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sweetmelanin:
On Nairaland I've learned that:

The fact that a post/comment has a high number of "likes", doesn't reflect it's truth or validity ...neither does it mean it's the smartest, most reasonable point made.

So many foolish comments have gained traction simply because they are on the front page!

it is animals like you that hop into threads to insult and tag those that you know nothing about that makes this forum docile


In your God forsaken life never quote any of my monikers


Cheap wh0r€

The deviation from "good" started from the women,from decency to shaking bums on IG all in the name of female liberation.

As the number of unmarriageable girls increased we men to decided not to take them serious, we became "bad"...if theyvevolve from good,we copy them.

I dont know of a decent girl a man will not move mountains for. Chioma comports herself,is never in controversies,minds her business,dresses decently . why wouldn't davido buy a 45 million naira car for her? You can never see man haters/bashers disguising as feminists enjoy wealthy and chivalrous men

flokii:
@OP were you a virgin before you got married to her? If your answer is No, then fvck off

you ladies can't stomach what you dish out on men,why insult him?
Ladies will run their mouths of men threads,insult redpillers mothers and sisters unprovoked but if the reverse was the case you will say the men here bash women.

His virginity isn't a concern here ,non virgins can marry virgins since rich men can marry broke ladies.
You ladies insist on hypergamy, we men insist of chastity.
This is depriving us of our choices

If a man lies about working in Nnpc and its later discovered it's a lie,will you say the Lady has no right yo complain of the blue since she doesn't also have a high income job?

Davash222:
The gender you despise is what you're craving for. Hypocrite!

lol..

Davash222:
You had to put trolling aside doesn't mean everyone should do same. I like the OP, and you can't tell me what or what not to do!

OK....just fix yourself up.

Davash222:
So, what are you? A pusssy hiding under male monicker

a pussy is better than an pauper that shams and trolls but yet begs...

Davash222:
The real question is, Can a Nigerian girl be celibate for such a long period of time?

All the people defending you when you were broke shamed should see for themselves that you deserved it

Davash222:
ntam Eulalia, I don't even need your conviction. I don't have answers for someone who keeps denying not being dickmatised often.

guy,respect yourself na...when they broke-sham you it will seem as if they are bad.

There is limit to trolling.

I don't really like the OP,but she needs help on this thread,I had to put trolling aside to reply her

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

yes I am s kind hearted doctor so here is my response.

Staying celibate for a long period of time doesn't tighten the vagina or revirginize you. but the tissues of the vagina may get out of the habit of relaxing in response to arousal or insertion, and may then need to be coached back into it the next time you have sex.


Meaning,when you choose to have sex, your vagina will not relax or be ready to receive the penis as it has been doing in the past,this may cause pain....
It doesn't mean your vagina will be tighter,it means your vagina will not relax and receive the penis normally without pain

Zabiboy:

PREMIUM TEARS LOADING ...
Remember bro.... " You elevate your girl higher than she's supposed to be, she makes herself available for those guys in that level."
GL

them no dey ever hear.

When the gal dumps his sorry ass for a higher bidder and he opens a thread on this forum,girls will insult him and say "go and hustle" instead of consoling him.

Babyforever:
You have no right to break up with her....How dare you bring up this silly thin an excuse after wasting her time ? it doesn't count except you're trying to win a gun fight with a bunch of knives....I think it's best if you take down this thread you lack evidence

this is oppression and subjugation.

A man has every right to end a relationship whenever he wish, for no reason at all,even if she commits 200 abortions for him and he lost interest

Before I identified as a feminist,but when I realised:
1)they don't want equality but just women empowerment
2)if you give them the millionth right they will have something to complain of
3)they always play down men plights by using frequency of occurrence,revenge tactic(shebi men have been doing it in the past),refusing to accept a woman can ever wrong a man.it may be past oppression, or he is not saying the entire truth or is it not his fellow men that set the rule that hurts him

The bolded was the last straw that changed my views on them . Before I will assume not all feminists are bad. But when I noticed the bolded in all of them,I wrote them off.

Egalitarianism is the way not feminism or men rights movement. If they want it forced on their needs alone then none of them should called mgtow,redpill,MRMs misogynistic.
Let everyone fend for themselves as they have chosen to fend for themselves!

