Romance › Re: Today Makes It 7 Sundays I Have Not Being To Church And Nobody Check On Me. by Arkmanbuddy(m): 2:24pm On Jul 25, 2022 |
Karleb: You are not practical at all. This is the issue I have with so called spiritual people. Every concept is abstract to them.
The lady that mentioned you is a chorister and her husband an instrumentalist and she knows what she's talking about.
@OP
It's really about the people. Go where you are celebrated. This is what I have with "church business" people. The church is not a business. A pastor is not an entrepreneur! The real church as established by Christ and developed by the apostles has been relegated to the status of house fellowship all in the name of the business of soul-winning.
If a church doesn't have anyone who can play any instruments, let them make do with what they have. It's very simple! You've turned the church into a seed-sowing and salary paying venture. It's a shame! Like a pastor once said, we'll keep joking and entertaining ourselves till Christ comes. We're mere jokers in a building thinking we're praising God. |
Romance › Re: Today Makes It 7 Sundays I Have Not Being To Church And Nobody Check On Me. by Arkmanbuddy(m): 8:45am On Jul 25, 2022 |
placeofallure: Your thinking dates back to several years back back back.
A church, believe it or not, needs funds to run smoothly. There are staff members to be paid - security, cleaners, secretary, admin staff, etc. Bills to be paid - electricity, diesel for gen, data, fuel for vehicles, repairs and maintenance etc. All of these do not run on water. Some churches even engage in special projects - evangelism, community works etc. Running of a church isn't yam and beans okay?
Then as for instrumentalists getting paid, it depends. If your church has members that can use the guitar well, play drums, gangan, keyboard and sax you're fine but churches with no members who can do this have to hire musicians to do them. Now the musicians who are hired will collect money because that is their own daily occupation that they earn a living from. Na you teach them how to play? Some of them invested in schools and materials to learn all the stuff.
In my church, we have about 6 instrumentalists. My husband is the only one among them that does it for free. He can handle all the other instruments apart from his guitar, but he can only do one at a time. Apart from that, it's a matter of personal conviction if you wanna do it for free or not. Choristers don't get paid but we have benefits or privileges that we enjoy so please stop thinking like an ancient man biko. You see what I'm saying? You don't even understand what a church is. The church is the people that meet to worship God, not the building. God has no business with the building but the hearts of the people.
If your pastor has all these things to make life easy for the people that gather at the place, he should be able to take care of them. Anyone who has the means to help out can do so without being coerced or forced to do it.
The only concern of God is the people, not the church buses, or community service. Once the holy spirit takes over, everyone will see it as their duty to do these things. The pastor will call for it and everyone will turn up for it because their spirits align with it. |
Romance › Re: Big Brother Is Bankrolling Seun, See Prove (pics) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:16pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Pandev: some people reason like little kids. Did the owner of this forum create it to satisfy you? He created it to make money you dumb fellow. This boy called kingog has always been forming woke on this platform and broke-shame people, that shows he's immature. Seun may not even be a fan of BBN but nigga has got make his money. It's true that seun should upgrade this forum, but the op is talking trash, bullshit. Na im type go stay up all night to watch the useless BBN After posting his nonsense topics on Nigerian artists and people started crawling towards him, he's been feeling funky, like he's the real OG. Hence , he thinks he can just post anything and everybody would buy into it. The guy is a known idiot. |
Family › Re: Mother Refuses As Daughter Begs Her To Give Birth To Anoda Child In This Economy by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:09pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
"Do not tell a child not to touch a hot lamp, the lamp will tell him itself" ------ An African Proverb
Dem no dey teli person.  |
Politics › Re: “I Am Omoluabi, I Will Not Vote For A Politically Deficient Tinubu Because He’s by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:04pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
I made mention of the same thing in one of my comments here on NL and I was vilified for it. The Omoluabi ethos do not allow for one to support evil in the name of ethnicity.
Osinbajo remains my preferred candidate. It's just unfortunate that he won't be on the ballot. We'll keep deceiving ourselves in this country that we want to move forward, but unless we do away with ethnic and religious sentiments when choosing our leaders, we'll keep taking 10 steps forward and 20 steps backward.
'Nuff Said. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Church Doesn't Interest Me Even A Bit Again. How?? by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:56pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Bro, go to God in prayer, not about your "churchlessness", but about the bad things happening to you. Ask God to break every yoke drawing you back. |
Business › Re: Elon Musk Had An Affair With Sergey Brin's Wife, Nicole Shanahan by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:48pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
WatchYourSix: Whether Trenches or Classy, or wealthy. ....its like humans will still be humans....no discipline...always jumping from one pénis/pvssy to another like them swear for una Are you an alien from planet Zeuk? |
Politics › Re: Surgery: Osinbajo Sends Heartwarming Message To Nigerians by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:28pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
mycar: we should keep this man on standby to take over from Peter Obi. This man must be our president one day. they systemically limited his potentials just to make him appear incompetent before us but a glimpse of him was the best time of buhari administration Best comment yet. |
Romance › Re: Today Makes It 7 Sundays I Have Not Being To Church And Nobody Check On Me. by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:29am On Jul 24, 2022 |
CYBERSOLDIERSre: Why should the church come looking for you?
You have like 10 churches that you attend.
You leave the church for the pastor to sweep, clean everything, bring out and set every instrument, sponsor everything needed in the church with his money, preach the word, and finally pay all the choristers and instrumentalists?
Una too wicked for this generation.
Be useful anywhere you are let everyone know you're a committed member.
Did you tell your pastor that you have a problem
Obviously you're not "useful" in anyway to the church.
Do you know that what makes you a member of any organization is your up to date payment of "DUES"?
