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Once a day when i get back from work.sikena

@ Op u r right.same wit me.but is like airtel spared some lines.

All women nag.it happens if u fail to do what they want or u repeatedly do wat they arent pleasewith. so bro, fight back n sometimes, get used to it like i do.cheers

we r no fools.this to me is staged.let them come out wit real facts n evidence.they r working but dey shouldnt overrate it.phew!

Biafra4tharmy: Hail nigeria army. Its a welcome development and im looking forward to 25% annihalation of northern moslem population. That wil give southern nigeria everlasting political domination come 2015. Boko haram should continue so that more muslim infidels be massacre. Hail Biafra

i am a christian but i am disappoinnted in u

i think we should not begin to compare casualties in churches wit mosques cos we will only end up in supporting the act thru sentiments.i know is painful n sad.churches should tighten their security n look out for new faces

Go for Interline Nigeria.
Should you need bearings(SKF BEARINGS) for your trucks,which you will, contact me through this id or mail:ayanfe4glory@yahoo.co.uk
i shall be ready to help. wishing you the best in your business. cheers.

akinajayi: dont redeploy, you will enjoy it. But pray not to be posted to the following towns:
Hadejia, Jahun and Kiri-Kasama. They are the Hotbeds of 'the new world'.

pls wat do u mean as d hotbeds of the new world.

I am not that freak abt marriage myself.I had thought about this before and i realized it best if you rily want to be free of any commitment but believe, the child will really suffer. In most cases, this desire is borne out of selfish lifestyle n one's personality. you either end up being completely irresponsible as a man, flirting around and the rest of what life has for a single man with money.
secondly, if you found yourself as a single parent( either as a man or woman) cos of circumstances, the feeling is different;you will be more focus and determine than finding yourself in this position becos you chose to. It is actually complicated with the rate of unhappiness experienced in marriages these days. but most importantly, marry someone that shares your dreams, desire, ideals in life and tell each other your fears.That will solve the boredom in marriage.

am rily surprised ur topic made it to the front page. dunce. wat is there to be happy abt. loving a guy that beats u? carry go, notin do u o

LET ME ADD THIS: SO LONG YOU ARE NOT A WOMANIZER, EGOCENTRIC AND YOUR FEELINGS TOWARDS HER IS PURE, THEN YOU SHOULD DO A FORMAL INTRODUCTION N LATER DO A WHITE MARRIAGE WHEN YOU GUYS HAVE ENOUGH MONEY. GBAM!!!!1

@ POSTER. Everybody will express their opinions on this issue. some will encourage you while some will discourage due to what they must have heard or gone through themselves. but listen to this truth of mine: the girl is really a good n nice girl for coming up with that plan.it shows she rily cares abt you n your future together. Like what other people had said, to maintain your pride n dignity, accept the money as loan n try to respect her opinions. you should also if you can be honest abt it, never cheat on her. Only this will prevent her from be vindictive in the future.You know your girl better than anyone here on this forum, so you should be able to understand what she can do and undo. wishing you guys all the best.

i think you and your hubby-to-be need to discuss the possibility of gettin married and still stay employed. honestly, i cant cope be jobless or dependent on someone for my livelihood. i have been in this position before and i chose love. i need not tell you i really was jobless for a year n half. it all depends on what u treasure most. your man or your job. believe this, if the man worth it, leave the job cos u will always get another.

It is sad that it has come to this. But honestly, it is better you don't discuss this with him because he knows what you are feeling and he will try to appeal to you emotionally. Why don't you love him as a brother and see how things turn out with time.

My dude run dont walk.it is so sad.gosh it sucks.may God help you man

I think kanu has a point in what he said,only that sometimes you dont always have to criticise your government because they are also working for the interest of either the public or certain few people.I also believe that politics should not be mixed with football.

please what can i do?I sometimes feel i should walk out because i fear that she might be influcenced while i am gone.

you need to be attracted before you get down unless you are damn.so tell me nikekenny,dont you love beautiful things?

.i think virgins do cos this is based on findings and my personal experience.but i also believe that if they fall in wrong hands and friends they can be exposed to infidelity.

[flash=200,200][/flash][quote][/quote]like wat
what i mean is that if the feeling is mutual then it is very easy to call each other sweet names especially on the female side.women are more emotional than men or rather men tend to hide it becos of the man ego.but for a man who is just falling in love,his pride is still low until he has grown up in relationship(s) or in that relationship then he begins to feel that he should start acting like a real man.

like wat

what i mean is that if the feeling is mutual then it is very easy to call each other sweet names especially on the female side.women are more emotional than men or rather men tend to hide it because of the man ego.but for a man who is just falling in love,his pride is still low until he has grown up in relationship(s) or in that relationship then he begins to feel that he should start acting like a real man.

[i] i as a person don't see anything WRONG about it.it is just that you must be serious with her.this  kind of feeling plays itself out when u fall in love with your friend's sister.na wa 4 boyz oooooo

this depend on the kind of feelings that exist between both of you.i had the personal experience and i know of people who do it and dont do it.at first,if u are just fallin in love it drives in into such thing like that, cheers

i believe in the power of love and i also want to agree with oreoluwa on that

i tink he feels you are making him conscious of what he fears most :-Xsome men are too afraid to wake up to the fact that they have a duty to perform.Anyway i tink you should give him space so that he can think while you stay away from any form of relationship, goodluck and cheers,