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babtaima:
Hello guys.... So my recent gf is supposedly getting white knighted (getting tons of guys chasing after her like hell i.e giving her phone calls every minute) because she's beautiful, the white Knight beta guys be ruining things for us the real guys.. so I discovered this excessive white Knighting makes her think i should be the only one initiating contact i.e doing the calling etc (She does call me but it's not much and looks silly and short), so i cut contact starting from Sunday and I'm busy with my own life as well, she hasn't called since... I'm not planning on calling soon until she calls, I've talked to her about this but it seems this white Knights and family upbringing has wired her brain to expect the guy to do the calling....

Summary:
She loves me, we have the wildest moments when we're together and alone, great romance, she calls but rarely, we started seeing seriously last week and she's never disappointed on a date, last Sunday she was really held tight with her family issues but she still made it for our independence outing of which she paid for drinks etc but she waits for me to initiate everything.. i can't date a robot! i always do the touching, kissing, etc love is 50/50.. both parties investing.. she just like Siri waiting for my command, call, action etc... I'm guessing she's used to guys doing everything for her (white Knights) advice guys.. because i won't call.. this is day 3 without contact, I'm sure she's craving for my attention while being white Knight by those bets .



PS: I'm controlling her Facebook and Instagram(11k) account of which she has thousands of followers.. and i can see and read all those crazy guys messages calling her 'my love' etc ;

nairavsdollars:
A fool at 65...and to imagine this is the legbere shouting ourmumudondo..asking Diezani to be extradited so she can get bail here and case closed..
Ole

iwuteojoma:
Since I was a teenager I have never dated anyone till now am 24 years old. It because am fat.Being fat has made me so mad at my self and guys because they are only attracted to the slim girls.I try not to like a guy but if I do I beat my self up asking myself if am not ashamed of having such thought at all.Being fat made me unhappy especially in public I hardly smile,i feel like anyone who smiles at me or just looks at me is mocking me...Am so lonely that I cry my self to bed most of the times..I love to sing and I have a beautiful voice but the fear of singing in public is so consuming..If a guy mistakenly say hi to me I get angry. There's this guy in my working place,damn,he is so handsome and I really like him and because I do,i hate his presence... People say being fat is not bad,but they are the same people that see fat people as comedians...Am just tired of it all..But I really don't blame guys for loving the sexy girls..But do i deserve I love? That the question I keep asking my self..

zombieHUNTER:
Stop contradicting yourself Mr Yoruba Muslim
You must be related to lai Mohammed

MarieSucre:
Look who is saying someone has brain damage. My friend shut up!! Nobody cares about your opinion. If you don't like it then go and look for Kim in her house and beat her stop disturbing us here on nairaland, ewu Gambia.

MrBigiman:
The current administration have been a darling of the public, having turned for good the indiscretions of the previous government. Personally, I would love to give the current President 70%, because he has spoken about key areas and ensured that those areas are well tackled.

The other question that will naturally arise would be, why are there then so many agitators against the current government eg "Our Mumu don do group", truth crusaders and even the now proscribed Ipob miscreants? The answer is simple. Majority of Nigerians are taking advantage of the good political will to engage in laudable activities and project, while the remaining few are noise maker who are uncomfortable with the new order of things. Take for example Nnamdi Kanu who said Nigerian was indivisible previously when the Jonathan loots was flowing in, now asking for secession, or the BBOG group keeping mute now that significant progress have been made. From N-power, to road construction to electricity, to transport and even income generation, the BUhari administration have been a darling.

Score the president and let us discuss

CC: Sarki

Confused977:
Good afternoon everyone here. I have been an ardent of this forum so, I felt it wouldn't be bad to bare my heart here as I know I'd surely get an advice that will make me see clearer. Please bear with me as I am not very perfect when it comes to expressing my self in writing. Pls pardon my write-up should you see it as too long. I just want to bare it all so one can know what to tell me. Thanks.
My Name is Amanda. I lost my parents when I was sixteen . I am from a family of five. I was about to sit for WAEC before the sudden demise of my parents. I had to drop out of school cus I couldn't pay bills and my older siblings were still struggling, so I got a job. I worked as a cleaner say for 2 years and I was able to save up something and enrolled for WAEC AND GCE and I passed. I tried my first admission it didn't so the second year someone told me to try a Polytechnic and fortunately I got admitted. I joined school but I kept working and I saved up some bucks and at the end of my ND at federal poly Auchi my G. P was 3.40 yes! I cried for joy.
I. T (Industrial Training) started and I felt it would make more sense If I could start something little within my environment. Since I knew a lot about female bags and wears I held on to the idea and started. My customer base grew as I went from department to department showing and convincing the "big girls" in school about my goods. I approached just anybody so long you female. I kept moving at that pace until I was heavily sought after. My room became my boutique.
Why I am confused now
All glory to God I have been able to establish a good relationship with people who sale to me on credit which allows me own varieties and sell more.
1. Not to exaggerate, I make a minimum of 40 to 45k a month as my own.
2. I ain't rich but I think I am comfortable for a young lady of my age. I will be 24 3rd October.
I focused more on my business and I didn't join my mates for the HND session. My reason was; after school now, I go carry certificate they Waka up and down. Make I kuku use this small money wey I don save use am run my business first as I thought school can wait. could I be wrong?

