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Nice write up op! Is a pity Some guys don't reason this way!

Charlieo:
Wow more live 50 pure solid heavy wedding bands

me likey! For this type,do u have the one that there is a stone of diamond on it?

uboknel:
23rd may

greetings to u birthday mate

Dfinex:
it's easier said than done (for all those saying marry the one that loves me)...... all we can ask the good Lord is for him to give us a partner with whom the feelings will be mutual

u are on point! That's the word! The feelings should be mutual! It shouldn't be one sided thing

The Gospel truth is that is not advisable in this age n time to marry a liability! A working class lady is assisting the man the little she could self the equation is not balance yet let alone sponsoring mama n picking at the same time wth ur grade level! Man, calm down n wait for her. Not only to study but to learn some handwork that can add value to her! Don't forget what the price of foods n even diaper is saying in the market now! U can't compare Nigeria economy of today to the one of 20-25yrs ago! My 2cents

Congratulations

You are on point! If we youths can emulate the old tricks in our relationships there will be no case of divorce in our generation! May God help us

Beetee1:
Mine is a Testimony
I married my wife when i was supervising a job for 60K/ month aside transport allowance with irregular payment after courting for about 10Yrs. No payment of salary close to about 3 months before our wedding Date but as God would have it, I had a contract worth about #4M miraculously. To cut the Long story shot, 18th of This month was our wedding anniversary, i have a good paying Job, Beautiful daughter, an Elegance Mercedes Benz ride and a huge building under construction. All glory to God.
Marriage: is Love because its eternal, Blessing according to the Scripture and one of our purpose on earth.
So, you shouldn't relied on your ability to determine your future but plan, work and pray then the lord will enlarge your coast.
To men and woman in marriage, we need to be real, faithful to partners and prayerful.
Lesson: No amount is too small to start a marriage because most times, blessing await us in it.

thank you o my brother! God promise us He's going to bless the work of our hands! I use to advice ladies around me that u can never determine what will happen next moment just make sure the guy is hardworking n has he's pali! Moreso,marriage comes with its blessings

nicolosam:
ur submission shows ur level of maturity and knowledge. nothing can be right than ur submission. though, still a bachelor but in several fora I have attended on marriage, this deduction has been constant. God bless u with more joy, Amen!

I have a senior friend that got married to a well paying job,the guy is the one that pay for the ladies sales girl! All of a sudden he lost the job she confided in me that if not that she's a christian she will run away she now happens to be the one paying all the bills whch was not like that b4!

Stanleyafam:
Most of the ladies found on nairaland are between 14 and 24, how do you expect them to understand what marriage is all about?.. money in marriage is like money in business, with discipline and determination, you can grow your 10,000 naira to millions with the blessings of marriage.

I'm a living example!

B4 kids come, work smart with God and the sky will be your start point..

that's it my brother! God promise to prosper the work of our hands so far we are not idle! Why will the income be a determinant factor for marriage when God that changes situation is still alive!

Ajinoride:
thanks dear.
dnt mind online girls, living on sugarcandy mountain, in Neverland. I know of several marriages that started on far lesser amount . but today , some of them are in millions. thats why they are only been used as stress- machines.

thank you too! Ladies don't know there's more to marriage than all the physical things! I'm not married yet but for over 3decades have been on earth! What I can say is thatMarriage is not abt how much he's earning is more than that

What if he lost the 500k monthly job after marriage! Will the wife opt out? Money can fly away

Is not all about the salary is about God's blessing! Why can't I, if I knw he's hard working and he's still aiming for the best! With prayers he will get there and marriage changes things! My 2cents

May 233d! Ping me on 2BB627BD 32yrs n above

I'm here boo of life! Have been waiting for u

Just be prayerful my dear! God is in control! The riight man will show up soon

Obalorla uve done a great job! That is Abk for you! The first time I to this place I noticed all those Ancient buildings! Is a lovely place to be

I key into this blessing Lord! I love twins . May they continue to grow in good health in Jesus name

Pre-Wedding Photoshoot u mean? Wonders shall never end in Nigeria!

