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bmdmix14:
op said one of the cause.
N also loose girls get raped more then decent girls

Yeah. I know. I have heard family members that have raped one of their own. And it's also very common. Just that nobody really talks about it. Was just trying to make OP understand there is no excuse for rape. Indecent dressing or not.

CuteEmma:
Good move . EU should follow suit. Fvcking hypocrites. The supply is inconsequential to US.

Are you in US?

Do the guys commenting even know anything about Russia or it's just what you hey see online?
Do they even know why there is war to start with?

Aduke23:
I happen to be a tall gurl. A man once told me that my height threatens him. Of recent, a guy also told me I look unapproachable because of my height.

So why exactly are these set of ladies found unapproachable?

Yeah.You right about this though. Guess,most guys don't wanna a figure taller than them making them seem "irrelevant".
My girl is taller than me�. She's 6"1.

Totilopussylick:
To satisfy woman for this life is very hard

I don't know. My mom took all the abuse from her husband and was quiet. She lays quiet still in a mortuary now.

Wittyglam:
Some people will still find way. I remember in school people bang inside sick bay. Can you imagine?

Possible! I'll rather not. Remember I once worked somewhere with my ex....You can fill in the blanks. I said no.

We got cameras everywhere in my place of work. Can't bang around. You can't just have a quickie anywhere because you can't control the urge.

Klchnjoku:
I've noticed that most supporters of Trump on this platform are Nigerians who haven't travelled outside the shores of Nigeria.

They only stay updated with Info's they see on social media and other foreign news media. And sometimes these medias doesn't give the clear picture or turn of events in a place.

A couple of days ago I was speaking with my Aunt who lives in pennsylvania and she was telling me bluntly and with utmost certainty that there is no way Trump will be reelected on the 3rd of Nov not even in the next life.

I was shocked when she made this claim, better don't be deceived by the few whites or blacks you see online or on TV shouting MAGA.

More than 60% of the American population are tired of the Trumps regime and they want him out.

U dey Naija dey shout MAGA, dey shout Trump e go shock you for Nov 3, you go know say na Americans go vote for the election no be Nigerians.

Actually, there are many Nigerians living in US supporting Trump and others who don't. Your aunt is just probably airing her opinion. I can equally say my aunt who resides in FL says the exact opposite but that wouldn't make any difference.

American politics is just American.

Baawaa:
After you spoiled everything

Go and fight him now

Imamshekau:


Nice one their from United States incoming presido Joe Biden,I believe picking Harris is the right choice even tho I still think she fvcked her way to the top.

Now that the Democrats have gotten a vp choice let the battle begin,I can bet my full one month salary on this election that Trump is definitely gonna lose,the only set of people backing him are his fans on nairaland.Check out his page you hardly find any positive comments about him from real Americans except from republican trolls.

The Trump presidency is chaotic and a disaster.

Let's me make some money come NOV. If you are so sure of what u are saying,let's bet 500K. Anybody who wins takes 500K. Fair deal?

favor914:
I can see you are thinking critically, outside the box, no drug is new, it is related to another drug, when the big pharmaceutical companies like Glaxo, & Co are ready, they will make it available, it’s all about business, they will condemn every other solution, they must be the ones with the solution.

When you have a cough you are advised to take cough syrup by WHO, but they won’t tell you that garlic, honey, ginger & bitter kola, can also relief you.

True. When once the sudden self realization hits you that you have a BIG say on who lives and who doesn't. Self control and discipline is really needed and for someone like me that believes in God, I need Him too.

humnsikan:
True. People should just learn to think for themselves and not rely on the media, even google. Just browse same-sex marriage and every information google presents to you will be positive. Google"s algorithm now decides what information get. Terrible

Bless you fam! Really nothing can be done about the ignorant. I used to be Pro- lot of things and didn't really care about the other party up until I started LISTENING and realized that they are humans too. It made a whole lot of difference.

humnsikan:
The question is, how many US politician have not used HCQ either for treatment or for prevention. Why also bar doctors from prescribing it to COVID-19 patients if there is no hidden agenda? This lady is correct and her remark is convincing. I know a medical colleague who has used Chloroquine (500mg dly for 5days) -Zinc (200mg dly for 2wks)-Azithromycin (500mg dly for 5 days) combination to treat his family members and other patients, including elderly ones, who manifested early signs of covid 19 like fever, loss of taste, loss of smell, cough, etc, all with good results. I took these combination for prevention. This is no longer news.

It is also worthy to note that it is still this same group of Drs that challenged an earlier published research on the Lancet stating that HCQ was not effective against Covid19, exposing the errors in methodology, leading the Lancet to withdraw the research and apologize.

There is really a nefarious battle going on and reasonable voices have been drawned. Thank God for these group of Drs that have placed value for human life above their job security.

