Killbillz:

See u.. if she mean the OP she go get that 200k ASAP. Be like u never jam. OP advise for u is just play cool till u heal completely then u travel go where she no fit find u for a while and come back unannounced. Probably with another girl to stay with u just incase she still comes around

U be guy man.

Ablemed:
Can therapy work for me?? isn't it to late at 24years of age?? I just finished calling mum now and accused her of everything that has happened to me, I told her I don't want to hear from her, not anytime soon. I'm tried calling my Dad to but his line is switch off, I just wanna cut both of them off, They put me in this mess that I have to fight alone now

Go and learn boxing. Join a fighting gym. Else you'll never make it.

Congrats Agwu.

Lightorder:
wait o ! So exs MUST turn enemies to make it ok. Is it the pains of asking for money or that it is coming from one who should have turned your enemy ? I don’t get

una go just open mouth dey talk rubbish bc majority of men don't know how to put their women in one place

Arkhanmu:
I married my wife in Kaduna two years ago. During those period we were dating, we were very much apart due to distance. She stayed in Kaduna while I worked in Lagos.

During few times of my personal meeting before our wedding, I noticed huge communication between her and this man. I called her attention to it but she just waived it aside saying they are just friends as Ex (stuff). She joined me up in Lagos after the marriage but the communication between them still continued.

This is a woman I have sacrificed so much for in my life by providing her basics need with the children even though not huge like that. She told me the Ex is a Doctor and they have nice experience together while dating back then. I have adviced even begged her to stop this communication as it it very hurtful and insulting to my personality but she won't stop. Instead she secretly calls and requests money from this guy in almost different occasions.

At a point in time in the past when she went to Kaduna to get her transfer from work place to Lagos, she still visit the guy even as she is heavily pregnant that time. I was able to get the idea through her bank account statement when the same guy send her money for what business I don't understand. It is almost 2 years of our marriage now, I am starting to regret why I marry her initially even as I noticed much difference between us; she is from Southern Kaduna while am from Ibadan.

I wish I have married my tribe whom I can easily understand. Just yesterday night I see another 4k alert from the same guy to my wife. I am really pained though I have not confront her. See guys, I have 2 boys, twin, I take care of them, buy food and all.

Though my work is not going fine but I try my best to make her happy but it seems she is not built for me. I don't really know what is going on again in my life as I am heartbroken.

Maybe the man is even in Lagos most times self. Many things are just running through my mind.

As obnoxious as RP is on the internet, this is the point.

To help men not settle for rubbish. Cuz wetin be this

OP, your marriage life is effectively over except you become toxic on your matrimonial bed

But you're too blue pilled to understand what that means or how to even apply it.

You're a cautionary tale. Sorry.

drlance:
We sleep fine

And no we won't leave them alone. Lol

I live for the day men will own up to all the shit women accuse them just for the fun of it

Own that shit and watch the reverse psychology of them trying to convince you "it's not all men"

ImaIma1:



Your truth is not everybody's truth Mister. You will sleep with anything. That's who you are. You mustn't project it on everyone.

If you think you can "marriage-shame" me, then you are even more foolish than you know.

My time on Nairaland should not give you restless days or sleepless nights, neither should my marriage.

Live your life, drink water and mind your business

Marriage-shame you how? That's a legitimate routine that will make a man forget other women exist. I'm not kidding.

ImaIma1:


Not men, but some men. The ones without any form of restraint or control. You don't have to assume that all men are that way because you are like that. Speak for yourself bro.

When men lie, you complain.

When a man says the truth, you ask him to speak for himself.

Na u sabi.

Just remember to suck your husband's dicck and cook for him every morning.

Spending time on NL won't add anything to your marriage.

Ndidi2:
is not only men .
I resent him since l catcham
Is not easy to forgive..
Things has not been the same..

I told him "there is nothing he will do in this life to please me"
Cheating is evil it should not be encouraged

Cap. You resented him because

1. He didn't say it to your face.

2. He begged for your forgiveness.

Vinnie2000:
OP, It is simply because women automically falls in a love with a Guy dat fvcks dem well!

