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There are such people as professional match makers. I'm suprised at some of these responses.

^^ Yeah, apparently. Perception is everything, wow.

Dolemite:
It is infact a terrible sin, see when you smoke it, you get high which could be considered as entering another state of consciousness - the bible sees that as sorcery and witchcraft, because God doesn't want you to be in that state - at least not with his permission, and the knowledge of weed was given to man by abonimations between the union of angels and earthly women. So if you believe in the whole Christianity religion, you shouldn't be smoking weed. . .i'm a non-believer and in my books weed is perfectly ok! [color=#990000][/color]

LMAOOOOOOO

my heart goes out to you. Wish I knew what to say

You know you're watching a nollywood movie when you're cracking up, dying of laughter because the movie is so funny,  even though its not even a comedy movie.

I find it interesting how Africans believe that people are born with dreadlocks, and Carribeans believe that it is something that is made.

I'm no pastor, but some would say that it becomes a sin when it is used so much that it clouds your judgement and modifies your character. HOWEVER, some would also claim then that such things as caffeine and medications as benzodiazapines (psychoactive drugs) would be considered sinful to use too. The way that I see it is if it causes harm to me or to anyone in any way be it directly or indirectly, chances are it is sinful to use.


Hope that helps.

_{I personally, dont use marijuana because am allergic to it (dont ask me how I found out).}

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lmaooooooooooooooooo

^^^ omg ROFLMAO

Okay edited;


1.- Intelligence
2.- Power/Influence
3.- Confidence/Swagga
4.- Wealth/Affluence
5.- Good Looks 
6.-  Height

If Integrity was on that list, it would have been #1.
In my opinion, once he has1 to 3, he is bound to look good, so 5 and 6 doesnt really matter.

I've met two haitian men. Dated one too briefly to make up any fair judgements on him. The other was a co worker and dare I say the most romantic one at that. Him and his wife had one car. They did not have any kids. He had two jobs and his wife had one. YET he would have his wife take the car to work and back while he used public transportation to both his jobs. His reason was that that way, she would not be too tired to make a meal when she gets home. Sensible too, this man.
I work in a female dominated field. Never once have I seen this man flirt with his co workers. He'd always call his wife his "sweetheart" even though she wasnt there to ensure he did. He'd call her from work and spoke of her to us (his coworkers) often.

And they were not even newlyweds. He was not a young man, so I'd suspect they'd been married for decades.
Its men like that, that make me want to change my mind and get married.

Bless his heart, I'll never forget him. May God bless their marriage.

pokenosity? google's never heard of that word

Thank you.
5 WHOLE MINUTES?!

Aww, i feel honored.

see your head! No, i meant thanks for depressing me as in I've been hoping to go visit for a while (wish I was there this minute) but you reminded me of just how far I am away from home.

now you get it? good. Now calm down please, its not that serious.

_{[s]before you get high blood pressure for nothing[/s]}

Oh what a great story! I'll have to keep that in mind. That means no shopping for me this month! gotta save

InesQor:
SO I assume you are in Naija. . . "you said BRING your wallet along"

But I need to meet the family first!

I wish. No, am not in Naija but thanks for depressing a sista.
I was merely advising you. You'll need your wallet, Nigerian priests dont play lol

lol meet the family? lol you get issues

go to naija, you'll find lots of priests (bring your wallet along sha)

lol you two like SERIOUSLY have issues (no joke, u do)

oh wow!

@InesQor,

ROFLMAO!!! I had already forgotten about that eye joke lolllll!


No worries, your joke was still funny

InesQor:
The girl that had an eye for her guy!

What on earth does that mean?

joker

confusedl:
well you are not alone in this.

Personally I do feel same and I have not made love with my husband for more than a year now, though this is not something I planned initially when I wanted to marry him but circumstances surrounding the relationship led to this.

He cheated, lied and he kept doing it, does not contribute to the marriage in any way, does not really have interest in the marriage anymore. He was not like that when we got married, got some advice from his mum, that I was too fertile, like he said he is scared of getting me pregnant, but he enjoys himself outside.

I must say that the bond intimacy creates in marriage cannot be quantified and once there is not intimacy in marriage there is no marriage.

I have two kids in a marriage of 3 years Feb this year, and in this three years we have only had intimacy like 5 times and God so did it that I was able to get pregnant and have two kids, now I have resigned to fate, cos he initially started it, refused to touch me for more than 8 months, so I zeroed my mind towards intimacy, though once in a while he ask for it these days like ones in three month, I do not have interest anymore and I just tell him I am not interested.

He cannot blame me for this, when he started I reported to my people and his people but everyone looked at it as if i was just making noice, he is catching his fun wherever, believing I am that decorating item in his house.

My kids are all I care about now, they are my life and everything.

Nigeria is such a place were we have no places for marriage counselling, that would have been of great help but all we rely on when we have such problems is our Pastors and what they preach to us, and most of the time we are unlucky to fall into the hands of those who will deceive us, that is why I rely on prayers for my problems.

I will advice you to read books, trust in God and pray without ceasing, he will see you through but as much as you can if he ask you for intimacy do not deny him, because as you have stated you did not mention anything like he is cheating on you or so, that is why my case is different, he cheated on me to the extent that I do not trust him anymore or believe in him.

My heart goes out to you

Shanice111:
I feel quite sorry for this poster. Your parents no matter how much they love you will not always be right. I have seen ibo to ibo marriages fail and some work. If you love this man know his family and you are sure it can work marry him. Who says all ibo men are good? Parents who were born when there was no internet , space travel or nairaland (no pun intended) are predicting a future they do not know based on past events? Who says yoruba men are still prone to polygamy or ibo men still use their wives for money ( these are widely known sterotypes). Look no tribe in Nigeria is holier than the other we are all one huge mess. Marry the man that makes u happy biko? Before you regret for the rest of your life!!!!!

right!!!

MINAY2K:
so u stil dey luv girl wey dey wet your bed,
it seems smtin is wrong wit u upstairs or beterstil let me say u guyz re just compatable
so my advise 4 u b say make u dey wake her up evry 10mnt go wee b4 your bed go turm bed fountain

, and if this was you who was wetting the bed nko?