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I have hope that they are changing
Sexykillz is one of them

Seriously though,i wouldn't expect him to take a bullet for me,just as he should not expect me to take a bullet for him

We did not come to the world together
If it is his time he will go and help me greet God

E wo lo kan mi?

sexsinners:
These sinners saying that love isn't real, are just sick people who want you to engage in their ungodly practice of pre marital sex.

because whats the point of getting married when you believe love doesn't exist,the only reason why love doesn't exist to you demons is because you engage in maritial love too early and then you lose that so called love*cough* lust*cough* in a matter of seconds.


if you love God then let me tell you Love is real, love at first sight is real.

What does loving God have to do with love at first sight being real?

What makes you think God believes in love at first sight?

sexkillz:
I'll only expect a girl to take a bullet for me only if, she is married to me, and it is in a LIFE or DEATH situation; not just a random bullet! But then, in that kind of situation, why should a "REAL" man expect a lady to take a bullet for him? "I LOVE YOU" na for mouth? I'll rather die than allow a lady i love so much to take a bullet for me! What then was he use of my marriage vow to her: "For Better For Worse, Till Death Do Us Part? IMO!

GBAM!!!!

A real man would never expect you to take a bullet for him anyways

Depends on the girl,and what situation in life she's facing at the moment.

Maka Why?
Did we come into this world together?

If it is his time,it is his time.
Who am i to stand between him and God's will for his life?

I don't expect him to take a bullet for me so neither should he.

Even if it is my husband i will think carefully
If i die who will take care of our children?

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]your 3 babies [/color]

Yes
The two loves of my life
And the future love of my life

There are only 3 men/boys that i can take a bullet for.

My baby brother.

My daddy(although he'd knock me out and throw me out of the way if i tried to dive in front of him)

My future Son.

Anyone else is on a LOOOONG thin'!

pendo89:
@ astreides  
you can never convince a determined person.Even Jesus did not convert everybody rem.
People love arguing and debates its human nature after all, It doesnt hurt to look silly or foolish you know?
Hold on to your belief and live life fully.

It's ATreides

There are just some things that touch you real deep.
I was about to stop talking about God and his existence when someone said that God wanted to. . Gah i can't even write it,buh the person said maybe God wanted to do whatever with Eve first

pendo89:
@ Astreides

Its good to avoid some arguments that dont lead anywhere. Infact the bible forbids.
You believe fine whoever doenst believe fine too. Chew the meat and throw the bones and you will be fine.
My heart doesn't skip a bit when somebody says God doesnt exist or decides to call JC names.
No human is a judge after all.
Chill, relax and stick to the topic.

That's what imma do!

MeandSum:
Actually, it is a fact. all religions are based on falsehood so yours can't be an exception.

WhAAAAT?
Biko kwanu,whatever you say,don't involve me,my religion and my faith.

I really don't get why you people keep repeating the same thing; "It's a fact,it's a fact"
Which fact?
What makes it a fact?
Who proved it to be a fact?

And which bloody "falsehoods" are you talking about?
Are you saying Jesus is false?
Are you saying the Bible is fasle?
State your position!

I don't like arguing with atheists(and when the hell did we start having atheists in Nigeria anyways?)
It's a never-ending circle.

If you don't believe in God,that's your business,but don't try to denigrate my faith and my relationship with HIM.

I may be young but what i believe is mine and mine alone-not what my parents taught me.

I do not believe blindly-God gave me a brain because HE wants me to use it,and i do.
I examine things and i think for myself.

I agree that there are problems with organized religion,but to say that all religion is based on falsehood?
How e take be?

I may not be a regular church-goer but i like to think my relationship with HIM is strong.

I haven't had that many problems,but i have seen first-hand HIS work in my life and i will not stand for someone rubbishing HIM, all HE is and the means by which HE communicates with us today.


I repeat-if you do not believe in God that is your own palava,but do not denigrate my beliefs or my faith.
It is something you will never understand.


Now i do not want to derail this thread any further-this is the romance section and not the religious section.
If you want to discuss how "all religion is based on a falsehood" please migrate there and start a topic.

sexkillz:
Pissed Off! YIM failed me! I'm Sorry Will catch up later!

No P!

Immortalize it!
That's sweet!

You's a real sweetheart!
C'mere lemme give you something

Somebori is vexin!

Lol no i'm not

Everybody knows we gonna die na

jackpot:
*smiles mischievously*

Can I add you, mi lady?

jackpot:
*smiles mischievously*

Can I add you, mi lady?

Seen!

claremont:
It is indeed a well documented and researched fact, not an opinion.

claremont:
It is indeed a well documented and researched fact, not an opinion.

Researched and documented by who?

That you so confidently say it is a fact does not make it one.

claremont:
@Poster: God has absolutely no role to play in human relationships. Even people who believe in a deity called God will recognize that God is too busy doing much more important things wherever he is than to concern him/her self with whether a human being kisses or sleeps with a fellow human being. There is no such thing as a universal "Do's" and "Don'ts" list, our morality is determined by our own individual socio-cultural values. Religion has no role to play in morality, and we will be the most miserable of all men if we rely on religion to tell us how to be moral. Human beings do not need any approval from a deity in order to perform a basic human trait of procreation!

But why are you saying this thing like it's a fact?

sexkillz:
I'm online @ YIM now! could we meet? my id is on my profile

I haff added you!

