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just imagine

Would people still learn?, the answer is no. Those who would still go to Ghana are either on their way there or planning to

Jordan Pickford has been the difference so far

Sydney17:
In my own opinion,religion has done a lot of damage to the world especially to Africa because of the extreme poverty rate! Prospective happy homes ruined in the name of ' consultation'. I'm of the opinion that no one knows tomorrow except God, but it's a shame now how pastor determine your husband and wife just by writting his or her name in a sheet of paper! My first experience was in 2009, I met a lady on 2go app and we got chatting, initially she was reluctant to give me the attention, after some months she suddenly changed, most times starting the conversation, I was curious and I asked why the sudden interest, she reluctantly but soberly told me that her pastor asked her to break up with her man that GOD doesn't want her to marry the guy! The guy was very sad, I read all the messages of the guy trying to bring her to her senses and I felt sorry for him! She ask me to tell her my full names so that the pastor can pray about it! I sent names but they were entirely not my names, but according to the pastor the name sent is the perfect husband God want for her even though those names were fake! My second experience was with another lady I knew I don't have feelings for at all! I just wanna have a revenge f****k for what she did to me while we were awaiting JAMB results, that's a story for another day though lol! She asked me to follow her to the church to see the pastor before she can say yes! I went with her knowing that most of those pastor are fake! We knelt down and after reading some verses snd speaking in tongues, the pastor was telling this lady how she sees my heart! Yeeee see knocking! Lol that God show him am the best man for her! His God couldn't pick the fact that I was fake! After enough revenge kpanshing I move on! Don't blame me until you know why I came for revenge)! After that experience I was more convinced that most of these pastors are just playing with our mind set and future! Meanwhile I can say conveniently I have tested up to 10 pastors or Alfa with fake names and they always hav something to say! Some of those names are even taken from movies! Dear sis, this is enough sermon from chronicle today! Stop putting pastor in the position of the almighty! Only God can determine your future, stop taking names around in the name of searching for Mr right! I'm a very good xtian! But I believe its better you talk to God yourself! A word is enough for the wise o! May the Lord bless the reading of his son words! Can we share the grace please? Lol

Religion has nothing to do with individual cravings, and it's not everyone who uses the name of God actually do so in spirit and truth. Stop blaming religion for peoples choices and start blaming people for their own choices

Ozil shouldn't even be on d bench, talk more of starting

First of all, she never got any invite to start working as a cleaner even though she was interviewed for that post. Secondly, u calling her attention to her not meeting up to the supposed duties is an acknowledgement of her working for you. Thirdly, the Nigerian labor law works based on the salary structure which is the practice in ur hotel and not based on a wage structure. As regards the first and third points whereby no agreement or terms of service was reached or offered to the said party and based on company policy, ipso facto all she went there to do was mere charity work and cannot demand for wages from a company with a salary based structure in place. But u can be empathetic towards her if u choose and pay her based on ur benevolence and not because she has a right to be paid.

Good riddance

That's just their way of life

It happens doesn't necessarily mean it's okay

FortifiedCity:
At Present As we speak, some doctors are molesting their patients, with a lot going unreported. I used some because I know there are good ones

We can't really say if that assertion is true or not based on past events which u feel might be presently the case, that's why I insist that we should let the merit of each case speak for itself, most importantly judgment can only be passed on what's known

FortifiedCity:
The statement says "some doctors". I don't know why you have a problem with that. I hope it's not what I am thinking.

Or do you want to tell me that doctors don't molest their patients?

It has happened in the past isn't sufficient reason to place that tag on them, it would be stereotyping them. Let the merit of each case speak for itself

PHILipu1:
PDP=16 years.
APC=2 years so far.

Can we give APC just half of PDP 16 years and see?

This exactly is the delusion most Nigerians live in, we focus so much on packaging instead of the content. what's the difference in personnel between APC and PDP? is it not the same obasanjo and Atiku who were in power for half of that 16 years that are saints and elders of the now saintly APC?

just did the sub and it's d same problem I'm experiencing. I was thinking the problem was from my end until I stumbled upon this thread, it's really frustrating

laribari:
You clearly need to read all her post

She might sound mentally deranged most of the time but this time, she was just being sarcastic I guess

What has he being a church elder got to do with him killing his wife?

Prevhoo:
Just as the title reads...

Had an interview and during the process, I was informed....


That, if I get called up. They will have to hold on to my NYSC DISCHARGE CERTIFICATE. Also, all the present staff are in on the arrangement.

They promised to have it in a vault at Diamond bank or the one at Montgomery, Yaba and will give me the receipt.

This arrangement seems draconian and slave like to me. There is something sinister about it or am I just a vain paranoid?

I want your opinions on this, will you agree to work for a firm that is holding you to ransom or by the "balls"?

