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CelebritiesRe: Adokiye Pictured In Bed With Two White Men by Arobake:
cherryice:
virgins dnt advertise themslvs
no you are not
Why can't they advertise themselves?! Or why shouldn't they? They should. In fact, they ought to. It takes a lot to resist the pressure, if they have been able to resist, Kudos to them. I personally know a virgin who are even much older than this pretty young girl. She is waiting until her wedding night too.

BIG GBOSA to them all.xx
RomanceRe: Some Dps Ladies Post When "Break-up" Takes Place. by Arobake: 2:44pm On Mar 08, 2015
Afroconnect:
All these dp's and posters are for white ladies,Naija ladies go dey use them like say them know what the heart is for or what love is.

Most of them break up,when the guy does not respond on time to their demands-they will get a hommie thinking its his fult,not
knowing she is just a desperate money hungry lady.
Hmmm...I hope you are still young becos your comment shows you've never experienced the deep intense passionate love of a Nigerian female - no matter your financial status ( a lot of Nigerian females have been known to touche-up their men regardless), tribe, or status. It might not end in marriage cos of a myriad internal and extraneous factors (yes, life happens). But, hey, when you experience it, you feel it, you know it, you can testify to It.

I hope you"ll experience it at least once. Good luck.xx
RomanceRe: Why A Rich Guy Can Not Find True Love.. by Arobake: 12:45am On Feb 15, 2015
auntymi:
nt requisite to defend or xpanciate wat i wrote, its perspicuously stated and simple to comprehend, "not ALL GIRLS"
Find the link to a foreign, NOT A NIGERIAN SITE, please.xx

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/8239530/Do-women-really-want-to-marry-for-money.html
RomanceRe: What Does It Mean To Be In An Open Relationship? by Arobake: 8:09pm On Jan 20, 2015
Djicemob:
It only applies to people in "unhappy" or "unstable" relationships?
No ooo.
FamilyRe: How Can I Free Her From My Bondage by Arobake: 12:07am On Dec 23, 2014
obongproff:
Babe, abeg tell me d title and artist dat owns dis song. Mbok.
: "Secret lovers" ATLANTIC STARR
TravelRe: (video) Driving Through Parts Of Lagos - Ikoyi And Lekki by Arobake: 8:26pm On Nov 04, 2014
Thank you very much, Kwabena, that made me feel very homesick; esp as I have been feeling very cold this evening and missing home some thing awful. But tell me, was that shot on a Sunday or a public holiday? Having been born, buttered and bred in Lagos (mainland), I strongly think it was. Am i right or am I right?

Once again, thank you very much.
RomanceRe: Widowed And Lonely. Help!!! by Arobake: 9:12pm On Oct 06, 2014
rhames:
much as we sympathise with this widow.there are other questions I would like to ask. whats her age? what does she do for a living? how was she treated by her husbands family after his demise? what's her religion? where is her location? what tribe is she? is she open to another relationship? if yes what type of relationship? has her in laws accepted her to move on with her life? what's the fate of her young child in the next relationship?
why wont her former in-laws allow her move on with her life?
FamilyRe: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Arobake: 1:19pm On Oct 04, 2014
zboyd:
Why do some single men/women think it's acceptable to have affairs with married people?

What's worse, some of these shameless ones brag about it and tell all who'll listen how they 'bagged' the married person, how good they are at bedmatics, how many gifts, money, etc. they've received, with the cheated on spouse none the wiser.

Why can't single people 'just say no' to married people?

With all the other single people running around, why have an affair with someone you KNOW is married - many times with children?

As for adulterous married people, why did you get married, if you didn't think you could commit to one person, 'til death do you part'?

Why do you think it's acceptable to cheat on your spouse?
'Shameless' she says. Why should they be shameful about doing something perfectly LEGAL? Easy, breathe out/in, relax.

Funny thread. Funny topic that keeps rearing its head over and over again. The funniest bit is that even children of 2nd, 3rd.......7th wives dont want to share their own husbands with anyone and their own mothers had them for men who had other wives!

But seriously, listen up - the reason they sleep with married men is because single women are mostly looking for husbands. What did you think?

And (why do people keep forgetting anyway?) we have 3 types of LEGAL marriages in Nigeria - 2 of these are polygamic! i.e traditional and Islamic. Plus even in a court/Church marriage, you can still marry more wives as long as you dont marry them in court/Church.

Nigerian women/wives should man up, just relax and not kill themselves with hypertension; so that they will live long and healthy to look after their children.

The only Nigerian man/husband that anyone can be sure of the number of his wives and children is a dead Nigerian man.
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Arobake: 3:06pm On Jul 31, 2014
onegig: Baring in mind previous help you have got. There are many reasons a system can be slow. It might be due to an aging processor, poor cooling system, blocked vents or even an hard disk with bad sectors. Since you have defraged your hdd. I would advise you don't partition. It won't change a thing. All you need do is carry out an hard disk test from your bios setup to ascertain the health of the hdd.
Thank you.
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Arobake: 12:40am On Jul 31, 2014
kevoh: Is your disk drive partitioned? If yes, please move all moveables (movies, music e.t.c) away from Drive C to any other Drive you have created. Your laptop needs all the space it can get from Drive C when processing.