The medical establishment in the US claims we have to wait for vaccine, yet people are dying and some states in the US have banned the prescription of HCQ to patients. For them it is better for people to die than to receive HCQ.This is terrible.

Thanks for you comprehensive contribution. I just read a few comments above and people are just.... Well, its NLand. We think everything is a joke and if it don't fit our narrative, we think others don't know what they know.

new2012:
Lol.

Of course they should delete it, it makes absolutely no sense.. hydrochloroquine, zinc and zithromas is available everywhere. Nobody want others to die, and her conclusion is not valid. Aba Kyari and co would probably had swallowed loads of those, it's not as easy as she's saying it.

Again, she had history, research on her

Who told you it was CoVID that killed Kyari? Do you know what it means to come out and lay claims in US if you are not sure of your convictions esp for someone who is an Immigrant.

Afam4eva:
They did very well by deleting the video. I saw her name trending on twitter and didn't even bother checking why it was trending but later learned it had something to do with how she has the cure for Corona virus.

Just out of curiousity, why would you say they did well by banning the video? Is she lying or because she is African (Nigeria to be precise)

Ygrette:
Haha. Can imagine Kim Kardashian as First Lady. She'll just be shaking bumbum for us.

Same Kim that is studying law? Please, investigate more before you type.

Just because the media paints Jude to be a "bad" person doesn't mean that he is. Cynthia wasn't just smart and seemed to have learnt. Enough of this nonsense already.

MiamiePizza:
you don't even have brain, applaud the FBI... so because Nigeria is bad now anybody can just sit behind his/her computer and tweet rubbish 'bout the country?
Why they not say 'help track this Chinese or Arab or Russian' but they can easily type '6 Nigerian'. Do you even know the percentage of Nigerian that do this crime? less 2℅
If you don't stand up and defend your country you think someone else will?
Try learn how to defend your country, if you can't its better you shut up and don't talk any further.

I live in America. I work in a sensitive place. Yesterday,one of the colleagues was watching the news and I clearly heard "Nigerians ". I didn't say anything cos he didn't say anything to me. I am sure you would have defended that if you were in my shoes.

Had to wear one. It could be a requirement for those visiting.

Ilaumoh:
Will get there one day sir

That's more like it. I only said that cos I am from AKS. I do not live there for now but my family does and I have friends there too. I kinda have a firsthand info on what us going on there but as you earlier stated, we'll get there someday.

Ilaumoh:
Hmmm, I just hope your comment is not out of hate but love but let be careful what we say.
And Akwa Ibom is currently the highest producer and marketer of farm product in the country , which give birth to its having negative food inflation in the country currently. So sir pls do well to verify your comment before posting them, do away with hate.
Akwa ibomite are not poor or hungry ok
You can change your mindset with that attachment & links below
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Nigerian_states_by_literacy_rate

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/food-inflation-hits-two-year-high-as-akwa-ibom-records-price-drop/amp

It is a waste sir.

Poloyanabo2:
But i heard that her killers were contracted by a redeemed pastor to kill her?
What does he have to say about that if it eventually turns out to be true?

You heard...It doesn't mean it is true and if it is not true,why answer?

FlordFlorez:
I said it. Their legal system supports and believes policemen. I hope this wouldn't anger the protesters to do more damages.

Protesters asking to defund the police or scrap it out. That's an outrageous demand right there.

BrainRider:
This was clearly elaborated in the write up.
Go through it again.

We live in a world where indecency of any sort is likely not gonna stop now. Rape issue has been going on for years. Indecent dressing or not. That's why I postulated the question.

greatbuc:
I love this. It is understood that there is a connection but the rapist is responsible right.. You see, rape is so bad that we can't always wait for the act to happen before seeking justice. Conviction as a form of deterrence to rape is not enough, the raped could never be un-raped by convicting the perpetrators. Hence the need skimover all loose ends.. We don't even want any occurrence at all Si what do we do? Wake up our censor board.. They have been sleeping.. They can set standards on any social media operating in Nigeria. Banning of personal social media handles that display nudity, indecent dressing and seductive movements to including twerking, clutching of buttocks and breasts, showing of camel toe and bending over with skimpy clothings. China is doing it at the moment.. So don't say its impossible. When you mop that up, we can think of self defense. Pepper spray, stun gun, alarms, panic buttons, martial arts, knives, tranquilizer guns. If all these fail to stop rape then we go to court.

I agree. Quick question,do you know anyone who had been raped before for no mistake of theirs? If so,ask them what that did to them and what they think about what you just posted. I have known about 3-4 of them.

Seetto:
Did I said rape is not rape, what is your problem with indecency, it is like you enjoy seeing ladies scantly dressed...

It is not possible for you to totally get rid of a particular abnormality in the society, but it can be reduced, rape can be reduced when ladies are properly dressed..

