₦airaland Forum

thorpido:
That's true.In situations like this,he should find a way to reach out to the son.

He probably does, but like me, unfettered access would be d best!



The way I read him, n this holds true for most marriages, pple dont like walking out of bad marriages because of d kid/s. When they do, d pain is.........

jeffizy:
A rare glimpse into his private life.

For all his controversies, keeping his family out of the blogs has been a commendable part of his persona.

Through no effort of his! Its been something I noticed abt nigeria n africa in general!


U never get to hear abt d families of our politicians, d number of wives, kids n their various relations. Our journalists, are too lazy n bloggers are just.........

booblacain:
The boy walked away from his son just because he wants peace of mind, will Ronaldo do that?

Ronaldo will buy his son. He bought d first son, afterall. Paid d mom, to stfu n gtfoohl!


Not everyone can afford to! Money talks.

jaychubi:
Lol

When women act this way whether young or old d only explanation is dt a new dude is on d line and they want to discharge the current Dude. I am talking from experience. Op d best thing for u is to move on.

Next time avoid sugar mummy n dt girls u r older than not one to be paying bills for u.

Dumping lines

Baby this rship is nt worth it
I don't think this rship will work
I am nt interested
U dnt care enough
U r nt romantic

D worst thing a man can do is to beg for the love of a woman, once she is bringing drama into it free her. Never date one woman, always ve 5 ladies u r dating n u will feel real power in rship. If u date one woman u will die of heart break when her drama Starts

And, let them know, they've got competition. Keeps them grounded.

thorpido:
You walked away from your son?That's cruel.

True that, cruel! But, not as cruel as a bitch, using ur love for them to frustrate ur life! She doesnt love or care for them as much as u do, but takes them anyway, to get at u!


Sometimes, self preservation first!

punisha:
lamentations of a loser who's looking for who'd make his life easier. you can walk out of anything and have been dumped many times and u say u prefer ur peace n sanity....whilst ur post be making sense to your fellow losers, I suggest you go and work on yourself. you've got issues. The young lady like the others took a walk of no return. stop consoling urself with imaginary lies of how she's wanting u back. u ain't a man yet. Grow a pair of balls, find a girl your age or you're older than and date, try being responsible, stop looking for the ones that will pay your bills and u get freebies from.

Though, I also question d "wanting him back scenario", why does dating older ladies always conote gigolo?


Do u know d value of having a matured relationship? U dont have to explain urself, all d time. Every relation with d opp sex is not termed intimate. U both luv n trust each other, without proof of validation all d time!


Some younger ladies, do have those qualities, but few.

kelechiodo:
There is nothing I cannot walk away from
This guy is funny. Hope u won't meet one that will tie you with rope one day.
But I totally agree with you that peace of mind and sanity is non negotiable.

Nothing is important, until u attach importance to it!



She can only tie u down with utmost respect, love no dey blind some pple eye o!

babablogger:
I don't know why you laid emphasis on Older Woman, someone younger could have done same.

From d post, d op expected better from an older lady, n he wrote that, drama was generally was d forte of younger ladies, which is why he avoids them!



Changeisconstant, same here! Prefer them, older too. Hate drama, like kilode


Missing my kids sha!

Hopefully, those pyramids, will resume!

Groundnuts, soya beans, rice, beniseed, etc

That individual up there, is not a woman. She looks like a baby herself!


Not prison, but rehabilitation!

TeamLeader:
Thnx bro. Its been noted. I appreciate

Dont just note it, fellowman(tiri gbosa), was quite astute!

Start thinking outside d box!

Fareedadey:
My mum is dead
My life is a Mess
Why are the prayers I’m praying and have been praying been ignored?

Life, generally, is a mess! Take ownership of urs. This, too, will pass!

peleson:
Rivers State can comfortably be the federal capital of Nigeria.
Rivers State has the best governors/government house in West Africa. One of the best if not the best in Africa. Lagos dey learn. If not for federal and private enterprise, lagos no go see Rivers State back at all!

Una no go kill person! In 2005/2006, when I was serving in imo, rivers was an eyesore, compared to whats obtainable now(I was there 2016 n was amazed by d change)!


Can u just praise rivers on its own merit n dont throw bs everywhere!

captainking:
.it uses inbuilt battery.. I stay at iba.. Near lasu.. Iyana iba

Chai, I'm in abj o!



Is it possible to get a replacement batt? Can it be charged?

Let me see what I can work out

captainking:
op come and buy my own pen for just 5k..and resell i have had it since 2014 but used it just once

Where u dey? Hope d batt is still viable?

