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capitalzero:
Women will badmouth men that cheat

Even if the woman cheats,it is the father's irresponsibility and his inability to be a man that made her cheat

Warrgidanairala:
most senseless comment too

First of all,Burna has a mum and Davido doesn't
Second of all,both of them are involved in women saga but is highly foolish of u to come and say Burna is achieving much today because he takes care of his mum and wife(which he does not have)

A lot of musicians on drugs,family issues and even criminal records are winning Grammy's and setting records so forgive me but your statement is completely trash

Una go just enter thread type rubbish waaahhh

Warrgidanairala:
I've not even listen to this his song sef,burna is going far in life because he respects women and cherish them,take a look at how he treats his mum and family. If you want to go very far in life as a man cherish and respect your mum and wife in short women in general and be sure that the sky will be your starting point.If you think its not true then take a look at Davido's life and his cohorts

Most stupid comment on this thread!
People like u would say anything to support your agenda

Timo Werner that Chelsea fans were hailing would score more goals than Ronaldo and Messi has suddenly turned to a regular volunteer for the Yakubu Aigbemi challenge

Everybody get him time Sha,the German team of 2014 fit beat this people 13-0 dey chop Macedonia like Mc Donald's

Mozegee:
I just want to put you correct,the love of a son to a mother is different while the love of a daughter to a father is different. Boys love their mother so much,while daughter's are their fathers heart. My daughter's are really crazy of me.

I pray you have a successful marriage
I mean no bad feelings but if u and your wife quarrels big time,u would see who the children supports

ggood:
I need all

Olojukokoro go kee u

Blazinraj01:
What have you done for your father?

More than u can ever do for yours,all u females know is sentiment,can never say something tangible

Plut01:
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Two of my bro did and I will soon do mine. Will use Words to calm Mum


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God go bless your hussle...women says Fathers are the one that should bear the financial burden while they are tasked with the burden of house management so it is only fair that the father should be rewarded more financially while the mother should be rewarded more in her own field but no,they are fond of creating situations that always favour them

capitalzero:
Most fathers suffer because they maltreated mothers of their children.
Many fathers are enjoying reward of their loyalty to their families and wives.

Which maltreat?once the father and the mother starts having issues or he doesn't live up to her selfish expectations,she immediately badmouths him to the children in order to gain their support

Plut01:
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It is the other way round here. In my clan children always love and cherish their father more.


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So u mean in Nigeria,it is possible for a child to buy a house or car for the father before the mother

blinking001:
Hahahahaha.....my own be say ah wan open orphanage..I want to take care of aged men also everywhere I go even if it includes building houses, buying cars or even starting businesses for them, I really dont mind, especially rejected men..i want to Educate the younger generation of males on positive masculinity and also help build their dreams....I really want to leave an impact in this life..marriage is never a priority to me..I don't respect that institution lately...it has lived past its usefulness....I pray for more blessings to accomplish this goals before I bow out of this planet.

Guy,u go see am do
Most married partners cheat and lie to each other so I don't see why someone should have to live forever in that situation

My father died recently and I can't lie,I miss him so much,I just dey use everything catch cruise to cover it up,my father is a rich man but he gave birth to like 10children and he tried to give us rich lives,best schools and so on but such stress is too much even for a rich man and thats what mainly led to his death,if he had just father like one or three of us,he would have had enough money and time to enjoy life to the fullest

Chioma1989:
Hahaha, bros, na quarrel? Please, free your mind. There are many genuine ladies out there that can make a good wife and mother.

Bro,I am not married but I was exposed to many things at a little age,there are not many good wives in Nigeria,infact,they are extinct,most Nigerian women are fond of being entitled,nagging, exaggerating situations,fighting and verbal violence,most of them have problems with their husbands family and if the husband chooses his own family over her,there would be fire in his house

Marriage favours women
Marriage is not an achievement or certificate,do not let anyone tell u that "true happiness comes from having a partner" or "there is nothing better than coming home to a delicious meal",men living with babymamas are happier as they are not entirely committed to the woman and it is better to eat in an eatery than to go and eat in a problematic home

Dpharisee:
He will send him bottles of Schnapps and Hennessy with 3 cartons of beer to kill him faster.
To these kids 2021 Range Rover is not for Fathers.
A child goes to the father for 10k, he gives him his last N9k and walks to the bus stop to squeeze himself in a bus because there is no more money to fuel his car. The child runs to the mother, she adds N1K out of the N200k in her account with a statement belittling the man's sacrifice, don't mind your father that's how he will spend all his money out there on women and buying drinks for friends and can't give common N10K to his child. The child exclaims in amazement, Mummy you are the best, meanwhile at that moment the dad is quarreling with conductor over N50 change which he will need for his return transport home in the evening after forfeiting lunch.
I just weak as a father

Guy,I dey tell u,the father can travel for weeks to do menial jobs in other places and send all the money he makes to the family while he suffers like a fool and if it is not up to the expectations of the wife,she will tell the children how their father is not a man and can't live up to his role and she might even add fisi as women are know to exaggerate,the children being naive would hang on to every word she says as the truth while the poor man is living hell on Earth,the man's longetivity would be reduced while the wife would be chopping life

Let no woman deceive you into bearing more children than your power,if her wahala is too much,don't let any religion tell u anything,japa oo
There is a reason husbands in Nigeria die before their wives

ggood:
True

My niggar!!!
How do u want your beer?

Ghozky:
How old are you?