I remember when i fvcked one Babe some years back, next morning, she said 'I love you more dan my boyfriend'.

So if ur wife/GF cheats on you, let it be with a small dick or 2mins dude.
If it's with a big-dick nigga, it's Game over for ur marriage/relationship!

Any love she has for u will be replaced by the love for dat Nigga's rugged gbola!

Allow them to keep deceiving themselves.

ImaIma1:


It's not that deep. So for you, the craving can make you have sex with anyone even a pregnant married woman?

Do you even know if it's for diabolical means or a fetish? You are here talking about "broads being special". Please get off your gender bias horse and reason like a human being that you are.

Anybody that reasons like a human being know that men will fvvck anything if not for religion and moral conscience.

Fvvckin another man's wife is equivalent to the feeling you get when you beat a man to death.

Human beings know this.

But when they get on the internet, they'll have to pretend they don't.

hermesprogidy:
Seems the OP is more offended by the "class" of men that approached her, rather than the fact that she was approached.

Every time a woman complains of a man. She's just complaining of lower class men.

ImaIma1:


I can relate.

Imagine being evidently pregnant, with a ring on my finger and a guy was chyking me. I was beyond shocked. Some men don't know what they are looking for.

Broads out here sounding like they're that special to be wanted. He wants to straff. It's not that deep

Go ahead brag.

LordVoldermort:
Not trying to smash all the girls that gave me shiny green light

The oldies are on Twitter.

The teenies are on TikTok.

Social misfits who can't be heard on neither platforms stayed here.

Don't be deceived though. Seun is still making millions

Stephen2324:
Slow or Tatatata

slow, then tatata then slow then tatata

nonxo007:

No doubt, but I believe he still has some influence in Delta which might be of help to Omo Agege. But wait o, the level at which Uduaghan lost relevance in Delta politics need to be studied in school o. Where that man dy ?

He was a nobody before becoming the SSG then governor unlike Ibori and Okowa.

"Rich nigga caught with a bitch worth minimum wages"

Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!

have u guys had sex after this last argument?

My guess is no.

WhizdomXX:

Lol. I like ur moniker. Was thinking of acquiring some tesla stock, but with this whole turmoil, I don't know if I should still exercise some patience. What's your take, MrAssets?

if u have steady income (cash flow), follow the trades of a trusted crypto trader by throwing in ~20% of your monthly income.

As for Tesla, I don't know why Elon decided to piss off 50% of his customer base

Slynation:
Omo fear women oO...
Everything was all rosy and sweet, all of a sudden, in her place of work, she started receiving this kinda late calls and was using bedroom voice for the guy...Ahhhh, Nooo!! That voice sounds familiar and unique to me alone but as a coded guy I comport myself, she noticed a little bit and said was it because of the call and I told her YES oO...I won't hide my feelings, cos I always own up to every sh*t/responsibilities bordering me like a fearless terrorists...!!

So she began singing to me like a well decorated choir mistress, but I know that lyrics of "He's just a friend" and this was the first time he was calling, and I quickly interrupted and reminded her that I was once just a friend and I know what I did...

It didn't take long before my observations becomes reality, I visited her one day and saw a new jotter, I was about to glance through and she pounced on me and collected it saying it's girls things... that stroked my awareness but I shrugged it off

On a very fateful day as devil may have it, I visited again but she told me she went out to get something before my arrival but she dropped her keys with someone, I got the keys and was jejely pressing my phone, then a call came into my phone and requesting I call out a friend phone number for him, I told him I will get back to him while I put it into writing...make I carry paper and pen oO, I now saw that jotter and said lemme even see the girls thing afterall we talking about my GF of a year plus here who doesn't hide anything from me (so I simpingly thought tho)

I opened it and at the middle page was her diary, I read all the rubbish she wrote inside, that same guy who was just a friend had already collected his maximum 3points, another guy in her neighbourhood whom we only shake hands whenever I come around has collected maximum 3points (No...this one should be 6points home and away because he was closeby) and the most painful aspects was that I was even the side boyfriend of her main boyfriend in Lagos... wow...so I have been dating a community project all this while I said to myself...

