₦airaland Forum

Blaze14k:
This is the kind of stuff we need to see all the time not politics. Something just started happening of recent and i dont know if anyone noticed it. This government have started impressing us with there transparency. Is there something behind it cos its unbelievable??

Familyplug:
A 50-YEAR-OLD NIGERIAN WOMAN SHARES HER REGRETS ABOUT HER PARENTS SENDING HER ABROAD TO SCHOOL AS A TEENAGER.

I came to the UK in the 80s and went to Skinners school for girls in Stamford hill where I failed woefully. I come from a family where going abroad was like going to the market for us. I lived with my sister-in-law who I happened to have appeared to as a burden at the time. I had no one to take me out as a child, didn't enjoy McDonald's treats. I remember being bought KFC once by my mother's younger sister who was in the UK at the time. Most days I had to walk from Pembury estate, Hackney to Stamford hill because I had no transport fee. An uncle got me free school meals from the government so I always had lunch at school but other meals were not guaranteed...

No one ever asked me how I was doing in school even though I was a failure, never disclosed my report sheet because my results were always 'U- Unclassified' worse than F9. I lived at the expense of a few of my brother's friends who were ready to give me £5 in exchange for me seating on their laps whilst they used my nipples as a toy. On a few occasions, my immediate family would give me £5, £10 but NONE EVER TOOK ME ON AS HIS OR HER RESPONSIBILITY. One glorious day, a brother of mine took me on when he noticed that I have been associating with friends that were smoking and sexing at the age of 12 but due to malicious beating every day I had no choice other than to run away from his house. ....

I became streetwise, smoking heavily at the age of 11/12, and did my first abortion at the age of 14/15. I was unable to contact my mother because I had no access to the telephone moreover I didn't know how to use the phones then. I lived with a Jamaican friend who was a few years older than me and we had a man friend aged 50t who was impotent but would pay our rent whenever we allowed him to lick/suck us. Hhhhmmmm I'm sobbing as I'm writing this; I don't know why my spirit has led me to share this horrific and pathetic story but I am sure it is to bless someone out there so I am not ashamed of letting it out because someone outthere will think twice before making the mistake my family made.

I and friends began to find it easy to befriend men for money at night clubs (Gullivers, Petter Stringfellows, etc) at a very young age which I found disgusting, they molested my body orally. I can't even carry on expressing my bitter past experiences because I have learnt to see them as the strengths that made me who I am today...

The Koko of this post is this... Now in the UK, we see Nigerian children killing, shooting, stabbing, selling drugs, raping, etc and we wonder why they are ridiculing our darling country's name... Hhhhmmmm it is not the kids' fault it is the fault of the parents that weren't ready to prioritize their priorities.

I can't blame my mother and neither can I blame my father because they thought sending me abroad to school was the best for me. They also trusted my siblings and didn’t like to get involved in the way they were raising us. They believed when you give a goat to someone, you let go of the rope. They didn't know their darling daughter had become something else.....

You may be boosting that your child lives in London, America, etc but do you ever ask yourself how life is treating them where they are??

So many parents in Nigeria believe the field is greener on the other side forgetting that NO ONE CAN TRAIN YOUR KIDS THE WAY YOU CAN EXCEPT LOVING & GOD-FEARING PEOPLE.

In the UK so many Nigerian parents have misplaced their priorities, they rather work 24/7 and make all their monies to build mansions in Nigeria at the expense of their children's lives.

So many Nigerian parents in the UK don't even attend parents' evenings at their kid's school, some can't even help their kids with homework. Some believe their kids are at home and they are safe not knowing who is there with them. Some would rather spoil their kids with money & expensive outfits instead of investing quality time in them.

Sending your kids abroad to be looked after by someone else is a pure waste of time and bringing your kids from 9ja without giving them all the time needed is an irresponsible move and to be working all God-sent hours, making sterling, dollars, and euros, naira, etc without spending quality time with your kids is a disgrace to parenthood.

This is one of our bad irresponsible cultures even back home ….most children in Nigeria were brought up by housemaids/gatemen/next door/grandmothers/neighbors etc. Some Nigerians don't believe in family planning rather they will have so many children and start using them to hawk sweets, bread, etc after school...

Having a child is not by force, God did not say YOU MUST HAVE CHILDREN, YES HE STATED 'MULTIPLY' but he didn't mean we should do it to suffer for them. Having children does not mean you will live your life joyfully and it doesn't give you a place in heaven either, instead, your children may make you miss heaven if care is not taken.