I yam me!
Or at least i was,last time i checked!
Who are you?

And yes,i have noticed that we seem to have the same views on some things.

I'm on yim buh i'm not online right now

sexkillz:
Why fear? When you can Abstain and have a free conscience? If this is what it means to "chook" then what's the hype?

My point exactly.
Abstinence gives you a wonderfully free conscience.

I don't fear catching it through sex,
i fear catching it through other means,means that i mentioned-i.e sharing blades,unsterilized surgical implements and blood transfusions.(the only reason my mind goes far in each direction is because i'm paranoid about some things-
i didn't use public clippers because i was paranoid about HIV,
i don't take rides from strangers because i've watched too many serial killer shows,
i don't enter a bus that has only one chance because i'm paranoid about ritualists,
i don't speak rudely to any guy who toasts me,no matter how ugly/disgusting/out-of-my-league/worreva he is,because i'm paranoid about somebody throwing acid in my face,
i don't like taking drugs for problems i can solve naturally because i'm paranoid about a toxic build-up in my system etc etc etc- so it's not that i don't have a free conscience,it's just that my mind always goes to the worst thing that can possibly happen in any situation)

Since none of those methods can affect me,
i repeat, Unless the HIV na winch,i no see how e fit catch me

We-eeell

I think HE does.
I mean,we have to get married,right?
How are we gonna get married if we don't date?

So yes,God approves of dating,but He doesn't approve of ALL types of dating.

The way i see it,He only approves of dating geared towards marriage,i.e courtship.

And not just any type of courtship,but chaste courtship i.e no sex,no almost-sex,but i don't think kissing's bad-i mean you gotta see whether you've got chemistry with someone,right?


So in a nutshell,i think God only approves of Celibate Courtship.

pDude:
Lwkmd!
Abeg why don't you explore comedy as a second vocation 'cos you funny die!!

I have my moments!

jackpot:
Hey, Atreides, being paranoid about such is still normal. I myself, I was and I still am. I got my own clippers too. No need taking chances.

Hey Jackpot,that's cool!
I'm paranoid bout lots of things!

Yes

Do i believe in what about online dating?

Do i believe it exists?
Do i believe that it works?

Which one?

jackpot:
^^ yes na.
do you believe in Father Easter?

No i only believe in Father Egun

Hmmn
Well i don't know about chooking things since i don't chook

But i'm paranoid about a lot of things

When i was cutting my hair i bought my own clipper
Everytime i saw a clipper i would start thinking about how far that clipper had gone
Whether it has shaved 7 men with osama beards
Whether the clipper cut those men when they were shaving their rotten beards
Whether they had HIV or cancer or whatever
Whether when they were cutting my hair they would cut my scalp by mistake and the HIV would enter my brain
Whether the HIV would migrate to the rest of my body
Whether i would start getting sick and die without ever chooking
So i bought my own clipper and my own liquid for sterilizing it

I don't share blades,i've never gotten a blood transfusion,i've only had one surgical procEdure in my whole life and i was conscious throughout it(and asked for the drill to be sterilized in my presence)

So unless the HIV na winch ,i no see how e fit catch me

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being single.

Pere.

Do you believe in Father Christmas?

claremont:
Virginity is neither a virtue nor a lack of opportunity. It is a simple individual choice to make, there is nothing moral or immoral about making a choice to keep or loose a virgin status; there is no evidence that virgins are moral or less promiscuous, as compared to non-virgins. Virgins are simply person's who are yet to make a choice to loose their virginity, virginity is not/ should not be viewed contemporarily as a "snake's oil portion" which should be treasured. Some remote under-developed cultures may treasure it, but that's not applicable to other much more developed cultures.

I agree with something thing you said-that virginity or the lack thereof is an individual choice.

I do not agree that it has NOTHING to do with morality though.

It doesn't have EVERYTHING to do with morality,it doesn't GUARANTEE morality,but it certainly has SOMETHING to do with it,at least most of the time.

jackpot:
Hey, Atreides, don't mind what nobody says condemning being a virgin. The option you chose is the best. Cheers

Thanks.
I don't mind what people say most of time-Peer Pressure's never been my problem.
I'm who i want to be, I love the life i'm living and i no need them to gree.

What gets me though is how careless some people can be with their statements.

90% of the time,peer pressure doesn't affect me but it affects a lot of people my age.

A lot of Nlers or guests are under-18;there ain't no age restriction on here and even if there was,we'd lie about it and register anyways.

There are lots of us who look for advice on the internet/from their friends(which isn't the best place to look for advice anyways) and when we read/hear things like that it may make me feel mildly irritated, but it may make them feel like something is wrong with them.

They might end up doing something they really don't want to do and will feel guilty about because they want to fit into other people's perceptions of who they should be,of what's cool etc etc.

It's not right to say things like that because you have no idea who's reading it and how it may affect them.
If you want to do something that's fine but don't try,subtly or otherwise to pressure someone else into doing it.

We have enough trouble staying the way we are as it is-we don't need any extra pressure,thank you very much.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=719130.msg8777933#msg8777933 date=1311490786]Altreides!!!!!!

Why are you fussing my child?[/quote]You know you raised a cool-headed child momma,
but even us calm chicas get pissed off once every decade or so

How's my yams momma?
And how's pappi doing?