But with this story, this world has turned to something else! How on earth will someone play that kind game not knowing the person she's playing the game with. No wonder the bible says 'watch n pray'quote author=macotrading72 post=48083070]I almost got my self in trouble in one of my trips to naija, I was driving back from apapa that hot afternoon, around dopemu under bridge I was about to navigate towards egbeda then this lady requested for lift to egbeda then I parked and told her that I was going towards Shasha road then she said that's her route.
I allowed her into the car, half way through the journey she asked me why I wasn't talking to her I was like huh? She said bros you no like fat girls, I said I don't have problem with fat girls because in my family my kids sisters are all fat she then said that I didn't even ask her for her phone number or even her me, jeez this babes is beginning to get me irritated.
I asked her her name she told me, then I told her mine, we got close to ckc along Shasha road she asked me to enter one street and I did, we got to one face me I slap you building she told me to stop, the next thing she invited me into the house but this time I said no that I really need to run, she insisted that I come in just to know her room but still I refused she then said ok bros if you don't want to come in can I have some change, I had some spare change of about 2k in the car i gave it to her and she stepped out, I reverse the car and drove off.
I got home and called a friend of mine and explained to him what just happened, my friend told me that I should go to church for Thanksgiving that he knows the girl, that where I picked her from na her office, she is always there waiting for someone to pick her that if I had entered her room she would go into the bedroom, change to something sexy and then join me in the living room, few minutes later a man will walk in and claim that I was having something with his wife and demand for settlement and if I can't pay he will take possession of my car, phone etc pending when i bring the said amount and claim my things
Not to mention beating way I fit get.
People are so desperate these days so guys make una dey careful o, since then till now anytime I enter naija nothing go make me give a girl lift unless I know her one on one.
Like our brother just did, give her the requested amount and zooooommmmmm off without looking back, so its not like say our bros here na mugu because he gave her 3k he just paid her off for good and that's all she gets.[/quote]

raphieMontella:
evenn amputees?
Them many here..can they come?

Yes ooooo! Jehovah Rapha is the host! Come with great expectations

Yea! Miracles exist! Miracles is what happened in your life that you yourself can't explain. And God is still in the business of working wonders.
And I'm using this opportunity to invite you to The RCCG Convention Theme: AMEN August 1-7 to experience that miracle has been waiting for or visit any RCCG curch close to you for a life changing Miracles! Shalom!

Lovely!

I can relate with this well! Mother's canbe funny [quote author=photoshoot post=47966245]6. When you ask your mother for all the money she has been “helping” you save.

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“Have you not been eating in my house?”

fm7070:
The sense of judgement of some people on this forum amuse me a lot.
How can you be blaming the @OP who came to this forum to seek a solution to a problem he should be ordinarily less concerned about.
Some said he is too involved, some said he shouldn't have entertained the man's wife in their home and all that.
Has it become a crime to be a good neighbour who listen to the concern of another?
What if she was not allowed to express her mind and she ended up killing the man instead of packing out?
In my candid opinion, I think the wife cooperated with external forces and enemies to ruin her own home
She was too expectant of the man. There is nothing you can do to satisfy a demanding wife.
How can you expect your husband to always be with you in the kitchen when he still have to think on how to provide for the home
The woman has the key of david to control her own husband but she willingly gave the key to the enemy.
Proverbs 14: 1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.[i][/i]
@OP Continue to do your best in restoring the marriage. It will be said of you that you have done your bit.
Tell them to build their marriage on Jesus the rock foundation.
They should not compare themselves with others, everyone has different destinies.
Shalom!

Gbam God bless u for this! Blessed are the peace maker

May the Lord console the family and give those she left behind the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss! So sad

Bamz:
Hi Joy

hello

This is serious! Change indeed. This is somebody's father n husband which this change turned to something else ona ati jeun naa sha ni

Hbd ma! More Grace and anointing in Jesus name! We celebrate you our mother in Isreal

To me I see the man as someone that don't really knw the in-depth meaning of 'pyscho'. Just try talk to ur sister to let go so as to avoid emotional n psychological trauma! As two wrongs don't make a right in marriage.

Congratulations ! I tap into the testimony in Jesus name!