₦airaland Forum

Marvellously2Me:
If she has been fighting on complete truth, she will have been able to gain sympathy and justice for starving the boy but she added sexual abuse and molestation which weren't part of it, you don't expect to throw such big accusations and expect the accused not to try every possible means to defend themselves.

Her accusations are ladened with, deception, lies and inconsistencies that was why the police ask her to keep her mouth shut until the end of the investigation.

Easy for you to open Ur mouth Waaaaaaa and talk about things you are not privy to. How did u know it's not true

Afam4eva:
I have it too but largely asymptomatic. The number of sick people I saw at IDH in Yaba should make everything think twice about thinking it's a farce. Protect yourselves.

There is one covidiot up there pls tell him because he started still thinks it's a scam

felong:
Liar, there is no such thing as covid 19. Na scam and we all know it, government want to loot

You ignorant fool. Only u know it stop generalising stupidity. Which one is "we all know it"

6digitscomrade:
lol ok stop being loyal to ignorance and illusions of others the reality is always more complicated with devastating results as a result of the latter.. be guided!

I said what I said because it's possible. If u like speak all the grammar in Oxford dictionary, it doesn't change the fact that a man can do what ever he puts his mind to.

Nuel4:
as if a black woman has /will ever sponsor a struggling boyfriend abroad

You dey mind am

6digitscomrade:
stop watching Bollywood and nollywood..I know why I’m telling u

I have never watched one before. Try another guess

Trogge:
.. even if it's the nigga, may be it's karma time.

You have a point. He might have committed something serious in the past that he is paying for now. We don't escape from our past. Karma truly is a bitch. There are still good stories of people sponsoring their spouse abroad and no stories that touch..

Life gives u what u deserve

Leshurr:
It's really so bad. As a parent I'm truly concerned for the future.

Just be mindful of what u feed Ur mind. Don't replace the philosophies and virtues u learnt from Ur parents with the one currently common. Stay true to urself.

TemmyT002:
Wicked Thoughts:
Do something to make her get deported.

If it's me, I will set her up. Anyhow I will do it, I must certainly make her commit a deportable offence. I can go as far as setting her up with ample evidence. She can't have the final laugh

olisaEze:
First, how long were dey married before the trip abroad?

Don’t mind me, I’m only here for the violence. Peacemakers will be exsanguinated: Book of Chaos 1:1.

The game so far; Violence FC fires the first shot that Nigerian women are not to be trusted with long trips abroad. Feminist Coven is yet ballout.

This is not twitter pls

bamideleniayo:
Who you come Dey para for?

You better pick one or two points he wrote. It's enough to para na

Trogge:
Karma is bitch. It will f..k her unexpected. Just chill. Do your own part.

You haven't heard the whole story from both parties. Chill bro. For now we dey drag Naija women and their mumu love wey be fake

Leshurr:
If more men adopt this attitude/mindset, the consequences of the future on dating, relationships and marriage would be dastardly.. I fear for the next generation.

'They' have destroyed the naturally ordained bond (love) between man and woman - destroying the family unit and making both genders enemies.

They allowed westernisation to polute their morals, virtues and real African ways of life and love. This is not how it was during the time of our parents and their own parents. Internet, social media, Western culture and deception is to blame.

J111333:
It's highly possible. It has happened at least twice in my very before.

One of the men it happened to tells it to every available ear around in SoCal till today.

I've also heard of a man who invited his "girlfriend" in US via letter of invitation and uncle was salivating and waiting for his package in California only to see update in the girl's Facebook account.

Hanty don land for another state and moved in with another bobo (her long time boyfriend) who at that time was illegal alien and couldn't invite her.

Shiit happens bro so never say never.

Chai men have always been simps since the time of Samson and Delilah

Kapeter:
Why would i leave for her. God forbid. Letting her defeat me 2nd time? I will take my L in peace and live with it. I will heal with time buh i will never leave for the idiat.

