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There are some major players i really blamed for the worse state of Nigeria. The Rich ( Whether politically rich and entertainment rich or inheritance money rich ) In developed countries, the rich class know something that leaving the country and well being of the people to the government alone wont work, That is why you will see numerous charity organizations every where, people giving away their net worth , people buildind nursing homes, building recreational centers, people building home for the homeless and so on.... and you know what ? this act continues for generation to generations.... All most all american NBA star actor always give back to their community, it is NORMAL....... i mean NORMAL............ they do alot........ It started from someone and it has become the NORM. But in Nigeria the reverse is the case, it will not cost Obasanjo a thing to build a solar paneled library in all the states to promote education. It wont cost Tinubu anything and many other billionaires but guess what ? They wont... The Religious Leader - They keep telling their followers to pray on issue God has given us power over, we should only pray for peace. For example do you pray when you want to buy a phone ? No................ you look at the phone, read previews and test it if possible, then you make your choice. Simple. Instead of telling their members or followers to look, investigate and decide on who to vote they organize they tell them to pray The Political class ( In Nigeria the masses choice is limited to who ever the party put forward, It is in Nigeria i am 100% sure a mentally chalenged man with money can be governor or even president, even if he is not okay upstairs. In developed nations, the party caucus will screen their aspirant to make sure they can move the country forward with their policy before they even bring you out......... you know why ? they have strong vested interest in moving the country forward. The reverse is in Nigeria, look at the case of Yaradua, Obasanjo knew he was sick but he still put him forward and we all know how it affected the nation, same with Buhari, this is a man who is uneducated, old and a known dictator, guess what they still put him forward ....... where do they expect he will head the country to ? You cant plant yam and expect to reap banana..... No way |
capitalzero:i understand you.... but the looting wont solve the issue, there are better ways. okay when will it end and after looting what is the next action ? there will be looting round 2, robbery and a total lost of law and order |
jumper524:Exactly no body wants to take responsibility. we keep pushing it here and there. There are some major players i really blamed for the worse state of Nigeria. The Rich ( Whether politically rich and entertainment rich or inheritance money rich ) The Religious Leader - They keep telling their followers to pray on issue God has given us power over, we should only pray for peace. For example do you pray when you want to buy a phone ? No................ you look at the phone, read previews and test it if possible, then you make your choice. Simple. The Political class ( In Nigeria the masses choice is limited to who ever the party put forward, It is in Nigeria i am 100% sure a mentally chalenged man with money can be governor or even president, even if he is not okay upstairs. In developed nations, the party caucus will screen their aspirant to make sure they can move the country forward with their policy before they even bring you out......... you know why ? they are have vested interest in moving the country forward (investments and so on) The reverse is in Nigeria, look at the case of Yaradua, Obasanjo knew he was sick but he still put him forward and we all know how it affected the nation, same with Buhari, this is a man who is uneducated, old and a known dictator, guess what they still put him forward ....... where do they expect he will head the country to ? You cant plant yam and expect to reap banana..... No way I have more to say but i will be back soon |
PissfulProtester:I feel you bro......... investing in Nigeria is too risky and economical it does not make sense. |
The Economic Impact of the present situation in Nigeria will be felt for more than 5 years. The most affected group of people in this whole riot and looting is the Small and Medium Scale Business and as we all know they are the back bone of any organization. I in no form support the violence in regards to the Lekki shooting, i never supported it and will never, but the looting and anarchy going on presently will cause a greater problem than the problem we were trying to solve. Shops are being looted, businesses burnt down, home being robbed and so on, we all hear of Somalia and Syria the present situation is not different from that. I want to ask everyone a question today. If you were an investor will you invest in Nigeria ? my own answer is No. No country can grow without foreign direct investment, most of the people i know who live abroad will never invest in Nigeria: some say the insecurity and lawlessness is too worrisome. Let us use what ever means we have to calm the rioting and looting down, discourage it in anyway you can..... it is the only way forward. |
Ustec:Exactly planning to sell it.......................... |
GuyWise:you are not far from the truth..... after watching Nigerians invade custom office to cart away with palliative.... I knew it is gone it is just a matter of time |
okpalaAnambra:exactly what i said............ it is accumulated anger and frustration..... |
dominique:that is what greed can do to a man's thinking |
softset:You are shouting insurance.... What about Goodwill ? ... Tell him to come outside if he wont be killed. When the bible say a Good Name is better than Riches, do you think it is a joke.................. you can buy properties back.................. but can you easily buy a good name... you have to work for it.... |
Jack500:The goodwill is the major loss he has lost.... I think this will kill him untimely..... read the story of JP Morgan and the other old billionaires of the past... they dead of depression because people hated them thinking they are behind their economic woes at that time. |
JokeAdeleke:You keep worrying for the wrong reason..... does Nigeria have a biometric database for its citizens ? |
Buhari just succeeded in making Nigeria popular for the wrong reason |
adewumiopeyemi:go and clean your nose with dettol........it is smelling false.... A Revolution cannot take place without a sponsor, a leader and a definite cause |
thesilentman:True.... there must be a sponsor................ |
southniyikaye:true.. they are nice people but they are very stubborn.... schooled there also.. |
