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māy bę ţђę ŗęāşoŋ ђę ђāşŋ'ţ goţ ā job įş yoų įŋ ђįş life. plęāşę lęāvę ђįm āŋd wāţçђ wђāţ ђāppęŋş ŋęҳţ .

dįşçlāįmęŗ: į ām ŋoţ şāyįŋg yoų āŗę dįşţųŗbįŋg his progress but you will make him wake up

alutacontinua: Not to be one-sided, he might actually have a point. How long have you guys dated? Why haven't you put the ring? Were you even planning on putting the ring? How old is she? She has a right to dump you if you're nt serious with her.

Read your story again, i think the key is to put the ring if you really plan on putting it. All her actions were probably out of frustration and anger. If you ever get past this, tell her to just voice out next time and not start acting out. She's not a teenager, i suppose!

But that is not good a reason to ridicule him for peter' sake.There might be some reasons why the guy had not proposed. if they enjoy open communication, the issue will be resolved rather than the immature attitude she displayed. she could give him an ultimatum

95% of comments here showed you have lost her. Please and please never get too emotional again,it will always make you look stupid.when a lady picks up an argument with you unnecessarily, know she either cheating or about to or when you wrong her and she refuses to yield,something is about to unfold.
All the best.

The question should be:Will it be wrong if couples hide their security codes?
I don't see any thing wrong in using a security code on my phone since we are not the only people in this world.

@ OP. The whole relationship is too messed up for you to be in. Secondly, what are you looking for that you and this guy keep perambulating over a dead relationship.
Thirdly, I think you are still a learner and either the guy or his friends are playing with your emotions. So, take a walk for your dignity.

if you can do this, you will win. Don't quit rather show her love and silence tactic whenever she argues with you. believe me, she will get tired as long she is not loving another man.

The question is what do you guys argue so much about? it is either you guys are not compatible or none of you is mature enough to let it be.
secondly, you want a woman who won't express her opinion on issues or what. Thirdly, I think you need to deal with your hot tempered attitude. As long as my woman is not cheating n she is respectful, I really don't mind if she earns more than me. mark the word: respect! That is what counts for me most.

My question is this: To what end is this topic,to learn or to ridicule? one thing i have found out in life is this:No one has the final say to the things of God.so people should just quit finding the fault in one religion or denomination over the other.
You seem to forget that we are humans and any law or tenet we form can't never be perfect or agreed to by all. Whatever you choose to believe is your cup of tea and that doesn't place you superior to your fellow human being.

Every man/woman shall be judge by his/er deeds. I know some people will hate me for this, but this is the truth. Christians are the best practitioner of hypocrisy.Mind you,i don't believe in this as well but my best friend is a catholic and I respect his beliefs.

Idowuogbo: Smh! Normal u say? Seun! U never change? Jeez!

don't be sad; all the Seun I know flirt.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Send a mail and copy them all.....that always works[/quote]hmm,u r one smart dude.it can never fail, but is dangerous

lostgirl85: To some fb isn't serious but to me it is like you say he could be a whole nother person on there and I wanna know that person b4 I open my legs and 3 months is a lot longer than most women can say considering I'm not a virgin.

on the fb thing, I agree with you on that. it speaks a lot about someone personality behind the physical presence. for the 3month, u are wrong. I have stayed without sex for 7 months and I am not a virgin. so you are wrong to say 3 month is long enough for u.

berem: wetin come be her Muslim name?

Alhaja Chichinatu?

SMFDH!!

Bookmarked. When I need to relax,will come here.

I love the part that talks about expecting less. Nice write up.

Good morning Nairalanders hope your weekend was great.
This is a month of perfection, and i feel like sharing this words with you:
What is life without a supreme being in it.
Honestly this isn't about religious bigotry
There are FORCES
Imean two kinds of a thing exist; its just the plain true
Which do you belong to? decide today!
Happy New Month..cheers

From what I have read so far, wifey has a lot to learn. pls and pls stop this ranting; your marriage is too young.
secondly, u can't just change that all of a sudden. Be patient OK.

I am thinking here. Am in between gbengben and Abpatrick. They both are the bomb.
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I vote PC guru
ijogz k
Xavier

Is so sad some ladies found this act to be sweet. Fine! Is understandable you ladies want to enjoy anything your man has but you won't accept the same treatment.That is bad. @ poster, You need to tell her that the problem isn't in taking the money rather not telling you and denying it. it sucks big time.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Well I want a wife who will be active in the decision making and will back it up with action.....[/quote]we share the same desire.

For the question, yes

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Wait wait wait.