# I have a course mate who traveled overseas after our ND and she has been encouraging me to come over since I could afford the travel expenses (not to lie, I was considering this also which made me forget going back for my HND.)
Now my question is if you were me would you go back to school? I am of the opinion that schooling in Nigeria without a good back up could leave me frustrated after graduation. No job.
# if you were me would you just continue with your business and open up a shop or would you travel out, get a job and go to school there?
Pls advice Me as I would be turning 24 in no time and I am JUST CONFUSED I have the feeling that any decision I make at this point would either make or destroy me permanently. Pls help a sister
Should I go back to school? cus my dad always wanted me to get an education but I feel I should be able to know what works as times have changed.
Pls I am open to any form of advice. God bless.
Cc. Lalasticlala, seun or any mod. I'd appreciate if you can move it to the right section or where it could get a wider view. Thanks
Thorpido
Raine80 et all...
BiafranBushboy
Hakeem4
I can't really remember usernames

hatedisplace:
have you paid for s.x with her?

MarieSucre:
cc
slyfoxxjoe
Backinfront
beamtopola
Apina

So a stripper/prostitute it whatever silly name y'all want to call her is no longer a citizen se, and we wonder why Nigeria is backward with your likes as citizens.

Did she strip for you? Or did you mother teach her the stripping? Where do the evidence if her prostitution or you don't know what the definition of prostitution is?

Don't go and face your country and your president? Be attacking people online who don't even know you exist.

casa101:
Please can anyone connect me to a Priest/Pastor in fact anyone that can help me with Deliverance that is not fake.

I am 29 yrs old Medical Doctor. I stay in Lagos and work in a hospital(name withheld). My story started yrs ago wen I was very small that is in pri. Sch. Then I used to have sex in my dreams but never discussed it with any1 bc I don't know what to call it. But the sex in my dreams continued till date.

Again at a time I got worried but i bluffed it saying it was just a dream that it meant nothing. But now it seems it meant something after all.

During all those years till now I always have issues with relationships. Once I sleep or starts sleeping with any girlfriend of mine within 1wk the friendship ends especially if it is someone I planned dating.

But I observed something too then any girl that is just a friend but just sleeps with me in terms of mutual/friends with benefits without any luv or r/ship thing attached to the end used to last.

So when I noticed it I started keeping girls as just friends or mutual one. Luckily I got plenty for mutual friends but what baffled me most was that one that i used to sleep with in my 100l to 200l said one day "nawaoo why can't I get pregnant for you upon we have been sleeping together for over a yr without condom and yet she never take in. I became worried and decided to go for sperm analysis test. It came out fine but when another girl said the same thing again last 3yrs. I decided to find 3 runs girls that I paid to be having sex with me during their window periods to see if they will take in and willing to abort. From the day I started sleeping with them none ever took in. They said Oga you have a problem, go and get help". Note that we carried test on the 3 of them and it showed they are fertile and fit to get pregnant. But I never looked for an answer till date.

But then on Friday I went out with a friend that i planed dating but yet to sleep with her but that night it happened.

Hell broke loose yesterday when she called me yesterday and was so angry with me saying.. In her words "why did u not tell me you have a marine wife "?.. I was like what?.. She then continued saying that have I ever asked myself why can't i get into a serious r/ships , my episodes of sex in my dreams and getting someone pregnant. Don't you know the person you are sleeping with in your dreams?".. I was shocked bc of how she knew?

I asked her who told her and how come she knew about this problem?.. When I knew that I have never discussed it with her or anyone. She now said she met with my spiritual wife and that I should forget getting r/ship, married or having kids without her permission. I should seek for her(spiritual wife). Then as for her I should never talk to her about love and r/ship unless I want to just be having sex with her which she permitted her to give me. Besides she is an Ogbanje so I should not be surprised as she knew..

Now I seriously need a deliverance bc it is now giving me worries.. I will appreciate any help pls. Thank you

instinct57vm:
Ok so, I will run through this quickly..although it never happened to me but I observed it has happened to a number of guys...I will talk about the most recent one.. HERE I GO
A friend of mine told me he sent a babe a total sum of 10K for tfare from one state to another, normally the tfare shouldn't be more than 3K max but he added 7k based on the babe's request to make her hair and subscribe data.. lo and behold...this babe refused to turn up...since the cash hit her account, she's been avoiding my friend, firstly she blocked him on whatsapp and subsequently barred his calls...here's my question for the guys.. when such happened to u how did u handle it? and my question for the ladies? what warrants a lady behave in this manner?

instinct57vm:
Ok so, I will run through this quickly..although it never happened to me but I observed it has happened to a number of guys...I will talk about the most recent one.. HERE I GO
A friend of mine told me he sent a babe a total sum of 10K for tfare from one state to another, normally the tfare shouldn't be more than 3K max but he added 7k based on the babe's request to make her hair and subscribe data.. lo and behold...this babe refused to turn up...since the cash hit her account, she's been avoiding my friend, firstly she blocked him on whatsapp and subsequently barred his calls...here's my question for the guys.. when such happened to u how did u handle it? and my question for the ladies? what warrants a lady behave in this manner?

supersystemsnig:
Is it appropriate for a guy to be 100% honest when cultivating a new friendship with a lady he hopes to build a relationship with?

Lately i hear people say, ladies ask what are your goals? What are your financial prospects? How much do you earn?

Is it right for a guy to answer genuinely these questions with 100% honesty?


I'm old school, and was instituted to believe as trust is built, more of these can be revealed, am i wrong? What are the basics and limits a guy can reveal to a lady he wants to ask out on a relationship?


Help a brother... Guys, what do you suggest?

Sisters help a brother out

Holyfield1:
Now this is what I call "Player"

Dude knew the biitch was in for the money and inheritance

AutoReportNG:
I doubt if Innoson manufactured these cars...

I think a thread countered these Innoson cars been displayed here some weeks ago

See more pictures and how they work here...

http://www.autoreportng.com/2017/09/these-are-cars-manufactured-by.html

Sabrina18:
Use style and be looking for new boyfriend, narcissists are devil.