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Mizchief:
Way to go, potential lady shooter

Thanks dear.That skill will come in handy someday.

Nmeri17:
say yes to me and all yo wishes and fantasies shall become our reality :* what sayest thee??

Oh my lawd! You truly mean that? . Anyway thanks for the offer but I'll feel more fulfilled if I achieve it all by myself with little or no help at all.

Mizchief:
Set up an NGO before age 30
Learn how to sail
Learn a new language- spanish

Shoot a gun
Smoke a fancy cigar

Go girl.
We have a lot in common on our bucket list. My list includes:

To adopt a baby girl or twin girls from either ethiopia or india.
To learn spanish and visit a hacienda in spain.
To learn to shoot a gun.
To have a mariachi band sing to me.
To ride a powerbike preferably a harley davidson.
To own my own company by age 40.
To own a house by the beach or even a portion of an Island.(This is just wishful thinking sha)

Joslyn:
I'm very hairy on my legs but have few strands of hair on my jaw. I think it's hereditary cos my dad is very hairy. Its not abnormal.

Just like me. I got few strands on my jaw. Noticed them in year 1 and foolishly used shaving stick on them. Now I know better. They are still there but the strands of hair became thicker and grew faster. So I resort to plucking with my hands. I also noticed that mine could be hormone related cos it gets worse when I dropped to 50kg and when I take lots of sugar. I think I'll go for a PCOS test.

Agrika:
Seems nobody understands me here, sad ...please mods close this thread

Babe, I truly understand you. It's just that women pretend a lot. So many didn't marry for love but for lust. I definitely wouldn't marry for love; if the guy has up to 60 percent of the abilities I need in a mate, then we walk down the aisle. Love isn't in the big scheme of things . Don't feel bad, many are with u but it's difficult for them to admit the truth to themselves.

I almost died, tried committing suicide. My worst fear came true. It's over 2 months now and surprisingly, I am truly happy that it ended now cos I was a slave in the relationship. Though I get depressed and have to deal with low self esteem once in awhile, I'm on the path to recovery and nothing will make me take the shit I took for 6 years. I am a Survivor.

Ilovenigeria:
Na so! Why are you not contesting for Miss nairaland?
You fine jooor.

Thanks dear. I have never contested for such and I don't think I want to start now. Shey u get?

Ilovenigeria:
Women make your own money, add your boyfriend and maga own join. All na independent woman

u garrit girl$ chop knuckle jare.

I will say to him ' honey, I've been waiting all my life to find someone like you, when can we start the process?

[quote author=dein77 post=27471681]I'm so happy to read this. A vast majority of us have similar stories. I pray He upholds you to the end.[/quot

Thanks dear and Amen

No one has mentioned mine from the beginning of this thread to this point, and he is Jonah. My life is just like his, refusing to heed Jehovah's instruction but His loving kindness with me made me return to Him to do the right thing and I'm forever grateful for a second chance. Preaching the good news of Gods kingdom is my sole aim from now on.

[quote author=Shokoloko post=27464693]I love the two ladies aquila and prisca/ priscillia. They were thanked severally in the new testament and mentioned as being helpers in the house of God. They didn't do mighty works but they were consistent acts 18, 1corinthians 16, 2 timothy 4.

I also love the prophetess and intercessor anna luke 2:36. She worshiped, fasted and prayed. She loved the Lord[/quote


aquila and Priscilla are a couple o. Not two females.

carefreewannabe:
Absolutely!

This is my dream family

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i don't regret reading ur post at all. We both think alike. I wonder if its possible for single ladies to be allowed to adopt kids in Nigeria and what are the procedures? Is the requirement different for singles?

priscaoge:
Oh Dear u Seems to enjoy jumping into conclusion! I want to believe that u can understand English pretty well. Maybe you need to read all my post from page1 to this last page before u quote me!

i did dear and i still had to ask you these questions so u can throw more light on them. Do u have some insider info on the mother that we NLders don't have?

oyeludef:
e b like say u sabi d man abi na u?

lol. U just spoke my mind. I suspect that he is even the man himself. The way he has been defending the man as against the woman is a cause for concern. Let him please go and pick them up cos 8 years don waka.

priscaoge:
Lol, Yes that's the question! Maybe he is dead Or something. Like I said earlier, I blame their Mum more. Tell me her reason for abandoning her kids for So long. Let's say d man is dead,what about their mother? Is She that heartless? Why do we have The Child Activists and Welfare? If the man couldn't grant her possession of those kids,She should have fought for it Or even try to visit and see them. Much dear this matter tire me. 8yearsis damn ten much!

well, since you are the human rights activist for the man, let me ask you the following questions :
1) do you know the history of this family prior to this story?
2) do you know if the man used the wife for ritual and the woman had to flee for her life?
3) what of the man used a strange guise to kidnap the kids and send them to boarding school without their mother's knowledge?
4) do you know if their mother is still alive cos those children cant even remember their mum?

so if you can honestly and truthfully answer these questions, please desist from insulting the woman as you do not have the whole facts. Concentrate on the fact u have provided, which is , that the man abandoned his three kids in a boarding school for 8 solid years. What manner of animal is that?

elipheleh:
Guys enwe na obi . Lekwe nu Girls monkikikikiki na uburu

U don't even understand igbo at all. And it's funnny to u abi?

elipheleh:
I am Happy . PM me so i will call u so we can arrange our cheating. Now I am busy

Busy keh? And you want me to PM you. Guys enwe na obi.

bayulll01:
two dreamers comeback when u are 35

Only a dreamer would type this at 35

Pimples:
You know what they say...."You don't know what you have untill its gone"

Also The saying "Not all that glitters is gold"

U assume that if u had not settled for less, you would be problem free?

