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AntiMen:
Yes bro, an A.g church.....
I avoid him, he finds a way of coming close,he did it thrice yesterday...Greeted me thwice at different times during ......, held me hands at another time to move back during general prayers somewhere...

There was no interaction,but came home wondering wats up with me....Whenever my husband and I are having conversations my mind is always somewhere else cos of this issue...

I want to be myself again....
This is not me...

chioma134:
@OP, I understand your situation perfectly. You also posted this story on my thread. I understand these intense feelings, you can't easily wish them away.
I'll advise you to always pray to God for help and read your Bible every day (the word of God is the food of the spirit, it will give you the strength you need to overcome temptation). Then as much as possible, limit physical contact with him. Go to church, but avoid stealing glances at him, worship your God and go home. No phone calls or chats with him, create an excuse why you can't.

Never tell your spouse, he'll never understand and even if he does, he would be hurt. If you're sincere, the feelings will go and you'll come to realise that he's just like every other man with time. Also train your mind to recognize when your thoughts wander to him and quickly replace the thoughts with clean ones. For instance, if you imagine making love to him, quickly put your husband in place of him in your thoughts. And know that he won't be the only man you'll crush on in your lifetime. So develop the habit of nipping these feelings in the bud.

[/b]But be sure the Reverend knows what he's doing. You're not imagining it. He's manipulating you, trying to seduce you without saying a word, and then allowing the feelings he has stirred up in you to bring you to his doorstep and possibly his bed. Be wise, my sister.[b]

NB: Just curious, your church setting sounds like any of the Orthodox churches eg Anglican, Presbyterian, Methodist or Baptist. Am I wrong?

Roseey0:
That's all .
Emotion will remain emotions.
Just don't act on it
It will fade with time.
It's absolutely normal

thestandard:
Identify d reason for d feelings which IMO is because he took interest in ur growth. Confront d feeling by taking up responsibities within d church and sharing jists about d responsibilties wit ur husband..the feeling shld subside because what gives strenght to sin is secrecy...then continue normal...if u now notice reverend keeps coming closer, then u have to report to ur husband cos at that point, he may not be sincere again...pls stop d hiding and him seeking u out stuff..it will only give strenght to d feelings..cheers

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Madam dem no dey handle adultery with kid gloves!

If you and that man are left alone in a secret room una must kpansh.
Admit this and realise the dangerous path you're treading.

He has dishonored himself by stalking you, a married woman; without consideration for your husband, a fellow minister!

You sent a kiss emoji.
It was a mistake. But your so-called reverend took it in good faith. He never promptly rebuked or blocked you.
He never asked you about it. He never felt offended that a married woman would send such to him, a man of God.
Yet, after all that he has continued cornering you and leading you on.

Its obvious he assumed you really have adulterous feelings for him and is prepared to get into your pants.
I'm typing this with so much anger in me right now.
Because I've seen too much of adultery and fornication among Christians that it makes me sick to the stomach.

Snub that man. Forget about what people will say. Christ is the one to be honoured in the church above any man.
If you must dishonor a man to honour Christ, you should be alright.

The people you're considering are already gossipping about you and reverend.

Snubbing him will at least exonerate you from the whole rubbish and at least show these people it wasn't what they thought after all.

If your husband gets to hear this from neighborhood gossip, then consider yourself a goner in your matrimonial home.

AntiMen:
I avoid this man, but he finds way of coming to me...everytime...

Coming to me reminds me of him which makes the feeling triggers.
Normally after church closes, I have to wait for my husband around the church cos he has to reach out to other people in the church, so while waiting this man finds a way of coming around, we exchange gestures , talk if necessary and then depart....
I avoid him, he comes to me, what I hate most is the way he greets only me among people , I feel awkward and I'm feeling it might just stir up jealousy in others...
These are my thoughts and I feel I might be wrong about it.........

If only he can avoid me, I'll be very fine, someone mentions that I snub him, how can I possibly can without sending negative messages to other people around...
Someone who is supposed to be respected and honoured is someone I'm asked to snub.....
Don't think that goes down well with me.

kingthreat:
There is nothing bad in showing love to a loved one. Businesses fail sometimes. If he is an addict, any crime rehabilitating the young man especially if you can afford it? This same Annie flaunted 50 Million to given to her by her hubby. What is wrong in helping your blood. The man said he was used as an errand boy by her. That is not fair.
Good people raise their families up when wealth comes. Take a look at Linda Ikeji, Don Jazzy, Dbanj, Davido, Run Town, Burna Boy and a lots more of others. But greedy people use their breakthroughs to spite their family. Well life is full of lessons.

