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MaritzaNL:
I can't, I just can't, I have principles that I follow.

QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

Stevengerd:
And you had to quote the whole Epistle.

Rukkydelta:
It was from a video
A white dude was talking/lecturing ladies about guys

Opinionated:
As much as paying for a ticket secures your right to be on a flight, there are certain behaviors, which if displayed by passengers can more or less invalidate their right to be on that flight. Jumia Travel, the leading online travel agency, shares 4 sure ways to get thrown off a flight.

Wearing Something Inappropriate

Inappropriate clothing such as offensive t-shirts and the like can result in a passenger being removed from a flight by flight attendants. Considering the fact that airlines don’t publish their dress codes, it might sometimes be unclear to passengers which kinds of dressing might be appropriate. However, if a flier or passenger sticks to the rules of decency in dressing for public settings as it applies to the country or area, there will hardly be an issue.

Getting in a Fight

It’s just not worth it to get in a fight on a plane, no matter how much the person annoys you. It’s similar to how useless it is to get in a roadside fight with someone over their crappy driving. In the end, the two of you are only going to cross paths temporarily, after which you might never see each other again. So, why risk embarrassing yourself by getting in a fight? Flight attendants typically don’t waste time in removing aggressive fliers from the plane, particularly if all attempts to calm them down are futile. It doesn’t matter who started it or who is at fault, it simply will not be tolerated on a plane, especially getting in a fight with a flight attendant. If the plane is in motion when a fight breaks out, and the flier refuses to calm down or stop being aggressive, he/she will naturally be removed from the flight immediately the plane touches down.

Blatantly Ignoring Requests to Turn Off Your Mobile Devices

If you throw a tantrum or react aggressively to being told by a flight attendant to turn off your mobile devices, or if you blatantly ignore such a request, chances are you are going to be thrown off the plane. However, if you simply forget to turn off your mobile device and it maybe rings on the tarmac, no flight attendant is going to harass you. They’ll simply remind you to turn it off. As long as you are not throwing a tantrum or being aggressive and unreasonable with a flight attendant’s polite request, you’re hardly going to be thrown off that plane.

Being Drunk

If you appear drunk or act drunk, you might get thrown off a plane or not even be allowed to board in the first place. Visibly intoxicated passengers are typically not allowed on flights; the same thing applies if a passenger appears to be under the influence of drugs. Most airline reserve the right to refuse to transport passengers that appear to be intoxicated or under the influence of drugs.

Source: http://www.opinions.ng/4-sure-ways-get-thrown-off-flight/

makydebbie:
Lol. "my friend" most used facade. Anyways, whoever is far from the truth. Forgot to add, 98% of male nlders are hypocrites.

jezuzboi:
Guys grow up with the idea that they’re supposed to do something when they find a lady they like. People often make phrases like; “IF YOU LIKE HER, YOU’VE GOT TO GO FOR HER AT ONCE BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE DOES.” There’s always this pressure to “GO FOR HER”, and it makes most guys feel INADEQUATE.

The African society burdens us with the responsibility of making the “first move.” What people don’t know is that many of us guys have not been taught how to do anything. So we just walk through life seeing ladies we are attracted to without being able to do anything. Truth be told, THAT’S A GUY’S LIFE.

However, there are some sets of guys who approach EVERY LADY, whether they LIKE THEM OR NOT. There are some other sets of guys who approach EVERY LADY THEY LIKE. But it’ll amaze you to know that these two sets of guys put together constitute only 8% of guys in the world. Unbelievable, right?

From the remaining 92%, 22% NEVER APPROACH ANY LADY, while the remaining 70% are the SHY GUYS who always do nothing more than WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MOMENT to approach a lady. You know what’s worse? This right moment never comes because these guys are not really good at judging when the right moment actually is.

To top it off, when we’ve managed to tell ourselves when the right moment is, we run short of ideas on how to go about maximizing the long-awaited right moment. This explains why many ladies constantly experience guys walking up to them to act weird and do some really creepy stuff.

