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Self control is important in this case, just Act as if you aren't even there. No need raising dust where there's no sand, provided u can keep ur prick in check, just avoid her at all cost.

JayIlych:
I decided to drop this here. I had casual sex with Abigail(not real name) for some months before we stopped seeing each other.
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Fastforward to now, and i met Ada(not real name), was deeply in love with her and now wants to marry her. Problem is, her sister is Abigail. We've not done formal introduction yet, Abigail doesn't seem happy, and i already told her she was a part of my past, but she still seems unhappy.
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I really love Ada and want her for a wife, but what problems could Ada pose to the marriage?
MATURED ADVICE PLS.
Lalasticlala, mynd44.

Are u the first person to fvck Abigail? if not, tell her say make she face bush

Fine boy and fine girl! At least Una pikins no go para for the kind face when dem go carry . HML in advance o

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Instead of whining, do what's best for your kids. If your wife being fully aware u can access her messages could still go on to disrespect u this much, I can't just imagine what ur children would have come in contact with while u are away, it's possible she brings those colleagues home and introduce them as uncle to ur children. A woman who can cheat on that level with no shame or remorse doesn't love or respect u and can harm u if u r not careful. Save yourself while you still can, dead men tell no tales!

How much ur sister want give am?

Why you just want waste the slot when God give u for 2018? It's too early to die

Wetin we no go hear

Whether buhari and his cronies like it or not, come 2018 our story must change for the better.

Let me read the wailing memorandum first before I will drop my opinion.

He hasn't said anything new, just reiterating what we already know and are presently experiencing. Wole Soyinka and a host of others who have just found their voices are but a perfect depiction of George Santayanas words which is "Those who fail to learn from history are condemned to repeat it", something which he echoed all through his wailing.

Yuneehk:
Hilarious! I had a very boring and painful Christmas celebration. Of all the days to get a neck dislocation, it had to be on that day I was supposed to be having fun and enjoying myself. Anyone who's had a neck dislocation would know how painful it was.That is how I ended up staying indoors, bedridden, and nursing my neck pain

Are you sure your neck got dislocated? Or it was a case of having a stiff neck?

The op doesn't owe her nothing but the truth. Empathy is a very important virtue and I believe your friends understand that perfectly. I believe if she had refused you sex, u would still be on her case. I'm sure u would look for her later on when u most likely cannot find a replacement but she would be gone by then, good women are hard to find these days, she might not be up to your taste right now but there's no harm in helping her upgrade.

The religion of peace cannot enforce their supposed way of life(hijab wearing) even on their sacred ground but would jump on every civil and secular issue violently claiming intolerance.

mokset123:
In january 2011 or 2012 GEJ removed fuel subsidy and there was alot of backlash from the people. Hence he had to return back to status quo.

Seriously! It would hv been better if u had kept quiet, instead of coming up with this queer response. Perhaps what u r saying happened, did happen but in a parallel universe, not this very reality

victoronyekwelu:
When GEJ removed subsidy Nigerians shout flavour even drop song now PMB his here doing worst and no one can stand up to him. I swear the man fit this country

When did GEJ remove subsidy? Are u sure u are talking about Nigeria?

elChapo1:
how and when did fuel get to ejigbo depot? this government of propaganda sef. that was how useless Femi adesina said on politics today that buhari didn't need to address Nigerians of the lingering fuel scarcity.

I thought I was d only one who took note of what the fool said

HtwoOw:
Please don't be stupid, how much was lost to subsidy scam compared to the benefits Nigerians got? Upon all the subsidy there was still scarcity and queues and they even pushed for more


Subsidy was abused and should never be allowed again, period

It was people like u who came out protesting when the previous government, held a symposium where every Nigerian was respected and allowed to air their views on the subsidy removal but kept shut when Buhari did same. The outcome presently is even Worse than we have ever had it and u are here appraising the nonsense.

When we were warning them about the impending disaster they were walking themselves and us into, they wouldn't listen cos they were so filled with hate for GEJ. Now we all are suffering and there seems to be no respite in sight.

Telli person

Jesus! See d way she kill buhari, D old man might die from high BP if he reads this o, all of these for just one human being, with the peak of it all "that’s if you would recognise competence even if it hits you in the face!" .

Mrbolt555:
From Jesus to Pastors, Human head in church, Tithes, Offerings in church, name it, it's all fvcuking SCAM! I have no religion. Im out!!

U claim not to have any religion, but u carry their matter for head like gala dey Waka for Lagos traffic

And the follow up from that guy was just great.

tit:
This is aids originale

It could be anything, there are other sexually transmitted infections other than Aids, perhaps staph or syphilis.

How's this news?

Audray:
Oy...füçk off. What do you know about women and hygiene?
You just had to spew your self righteous Macho opinion.
Don't even get me started on guys and their "manly" weirdly looked over dirty habits.

Some Men could be really dirty, but no matter how dirty a man is, he can and will never emit the odour of a dead fish.

Lies, lies and more lies

Fayose and wike are accountable to their people, if the people say they want their share, let them have it. And moreover, since when did it become an issue of consensus as to how other people's money is shared? Let the governor's who voted for it, give their own share to the federal government, shikena!

Do people still do that shit? But all the same, I'm not in the habit of deceiving myself

Keketu:
There is these girl i like around my street, whenever we are on holiday in school. She do come around and we gist and all before she go her house later. But i have a problem, It seems her love in me change with days ( i cant really explain it) EG I might love her on tuesday and then i wont like her on thursday. I love her only on monday, wesday and saturday but when she come my house on wesday and saturday i wont love her.I think she starting to notice now . Please fellow nairalanders

you better go and buy brighter grammar, what sort of rubbish is this? Just imagine the nonsense u typed. No wonder she's not interested

amprat:
I would have agreed with you if he was taking care of his mother at least and I would have agreed If we call him for help, but he is the one that just suddenly calls out of the blues,asking questions about how far you've gone in life like a monitoring spirit, then starts making promises you didn't ask for, like I'll get you another job, I have the connections, you should develop your talents I'll talk to someone blah blah blah .

There are two kinds of helpers, they type who would move heaven and earth without you asking and the type who wouldn't move a finger unless u ask. Perhaps he falls into the second category and based on what u said, u don't ask from him, so how would he know what u really need? I'm not trying to put up a defense for him but u guys haven't exhausted every available option

It's better she gets tied up and flogged now than getting set ablaze in the future.