PS: They said it is a measure to control theft, it still feels to drastic to me.

What will you do?

They aren't holding you to ransom since u would be given a receipt which I believe would carry a signature and stamp. If you are so scared, make a video recording when tendering it just to be on the safer side.

laribari:
Someone said all the things you say are weird and this is a different thread, still you just confirmed what he said. I wonder how long he has been observing you.

You clearly do not have a sense of humour

U know the source of ur problem already and you know the solution to it. Since it's ancestral, go to your village or wherever it started and make enquiries so as to understand ur problem then u take it from there. Be steadfast in prayers

Olabestonic001:
Apen abi what's your name
Go and read your comment again and get your head checked.

I thought ur case was just physical but clearly someone from ur village has a hand in ur madness

Olabestonic001:
How do you come up with this demonic suggestion?
I am full fledged Yoruba and my wife is from the Royal blood in Anambra, yet, we didn't have this problems.
And forget all these Yoruba and Igbo pooh on NL; if you touch my wife, you'll live to regret it!
Good enough, my in-laws do not reason as some IPOB do. When I met the King, I was more than impressed and knew that no matter our degree of tribalism, many people are still filled with their humanity.

You are very stupid(bolded). Did u come across the words yoruba or igbo from my write-up? Or is it d case that u hv mental issues

stopthecycle:
nairalanders, your advice please, someone needs your help. a friend of mine from the east wants to get married to a yoruba guy, both families are against it cuz they both want their children to marry from their tribe, my friend tells me they want to run away and get married in court...do you support this? what advice would you give them please...

Tell your friend that she would be making the biggest mistake of her life. As a woman, it's gonna be a lose-lose situation for her, cos the day that love when dey shak her go clear for d boy eyes based on family pressure, she would have nobody to turn or run to

The NPF can never be these two tinz:
1. Your friend
2. Go back to number 1

Very idiotic suggestion. So far more important matters should be put on hold in favor of discussing a frivolous issue which some stupid morons put themselves in knowingly/unknowingly. I don't pity any gal who finds herself in such a situation cos most would gladly do it

Tajbol4splend:
He's so irresponsible

So he's irresponsible because he chose to trust his wife not because he didn't fulfill his duties as the father?

No cogent reason

Sheun001:
Pls nairalanders i feel like my dad is under some kind of charm from a lady is there a way to undo that charm

pls u should help suggest what i can do to help him as my family is on a verge of collapsing

Mods pls help push to FP

Feelings first of all do not cumulate into evidence. U didn't say if there was anyone u knew of whom Ur dad was into and what exactly his actions are which had led to the supposed collapse. Since we don't know what exactly Ur experience is, how do u expect us to advise u?

The ripple effect of their stupidity is that sane and well meaning individuals have been denied the opportunity that was given them. I think seun and his crew should implement a rule against stupid comments/people cos u never know the damages they might incur on others and this forum which is gradually becoming a joke

Stupid niggas who feel they have an opinion about other peoples sexual life, very soon they will start telling us how to open d pussy and the number of strokes before we are allowed to cum or else we don't love our partners

RaggedyAnn:
If you aren't perturbed that she broke up with you then I'm not surprised that you wouldn't call her three times a day. You probably aren't meant for each other. When you meet someone you're crazy about, you'll call her enough times to make her a part of your day. Not just the perfunctory (4) calls per week.

It seems u are jobless cos I can't imagine an adult who's working to come up with such rubbish advise. Or it is d case u don't understand the adverse effect such action will have on d relationship on d long run.

For 100k$ I go leak d nude, waka my whole area nakKed, enter people house join sef as jara

babtaima:
I didn't ask for her Facebook password.. we just started dating.. I'm not insecure but I've heard many things about her before we started dating (that she has a lot of orbiters (guys hitting on her 247)).

She must have thought: 'this guy has heard the rumors about me", thus her trying to earn my trust by giving me such a personal thing as a Facebook password? i didn't decline the offer..

Also to add, she's always really nice like super nice when we're together, like this holy Mary attitude and my dad always say: if it's too good it's not true. Could she be that wolf in sheep clothing? have any of you guys encountered such a person? it wouldn't be safe to assume now that she's a pretender.. what are your thoughts on this?

Edit: Some of the nice things she's done are:

*Giving to road side beggar as we drive on a date
*Paying for the food
*Sharing food and drinks with my friends

And generally, not getting angry no matter how hard i pick on her... I think I'm getting played big time. How can i know her true character? though I've checked her messages and saw her flirt messages with her Ex, nothing out of the norm.

Guys hitting on ur gal is a norm, what exactly have u heard about her cos I don't think u are saying all u heard.

Just imagine the madness, Must they make a fool of themselves daily