Secondly, using Norton Antivirus slows down the PC as Norton takes a lot of space. Try changing to a lighter antivirus like Eset or kaspersky.

Have you scanned comprehensively your PC for any Virus recently? If No please do that.
No, my laptop isnt partitioned.
I'll do what you've suggested.

Huge Thanks.
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Arobake: 1:51am On Jul 30, 2014
Dell Inspiron Mini 1018 is very very slow. It boots but when I start browsing or doing anything it takes for ever. And when i click on any tab, You Tube downloader, etc or document, i get '..... not responding'. I have tried defragmentising as well as uninstalling apps, but so far no joy. It's Windows 7.

Any advice, please? Thank you.
CareerRe: Ask Me Questions About Careers In The Military by Arobake: 5:27am On Jan 09, 2014
Don Demu: "...my children's late offr's scholarship issue"huh
Lemme assume u mean ur dad/hubby was in active service when he passed on and entitlements havent been fully paid right? If thats d case i can contact one or two but must it be a senior Ex-boy? Chief of Logistics, DHQ was delta alpha delta Mil-Asst when former was still serving and is som1 i have unrestricted access to and he MIGHT help. But if u can exercise more patience for a lil while, delta alpha delta who was once HQ Abj Garrisson commander and one time MS (Army) , presently is outta d country. You might get lucky for me to be able to covince him to place a call tru to the 4th floor and that will most def do it. Meanwhile if u in a hurry, i cn link u wimma bro, a Lt Col bt in Brigade of Guards for advice on how u go abt it way and manner. Hopeu get all docs ready no be say u go push me go collito myself as confirmed clown
Thank you very much. I can wait-since that seems more certain. I have waited for a loooong time as it were. A few more weeks/months if it's more likely to bring results will be no problem. Yes, it's my husband. He died in active service in 1995 (he was just 32); and it doesn't have to be a snr exboy. I just thot someone who knew him might be more able to assist. He finished at NMS in 1980. And, yes, I have all d necessary docs. Thanks again.
CareerRe: Ask Me Questions About Careers In The Military by Arobake:
Don Demu: Then tell him to double dash and come pay compliment to his senior ex-boy before i warm his pot...just kidding grin
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Sassyangel (ex-girl), Oga Don Demu (is this d same as DomOm....the maths guru? If you get my drift..?), Oga Riley, and all my husbands -exboys- in d house, very warm greetings.

Oga Don, I just wanted to ask please, if you know any exboy at d HQ in Abuja who"l be willing to assist me with my children's late offr's scholarship issue. I have been trying for several years to collect it. (And is there any hope of us being able to collect it in arrears? Or should we just forget it).
His last posting was 332 Arty Shendam.
Huge thanks.
Forum GamesRe: HOW FAST ARE YOU AND HOW GOOD IS YOUR NETWORK.....??? by Arobake: 10:37pm On Jan 04, 2014
grin
Forum GamesRe: HOW FAST ARE YOU AND HOW GOOD IS YOUR NETWORK.....??? by Arobake: 10:35pm On Jan 04, 2014
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Forum GamesRe: HOW FAST ARE YOU AND HOW GOOD IS YOUR NETWORK.....??? by Arobake: 10:34pm On Jan 04, 2014
Iretunde
TravelRe: Anyone Been To Luxembourg? by Arobake: 9:19am On Sep 21, 2013
rafcrown: Better try to travel to Luxembourg city and locate Nigerians.Opposite the Central Train Station people will direct you to spots where you ll see Nigerians.I was there for one week early this year They told me that Nigerians there are not used to helping one another but wish you all the best.
rafcrown: Better try to travel to Luxembourg city and locate Nigerians.Opposite the Central Train Station people will direct you to spots where you ll see Nigerians.I was there for one week early this year They told me that Nigerians there are not used to helping one another but wish you all the best.
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Oh waow!! That's sad. But apparently you r right like yu so correctly wrote on my post. They r so unwilling to help. Shame. But Good luck to 'em all.
TravelRe: Nigerian Community In Luxembourg. by Arobake(op): 7:17pm On Aug 16, 2013
I meant Nigerian Community.....Sorry.
TravelNigerian Community In Luxembourg. by Arobake(op): 7:15pm On Aug 16, 2013
I would be on a long visit to Luxembourg soon DV, and would like to work while there. Is there any one on here who could assist in making my trip there that little easier, please? I tried once to get a visiting visa to UK, but they said I hadnt enof funds and too many dependants! And there r all kinds of stringent immigration laws in Britain these days. I've scoured for details of a number of European countries and Luxembourg appears pretty cool. I'l need info on getting cheap accommodation(probably house/flat share), as it seems accommodation is relatively expensive; and on getting jobs as soon as possible. All helps would be appreciated. Thank you.











