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CrimeRe: Ghanaians Destroying Shops & Goods Of Nigerians Worth Millions by Arexit: 6:10pm On Jun 19, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin how times have changed grin grin grin grin
so this is NIGERIA MUST GO i guess
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Just Destroyed Buhari With This Post by Arexit: 5:56pm On Jun 12, 2019
I am no longer Buhari’s fan but legislatures under military? Common na!
PoliticsRe: Don't Incite Military To Overthrow Buhari Govt - Opposition Warned by Arexit: 8:23pm On Jun 01, 2019
Then tell the govt to live up to it’s responsibility
PoliticsRe: Muhammadu Buhari: The Poor President In A Rich Nation by Arexit: 10:34am On Jun 01, 2019
if you think travelling up and down while your citizens go through this is a sign of a good man, i really hope god treats you with this kind of goodness

"Horror in the kidnappers’ den

It took me a long time of reflections to put this piece together. First, let me thank my husband for the emotional support, the counselling and for his belief in the creator of heaven and earth which we call God or Allah.
The journey began in Auchi. We had travelled to Akure on a Monday, stayed with my husband’s relations in the outskirt of this ancient town. In the evening of Monday, we visited the palace for dinner, my husband being a close friend to son of the King.
On Tuesday, we left for Ibadan, via the Akure-Ilesa road. Our plan was that after attending the wedding in Auchi, we would travel with (my husband) to Lagos, stay for few weeks before returning abroad where I had lived with my husband and children for more than a decade. We were in the car of a close family friend, an accountant who gave his time and energy for our comfort.

We were five in the car, myself, my husband, our daughter, a lady who is my husband’s niece who had joined us in Akure with the hope of travelling with us to Lagos.
The driver accountant maintained a normal speed. He drove professionally. That gave me a lot of comfort and I felt I could find time to sleep a bit. My daughter was next to me, just 9. She was coming to Nigeria with me for the second time.
Shortly after the Ijare junction, the driver felt the wagon’s tires ruptured and decided to pack the car with the hope of changing the tires.

It was like a film. In a jiffy, motley crowd of armed men in military uniform came out of the bush. They fired at the boot of the car. Ahead of us, five of them came out of the bush, another two came from the rear. My daughter screamed: “Mummy, daddy, what’s going on”. There was no time to say a word. They marched us through into the bush, firing into the sky. They hit me on my chest, hit my daughter on her head, blood oozed. At this time, it was better to kill me. I shouted at one of the armed men. His response was hell. He went straight for my private part, tore my dress with his gun. The others ripped my dresses. I was left with my undies. My husband and my daughter started crying. Two of them dug their teeth into my breasts.
While attending a secondary school in Adamawa, I had lived with some Fulani, so I understand a few Fulani words. I started pleading, at least for my daughter. To my shock, at gun point, they removed the dress of my little girl, one of them carried her on his head as my baby struggled, shouting “Daddy, mummy, what’s going on. Help me.”