Well no issues shaah, I comfort myself like nothing happened and left her side, I maintained full status quo like nothing happened and what happened next should better be left unsaid because she's always a guests on NL and I like my anonymous status here...

ded

PerfectStranger:
Main boyfriends eat leftovers with billings. Know this and know peace.

Issa cold world

SailorUgo:
Nice girl
Not lazy
Worked for her money
Never asked me for money
I wouldn’t hesitate to marry her sef if I wanted.

But na my Ashawo age be this abeg
I gats enjoy am full time

Don’t want to waste a good girls time

My twin. I greet you.

Animegirl:
No period pains.
No pregnancy.

Just hoeing around, texting girls and having a good life without getting judged.

Men, I envy you.

You can only envy Guys who understand the game. Not them average morons on the TL

A man who doesn't understand the game is a hoe's wet dream.

Demigod22:
I met a Muslim lady in my final year, she was in her penultimate year. I was having reckless sex with plenty girls so my guys prevailed on me to at least get a girlfriend.

I started asking this girl out towards the end of the first semester till we resume for second semester. She turned down my proposal, she said she promised herself not to go into relationship throughout her school years, unless I will wait for her to graduate before she can consider anything. I told her the waiting is not necessary, I will meet other people and my life is not pause.

I moved on and after my final exam I return to Abuja while she is in her final year. She started calling to seek advice on how to go about her I.T program, I consider it harmless so I gave her the advice. When she was done with her I.T I expected her to stop calling but she won't stop.

She calls and even complained that I don't call. She requested three project topics from me, I sent it to her. Then one evening she chatted me up and we had an argument because I told her I am not religious and she wants to enforce religion on me. After the argument she informed me that she lost the topics I sent earlier that I should resend it which I ignored. Since then if she is calling I don't answer nor reply her messages.

She called me the last time and I told her bluntly that since we didn't date while I was in school, we can't date again, I don't do distance relationship. And then I don't want us to be friends either because it's not good for my emotional health. She was hurt but I was happy.

Most girls will turn you down and they still have the confidence to seek your help, asking for favour, believing you will be simping for them.

I grew up with abundance mentality, I don't beg for relationship, I ask. I didn't bring this story here to bash the ladies but to just engage you guys why a girl will think she can get favour from whom she turned down.

My female friends think I am blunt and don't consider people's feeling when I am doing or saying something especially towards women.

Keep it up G. A guy that understands the game. Love to see it

WhizdomXX:

The uggly truth. It is really what it is, scored 332 in my time tho. #endquotasystemnow

if u like don't focus on being a ruthless high achiever. Allow faceless idiots on the internet to bring u down to their level. Na u Sabi.

an0daGuy:
All of you jambites jubilating about scoring 300 and above in jamb should know one truth about the type of country you are in

Do you know that Usman in katsina state and Adamu in Bauchi state who both scored 53 and 45 respectively will both secure admissions into federal universities before you ON MERIT whereby you and your fellows will be waiting for supplementary list to come out before you can even think of matriculating?

It is what it is.

#quotasystem

which federal University? The one in the North? Of course. That's why every region has theirs.

No Northerner with an average of 45 is gonna end up studying medicine at Unilag.

People like u should shut the F up bout ur negative opinions.

High achievers don't need that shit.

freddie009:


Keep it up bro, school isn't a scam study a good course and get a good grade (first-class) if possible and the sky will be your limit. The guys who made first class in my set were able to leave the country through scholarship or are in one of the multinational coy. If your parents aren't rich or well-connected your brain will be your best belt.

Remember, your course of study and grade (GPA) is more important than the name of the school you graduated from, no company ask for that.

if you're a dork and a first class u will struggle to pass an interview. Make first class but by all means build your social muscle.

Leonardoshawn3:
lol.. I can't even waste my time on something like you...

You aren't worth the effort at all.

and u replied? Rest.