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RomanceRe: Such Thing As Being Too Sexually Comfortable In Marriage? by Arobake: 10:43pm On Jun 01, 2013
It's a pity really for most marriages. Lots of adventurous menene before marriage and then -halt!- after d marriage. And sadly, women r d most guilty. They seem to think 'such acts arent for married women'. Once they have d ring or whatever symbolises d kind of marriage they contracted - sex becomes dull for their hubbys! After marriage no more blow jobs/sucking off! Dont get me wrong, in marriage you can get MouthAction i.e you may occasionaly, get 2 or 3 perfunctory licks! and this from a gal/man who used to give you 5-10 minutes of mind-blowing blow jobs/'licking' when you were courting!? No more shagging or screwing for the rest of your lives! Yes, you get sex, intercourse, sleeping with, making love, etc. But believe me there is a whole lot of difference btw shagging/screwing/f*king and intercourse/making love, sleeping with...

No more doggy style. No sir, all you get is a grudging 'do you want me to turn my back now?' Sad really. And this attitude has no boundaries, tribe, religion, age, class, educational qualification - it is a common trait among married people, esp women. Period. I hear the same thing from my age mates, (im in my very late forties), and younger friends.

Of course marriage brings responsibilities - children, family, rent, school fees - but this shdnt be any reason why d sex life shld be consigned to d dustbin. If yu wouldnt share with your spouse, just a few hours of your time, d kind of sex life he/she craves, you might be strongly pushing him/her outside.
RomanceRe: Any Hope For Short Guyz? by Arobake: 9:55pm On Jun 01, 2013
Of course, there is! tastes differ. And it isnt only looks men/women look for in relationships! Look around you, dude, cant you see millions the short men that are married? And a lot of them with much taller wives?
Abeg quit the pity party and go searching.
Good luck!
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by Arobake: 10:02pm On Dec 15, 2012
justwise: Thank you very much, Justwise



All your cousin need to do is to meet all student visa requirements, also apply to a registered school. Avoid private colleges with low ranking.
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by Arobake: 2:07am On Dec 14, 2012
My cousin applied for a visiting visa about 6 months ago(she wanted to visit my husband) but it was refused for a variety of reasons, including she didnt have enough funds, she couldnt prove she will be coming back to Nigeria, etc. Now she wants to apply for a student /study visa. We want to know, please, if the change in reason for travelling would militate against her, even if she meets all other requirements? Thank you very much in advance.
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by Arobake: 11:12pm On Jun 01, 2012
If it has been picked up, the status will change to reflect that.



dotun474: Can anyone who applied for uk visa and picked up their passport tell me if the status changes to picked up or something?
I invited my friend to uk and he applied at vfs lekki. He gave me his vfs reference number and dob to also track for him. It has been 4 days now since it says it is ready for collection, but my friend is incommunicado. I just want to know if he has picked it up..so anyone that has picked up his or hers can please tell me if status changes to pickup or does it remain "ready for collection" even after pickup
Thanks
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by Arobake: 1:24pm On Apr 18, 2012
franknero488: Please I need answers to my questions
To start with, you could download the Guidance Notes and read through. You just say self employed and put your phone number and email addr. where appropriate. I think an important doc here would be your tax clearance. And it could be in your name.

Start by reading the g notes and I'm sure somebdy else will come along here and supply more info regarding your question.
Good luck.
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by Arobake: 10:27am On Apr 18, 2012
justwise: All unnecessary lies and misleading info, don't worry about the money and time you spent on IELTS, you will need it in future.

1. Go ahead and apply for spouse visa if you have all the requirements.

2. You can get spouse visa with virgin passport, not having travelling experience shouldn't be an issue, there was 'a first time' for a very regular traveller.

Get your documents together and go ahead and apply.
@justwise: Thanks a million, justwise.
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by Arobake: 10:27am On Apr 18, 2012
justwise: All unnecessary lies and misleading info, don't worry about the money and time you spent on IELTS, you will need it in future.

1. Go ahead and apply for spouse visa if you have all the requirements.

2. You can get spouse visa with virgin passport, not having travelling experience shouldn't be an issue, there was 'a first time' for a very regular traveller.

Get your documents together and go ahead and apply.
Thanks a million, justwise.
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by Arobake: 4:59am On Apr 18, 2012
Evilicious: We are legally married and he is a uk citizen
My problem is similar.
I got married in Lagos early last year (he is white, British). After which he returned to Britain. He is visiting me again in 2 weeks time; and I was hoping to apply for a family visiting visa and return with him when he leaves. But so many conflicting advices: I was told I needed to do the IELTS. I did and scored 8 - having scored 6.5 writing, 7.5 listening, 8 speaking, and 9 writing. I have however just been informed that
1. applying for visiting instead of settlement would be suspicious and the visa would be turned down. But I am self-employed and cant just take off like that, I need to see the lay of the land; besides, right now the fee for the 'visiting visa' is more pocket-friendly.
2. I have also, just been told that because my international passport is almost a year old and there hasnt been any visa on it, not even to African States, I would be turned down, as UK does not grant visiting nor settlement visas on passports that cant show one is widely travelled.

PLEASE, which of these advices is/are true? And was all the time and money I expended on the IELTS a total waste?

Thank you.

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