That's the spirit. Mistakes are part of human life experience. Learn from it and mueveee

Michelle55:
Twitter and lies na 5and6

Your gender so shameless. Be denying it because it was posted on twitter, if you know the guy that posted it you will know that he is a confirmed resident of Toronto who drops confirm information about Canada and migration.
Don't go and repent from your evil ways be there denying the veracity of the news shared.

Thinkherbell:
In that Tweet, did the tweeter clarify the gender of the sponsor or the sponsee? You just jumped into conclusion

Do you even need a sooth sayer to let you know the gender?

JaneYave:
Failed love stories every where. To the person above me- Please , be calming down, LOVE IS A .BEAUTIFUL THING only that it is sudden abused.

I don't think love exists in this part of the world. Love is now a transaction, give and take. It's like a commodity that is purchased

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
That's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility with yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, the right one will always bring you premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

So what is the way forward?

dam4sam:
True, but that is not a very common thing and Women cannot hide under that guise, when they bring the Pregnancy from outside.
I hope people also know that the DNA can also be done when the Pregnancy is still inside the Wife, by taking a small sample from the Fetus in the womb?
No hiding place any more, for all those Evil Wives that implant 'Bastards inside the family line' causing family dysfunctions and suicides to the husband later in his old age.

Children whose Mother also defrauded them by Switching their biological father, should also take serious action against such Mothers because she has ruined their Life from day-one.

Bottomline is it will expose the paternity fraud been perpetuated by this daughters of eve. I welcome the compulsory DNA test laws or subsidize the testing

abc115:
Somebody said it, that there is deliberate campaign by these DNA Experts to sell their market

They will be solving a very serious problem while smiling to the bank. Isn't it a win win?
Imagine being saved years of agony and waste of resources by early detection of paternity fraud at the first few days of the birth of the new born.

sweetmelanin:
I agree.

Mandating DNA tests would absolve the man from all forms of emotional blackmail and manipulation under the guise of "lack of trust".

I believe it should made compulsory before a man can sign the birth certificate.

..Or at least offered to the new parents as a optional service alongside the usual newborn immunisations..

It will also checkmate switching of new born babies in the hospital ward, either by mistake or knowingly

merieam16:
no one as a complete package....nobody is perfect

Nengi is almost a complete package

Cerebellum:
Chai!

Naso OP

In one way or the other ,As a man you wud av certainly do one of those listed above


May God bless us

Good Post

Better OP

Am a man and I have not done any. Though I do betting but i do it moderately and I have over 50% winning rate.

yetmao:
fake story. DNA results dont come next day in Nigeria.

what labs do is to DHL the specimen abroad and receive the results by email.

Give and take 4-5 days on express service.

So you mean we don't have any DNA testing lab here in naija?

Pochettino:
I am personally disappointed in them. Intern robbers.

Thief

yarimo:
is that all?

You will meet Ur Waterloo soon. Continue being a psychopant

SocialJustice:
I wasn't born there only went to look for gold so it was easy to leave. That place is very, very unhealthy.

Very very unhealthy man.

Kelvin30286063:
I said 'even if' Covid 19 is not real. I said that cuz that's the belief of many Nigerians.

Don't make any toxic comment on my post without understanding my mindset. Be warned!

This is a public forum for a reason. If u can't stand such posts u can leave.

SocialJustice:
Nice one. Sanwo Olu should speed up the train service so people can leave their cars at home and decongest the roads. Until traffic improves, God forbid I have to return to Lagos.

My brother i am thinking of relocating too, am tired of the traffic. No human should suffer such stress called Lagos traffic

Kelvin30286063:
Well deserved. Even if Covid 19 is not real. Obedience is still better than sacrifice

You are still ignorant enough to say covid is not real? I marvel at your ignorance

Chicagoesontop:
Sorry to say this but our Nigerian government still dey find work. Everybody should be careful make them no count scores for your head. I bought myself a phone of 185k on my birthday since early December till now i never fit buy sim card put am .... Which kind wahala be this ?

How much is sim card.? Weren't u using a sim before? Ogbeni carry ur L and go