Palladium007:
You can't hurt someone you love love does not hurt, Love is God, .if I say I love you and hurt you,I don't love you. The world is suffering because they can't love. What we have most in the world is lust. Love is the greatest

Sixfeetbelle:


I think it has to do with satisfaction. Personal satisfaction is when you believe and have assurance that you're content with your life and where you are in life and with this contentment, when you get married to someone you love, cheating will be the last thing you'll do.

The truth is that most people who cheat aren't that content with their life and see cheating as a means to give them the happiness they seek but it's only temporal so they keep going back because they think that's where their contentment lies. Otherwise, if a man says he's cheating cause wife is frigid in bed, why is it that don't have just one side chic?

In summary, love is enough when the spouse is content within themselves.

Sixfeetbelle:


I think it has to do with satisfaction. Personal satisfaction is when you believe and have assurance that you're content with your life and where you are in life and with this contentment, when you get married to someone you love, cheating will be the last thing you'll do.

The truth is that most people who cheat aren't that content with their life and see cheating as a means to give them the happiness they seek but it's only temporal so they keep going back because they think that's where their contentment lies. Otherwise, if a man says he's cheating cause wife is frigid in bed, why is it that don't have just one side chic?

In summary, love is enough when the spouse is content within themselves.

Sixfeetbelle:


I think it has to do with satisfaction. Personal satisfaction is when you believe and have assurance that you're content with your life and where you are in life and with this contentment, when you get married to someone you love, cheating will be the last thing you'll do.

The truth is that most people who cheat aren't that content with their life and see cheating as a means to give them the happiness they seek but it's only temporal so they keep going back because they think that's where their contentment lies. Otherwise, if a man says he's cheating cause wife is frigid in bed, why is it that don't have just one side chic?

In summary, love is enough when the spouse is content within themselves.

Sixfeetbelle:


I think it has to do with satisfaction. Personal satisfaction is when you believe and have assurance that you're content with your life and where you are in life and with this contentment, when you get married to someone you love, cheating will be the last thing you'll do.

The truth is that most people who cheat aren't that content with their life and see cheating as a means to give them the happiness they seek but it's only temporal so they keep going back because they think that's where their contentment lies. Otherwise, if a man says he's cheating cause wife is frigid in bed, why is it that don't have just one side chic?

In summary, love is enough when the spouse is content within themselves.

Sixfeetbelle:


I think it has to do with satisfaction. Personal satisfaction is when you believe and have assurance that you're content with your life and where you are in life and with this contentment, when you get married to someone you love, cheating will be the last thing you'll do.

The truth is that most people who cheat aren't that content with their life and see cheating as a means to give them the happiness they seek but it's only temporal so they keep going back because they think that's where their contentment lies. Otherwise, if a man says he's cheating cause wife is frigid in bed, why is it that don't have just one side chic?

In summary, love is enough when the spouse is content within themselves.

MOnkeyBabe:
I'm telling you, not embarrassing the man or woman in front of ChilDRen

MOnkeyBabe:
I'm telling you, not embarrassing the man or woman in front of ChilDRen

na2016:
NO
No
NO
ask me why and I will tell you my experience...

Paramount01:
Sorry to ask.
How old are you?
Have you ever fallen in love before to the extent u see open Toto you no bleep?

authority2006:
Leave? Just like that? It doesn't matter to you if two or five kids are already involved? Not that they quarrel or fight or something but a man needs to quit the marriage of many years if he has to cheat. That's funny

Moneymagnet24:
Who said smoking is bad? The funny thing in this world is the way you perceive a smoker is the same way he perceives you. You need to draw the line between right or wrong in your soul. It's a crazy world yunno.

MrBrownJay1:


yes LEAVE as you certainly dont want to instill in your kids the wrong values in life (aka its ok to cheat on your partner for whatever reason).... the only thing you CAN do is leave and be happy for your kids, instead of staying and being miserable in marriage. if your partner is not right for you, then why would you even stay with her? why waste your life with that person, while crawling at the dead of night to cheat on them, like a rat? makes no damn sense (to me). find someone that you would love and cherish FULLY, and be done with wasting your life/time/energy with a no good woman .

Paramount01:

I have never see a person I can't cheat on...

I wish I find ...
I thinking I have never been in love?

authority2006:


That's why I'm of the opinion that love alone is not enough to prevent cheating. Self discipline is the most important thing.



Loves keeps one in marriage, but can't prevent cheating. Societal pressure and co can make one marry but won't be sufficient enough to keep one in it, divorce [quote author=authority2006 post=92694387]

That's why I'm of the opinion that love alone is not enough to prevent cheating. Self discipline is the most important thing.



Loves keeps one in marriage, but can't prevent cheating. Societal pressure and co can make one marry but won't be sufficient enough to keep one in it, divorce is inevitable

yourgistpartner:
Love is never enough. self discipline is key to stop cheating


let's take the smoking scenario for example; they know smoking is bad but they still do, not because they don't love themselves but because they can't discipline themselves appropriately

08100223984A:

The Reason why men cheat their partner is because they where wrong in chosen the right one

lastchild:
It's like asking if having a bottle of wine you love will stop you from drinking water, you may not want to drink water because of how you love your wine

but the truth is that when you become thirsty you must drink water because the wine alone can't quench your thirst

Brachaa:
Majority still dont understand the true meaning of the word "love" and until they do, couples will continue to cheat and hurt each other.

Love is not lust.
Love does not hurt
Love protects
Love sacrifices
Love is self-denying
Love is determination
Love is commitment.

LaPresidente:


It's refreshing to see these kind of perspectives every now and then. Most couples today are using the world's definition and standard while expecting truly blissful homes.

authority2006:
It is funny how you conveniently associated cheating on the part of husband to "a no good woman". It didn't occur to you that a man who cheats might be doing so and it has nothing to do with his wife attitude, character or behaviour but just that he's a chronic cheater. Or, Vice versa.
It is even funny how you assumed that miserable marriages are the reasons why one partner cheats in marriages. You have over simplified the issue my friend