cruxgemmata:You seem to get it wrong................ UN cannot just jump into Nigeria and say it must break.......... The people that have that Power is US and UK......... finish. Kudos to the youth, a journey of a thousand mile starts with a step |
cruxgemmata:UN you are reasoning base on past glory........ Nigeria is a laughing stuck....... even Ghana no send naija.... brother wake up.. |
cruxgemmata:If UN intervene what will happen ? Buhari will step down or what are people thinking? UN cannot do anything..... What has UN done in Syria, Libya, South Sudan or when there was the Rwanda Genocide... Nigeria is a country not a camp ground or just a place. Do you know how many African countries are in unrest now ? Do you know |
SweetJoystick:does Nigeria have the wherewithal to do that.... forget matter the guy nah free man |
Samsimple:Yeah.... you are correct |
cynthia9:keep deceiving yourself UN cannot do anything even if the law exist in the first place. Nigeria is a sovereign nation.... UN cannot do anything. |
YourCoffin:If you went to school and smart enough, you should know I said it is a discussion.... what is a discussion Mr Professor ? Read to understand, dont read to criticize. Always make use of your brain |
KevinDein:hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm |
saaphiere:For what |
Klass99: ![]() |
CHoccolaTE:A man speaking here................................ i think the society is wrong on that............ Marriage need to be maintained by both party. |
My reason for sharing this post, is for us to learn from other people's. mistake or failure in marriage. Bishop Oyedepo once said that when he wanted to get married alot of people discouraged him, they told him the marriage will not work, marriage is hard and all that. This is what he said he did, he picked up a lot of books on marriages, read and read, did a research on the problems in marriage and how to overcome them. Then he said he told them my marriage cannot fail, I already have the solution. |
The longer the working hours, the higher the divorce rate The real ideal marriage should be contentment, the house can be small, the income can be limited, but we enjoy the process. When we are in love, we want to be with each other for 24 hours. You will pay attention to each other's every move. But after entering the marriage, because of various reasons, the heart between husband and wife becomes more and more distant. Once saw a short film, the male host is very busy every day. When he comes home, he still holds the computer to work. His wife is talking to him on one side, and he is just perfunctory. As time goes by, the relationship between husband and wife is indifferent, and his wife feels that the home is cold and there is no smoke and anger, and she looks sad all day long. In an accidental cleaning, she found a tape recorder, which recorded the sound of their home. Except for the sound of closing the door and the sound of water, the voice was seldom heard. More often than not, the wife said it, but the husband did not respond. The most terrible thing about widowed marriage is that women regard family as everything, while men regard home as hotel. A person's loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is to end up with the person who makes himself lonely. There is a line in the movie "day face": "to get married is to lose enthusiasm in exchange for stability. After three years, the husband will only treat his wife as a refrigerator, always feel that as long as the door is opened, there will be food to eat at any time. It's very inconvenient if it's broken, but it's never maintained. " Marriage needs to be managed by two people. If either party is slack, it is hard for you to be happy. I hope you will cherish marriage more, because a marriage must be beautiful at the beginning. Only in the process of marriage, both sides continue to hurt it, it will collapse, cherish each other. Thank you for reading. What other cruel truths do you think exist in marriage? Welcome to leave a message for discussion. |
Character incompatibility destroys 90% of marriages The divorce lawyer said many couples divorce because of personality differences. In fact, what really kills the marriage is not the cheating and domestic violence, but the superposition of various trivial things in the process of getting along. Similarly, Su Mingcheng and Julie are in "everything is fine". Su Mingcheng is a male mother. When he is short of food and clothing, he goes home to ask his parents for it, and even empties his family. But Julie thought it was wrong, so she kept trying to pay back the money. Moreover, Su Mingcheng wants to be small and broad, while Julie thinks that she should be conservative. All kinds of conflicts broke out and the two men finally divorced. The biggest problem is that your pursuit of future life is not consistent, and your measurement of current life is not consistent. These fundamental problems will inevitably make you unable to understand each other, so as to quarrel, cold violence, and even infidelity. The loneliness and indifference in marriage are often due to personality incompatibility
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02 Nowadays, 70% of divorces are initiated by women According to the "big data on divorce disputes" report released by China's Supreme People's court, among the 1.4 million divorce cases in 2017, the proportion of women among plaintiffs actually reached 73.40%! Why is that? The divorce lawyer said men tend to mature less mentally than women. Women will think, why do I marry someone? I have to take care of the children and my husband. Yes, some marriages are shelters for men, but chains for women. In the youth school, Wang Shengnan and Lin Dawei are the best examples. His wife Wang Shengnan has to worry about the water and electricity supply at home, the education of the children and the health of the elderly, while Lin Dawei only cares about his own career. In such a marriage, women will inevitably feel tired. Wang Shengnan said more than once that she wanted to divorce because she felt that she had lived for others for most of her life and had never fought for herself. |
In divorce, women want children and men want property There was a group of data that showed that 78% of men would want children in marriage, but less than 20% would want children in divorce. For many men, after all, property is more important than children. Property will increase, and children will be a burden. A reader said that after she gave birth to the child, she was alone at home to take care of the child. Her husband often came back late and never looked after the child when he came back. Sometimes the child was crying and he felt noisy. And women's natural motherhood is always more concerned about their children. Men always say that career and dream are important, but they don't know what women at home have undertaken for him. They enjoy being fathers, but they don't want to take the responsibility behind them |