I already addressed the issue with indecency. Rape can be reduce when perpetrators have self control. You can just go steal whatever and say shit like " ... Well,I just found it out there ..." We pretty much live in a world where indecency is everywhere and that don't give any retarded dude the right to rape anyone. Everyone is responsible for their actions. Can we agree to disagree here.

Seetto:
How many of them get raped compare to the ones that dress indecently..

Rape is rape. It doesn't matter the figures.

greatbuc:
let's look at it this way.. I am the ordinary agbero you see on the road.. No girlfriend but managed to have a phone.. On the phone I see Nigeria girls in skimpy dresses looking so easy to handle.. My libido shoots rocket high.. This girls promises to date me if I have Benz and wads of dollars.. They twerk and show me their camel toes every day.. But I don't know them and can't access them.. My sexual urge increases everyday these posts come in. Knowing that I am not worthy of their attention due to my status as an agbero, an uneducated unguided one with no teacher but this same internet.. If any girl with hijab or small girls are around, thoughts will start flowing in due to the dangerous exposure I've gotten from online seducers. Now that is the science behind it. When females are in heat.. Men know. When they come online to show it, it becomes one woman telling millions of men that so so lady on the gram is in heat let's logon and see how she acts. To you you think you are dancing...probably you not even on heat but just happy. Self discipline is what you will say. Not all men are sane. And we can't kill all the insane ones because you want to go naked on the gram. Reducing indecency on social media will help reduce rape cases in Nigeria. And if you keep thinking we are rape apologists,, well we'll just sit back and watch.

I understand where you are coming from but everyone is responsible for their actions. If you rape because lack of self control,that's all about you. Cos they dress indecent don't mean you have the right to satisfy your sexual urge on them or any around without consent. It don't mean I suppose indecency in any form.Just like stealing,you might have the best reason for it but you are still a thief. Indecent dressing might work your hormone up but what you do after it is your responsibility.

BlueAir:
Wrong. As far as rape is concerned,all reasons for rape go both ways ,both perpetrator and victim. Indecent dressing and poor security measures by victim , psychological deficiency and low self esteem is just one of the many reasons from both sides of the coin.its never wise to aportion blame or solution to one side. Am I seriously going to be lecturing on this simple flexible matter? And op write up is just based to explain how indecent � contributes to it.nothing else

Let's just agree to disagree on this matter.

BlueAir:
That one is caused by other factors of rape! Let's be flexible in thinking.there can't be only one reason for rape or crime

I was only going by the topic. I know there are many reasons for rape that can be defined in one word; The Perpetrator. It doesn't matter if it is a man or woman.

AdamsAbubakar:
The truth should be the world's most bitter pill. When some of us maintain that indecent dressing is one of the causes of rape, some cyber attackers are quick to conclude that we are 'rape apologists.' They are quick to declare that babies and hijabis get raped too. Someone even poised that why are women not raped in beaches for dressing indecently? Of course the rapists are not really dumb to that extent, for they know they will be mobbed instantly by people there for attempting a criminal act. While it is true that babies and hijabis get raped, we must not forget that indecent dressing is not the only cause of rape, but just one out of many other reasons why it is perpetrated by rapists. Recent revelations show that some rapists heartlessly have carnal knowledge of babies because they were instructed by a spiritualist/babalawo/boka to do so in order to make quick money.
Ever wondered why a country like Saudi Arabia records as low as 0.2% of rape cases per year? Some may think it is because of their laws, but that is not the reality. A high level of morality and decency has been inculcated in these people. The punishment for rape under Islamic Law differs among scholars. It may include exile, crucifixion, amputation of legs or killing of the rapist if they used weapons on their victim(s) and threatened them.
A country like the US where rape is a heavy crime, and women supposedly have 'freedom' records one of the highest rates of rape in the world. Al-Jazeera reported in 2016 that more than 100,000 American women are raped yearly. This number would have greatly increased.
It is a well-known fact that a 'rugged dressing' by a female can easily arose a man's libido. When you wear a sexy dress, you are not only looking supposedly attractive but sexually inviting to predators who may not be nice enough to ask for your consent. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines sexy as "sexually suggestive or stimulating". This is exactly how you appear when you dress 'sexy.'
Contrary to the death penalty some are advocating for, the truth is, death penalty will never solve the problem. We have many bodies in Nigeria for example designed to fight corruption which is still thriving in all sectors. More attention should be given to the root of a problem. It is not until it grows into a tree that we will start thinking of which axe will be sharper to cut it down. Since the society is a product of various homes, the fight against rape should start from the root, our homes — charity they say begins at home. Parents should therefore be able to properly discuss sex education with their children and let them know that rape is wrong. If this is done to a good extent, we can start talking about the sanction/punishment which is secondary.

#SayNoToRape
#SayNoToIndecency

© A.A Isa
Saturday, 6th June, 2020.

What will you say about those who dress decently at all times but still get raped? Just asking...