MrBrownJay1:
forgot to mention, the reason the US women national team can NEVER be paid as much as men is because they can never be as good as men.

IS THAT NOT THAT SAME US WOMEN NATIONAL TEAM THAT WAS BEATEN 5-2 BY THE UNDER 15 (yrs old) FC DALLAS MALE TEAM?!?!?!

you cannot compare apples with oranges! the only way female footballers should receive the same salaries as men is if/when they will play against men (and win).

if the wage gap really existed and women actually work on the same rate and intensity as men don't you think women will be triple in the work force than men?I mean why would a sane employer employ a man he has to pay higher and waste money instead of paying women that will do same work for a lesser amount?
This clowns don't reason.

If men and women get equal pay then trust me lots of females will be sacked,it will be a loss on the employer to always have excuses like "I have to pick my child from school" "my child is ill" "I can't carry this, it is too heavy" etc...why can't I have a staff I can call anytime to travel to the worst creek and slum of the state out of the blue ?

Don't expect them to give you a response on the models getting paid higher,nurses,etc

They ignore the points where they have upper hand and quote the point they don't.

Hathor5:
One more time, you said that men and women are not equal and this is why you made a mockery of the equality movement. And I am telling you this: even though men and women are DIFFERENT, they are EQUAL before the law. The black/white people example was only used to highlight that biological differences are not what equality is about.

You don't know me so stop the name calling. I am not the one complaining about equal pay here and you have no idea how I behave on dates. I was just correcting the misconception that feminists do not acknowledge biological differences. Peace!

if they are equal before the law why do women get lesser sentences for the same crime a man will commit get s full sentence?

bukatyne:
Why are we arguing that male football generates more revenue than female football?

How many women would watch women's football viz a viz the number watching male football?

It is like arguing male fashion show/modeling show would generate more revenue that female dominated shows.

in my sec school days I was the captain of my school football team and also sports prefect. The girls were always complaining that there is no football team for women.

I spoke to the principal,she agreed we set up a football team for ladies. They were to come on a Saturday to register their names, do some workout then screening will take place.

I went on Saturday to the school field,sat under sun for more than 3 hours and I saw no single woman.

Wherenever the school had a match and they offer us refreshment (just crate of mineral and cabin biscuits),this girls will complain

I am here to read lies

HumphreyGspot:
See more: https://hgsmediaplus.com.ng/2020/05/17/fake-female-pastor-nabbed-church-destroyed-in-anambra-state/

cc: lalasticlala
cc: mynd44

except cases of theft from parishioners ,murder,raping,kidnapping etc I don't know what she did wrong,she needs to eat.
Blame the sheeps and not the fake Shepherd

CAPSLOCKED:
NOBODY SHOULD GET WORRIED OVER SUCH PETTY RACISM. WE'RE ALL ANIMALS AND THE CHINESE ARE LOWEST ON THE CHAIN.
CHEER UP PEOPLE!

blacks discriminate fellow blacks from different ethnicity and tribe yet they complain about racism. Any tribalistic person or those that belittle members of the opposite sex,religion,tribe and homosexuals have no right to complain of racism.

EjaikreTheViper:
you ain't civilized
I'm sure you haven't travelled out before

why do you "woke" people oppress us "traditional" people?

You belittle us by calling us archaic,etc for stating our views within the confines of the law and call it enlightenment.
but when we attack modernity it is oppression.

Every society should have regard for both traditional and woke people if they are acting within the confines of the law

crackland:
If a father/uncle can't be naked in front of his daughter/niece, then I see absolutely no reason why a mother/aunty should show off her naked body in front of her son/nephew.

Any mother/aunty who has done this and still does it, is a pervert and sexual predator who deserves some jail time for indecent exposure to a minor.

misandry is not a thing! They say...

People choose what they call truth and stereotypes (when it suits them).
Everyone holds the stereotype that men are sexually predators always. They call it truth.

But when you say casual sex leaves a lady empty and broken,the debunk it as stereotype...

The truth sets honest people free!

EjaikreTheViper:
i have noticed that most girls who smoke weed are seen as wayward girls and even sometimes, as runs girls.i think smoking is just a habit people learn. it has nothing to do with our individual character
i have friends from high school and uni who smoke weed. We hang out together and they great people with great personality. Most of them are doing well in their chosen fields of life.
our society always judge books from their covers.
Too bad.