I could not help myself. We were marched for 9 hours. I was half Unclad. My daughter was totally Unclad. A felt her tears was like a stream of blood on her cheek. Our phones had been seized. We ended up in an ungoverned region in the thick of the forest. We met a well organized group.
There were some kidnapped victims, I saw two women, two ladies and three men. There were some people with their legs chained to trees. They were as if half dead. We were separated. I was separated from my husband. My daughter was taken away. I only heard her scream intermittently. I did not know what they were doing to her.
These men, now about two dozen had a full kitchen, they had a huge camp and a traditional medical team. But the camps appear isolated from each other. We heard noises afar indicating it might be nuclear settlements of camps. Right in my presence, I saw them pack the remains of a woman. They took her and buried her few meters away from us. She had tribal marks.
I cannot describe the agony of 6 days in captivity in this little piece. I cannot talk about how they asked my husband to choose between myself being raped or that his daughter be raped. My husband broke down in uncontrollable tears. One of them hit him saying “Yoruba bastard, you dey cry. Idiot.”
They now gave him the option that he should be raped by one homosexual among them. My husband is a devout Muslim. He told them homosexual and rape of any kind was against Islam. They hit him with the butt of AK 47: “What do you know about Islam?”
You can imagine, you are being asked to choose between being raped by a homosexual, your daughter, just nine years old, or your wife being raped? They gave the forth option, if you fail to choose, they would rape my daughter, rape my husband and rape me.
I made myself the sacrificial lamb. My husband begged, saying they should name their price. One of them asked him to bend down. Three beastly criminals sat on his back, jumping until he was too weak to stand. I was not allowed to put on any additional cloth on my body for 24 hours. The rain fell once. I became the relic and a sexual museum for the armed men who in turn addressed me and asked questions about my financial standing. New Fulani men joined the camp. They organized military training for the new Fulani men that came, teaching them how to shoot and walk through circles of glowing fire.
We were not released until after 6 days. We had to walk the same zik-zag journey back to the main road, our eyes blindfolded. During the negotiation to pay, they said the money was not for them alone that they had to settle “those who send us”. For me, I see a thriving, organized crime supported by powerful political interests.
Now, I do not think we were released to freedom after paying a whopping 8 million naira. I do not think we can ever be free, we can never be free, from the anguish, the psychological trauma, the nightmares we suffered, the occasional fits of our daughter, her waking up midnight behaving strangely, her asking the same question over and over: “Mummy, mummy, why?. Why.?” I do not have any answer.
In my life, I have never passed through a torture chamber like this. I do not think any society should let this happen. I do not know the fate of those we met, and about 7 other people brought during the 6 days we were in captivity. What I saw was a nation that has collapsed but pretends she lives, a people on life support. Crime is not restricted to Fulani people alone. We have Yoruba criminals. But I don’t Yoruba criminals are not as beastly. These elements are savages. I can’t imagine Yoruba thieves going to Sokoto or Maiduguri to kidnap Fulani people and keep them in their own bushes. It gives me mental torture that this is happening and some fools are even trying to justify or look for excuses.
Well, as a devout Muslim, myself and my family have taken solace in Allah, not the Nigerian police, not the Army, not the governments. We have taken our faith the way it came. I thank God that we have successfully returned to where we live, thousands of miles from Nigeria. We thank God that we have made a vow: Never shall me, any of my children or husband in our lifetime visit Nigeria. Our remains any time we die, will also not be buried in Nigeria. It was a suggestion by my daughter which we all adopted.
I pity the country. I pity her people who continuously walk like the living dead. I pity those who parade themselves as leaders, because they know nothing about what is going on and the abyss the country sunk already.

I pity Yoruba people, oh, I pity you. I pity my people. For me the issue is not about President Buhari. Democracy can produce anything, even the worst in the society.

What I worry about is the conspiracy of silence by the people themselves, the ignorance, the treachery and the illusion that one day, things will get better through another election.

Since I was born in Nigeria, each year had led from bad to worse and on and on. I do not have a solution to what is going on, but I think very soon, hell will let loose upon the earth as long as there is no law and order and anarchy and the rule of brutes is the order of the day.
Once again, there cannot be anything more comforting than my husband who saw what I went through but has been able to encourage me and even encouraged me to write this little piece after months of agony and sociological imbalance. Good night Nigerians.

Copied from a forum of Nigerian Women in Diaspora"
PoliticsRe: “Corrupt Nigerians Will Come After Me In 2023” - President Buhari by Arexit: 9:17am On May 28, 2019
Good you know
RomanceRe: Nigerian Woman Delivers A Baby On Board Turkish Airline. by Arexit: 10:10am On May 25, 2019
The baby no gree wait reach America?
PoliticsRe: Nuhu Ribadu Represents Buhari In Court by Arexit:
bluecircle470:
He’s not in PDP so you can’t like him
He was then he wasn’t, then he was now he isn’t, oh before I forget at a point he was in Ac or is it acn and was disrespectful to then candidate buhari.

Like I said I don’t like him cos of the way he talks
PoliticsRe: Nuhu Ribadu Represents Buhari In Court by Arexit: 3:17pm On May 14, 2019
gaskiyamagana:
It was in built or inherited.
More the way he talks
PoliticsRe: Nuhu Ribadu Represents Buhari In Court by Arexit: 3:16pm On May 14, 2019
RichBoy247:
Criminals never like cops all over the world.
You mean the any govt in power political prostit*te?
PoliticsRe: Nuhu Ribadu Represents Buhari In Court by Arexit: 3:14pm On May 14, 2019
ekestic1976:
That's hardly surprising! Is your name not Daniel Agbote son of PA Agbote the Cobbler? Your dad was a gentleman, liked by everyone in our community. But he died a sad man because you never showed him any love and to a lesser degree, any likeness. So you see, it'II be asking too much from a first-born son who didn't love his father to love Nuhu Ribadu, an unknown stranger! cool cool cool cool
I’m guessing you are proud of yourself now?
PoliticsRe: Nuhu Ribadu Represents Buhari In Court by Arexit: 12:25pm On May 14, 2019
Never liked this guy, don’t know why
PoliticsRe: No Alternative Plan To Combat Insecurity Now, Says President Buhari by Arexit: 1:37pm On May 06, 2019
Next level
PoliticsRe: Buhari Under Fire For Offering Fulani Militia Bandits Of 100 Billion Naira by Arexit: 1:39pm On May 05, 2019
Buhari and gang at it again, if By now anyone is not getting that this whole not fighting kidnapping thing is a leg up to allow the gang get resources to buy outrageous amount of weapons and import fellow bandits for the planned wipeout then that person needs his head checked.