The above question tells me that even if u are as old as Methuselah,you no get sense

streetsoldier1:
you are right ooo, just invest in your kids and dont neglect yourself, expect nothing from anyone, not even your kids, just do you best and be at ease

Guy,I dey tell u,all this kill yourself on top plenty pikin matter dey reduce life

skentelelady:
Mothers are Treasure. God bless all responsible mothers

So fathers are now what?charcoal abi?

blinking001:
Gbamsolutely..the bitter pill all men must identify with...but fathers can fall hands sha especially the ones born between 1950 to 1980

No be lie but once fathers Bleep up big time,he is seen as a failure and can be discarded by the children but if it is the mother,u start to hear"even if she is a witch,na my mama"

Personally I no get time for family wahala,I just wan make money,chop life,travel around the world and meet different kinds of babes and if I don reach like 50 something,I fit born 1 pikin

Life no hard reach that one,person wey just comot school wey just dey hussle go shaply go marry put hand for trouble born 5 pikin in 5 years,na men dey kill themselves

Xixtie:
I'm sorry but you come off as dumb as whatever you can imagine.

Dumb means inability to speak so how does that correlate to want I commented
Abeg,no dey quote me if u no sabi think

merieam16:
Fatherhood nko

Even if the fathers struggles to provide everything,the children are 100% investment for the mother

Marry at your own peril!
Kill your self over a woman at your own peril!

Marriage and having kids should have been far from your mind but now it's too late.. investments and savings have become almost impossible since u spend most of your income or even more which leads to debt

Do not leave your job until u find a better source of income

Rubbish analysis!
I am not in support of yahoo boys at all but the fact is that many industries in Nigeria thrive on Yahoo boys
Hotel industry makes so much income especially due to yahoo boys

Eateries, restaurants are able to make profit because of yahoo boys

Yahoo boys promote the music industry as they are ready to spend millions on shows and subscribe to paid music platforms unlike most Nigerians who download their music free

Clubs without yahoo boys will close down
Online selling of shoes and clothes,which many Nigerian students use to pay for their daily expenses are thriving because of yahoo boys patronizing them

Car dealers are cashing out big because of Yahoo boys

Sex industry is promoted by yahoo boys

No be the same Buhari plan coup in 1983
Everytime,he is talking but we have never seen him on tv saying something sensible

Abramovic should immediately sign this lady and use her to replace Werner

Cutie09:
Bros don't believe everything on Holywood films. I am not disputing your logic, remember any actor or actress can fake anything it doesn't have to be Western country or Africa that's my argument.

I have read an article in which a black woman did it to her husband,it was after the man committed suicide the truth was revealed

Cutie09:
I don't know the part of Western culture you are talking about here, but you are absolutely wrong yeah it do happened but police do take time to.investigate, the problem here is guys that cheat of their wife end up.losing everything if the woman decides to walk out of the marriage. People in africa inflict or fake injury too.

If she fakes it well with enough witnesses who have seen u guys quarrelling and fake evidence combined with a bad ass attorney,the man is gone

saintbillion:
hehe. U get am bro. But won't wish even my enemies to go through wat i'm going nw o. But me feel ok, na b4 i been dey reason am

Bro,no be only u
Many of us wey go secondary school,some of dem don dey cash out big,them dey vex to relate with me dey tell me say I no dey their level embarrass me one time for area in front of their street babes who just dey laugh me,na only one girl for entire area dey rate me out of everybody because I no get money,she dey cook better food for me,help me with money,dey always encourage me,she go dey wan see me everytime.The girl na mad fine girl from family with enough money so I dey surprised gan wetin she dey find for my side

I no dey even comot house,I no dey sleep for night,na night sub I dey use learn one or two skills online because me get big plans ehnn
I believe say everybody get him own time and my own time go still come so I just dey Waka without sending anybody but I no dey forget things

If he come and he score less than 20goals 1st season in all comps,dem fit comot his head
Many teams for Europe top 5 leagues no even get starting eleven of up to 350million euros

saintbillion:
lol. Bro but i no send o. At times selfs we go dey in group of guys, babe go come hug all of them, na only me no go receive huge, because of my big trousers and papa give me shirts. They call my trousers bongo. Hehehe. But me no cannot kill myself. I feel normal. Just sometimes when i'm bck frm lectures i will be thinking on the clothes i will wear the next day. Hehe. 4ni but true. The thing done make me i no dey gree feature for my niggas their pictures or even take pictures despite i got a bright camera

My nigga!!
Life dey tough but if u do your thing wella,e go better
When u don get money,no forget wetin u don go through,na who dey for u u suppose dey for
No let any woman deceive u with "stingy" narrative o

A grown up woman is asking this?
She is either lying,a fake account or incredibly stupid

Op,the disadvantages greatly outweighs the advantages (if there is any)There is a reason most Nigerian husbands die before their wife.After struggling day and night to provide for the wife and children by even doing things that are detrimental to his longetivity,he may not be able to live long.The funny thing is that if he has had any small issue with his wife before his death or he doesn't provide up to her selfish expectations,she derides,insults and demeans him to her children and almost anyone that cares to know

The constant nagging,low sex libido,financial slavery,in-laws drama, emotional bondage are enough reasons to live your life as a bachelor.Even if the wife is a bad one giving constant problems and even refusing the man sex for months,the man is expected not to cheat and suffer till thy kingdom come.They deceive with the "marriage is happiness" narrative meanwhile it is the exact opposite.Many times,she would even force u to side with her over your parents and siblings

In Western societies,it is even worse,if u don't have a pre-nuptial agreement and u guys have a serious falling out,she can frame you by doing stuffs like inflicting injuries on herself and blaming you for domestic abuse.Once she has a good divorce attorney,she would take the house,the car,the kids, half of your bank account and half of your salary till u go 6feet into the ground

Man wey no get sense,na him long life go suffer am

VaselineCrew:
but you just wailed yourself just now na?

chai

I was stating that such problems should be solved to ensure the good use of body cams to improve Lagos,u no dey understand