#donotjudge
#weedisjustahabit

both genders are viewed badly for it,you assume they view women in such a manner because it is not in the typical man choice(which they are entitled) to date or marry them.

CAPSLOCKED:
AT THE MENTION OF ANIMALS, WOMEN CAME RUNNING TO HIS PROFILE FROM NEAR AND WIDE.

THAT GUY'S CASHING OUT BIG TIME. JUST SAY SILLY THINGS AND YOU GET WOMEN TRIPPING. A WOMAN CAN SELL HER CHILD JUST TO SHOW APPRECIATION FOR BUCHI'S ANTI-MEN CRUSADE.
HE'S AN IGBO MAN. WISDOM!

me sef I go start my own...hunger dey this ma side for mushin.


All ladies,note that:
All men are nasty scum. You are angels,men are pigs. Don't follow them unless they earn one million and above monthly



You can send your donations to my outreach,to liberate women from the scourge of vile men.
We reach out to divorced women, single moms and broken hearted girls

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CAPSLOCKED:
THEY FOLLOW HIM WHEN HE CURSES MEN, AND UNFOLLOW HIM WHEN HE CHANGES DIRECTION.
I THINK I LIKE THE GUY. I LIKE HIS IRREGULAR BEHAVIOURAL PATTERN AND I LIKE THAT HE SUFFERS A BRAIN DAMAGE. I'M HIS FAN HENCEFORTH.

lol...he seldom talks if women(1%)...

The day he talked about his spec was when he was advising ladies not to settle for less and don't be ashamed of their choice. He used himself as an example,stating his spec...it didn't go well with some ladies.

But to compensate them the next day post was about calling men animals

Dande55:
How's it your business what she decides to do with her body when she's not married yet? Is the guy innocent?
And for your last word, go tell that to your dad.

if a guy cheats on his woman will you say the same thing?

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL, DON'T BE DECEIVED BY THIS HUSTLE. BUCHI DOESN'T HATE MEN, HE'S ONLY TRYING TO SURVIVE. RICH EMOTIONAL WOMEN SEND HIM COIN FOR ALL HIS ACTIVITIES OF CURSING MEN ONLINE. THEY MAY EVEN ARRANGE TO MEET UP AND GET SEXUALLY INVOLVED BECAUSE HIS CONTENT GIVES JOY TO MILLIONS OF MEN-HATING FEMINISTS IN NIGERIA AND BEYOND.
THIS MAN IS RAKING IN BIG BUCKS TO POST SHIT. IF HE INTRODUCES ME AS HIS INTERNET SHIT-POSTING ASSISTANT, I WILL THROW AWAY ALL MY COMMON SENSE AND JOIN HIM CURSING MEN TOO .
YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH YOU CAN CAN CASHOUT ON VULNERABLE WOMEN ONCE THEY'RE EMOTIONAL AND FEELING HURT. YOU CAN EVEN CONVINCE THEM TO BLOW UP THE EARTH AND THEY GO "OKAY". BOOOOM!

the dude actually has an underlying mental health issue he has been talking about..he battles depression and anxiety,he is often hospitalised for it. The thing is like a spirit that takes over him,it happens to a lot of people...just like a past moniker jesusjnr. A sudden impulse comes upon them and pushes them to start quarrels and arguments,if they don't respond to such promptings they will not have peace.
They are always online .Solomon buchi makes posts at past 3:00am (Nigeria time). He is always on the internet scouting for men to insult and call names. Any latest news relating to males he is the first to see it and start a thread about it. He trolls male celebrities,preachers,etc

Take away their phone from them and the are goners.

I pity any woman that takes his words to heart,after all the motivation and empowerment he gives women,he has openly said it(severally) that he can't marry any lady with stretch marks,non-flat belly,non- perky breasts,dark,and who doesn't earn up to 250k....the ladies unfollow him afterwards

There is more to the story,the cousin should be questioned. The child was missing and the cousin didn't call the mother to inform her ,it was a neighbour that did.

Before blaming the owner of the car,all those in the compound should be arrested

The psychological differences between men and women are shoved aside as gender constructs even when science proves it.

It is honorable to walk away and have him crawl begging you