₦airaland Forum

politicsng:
To do yahoo is better than allowing yourself to be used by politicians as thugs. I will advice youths to do online dating or yahoo instead of them to allow themselves to be used for election violence. My neighbour who does online dating using dating sites like Bit Mistress recently made N4.8m. If he was a political thug, can politicians give him N4.8m? Instead they pay peanuts and he can die for nothing. Let's use our brain.

Must youth choose between two unpleasant options when that's not the only option they've got? If EFCC knocks on his door tomorrow, arrest and charge him to court and he ends up getting 15 years behind bars. Would you still think that he made the right choice?

angelEmade:
You have a point...although i don't totally support you.
But the thing is what investigations were carried out before these guys were labeled as fraudsters?
I want them punished if found guilty but really

Someone or something tipped them to raid the place in the first instance. And they will be charged to court after the investigation, that will allow the innocent among them to be separated.

...with the way magu and his dogs are operating...how are we sure these boys are truly guilty?

Magu? I thought he's no more in charge

internationalman:
Hypocrite... In all your time in life can you swear you haven't done anything illegally to make money before...

Even if you haven't, would you have rejected if huspuppi offered to buy you a house and a car?? Just for instance oh.

We only criticize what we don't do or benefit from in this country..

Most people will do worse than politicians if the had the chance.

What exactly is your stance on internet fraudsters my brother? You're sounding like you're part of the rot or like you're happy being part of the rot.

MUYEEKFIRST:
if u are a man even if you are a lady I pray to God give you a wife that behaviors. You will see d reason why he left the wayward and disrespectful woman

And she refused to use the same "waywardness" to cater for her kids? What kind of disrespect would make a father abandon his kids completely?

Dalby:
Have you seen where a woman will allow you carry the kids

Hahaha, women use kids as leverage in situations like this, when marriage has broken down irretrivably ...

In Nigeria, the culture gives husbands priority over the kids. But the truth is that it's easy for useless and irresponsible fathers to abandon their kids and the responsibility falls squarely on the mothers who have no options.

AfroKnight:
I believe the husband.

That story about him abandoning his wife and 2 kids because of their unusual eye colour was just too incredible. They were born with those eyes. He married her. He slept with her. He had first child and second child and suddenly he’s afraid of the eyes? Come on.

No, he wasn't afraid but yielded under constant and unrelenting pressure from the superstitious family members.

The husband’s account is more plausible. That woman would be feeling like Agbani because of her eyes. Why won’t she cheat?

And yet, she and her kids lived a wretched life! She didn't embrace olosho lifestyle even in the face of hunger and lack of basic things for herself and her kids. She's a heroine

BotherMleeper:
You don't know

I don't know

That's it

No we don't but who does that? Only a wicked human being. What those kids passed through should be better imagined!

BotherMleeper:
I'm not disputing he abandoned them, nor exonerating him for doing so.

I'm only saying the reason he gave for running away is probably right and really had nothing to do with their eyes.

No one abandon his kids because his wife doesn't respect him. He didn't even look back for two years. He didn't care to know whether they were alive or dead! He couldn't have cut ties with his kids like that unless his reason involved those kids.

pretydiva:
What's up with this simp ish? Na the latest English for Nairaland be this ni
You guys cant give your advice without calling the op a simp. smh

ImaIma1:
Please stop this "simp" thing and make more intelligent contributions.
Some of you don't know anything more than "simp"

Biglittlelois:
I guess it's a new normal these days, smh.

They want any man being addressed like that to feel their disgust towards him, my opinion

Taiwo20:
My brother things wey I dey see for this marriage.
When you baby comes, she won't change diapers on time amidst other things. My brother if you can do those things yourself.
if you want your grey hair to come late stop complaining.
Just let her be, some of those things were learn over a long period of time in their own houses so it's very difficult to change.
P.s: I have to wash the toilet myself atimes.

Seriously?

decatalyst:
I hate to hear the statement "I am still the one to apologize" It sucks to hear this!

You make it seem like you are a simp! You are supposed to offer direction in your home. Tell her what she needs to hear to get the desired result. You don't have to shout on the woman please.

We can't even shout when we are being frustrated non stop. You all just want to turn us into zombie. Issoright

ImaIma1:
The pressure doesn't make marriage marriage more important to the woman.

In all of this plenty talk, guess who goes to ask for the hand in marriage, who performs all the traditional rites, etc? The man!

Did he have a gun to his head? Or is he a(let me borrow the Nairaland grammar) simp?

Marriage is more beneficial to men blah blah but the man comes to marry. Was he under duress?

Please let's drop this matter. God created marriage and he knows what He was doing. If you don't understand it from his perspective, drop it.

And my point is that for the fact that men come to women for marriage doesn't mean that the marriage is more beneficial to men. Our culture demands that men come to women. Our women, even if they're dying in silence, will never ask for men's hands in marriage

BotherMleeper:
If his family believed her eyes were a problem he surely wouldn't have been married this long and have kids with her.

I think he's probably on the right here.

Right? No way. He didn't deny abandoning those kids for two years, no education, no welfare, no nothing! He's telling lie

Martinez39s:
Anyone with an average IQ would have known the woman's side of the story was false without needing the husband's side of the story. A man married a woman with blue eyes and he abandoned her for giving him blue-eyed children? Where is the logic in that?

