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maasoap:
Why would you be hurt when your inpulse to generalise stemmed from the fact that your father is a scum and useless. It was what you grew up observing about him.

A305:
I am just like you but here is what helps.


Never fail to indicate interest and set the ball rolling. After that;

*Keep a distance between you and her, meaning don't let her come visiting too often maybe for just intimate times and bonding times. Then you send her on her way.

*Ensure to always reach out to her daily Chat/call or mixture of both.

*If she starts up trouble leading up to drama, withdraw your attention to protect your sanity, she will get the point.

*Talk to multiple girls, if you can't meet them in person, sign up on dating sites. Ensure you talk to lots of women; one thing I came to realize is: you only get experience with women by interacting with them, they all have stories, dark side, confessions, insecurities to reveal if patient enough to listen. Girls are open books but you need to turn the page by constant interaction.

*Always let them know you have commitment issues, they would be intended to want to fix you to keep you.

*Never let anyone of them pass a night at your place; she will begin to mark her territory and your reaction will be less commitment to her. The only one that can pass the night is the one you have chosen to wife and she has understood you in and out.

*Reward them with attention and sweet talk and punish them with a pull back when she acts foul. Just ignore her. To make this efficient — put off the read receipt and last seen on your WhatsApp when dealing with multiple women at once.

*Women are very manipulative, you need to understand that and the best way to combat that if you perceive being manipulated is do nothing, just watch her reveal her play book/tactics, don't react rashly and in the end call her out on it.

*Don't raise you voice at a woman, basically don't let her get a rise out of you.

Speak calmly and confidently, if you feel she's outdo-ing you at it. Start pointing out her flaws in life and her personality, she would loose composure. If that don't work. Remain silent. The silent method always works. Let her seek your words.

*Don't shy away from them, they are wonderful to deal with but from a distance. The distance creates power. This is the one secret you should know. And that distance is usually eliminated when you get married to her; so at that point, your power begins to deteriorate except you have strong frame as a man.

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OPTIONAL but if you want to bang every chick on the first visit — simple but there are steps to follow from the very moment she step foot in your apartment till you escalate. I won't recommend but practice the above first to get over your commitment issues. Not really get rid of it but learn to manage it.

Girls are not special at all. Just imagine her like taking in another man waste when you try to pedestalize her. Or treat her like a kid when she begins to throw tantrum with words.

maasoap:
What about your dad? I guess he left home before you were born and never looked back

liveyourlife007:
"I was so far gone playing churchy All these years I never knew the age had turned around and ladies were now so much for sale"

Eeya. This Bros is a nice guy.

Now I understand why some Men treat their wives like animals. Cos that's exactly what they are. Animal's. The only Way to control a woman is by being cruel to them. If not they will take you for granted.
But don't start by being wicked, at first play Mr Nice guy like this Op. Then after you must have gained control over her, financially, mentally, spiritually and sexually, you change to your true color. Just turn cold and heartless towards her and make her Life miserable.

That's the mistake op made, he's too nice, showering the lady with endless Love and affection. They will manipulate you if you do these and turn you to a weakling. And their most deadly weapon is to control you through sex.

But Op did one thing that gave me Joy, that's when he started having extramarital affairs outside. Women have their ways of bringing out the beast in you, and when they do, make their Life miserable. Don't ever say "Sorry" to a woman even if you're at fault, you can just buy her a gift to show remorse. That's all.

Magnoliaa:
This is what it means to be a male?

stellahamechi:
How do you mean

stellahamechi:
I have friends who consciously lead men on only to sabotage them, some build up desire in you only to kill your ego, some torment you psychologically till you are broken down, because this is what all women know, we know that there are many more women out there also attracting you, and no woman wants to be left for another woman for any reason, even the ugliest of us all wants to be the only Queen in your life, so out of fear of being left for another woman, women sometimes ensure you leave empty, sad, depressed, regretful, tormented, fearful, cursed at worse so that you become an assignment for the next woman to work on thats if she wants to carry all that problem to solve, well most men seem to have their way around this and it is very simple, options, women hate when a man has so many options for everything,

alphaconde:
The day I heard this woman committed suicide, I had to go beg my wife to always tell me anything that's bothering her begging that I would never let her down, tried to build some confidence with her so she knows I would always be there for her.

I legit think people who commit suicide always feel they are on their own and have lost all forms of human support. If u have this sort of support u won't do it, I think.

Atolu01:
Rapist thread. Next time, hopefully there won't be one, or with another person, hopefully, that won't happen either; don't ask for permission naw. Another person's body is supposedly yours to joke around with. Stupid set of incredibly self-centered sick creatures.

badboyTee:

Omoawoke2:
May God bless this woman

This is the kind of women we need in this world

Death to all feminists.

Asin ehn... men and disrespecting others can't just be separated

pocohantas:
They would rather tell you of Chiamanda. Someone's gf served him this. Was she a feminist? But same individual is online identifying good women, when he couldn't even get one for himself.

Na so
But I hope he will not cry after DNA comes out. No be to come online claim loyalty then you turn around to prove Chris Brown right.

badboyTee:
Fvck off

badboyTee:

Okay na Master Professor continue to possess

hkidola00:
yahoo boys dangerous true true