It has become a major concern in today’s world because the ladies are not enjoying advances from the many guys who find them appealing and worth being with, hence the increasing number SPINSTERS. This situation begs for an answer to this question; SHOULD THE LADIES START BEING MORE PROACTIVE in order to get the guys to DO SOMETHING?

We’re in a world where ladies blurt words like; IF A GUY DOESN’T HAVE THE BALLS TO APPROACH ME, HE’S NOT THE KIND OF GUY I WANT. Ladies, how correct am I about that? Forgive my language, but I think a lady who says a thing like that is CRAZY!!! For crying out loud, THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY!!! Now, this is why I say you’re crazy.

Do you have any idea how many ladies a guy gets attracted to in a day? What do you think will become of the male folk if we start running after every single lady we’re attracted to? Won’t you call us HORSES and make statements like; GUYS ARE DEVILS!!! THEY’RE ALL THE SAME!!! Shhhhhh!!! You’re wrong!!! ALL GUYS ARE NOT THE SAME!!! Now, back to business.

The idea of NOT BEING INTERESTED in any man who lacks the balls to approach you is ridiculous!!! Know this; out of 30 ladies a guy gets attracted to, he might end up approaching just 1 of them after spending an eternity to find the right moment to make a move. I believe you must be wondering when this RIGHT MOMENT is. Here’s what it is.

To a guy, the RIGHT MOMENT is the moment when he feels it’s easy enough to do make a move. Moments that present too many hurdles is a NO-NO for a guy. If you’re the kind of lady that spends moments with your big group of friends, he’ll never come to you no matter how attractive he finds you to be.

If you appear too busy, he won’t make any move on you at that moment. Also, if you get to spend time often with a particular male friend or several male friends who have nothing to do with you, a shy guy will avoid you like a plague and chose to let the feelings he has for you to suffocate him. His conclusion is that YOU’RE TAKEN, when you’re not.

But many ladies have argued this analogy, saying they’ve been in a position where almost every guy who got attracted to them walked up to them and asked them out. While that is true, it has a downside. Do you remember me saying there are sets of guys who approach EVERY LADY/EVERY LADY THEY LIKE? They amount to just 8% of guys in the world. Now, those are the sets of guys those ladies are talking about.

They are the once who break your heart because they have the balls to go for every lady they like. You don’t expect them to stick around for so long when there are lots of pretty ladies they find appealing, do you? These sets of guys are usually the loudest guys in the room and on the streets. So, the next time you call guys PLAYERS, know that you’re referring to just 8% of guys in the world. There’s 92% somewhere that might never cross your path.

So, if you always hold back and wait for the guys to MAKE THE MOVE, chances are; you’ll either meet a PLAYER or accumulate thousands of SECRET ADMIRERS. I know for a fact that no girl likes a guy to PLAY ON HER even when she’s PLAYING ON HIM. So what can the female folk do to arrest this situation and reduce the number of SPINSTERS?

It’s about time women faced the reality of things and understand that an overwhelming percentage of guys are the potential spouses they pray for. Sadly, these guys lack guts!!! But a lady can do much to help out these sets of guys and help themselves ultimately. What do I mean by that?

I’m not saying you should make the move on a guy. But you must always endeavor to give a guy the LICENSE TO MAKE THE MOVE. If you are that 1 lady among 30 ladies who makes it easy for him, you’re definitely the one he’ll take his chances with. Ladies, please don’t get it twisted. I’m not saying you should BE EASY. What I’m saying is that you should make yourself EASY AND APPROACHABLE enough for a guy to dare to take his chances.

When he finally does and the tension between you too is eased, you can go back to being the real you. By so doing, you have succeeded in opening the door for the guy to walk in. It will then be left for him to make the best of the opportunity you’ve afforded him; and trust me, these guys will NEVER DISAPPOINT YOU. How difficult can that be?

The number of SPINSTERS in this part of the world is becoming ALARMING and really needs to be curtailed. Every passing day, ladies are becoming more and more DESPERATE without knowing what to do to secure a man for herself. OPENING UP TO SHY GUYS is one sure way of getting the problem solved because these guys hate adventure.