NOW YOU KNOW, will you still call yourself a member of that church? Ogbeni, shut your stupid self up! Is the church a cooperative that needs weekly/monthly contributions? Giving shouldn't be forced on anybody, it is at their free will. Why should the choristers and instrumentalists be paid? Any church with paid choir is a fake church! |
Politics › Re: #BBnaija: "Please Don't Forget Us"- Peter Obi’s Running Mate,Datti Begs Youths by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:20am On Jul 24, 2022 |
Baba don dey beg.  The truth has to be said: none of the guys vying for the sit is worth it. Osinbajo would have been the best man to be elected president. |
Romance › Re: MEN!! Churches Are The WORST PLACES To Get Good Wives In Today's World!! (Photo) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:11am On Jul 24, 2022 |
Most men know that, except the simps among us. |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Most Sophisticated Tribe by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:38am On Jul 22, 2022 |
stabilizer: Werey wey say him be yoruba but he won't supper Tinubu. Of what use of obi to your dirty lineage.
You are a disgrace to humanity Oloriburuku Tinubu cretin wey wan sell the bleak future weey him get for #2k Ankara and a derica of rice. Olofo! |
Politics › Re: FAKE by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:41pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
sarrki: I am a Christian
A well reasonably one for that matter
If anyone should not associate with anything is Islam it should be me .coz of the past
Yet I still love them as Jesus preached Werey is claiming to be Christian. Wonders shall never end. The same way one idiot said Tinubu is a Christian by marriage. Sarrki or whatever your stupid name is, no bible-believing Christian ever displays such lunacy as you display on Nairaland. |
Celebrities › Re: #throwbackthursday: When I Met With Mark Zuckerberg by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:30pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Congratulations. |
Celebrities › Re: "Thunder Fire You": IK Reacts As Alexx Shares Photo Of His Hairless Head by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:26pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Imagine IK losing that Colombian or Venezuelan beauty, and Alex too!!!! It's an open secret that those punks are gays. |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Most Sophisticated Tribe by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:10pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
stabilizer: Wahala tie ati idile e niyen Oponu, Omo irankiran. |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Most Sophisticated Tribe by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:52am On Jul 21, 2022 |
adebenson155: there are some yorubas that don't support him..
but we will never nail him to the cross.
he is not a Saint but still miles ahead of other contestant He's too desperate to mean well for the people. I don't trust him neither do I like him. I'd have preferred an Osinbajo who's more capable but Tinubu didn't let him win the primaries. |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Most Sophisticated Tribe by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:37am On Jul 21, 2022 |
adebenson155: All yoruba on this forum and beyond should watch the enemy antics in dividing us for their selfish gain..
As 2023 draw closer, a lot will be thrown at our leader Bola Ahmed tinubu so we can hate him..
it will not work ..
we are solidly behind him and on his mandate we stand..
God bless Bola Ahmed tinubu I'm Yoruba and I don't support him. |
Romance › Re: One Stupid Thing I Did For Love by Arkmanbuddy(m): 3:33pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
For how long are you going to be doing this? |
Politics › Re: SW Predominantly Muslims. We Make Up 65% Of Its Population, Tinubu Campaign DG by Arkmanbuddy(m): 9:15am On Jul 20, 2022 |
The Shittu guy is a lunatic. |
Celebrities › Re: “why Did You Hold Her So Tight, Abi Na Your Freaky Freaky” Fan Question Mr Macar by Arkmanbuddy(m): 9:11am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Though she's almost 30 years his senior, she's still viable and he's a young chum! |
Celebrities › Re: I Wish I Never Took Zazoo Portable Out From The Trenches – Dancer Pocolee Regret by Arkmanbuddy(m): 9:08am On Jul 20, 2022 |
That's his problem. He should also wish he never collected part of the $3k given to the guy. |
Celebrities › Re: PORTABLE: A BLEMISH IN THE NIGERIAN ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY by Arkmanbuddy(m): 8:55am On Jul 20, 2022 |
The monster you made. When you were all dancing to the rubbish song, you never wrote this article to lambaste those supporting him, now you're complaining. Live with it. |
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Food › Re: Shaki: What I Saw On The meat(towel) In The Market This Morning(picture) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 2:19pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
chigoziri2403: I think you should be more concerned about what you wrote in your first paragraph
What you said there is more alarming than the maggots infested meat you bought I tell you bro. Your GF's mother sent you to buy foodstuff for her? Unbelievable! |
Politics › Re: PDP Situation Room in Osun Erupts In Joy (Video) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:06am On Jul 17, 2022 |
Obidient4life2: 2023 all Nigerias will erupt in such joy when Obi is announced winner of presidential election. Dream on!  |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Celebrates Dolapo Osinbajo On Her 55th Birthday by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:49am On Jul 16, 2022 |
Happy birthday � to her. More beautiful years to come. |
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Crime › Re: Baba Ijesha Has Been Sentenced To 16-Years In Prison by Arkmanbuddy(m): 11:06pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Thoyesh: Where are all those defending him? I was particularly disappointed in those elderly yoruba actors who came out in his defence It's sad to meet folly where you expect decorum and wisdom. Same old men are supporting Tinubu. Shut your ass up! No elderly Yoruba actor supported him, they only asked questions because the story wasn't adding up. There were talks that Baba Ijesha and princess were lovers... |
Politics › Re: Governor Bello Matawalle Pictured With His Sons by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:06pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Truthisunique2: Living large with all his children complete
His citizens many never fit see ransom to take claim their own children
Tomorrow you believe he can cajole same people to vote apc government because dey can't think for themselves Yes, they can't think for themselves. |