If you believe the man side of the story, help us ask him why abandoned his blue eyed children too? It is only logical and makes sense if the blues eyes were the reason he did that. The pressure came from the outside, the wife right

How could the family succeed in forcing him to abandon his wife and blue-eyed children when they couldn't stop him from marrying her and having blue-eyed children? After knowing his wife for years? Is it now they could convince him that his wife is jinxed? [/b]

That's very much possible if things were not going smoothly for the man because this is Africa, many people are superstitious.

Palema007:
I knew he would be back! The woman and her babies are making waves, probably going to be new olajumoke ,oga quickly ran back!

So the mother's attitude is enough reason to leave his children in dilapidated house and bad living conditions with no education. Was her attitude the reason he rejected his second baby before she was born that the wife had to depend on her family to survive with pregnancy? These Men though!
Ewwwwwww!

Olajumoke the bread seller also abandoned her own husband after becoming a celebrity. Not only the men are guilty.

Joshmanuel10:
This is very simple
If he plans on building a house they can get married after he has completed the house
Since they love each other they can both come to a simple understanding
If she wants to live with him in face me I kill u its a good decision
But marriage ain't man mom and wife
This isn't india

Can't we copy good things like we copied bad things?

ImaIma1:
Popping out babies? She slept with herself right?
Pay bride price? Did she ask herself to marry herself?
Fake human hair? Is it an essential item for survival or he has a gun to his neck to buy it?
Hospital bills? Even my husband and I use each other's HMO.

Couples figure things out and try to make life better for the other.

Look, when the time comes for you to get married, you will understand marriage and figure it out. But if that time never comes, that means you shouldn't bother getting married.

Lol. Like the pressure on you ladies to get married doesn't surpass the ones on men

08100223984A:
The Reason why men cheat their partner is because they where wrong in chosen the right one

If you think marrying the "right one" will stop most men from cheating, you're joking. Cheating is in many men's blood, and love is not sufficient enough to prevent it.

Onnasucs1:
What is hard for the boarding school to do a Coronavirus test for all the students writing waec?

Once they're inside the school, they can't go out again na. Where will the virus come from?

Very much hard. The cost of Covid-19 test is high. Who is going to pay?

AroleOduduwa2:
Buhari is the most corrupt person in Nigeria yet he claim holy,

How did you sound even to yourself?

look at the people he surrounds himself with. From Magu to Malami to Lawal the grass cutter and then we have the school feeding scheme, the NDDC scandal

He should have gone to Finland to import people now.

Firespitter:
Satan get behind me

That's not bad for you, you and Satan lining up. Lol

Blackking98:
Go and show gov zulum this if he'll not slap your dirty mouth

Buhari was attacked by Boko Haram under Jonathan, na today? Oh, you have forgotten?

hosemujica:
She should try and convince him that nothing comes out of a married guy living in his mother's house with his wife, if the mother comes to visit him every once in a while that's manageable but outrightly sharing the same roof is a recipe for disaster.

Really! What kind of disaster if I may ask? Can you be specific?

Interesting

Minsk24:
Leave that foolish APC goat....

WandaNara:
Answer the question. Shameless modafVcka

You guys should grow up. We're democratic nation, you all should learn to respect other people's choices

Privatepart00:
Another Olajumoke the bread seller to be used and dumped after some time .
Nothing stunning about the eyes.
Too much hyping of rubbish.

She made it, we have to agree on that. I can't see how she was used and dumped. Most Nigerians stopped loving her when she treated her husband the way she did, she dumped him because don change

Azmanaty:
When BH kills your family members, come back and rewrite this trash above

The killings never stopped. War against terrorism is not civil war, it never ends. You wouldn't know that or accept. All we want is ever ready army who are up to the task.
BTW: Kidnappers and armed robbers would have wiped your entire family out before BH touch my family members

Neddstark:
Like your uncle's dickhead that you choke on? Leave me with your ignorance.

Homo!

Paramount01:
I have never see a person I can't cheat on...

That's why I'm of the opinion that love alone is not enough to prevent cheating. Self discipline is the most important thing.

I wish I find ...
I thinking I have never been in love?

Loves keeps one in marriage, but can't prevent cheating. Societal pressure and co can make one marry but won't be sufficient enough to keep one in it, divorce is inevitable

MrBrownJay1:
yes LEAVE as you certainly dont want to instill in your kids the wrong values in life (aka its ok to cheat on your partner for whatever reason).... the only thing you CAN do is leave and be happy for your kids, instead of staying and being miserable in marriage. if your partner is not right for you, then why would you even stay with her? why waste your life with that person, while crawling at the dead of night to cheat on them, like a rat? makes no damn sense (to me). find someone that you would love and cherish FULLY, and be done with wasting your life/time/energy with a no good woman .

It is funny how you conveniently associated cheating on the part of husband to "a no good woman". It didn't occur to you that a man who cheats might be doing so and it has nothing to do with his wife attitude, character or behaviour but just that he's a chronic cheater. Or, Vice versa.
It is even funny how you assumed that miserable marriages are the reasons why one partner cheats in marriages. You have over simplified the issue my friend

Sunofgod:
But you can't overrun Boko Haram?

impotent president........

If the fight against terrorism was that easy and simple, PDP would have won that war long time ago. At least, our soldiers are not running away from the terrorists attacks anymore because they have the right and sophisticated weapons now, thanks to Buhari.

Firespitter:
Very foolish comment

Not a foolish comment but a remainder that his government respects the people's wish.