Once they get their hands on a girl, it doesn’t cross their minds to get another girl. Sadly, these 70% are still single and unengaged, just like the SPINTERS. Who is to blame for this? And who is more affected? Many would blame the SHY GUYS. But I put it to you that THE LADIES ARE TO BLAME!!! Remember, a guy can marry at any time.

If he finds the right moment when he’s 50 years of age, he’ll definitely marry at that age (even to a 20-year-old girl). But the same cannot be said about a woman. Once her season is gone, it may never return. So please my sisters, WISE UP and embrace the mindset of the WESTERNERS profitably!!! Enough of that AFRICAN MENTALITY!!!

Kizito2nv:
My babe's birthday is next month and she says she wants to celebrate it its her 20th,
don't have that kind of money,

she says there's a guy an old friend who wants to sponsor the whole event for her, we don't have any problems in our relationship probably because I try not to find out if she is playing, cos i am old enough to understand that when u start looking for fault in Ur partner u will definitely find one, and am not ready to quit this one yet,
she hasn't given me concrete reason to fault her either i love her so much, and she has always expressed same towards me safe to say everything is fine between us

. Am a fresh graduate this is my first year in civil service and the job is really not paying enough to sustain me though the job is really promising guess that's why she is still with me, cos i don't really meet up to her financial demands for now,

she said the guy takes her like a sister but me no gree no guy does this kind of thing for free, just asked her if the guy knows she is dating someone she said no well i told her i can't attend if he doesn't know that, though i told her I wanted to take her out on the Sunday of the birthday then she told me she already accepted the guy take charge of her birthday party, am not yet her husband nor fiancee so I can't force not too,

it's not easy not spending the birthday with her and seriously i don't know our feature after that party i still stand on not going for the party i just wish someone out here can profer a better alternative i will appreciate thanks in advance
and one more thing she is very beautiful

tintingz:
What she did and in the movies are same case, videography.

I only pointed out your flaws when you mentioned "statue of liberty", if the school is against what did in-line with the rules, she doesn't deserve that level of punishment, what if pee on the statue?

If the school have no rules to backup their actions, she has every right to sue the school for damages.

tintingz:
Are you saying one can't twerk on statue of liberty? What then is the liberty attached to it.

A lot of movies has made fun, jokes of the statue of liberty(that's if you watch Hollywood movies) and no law charged them to court.

Philipmems:
Continue basking in your useless ignorance, how dare you compare the statue of liberty to that rubbish worthless statue in Unilag. It's obvious you are such a waste of sperm, I am sure your parents are proud of producing your kind. My only advice to people like you who have nothing upstairs is that you should try and travel out of your comfort zone so that you can understand the world better. Respect for institution? Dummy .. the institution that does not respect you.

unmask:
you are the ignorant one.....so if someone dances in front of/with the statue of liberty.....he/she will go to jail abi?

You guys are so shackled in your thinking process that I wonder how you survive this long.

Substitute the dancing lady with a dancing pastor or a person that kisses the statue and let us see how you will judge

Nonesense

Philipmems:
Is Nigeria this useless? So what she danced with a statue, an inanimate object. That is the ground for rustication? Unbelievable, I can't believe the so called half baked professor that is the VC will approve such a judgment on a student for dancing "clothed" with a useless piece of rock... Unbelievable.

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

Jared77:
Without much ado, what's that romanceland story you have read that you couldn't help contorting your face in pure disgust as to the sheer horror of it?

Here's mine:

It happened during last year. A certain nairalander ( who I ain't inclined to mention his moniker) was so Hot and could think of no better remedy to combat his sexual frustration other than journeying far into the heart of the east to score teenage pussy, but got rejected for the lousy perverted skank that he rightly is, only for the arrogant pig to come online next day and started bellowing aggressively in rage over his loss.

Needless to say, he trolled her savagely for weeks she had to flee this section so as to keep the sore loser off her trail.

Of course this does not warrant much concern, but then you learn said nairalander is in his fifthies and should be expecting his grandkids any moment from now...

To say I was embarrassed on his behalf is a huge understatement.

It's quite sad and shameful that you have to share a planet with such human. Really sad. Smh.

zaramgrand:
Men, Don't go into a relationship if u can't afford to take care of her needs....