You kissed a girl.
She cried.
She managed to stop crying.
And she kissed you over and over again.
You didn't ask her why she cried. You let her go. You didn't call her to ask her why she cried. You let her be.

And now, you decide to come ask us, total strangers, why she cried? Were we there? Na who we go ask?

I think there's something wrong somewhere. For someone to come ask me why a girl he kissed yesterday cried, something must have gone wrong. . . OP, have you eaten today? [/color]

omo u bad gan o. some people can be funny. Nairaland has become your one stop forum for anything as flimsy as this.smh

The bible says whoever plays with a married woman romances with death. Didn't you read that part in proverbs.The fact the man didn't kill you is a sign of hope for redemption of your soul,not ur body oooo. My brother, Thank God you still have time to tidy things up and ask for forgiveness.confess your sins and ask for forgiveness Q.E.D

@ poster. you need to be patient with her; that is one of the disadvantages of dating younger ladies.They are completely unstable and adventurous.

sleekch1c: U seem like u dnt have much going for u.most sensible and busy men ur age that i knw dnt go sneaking arnd with teenagers.Get sm1 ur age....agbaya

Have you forgotten the saying: catch them young. You can not blame him because we have stories of people who marry younger ladies and they are happy for it.it is all about his intention

I can never do that except the situation is critical: she is ill.
I remembered having an argument wit someone over this. The fact you are pregnant does not make you lazy unless you cant squat.

This story was made up, but I really enjoyed myself laughing.

[quote author=oko-omoge]Firstly I feel for you and understand your situation. Perfectly. I am a married man with a boy who is 5 years old, I was once like your husband.

Please I will beg you do everything to win back your man. Firstly please just forget the thought about your husband is cheating on you, see as if you have lost something so precious and you should do all to recover it.

From personal predicament, I was in love with another woman in a foregin land, where I can lose all I have worked for if my wife decide to fight dirty.

I knew I was heading for destruction by having an affair but I did not care anymore because what mattered was my happiness and peace of mind. I will not say you
are solely responsible for your husband actions. However,[size=14pt] you had definitely trigger is desire to seek for happiness elsewhere subconsciously through your behaviours/actions.[/size]

Always remember you are the neck of the family, the neck controls the head. Once the neck becomes stiff, the head is useless. Realise, your husband is your first son, most women don't know men are grown up babies. I am man and I am telling you the truth, forget how intelligent and strong he is and other stuffs.

You need to be extra patient, tolerant, and extra mature as a woman if you want a happy home. We men want respect, attention, being looked after. We are very selfish, we believe our wife's should forget their life's once they get married.

I tell you what, my wife woke me up in middle of the night with tears in her eyes and told me please find it in your heart to forgive me if I have done or still doing something that made you mortgage your love for me. She had a choice of telling me look guy, if you don't leave that lady, I will destroy you and make you pay dearly.

I came back to my sense and I realised I had just been given a second chance and if I screw up, I may regret it.

So in the nut shell, try and unravel why someone you exchanged marital vows with decided to love someone else after 5 years. Do a root cause analysis and pray for God to give you patience and uncommon preserverance.

Do this and your children will surely receive God blessings and uncommon grace. That's the way God pay back pious women.

My 2 cents
Yemi (Perth WA)[/quote]@ poster, the solution to your problem may lie in the bolded words. Good luck.

Very soon, we shall open an office in Abuja to serve our Abuja's clients and we shall take her by storm.
For those who don't know' we also do homelift and dumb waiter. Life is full, so live luxuriously if you can afford it. We have stairlift,useful for old people or people with physical challenges.
Call for any questions you need answers to. Cheers guys.

Flytefalls: Now, I wasn't created to lust after women so Mr NL better deliver

Word! The die would soon be cast.

tonididdy: i refuse to accept this result...NL see YOU IN COURT #dazall

No problem. In fact we r battle ready. Let go there.
Am really having fun with this. It has been awhile.

Yes ooooooooooooooooooooo wE wOn. Up Lupey

runzlord: Pple re even voting cos she is yoruba??
Be real 4 once
if i was asked wat i wiil change in africa, that will be it!

#TEAM NADIA SA JOOR!

You are wrong. Honestly I voted for three people before
this final and some things stood out for her. Her hips, her smiles n d facial beauty. Others have it but her's was just outstanding. Now, reading her answers just killed other thought for nadia. I believe others share or majority share this opinion. Brother, it goes beyond tribe for me.

Ferdinandu: who said she is confident,I can't see any confidence in her.she can't even stand on the answers she gave and defend it instead she was here trying to apologize .Just the Crowd so much noise.

You goofed brother. If she ever apologized, simply because she felt sorry for dos who thought she is over-confidence n decided to massage their ego.