Then you are mistaken because the rich also cry.

Sorry o, I don't buy ur ideology. I'm trying another method and who says I have to stick to one way of reaching a final goal. If it works for u, fine. It hasn't worked for me so I'm ditching that your formula

elipheleh:
eeeya....i will tell ur hubby for u. By the way come and cheat with me

Hubby ke? I'm single and searching

Xsolutions:
Ask and you SHALL recieve...

Gbam. I concur.

safarigirl:
Preach sister!

Dem go dey yarn like say guys like that no dey. Lola ain't complaining bout Peter, Will Smith's wide is happy. Mikel's babe is using him to tease us, James Rodriguez is happily married. Carmel Anthony is living it up with his wify.

So, what's this ish about?

Bless you sister. After settling for less, my eyes are now open.

EfemenaXY:
Why not?

Isn't this the point where you ought to ask yourself what you've probably been doing wrong to make her stray into another man's arms?

~ Perhaps you've let yourself "go" over the years? You're no longer the sexy guy with tight bùttöcks and rippling six-pack she married, but instead a lazy couch potatoe sporting a beer belly and man bööbs?

~ Or maybe, you don't pray and dry-fast hard enough for her?

~ If she's a working woman, does she come home after a hard day's graft at the office to an untidy home? Whilst you flip through your favourite sports channels whilst yelling at her to bring you freshly pounded yam and Egusi soup?

~ Do you undermine her efforts and take her for granted?

sister, you just mentioned it all. Men take us for granted a lot of times. They think they don't have to work hard to keep us attracted to them.

It is not un all cases you can forgive and forget. It is worst when a cheating partner is not remorseful, makes excuses or even blames you for his cheating ways. How can you possibly forgive and forget? I cant forgive o, cos once a cheater , always a repeater.

I will laugh best one day and be vindicated. A cheater will always be a repeater, married or not. When that itch in between their legs start itching them, we will see the result in divorce.

The type who wants to control absolutely everything her sons does. Who they marry, where they build their houses? She keeps demanding for money all the time , always running all her business venture to the ground, the only thing that makes her happy is money and. Expensive clothes. She would rather have her sons remain single than allow another woman into their lives. Fear that MIL. She can even poison her son just so she can control him absolutely.

Octaves:
My mom learnt how to drive before I was born. She doesn't drive often but when she does drive, i dey fear. She can't relax even when you are driving her, always complaining. Watch out for that! A keke is comimg out of that street! Take it easy! Hope you are seeing those children by the road! Ah ah! Complaint too much

I was the same with my ex. I would point out all the road hazards.I hate seating in front of the car and he would scream at me to shut up. That would make me cry cos I was just showing concern in my own way. At a time, I started sitting at the back or would prefer to take public transport.

vivalableue:
Sir,

The problem I see in your response is highlighted. You give the west way too much credit as well. In many western countries, women still fight to get things like equal salary, etc. The crux that I love about feminism is that the definition itself includes the uplifting of both genders, equally. That means that you as a man, are also encouraged to break boundaries and social norms when it comes to being a man. It means that you have the chance to experience things that were previously forbidden to you as man. For example, shedding tears (if you didn't need to cry then why were you created with tear ducts?).

Now the problem, as I highlighted earlier is this, you are equating womanhood with marriage. Now, I do understand that marriage is an important right of passage in the life of adults, both male and female. In fact, as a half Punjabi woman, I do understand the strong pulls of my society to be married in order to enjoy the status of full womanhood. However, I choose to renounce that on the grounds that marriage doesn't make me less of who I already am. Maybe in the past, things were different. But, right now, I am responsible for myself, the taxes I pay, the children I bore, bills, everything is my responsibility. If I were to be married, the situation wouldn't change except for the fact that my husband is responsible for me, and I will be responsible for him as well.

Your original question is that in my mind, I envision that a feminist would naturally make a better wife. Why? Because she is interested in the equal voice of both partners be heard in the marriage. The man can have the opportunity to be himself and be cherished for it, and the wife will have the same chance. No one would relegate each other for certain trad. roles either. For example, the father of my children is a chef. He preferred to cook every meal we had. I personally, didn't mind, because he was a slob and I tackled the cleaning of the house. Did I make him feel like a "woman" for doing this thing he preferred? No way! Besides, once a week, I treated him to a meal as well, and he tackled the house work when I was at work too. My kids don't think that daddy is a weak fellow, in fact, he's as a strongwilled as they come. He just enjoyed the fact that I allowed him to be himself, with no judgement. I personally, love to build things with my hands (carpentry) and I work in IT. I own the power drill in the house. And it suits us just fine, and our culture is still preserved because we observe the traditional holidays, family events etc. We sometimes put our own spin on things, but at the end of the day, the level of stress is very minimal.

Hey sister, can I give u a big hug? I'm so much in love with your write up. You just gave me the extra boost to continue to be myself.

[quote author=true45 post=26620038]Am definitely in support of equal right, I hope to improve it more in the country.
As a feminist I believe you to be a matured mind that knows what you want and fight for it, so also should be matured to know the role you play as a wife so in my opinion "Yes" they most definitely can be wife material. "some may want to claim" just make to remind her you still the one with the missing rib

Am definitely in support of equal right, I hope to improve it more in the country.
As a feminist I believe you to be a matured mind that knows what you want and fight for it, so also should be matured to know the role you play as a wife so in my opinion "Yes" they most definitely can be wife material. "some may want to claim" just make to remind her you still the one with the missing rib







Please , are you married. My ex needs to meet with you and learn a thing or two from you. God bless you