IamaNigerianGuy:
I need to locate one who can authenticate a signature on a legal document. Must be government approved. Any idea of where to find him/her and the cost ?

Fiverr na? Even google or nl search, could be of help.

maureensylvia:
honestly i feel for this woman


ojiro anya oma

biacan:
Me too

That's why, its good, never to allow anger/hatred, override ur commonsense! U always have a choice, try choose good, so u wont experience stories that touch!

forreelinc:
why is she going to prisons? one prison no do am?

They generally have divisions; male, female, etc

Sharp guy!?

No mind the fecktard above me joor

kimbraa:
LOL. You couldn't have said it better 'cause I feel his reason for saying "Brainy girls aren't dateable" could be that he perceives them as overbearing, egocentric, too opinionated, and not docile... Forgetting that these same traits could be found in a bimbo. These are the few that could explain his reason for feeling threatened/insecure by brainy girls. I think we all have our soft spot, and even the strongest of man has a woman whose biddings he does if he loves her and likewise women.

A true brainiac, knows when to move n when to stop. When to make a stand n when to stfu!


That moment, u meet a stranger n u chill, n weigh d individual, let d flow build up, it doesnt even have to end up in an intimate relationship! A lot of online brianiacs dont have that.

sirBLUNT:
i totally agree with you alot of men feel so intimidated by intelligent and successful and the reason is because they feel they cant control her,the want a woman that when they say sit down,dont work she will just obey without objecting or airing her opinion but why wil a man want to control his woman sef? na ur younger sister? some men just feel they must be richer than the woman because that is the only way the woman wil respect but dat is very wrong u dont nid money to let a woman dat you are the man...except you are suffering frm inferiority complex and deep insecurity!

Lol.


I agree with d poster's first post, though, not subsequent ones, that's why i'm taking it personal!


The ladies I've met, who showed intelligence online, generally, cant walk d talk! They're actually d insecure one. I'm off d market by d way!

CrescentMoon:
Brained girls you meet online are usually not suited for dating. If they are, I would have landed a dream woman long ago. Benita27's case is not an exception. Just read their inputs and swerve. I'm a man who is always on the lookout for women with vast perspectives about life. After meeting two of these women from nairaland in Lagos, I gave up. Hope to meet a moderate pepper seller in the future.

Exactly why I dont do any dating online! Mere viewing their pics, a discerning man, go decode say, all na wash!

Olami90:
Op, I was in your shoe some years back.
My immediate ex was extremely selfish, proud and knows too much.

I gave her time to change but I discovered it has been her way of life. Her mum told me sometimes then that when she and her other siblings were much younger, she is the only child that will refuse to break her save-box to assist her with their little savings.

I loved her so much then that she felt on top like I can't do without her.

She is very stingy but fashion conscious (clothes, shoes, jewelries etc).
I chose not to ignore that attitude (a big red flag) and I have never regretted it one bit till today.


Save yourself future headache because a lady like her will only make you poor and be the one to rub it on your face.

How did u decode all that, without marrying her? Lucky u

Day169:
It's the most honourable thing to do, after the public embarrassment he's endured, even when he wasn't found guilty.
..very un-Nigerian.

Expected it at d first instance! Truly, very un-nigerian.

4Ken:
A real scammer has no emotions. This one na learner

All scammers have principles! There're some things, they just wont do!

Towards jinxing tins

brownsugar23:
Why will someone take his own life because of #40k. Rip

because, they generally know no better. Thinks, that's d end of his world, unfortunately.

Nutase:
why do we eat everything we see?

Man shall not live by bread alone

teadrake:
An epitome of excellence that we should all be proud of and yet someone is complaining about the man's look.

U should go back n read d first line of d post! Op didnt write d article.

kn23h:
Iyama. See face like chuku abiamala sacrifice.

I truly expected better from u

EricIyke:
I think We have the worst set of leaders since the history of Igbo land now. I never knew they would be discarded this easily and hastily.

No selfless leader anymore, they'll after their bank accts!

kahal29:
And they still say Buhari is not working... From $28 billion handed over to him in 2015 to $38 billion in November 2017. However the same reserve fell from $53 billion in 2008 to $43 billion in 2012 and then to $28.5 billion in may 2015 with nothing tangible to show for the depletion of the reserves. The worst is that even when oil prices were above 100 dollars our reserves instead of going up was still going down.

Tell them, my bro!

Let them continue wailing, instead of seeking a way to tap into this progress!


In 2019, they should hand it over to those who will deplete it again! Fools