2021
Godjone:
sad

Did she actually said so abi na one among many of una misleading headlines.

But come to think of it. How comes these guys in nollywood has one terrible health story or the other huh
These conditions are pretty common within the general population, but because they're celebrities they make headlines!!

Just attend neurology clinic one day in any major teaching hospital in Nigeria and you'll be amazed at the number of patients with senile dementia and/or Alzheimers disease you'll see!

A lot of these patients have been kept at home by their folks due to factors such as ignorance on the part of caregivers, financial issues, unavailability of old people's home or geriatric facilities to care for them,lackluster attitude of the Nigerian government towards care of the aged!
HealthRe: Help, My 2weeks Old Baby Has A Sunken Fontanelle. What Do We Do? by apatheticme(f): 12:34pm On Nov 22, 2021
Beremx:
Sign of dehydration. Please give him water to drink everyday. Avoid giving him strong antibiotics to avoid stories that touches the heart. I am talking from experience.
Give a 2wks old child water to drink everyday?? Breastfeeding is still food and water for babies at 2wks and beyond up to 6months for optimal health.

Sunken fontanelle at 2wks is not necessarily dehydration!! Neither is it a disorder. Degree of "sunkenness" varied based on fat padding. In a baby that's asthenic, fontanelle appears very deep, while it is practically almost non-palpable in chubby babies!

Barring any other symptoms, or dry diaper, a well breastfed child with sunken fontannelle is just fine!

Anterior fontanelle closes averagely at 18 months while the posterior fontanelle is expected to close around 12 to 14 months.

Parents should really stop stressing about the fontannelle, except it closes earlier than expected or refuses to close beyond 18 months. Then a paediatrician is supposed to review the child.
PoliticsRe: Corruption: Ndume Urges Buhari To Sign Unexplained Wealth Order Immediately by apatheticme(f): 11:27am On Nov 10, 2021
Thinktwicemybro:
The biggest fraud in 2021 is Alexreport. Maduka should hire me to draw his money. Alex must pay every dime. Indira online governor.
See the way they give the man certificate of online return inside self contain with no audience.
ROTFL @bolded grin grin

Una too get mouth for this forum sha!! Which one be self contain againhuh
PoliticsRe: INEC To Deploy BVAS Device For Anambra Election, Dumps Smart Card Reader by apatheticme(f): 9:51pm On Nov 05, 2021
complexBoss12:
undecided

I really don't think there is a need for elections in Nigeria. it's a waste of everybody's time.
Facts only!!
PoliticsRe: Foreign Investors Won’t Be Interested In eNaira – Reno Omokri by apatheticme(f): 10:45am On Nov 03, 2021
Kabongo1:
What purpose does it serve?
Very good question!!!
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage's First Outing After Sex Tape Saga, Visits Sujimoto Company by apatheticme(f): 2:20pm On Oct 27, 2021
Phiniter:
People wey get the Jesus Christ no send am, the ones wey carry am come, don dump am carry our resources Waka...

but as your head good not for using to think, but to cram jargons wey some old men mix with their history give you.

if this heaven really dey hungry you, I wonder wetin you still follow us dey drag this life with.
ROTFL @bolded

Una too funny for this forum aswear!!!!
PoliticsRe: FG Budgets ₦2,178 For Each Citizen’s Healthcare In 2022 by apatheticme(f): 1:41pm On Oct 26, 2021
9jayes:
Lols N2,178 that’s $3.8, maybe is to obtain hospital card
In some government hospitals sef, OPD card is #3000 naira while admission card is about #4000 not to talk of private hospitals!

#2,178 is rather too meagre for health budget of each individual!

May God help us!
Christianity EtcRe: Ghanaian Pastor Caught Sleeping With Married Woman On Church Altar (Photos) by apatheticme(f): 3:42pm On Oct 23, 2021
iamyemiakins:
Ghanaian pastas sef!

This one na spiritual konji
Lol @pastas grin

That accent is just so funny!!
CrimeRe: Police Arrest Father For Incest In Ogun (Photo) by apatheticme(f): 5:28pm On Oct 03, 2021
lordmayor2013:
I said between adults

A father of 45 sleeping with his 23 years old daughter isn't DEFILEMENT. They are both adults
Alright, rationalize it all you want, but may my generation/kids not meet evil minded people like you and may God cure people with your mindset of this madness!!
CrimeRe: Police Arrest Father For Incest In Ogun (Photo) by apatheticme(f): 5:02pm On Oct 03, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
The sort of posts we see in support of incest nowadays tells us there is something wrong with Nigerian youth, especially the males.

The sort of folly they endorse and the nature of the posts they drop tells us that they live for the wrong things.

People like that probably watch porn all day and lust over their family members, so they want to know what is wrong about it, because they've fallen to tasting forbidden pleasures and want it.

Out of the billions of people in the world to love and have sex with, these ones are looking for legalizing sex and relationships with their parents and siblings.

People are truly sick. They are the same people who castigate gays, yet want sex with their family members legalized.
Honestly, these are truly "endtimes"
CrimeRe: Police Arrest Father For Incest In Ogun (Photo) by apatheticme(f): 2:07pm On Oct 02, 2021
lordmayor2013:
Why is incest a crime?

Consensual incest between adults should be legal

Note
I'm not talking about this particular story. Just asking
Wtf is "Consensual incest"??

So in other words, you can marry a girl who has been defiled by her father??

And you can also defile your own daughter since consensual incest should be legalized??

Jesus truly wept for this generation!!!

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