I am a product of a neglected, nonchalant, cultural upbringing and I WILL NEVER WISH IT ON MY GREATEST ENEMY BECAUSE I HAD IT ROUGH AND IN SADNESS.

Let us stop being selfish and stop pushing our problems/burdens on others. Your child should be with you no matter how poor or rich you are and you must teach them in the ways of God.

Some parents in Nigeria, have children in Diaspora and know nothing about their life , only the fact that their child is abroad.

udemzyudex:
We have found kill you there.

The list wey dem give una since why una no call them out,all of a sudden una don find new finaciers.

famouscargo4u:
Nothing will come out of it. UAE identified over 100 the last time and it was not addressed.

Davash222:
My brother, the thing taya me pass you.
Seems we’re loosing more men to Eve’s daughters recently.
The one wey pain me pass na, the guy that was complaining that ‘His girlfriend zoomed off with his car and left him stranded at the airport’.
such leverage!!

Teetee777:
It happened in Gusau 2 weeks ago. The woman was sss, she was kidnapped in front of her house. How it happened:
The woman was seating with her husband outside their home on that fateful day, her husband noticed a strange face in the street and he stood up to call other people around, on coming back to the house, his wife has been kidnapped.

The people gathered to wonder what was happening and someone among the crowd boasted that they can't take it if it is him, unfortunately for him too, the kidnappers came back on the 2nd day to kidnap the man with his wife and children for boasting among the crowd.

The area called for a security meeting on how they are going to secure the area from the kidnapping, suddenly a man from the meeting excused himself from the meeting and unknowingly to him that someone has followed him without notice, the man called those bandits and informed them the latest situation in the area, fortunately, he was one of the informants for the bandits and he was arrested with 3 people in the area that were working as an informant for the bandits.

Those bandits refused to accept the old naira note and they will wait till the new naira note comes out before they can accept the ransom.

pinkPUSSY:
THIS IS THE ONLY CROWD A PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE OF A RULING PARTY COULD PULL DESPITE ALL THE FUNDINGS AND LOGISTICS.
EVEN BUHARI PULLED MORE THAN THIS 2011 WHEN HE WAS IN OPPOSITION YET HE FAILED

Edusouls:
Abegi leave Nigeria go USA make we hear word see USA issuing security alert, racist, murder capital of the world, you fools are not tired licking the ass of these tyranny gangsters USA /nato

lhordspy:
US has over 368+ mass murder alone this year and still counting.

Yet they go about issuing warning, causing unrest in other countries while their puppets UK and others just follow the trend.

Share intelligence with our security agent if you really want to help.

usmanbaba:
As you stock your broiler remember marketing, selling your broilers could be harder than rearing them.

DadaHammed:
Not just physicians, every licensed healthcare professionals are emptying into advanced countries.

divinehand2003:
I remember that the minister of labour says we shouldn't worry about Nigerian doctors leaving to other countries at all. In fact it is a welcome development as these guys in diaspora will make returns to develop the Nigerian economy. Moreover he added that the country’s universities will continue to produce thousands of doctors on yearly basis that will meet our health care needs.

DevilSignature:


Alex u no inform us in time

I 4 show up

Omooba77:
Can this be proofed, Lalasticlala.....

Lagosianswag:
So if it was a Samsung phone then the wedding might still proceed

iPhones causing problems since inception

Bluev:
. Yes

Blesimgs:
Jesus.. they didn't even state what happened to warrant it

jaybenugo:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CoX6ouwH6EM



https://www.skysports.com/amp/boxing/news/12040/12678205/usyk-vs-aj-anthony-joshua-breaks-down-in-tears-after-oleksandr-usyk-loss-im-upset-deep-down-in-my-heart

Mokason288:
BUhari told us that there was nothing like subsidy

He has never heard that word.... now his government is paying 4trilion on subsidy that he has already removed twice

femisplash:
DSS doing her job, the other arms are found complicit of negligence Yet Buhari won't fire anyone. Brigade guards were attacked yet Buhari has never fired a bird 12 hours after. I wonder how a leader would conveniently watch on while some few crooks mess up your government. If he was alive enough to his duties, some ministers would have been long gone let alone the incompetent CBN Governor.

OsilaGama:
I have been searching for the tittle of this funny Chinese movie..
I can remember one character where a bald headed man has the ability to fly so high and also cause loads of destructions..
He has a kind of � Frog throat that blows up and gets flaccid...
Here is the picture of one of the characters

Odewaleadesoye:
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