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dirolad:
after 5yrs, you want him to still hang around with hopes? He rather hang around success not a woman who's not willing.

What i meant was that he should kill the feelings

And downgrade the friendship to a casual level

Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.


So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

You should work on The bolded... work on being emotionally mature to continue the friendship on your own terms ... ( make it a once in a while thingy )
Now you also work on being the best version of yourself and become a better person in all ways including looks and finance.

She'll come back one day ... but be ready and yunno what to do

Check my siggy

You used tgis thread to advertise your business ba ??
I've done many drugs ... last last nothing dey there
The temporary pleasures will drain your life force slowly in the end.
Say no to drugs ... give jesus a chance

And lemme guess ... youre going to eat it right ?

lhordspy:
I am seeing lot of things probably playing out here.

1. Mental disorderliness

The United keeps investing billions of dollars in healthcare bills, they keep funding health researches with billions of dollar. But yet they encourage homosexual and other unthinkable acts under the excuses of freedoms and right that are direct result or consequences of depression and mental illness.

Most of these guys carrying out these despicable acts are either transgender or spoilt little brats who are very retarded, but protected by the 'He is just depressed' phrase. A 'just depressed' person that sees nothing wrong in entering a mall to gun down people in annoyance just because he or she can't find butter in the refrigerator to eat bread.


2. I am suspecting the Anti-Gun campaigners. Over the years they have taken a very bold and daring step to make their demands.We have seen group of people infecting thousands with a disease just to force the government to build more hospital in their country or invest more in healthcare.

And in Un!ted state, we know how these campaigner behaves, they can be extreme somethings. Even when they are fighting a good cause, they sometimes use very extreme way to pass their message across. I feel maybe they may be behind these attacks, or sponsoring them; a bid to justify their fight against the free access to guns and push the lawmakers into making more gun-control measures.

3. Karma: Slutty b!tchy little karma.

Un!ted state, the self-acclaimed world peace maker. Who has been going around destroying nations. Libya, Afghanistan, iraq, Hiroshima and Nagasaki etc

Causing unrest in: Iran, isreal/Palestine, syria, Ukraine/Russia, Cuba, and others all in the name of seeking world peace cant even put its house in order.

What you sow, truly is what you reap. You can never have peace of mind when you go around creating chaos and unrest in other people country.

Most important but ignored
DRUGS

IyaebeTheGreat:
Caring for them by their men

Shouldn't that be mutual ?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Ingratitude because it's expected of anyone to show appreciation in every act of kindness towards them no matter how little it is . Entitlement is not a big deal it's just modern men trying to change some narrative and deprive women their right in their life. Men should understand that God created women to be a naturally entitled specie, it is a natural trait beyond every woman's control.

Their rights like ?

Wahala for who dey fall in love

If this is true .. then you're a real man
Poor girls everywhere that cant even pay their bills yet they go about calling guys " broke "

How will security be deteriorating if the military is doing a good job ?

Waffarianman:
That's means you don't love your wife na.

How .. just for a few moments na i go land after tgem say she was successful

Starhearts:
Who impregnate d mad woman

I cant tell .. who tha hell sleeps with a mad woman

Did you just say 15 years relationship
She must be over 30 years now

Chalie , bravo, alpha do you copy
Redpillars over

I forgot my change

I smell incoming vawulence on yourba people soon ..

Im not a tribalistic person tho
Let love lead

Slydan204:
penhammed Sallah as usual

There is no need to be bitter

Aboguede:
No fans


Loserspool

You'll never walk alone 🖤

Very good ..
Na who send you message in the first place ?
Una go dey learn painfully one by one

IyaebeTheGreat:
Nairaland men go in search of of demeaning thread against women to come post . These same men do not take care of their dicks and sac ooo, they just bath and boom they are out . Rubbish

Pain successfully delivered

Say no to fornication...stop dating women and spending on them if you're doing it for s3x


Of she cant offer the desired qualities of a woman then DUMP HER

When I saw a mad woman give birth around yaba phase 1 ... I lost appetite for about 2 days

Infact if I ever get married ..I'll pretend I gave an urgent appointment to catch up with when she's in the labour room and Run away till it's over or better still send her to my mum or hers before the due date

marlow1962:
I do not know about that, what I know is that "I will never kneel down to propose to a lady", never.

Comrade that thinks like me

Fear women ...
Tbh I really dont want to have a female child

Because I nor like wahala

Here to read lies

fadilaMaikiriki:
But, the phone got bad when I attended his mum's burial. That was where it got spoiled. If you read through my post, you'll see how the phone got spoiled during the course of the burial proceedings in the church. And it's not as if he can't afford it. He can afford a hundred of it if he wants. Someone that has four Porsche cars, Benz, Range Rover, lexus and other cars, including houses and landed properties, us it phone that won't even be up to 200k he can't afford? Just think it. If you were to be in my shoes you'll understand better what I'm trying to say.

There's nothing to understand
Replace your phone because it's your personal property fgs .

fadilaMaikiriki:
I'm currently jobless. I'm no longer working for him.

Then why should he get you a phone ? When you're not longer working for him

Why cant you get a phone with your salary ... or are you not being paid ??
Omo

nedekid:
Both are depreciating assets though. liabilities also.

If it's used for uber for example then it's an asset