If ransoms can cause this much havoc, imagine what 100b will do
PoliticsRe: Buhari’s 10-day UK Private Visit Ends Today by Arexit: 9:27am On May 05, 2019
I feel really bad for this country, this man does not give a hoot about anything or anybody but himself and his gang of bandits!
PoliticsRe: Unlike Jonathan, Buhari's Administration Witnessed Gross Destruction Of Nigeria' by Arexit: 9:33pm On May 04, 2019
Hahahaha! goodluck even though bad is looking really really good right now. Buhari is the biggest scam from every angle you try to look at it. London flexing n^^ga
PoliticsRe: I Only Owe Four Months’ Salaries - Kogi State Governor, Yahaya Bello by Arexit: 1:11am On Apr 30, 2019
... and I’m sure yours is not part of it! Useless people
PoliticsRe: Buhari – Absent With His House On Fire By Tunde Asaju by Arexit: 9:23am On Apr 29, 2019
shame
PoliticsRe: Buhari Can Rule Nigeria From Anywhere In The World - Presidency by Arexit: 12:30pm On Apr 28, 2019
Mtseeeww! angry
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Govt Approves N52bn For Monitoring Of Borders by Arexit: 6:48pm On Apr 26, 2019
TheMoniker:
grin
As usual, it’ll end up in someone’s pocket.
We are fighting corruption grin
The one we are doing here is kwaraftion
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Govt Approves N52bn For Monitoring Of Borders by Arexit: 6:46pm On Apr 26, 2019
Story! new sets of civil service billionaire loading....
PoliticsRe: President Buhari To Depart Nigeria To UK On A Private Visit by Arexit: 10:12am On Apr 25, 2019
I hope he is flying commercial
PoliticsRe: Sani: Northern Leaders Acted Like Tigers Under Jonathan, Like A Lamb Under Buhar by Arexit: 10:28am On Apr 14, 2019
its really highly disappointing
PoliticsRe: Ortom Defected Because I Told Him The Truth About Herdsmen - Buhari by Arexit: 9:44am On Apr 11, 2019
It’s better for this man to just shut up
PoliticsRe: Buhari: I’m One Of The Unhappiest Leaders In The World by Arexit: 11:22am On Apr 07, 2019
You have failed woefully so just shut the hell up!
PoliticsRe: Who Is The Biggest Scam Of All by Arexit: 11:18am On Apr 07, 2019
Buhari himself
CrimeRe: Fulani Herdsman Cuts Off Woman’s Four Fingers In Abia - Ohanaeze by Arexit: 10:04am On Apr 06, 2019
I think it’s time we start dealing with this useless Fulani issue ourselves, this old man is just a failure at every corner
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Loses N400bn On Medical Tourism Annually — Buhari by Arexit: 3:48pm On Apr 05, 2019
Imagine angry
PoliticsRe: The Hausa's Call The Igbos "Baturen Nigeria" ... Is This True? by Arexit: 10:06am On Apr 05, 2019
Generalnomercy:
Hausa calls Yorubas " BERE REBE"
Meaning bat. unfaithful people, unreliable, not trustworthy, etc
in hausa a hausa person is ba-haushe
a yoruba is ba-yarabe
a kano person is ba-kane

so not true
PoliticsRe: The Hausa's Call The Igbos "Baturen Nigeria" ... Is This True? by Arexit: 10:01am On Apr 05, 2019
which hausas? the ones in niger republic?
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Turns To Brick Layer Ahead Of Kano Rerun Election by Arexit: 11:58am On Mar 19, 2019
joke of a country
PoliticsRe: Were Is Trader Money? by Arexit: 10:05pm On Mar 16, 2019
huh
PoliticsRe: How I Want To Be Remembered - Buhari by Arexit: 10:00am On Mar 12, 2019
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy imagine

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