Slynation:
Story don finish some people still dey try get extra info to stylishly uncover OP, person go soon ask for address and phone number soon..Na OY still get time self...!!

jasonex4:
Thanks a lot

jasonex4:
Please help me with the link to his profile if you have it...thanks

jasonex4:
Like this? @enthronedbyGod

otipoju:
https://www.nairaland.com/5207293/story-cult-phase-included

jasonex4:
Any way of contacting him?? I need to share some things with him

otipoju:
The thread had evil forces on full activation hovering all over it.

MummyIMadeIt:
Nah l doubt that story of the guy been killed cos he deactivated his accnt along the way.

His story was on Aye expose in UNlLAG. lt was more of a restitution tale by that Op as one could see clearly see through his emotions.

They persons who bragged on ending him did so on SAYNOTOCULTlSM to cajole him from further explicit expose, which failed.

Please Lets get our facts

Holywizard:
EnthronedByGod is very much alive. He is spiritual and very alert. Someone that sees road. It was one guy that deactivated that was killed. People were warning him not to use real names because this NL forum isn't really private.
Those men were warning him and it seems they even boasted that they killed him after.
Thank God I'm a jew

ciro11:
I began to wonder if it's another enthronedbygod he was talking about

Slynation:
How many people fit afford sim card by then talk more of phone...

Omo...The Street is really military, I think O.Y own na older version(90's) to SayNoTo.Cultism (20's) and baba was even receiving threats as e update, nobody knows his whereabout till today, but I believe that manchi, as a DSS agent e gallant well)

I remembered following that thread from the beginning to the end, And a guy with the moniker EnthronedByGod on NL started his own version but he used real names and uni of the system men and that easily gave out his identity, after a while, update stopped coming in because according to him he was receiving death threat and he deactivated his account, but we later heard he's dead, they tracked and gun him down...!!

E sure me say people wey OY play game with don retrace their step, reason why update dey come easily...

Omo thank God say I no join this nonsense, I was close to join(bucu) because of their slangs, but before the D-day I traveled to write Post Utme, but my papa no gree let me return back to area again, naso I take miss out...is my God not wonderful?? I be confirm 48 but I sabi almost all their slangs then, most of them dey military now...!!

It doesn't pay to become a strong man, cult war don start no concern ju men... Strong Men dey always end for 6ft and na 48/ju dey bury strong men, so who get ear make e hear shaah...!!

Manlikechoba:
Most of yall here are simply hailing his activities not learning... yall should stop being hypocritical by saying you dey learn to shun cultism and within you, you wish you had been the one running the whole thing.. or joined him to run things...

Kimkiss:
i also want to know if he ended up marrying ifeoma.i am curious too.

Jessepaid:
hehehe...
I went to extract my a tooth once in a general hospital..

While I was there waiting for my appointment, a girl who has previously extracted her tooth two weeks before came in to lay serious complain..

She said when she drinks water it comes out from her nose and it has never happened to her since she was born, she only noticed it after the extraction.

She showed me a demo, she drank water and boy! It really did come out through her nose.

I stood up and left the hospital, I never looked back..

Other issues can include broken extracted tooth that is the tooth breaks while they are extracting it and the other half remains lodged in your jaw, another serious wahala.


Again there is usually a long line at public hospitals, so there usually rush the extractions to attend too many people as possible. They are stingy with the anesthesia, which means its more painful, they only give one shot no matter body size.

But in private hospitals, they are more relaxed and attend to people more humanely, when I did mine I was given anaesthetic shots over three times to make the pain bearable.


And no I no be dentist just say me and teeth don fight before

Acidosis:
My instinct, when I read that post, was that you spent a lot training your siblings/family. This is why I agree with the idea of self discovery. I think you have invested a significant part of your life making people happy at the expense of your personal fulfilment.

It's very evident from your narration. Not only did you sponsor 4 of your siblings' education, but you also go as far as patronising people who are out to scam you. Maybe it's a personality issue, maybe you don't know how to say no, I wouldn't know but one thing is certain, it is not too late to fix things.

In your path to self discovery, deliverance may be necessary. I don't have a personal experience of how deliverance changed my finance or relationship but I'm convinced beyond doubts that prayers work. You have seen a pattern of late marriage. That's a good pointer. Many of our ancestors committed grave crimes. Some sacrificed human beings, some raped women, etc. Sadly, someone must pay for these crimes. Many victims had no access to a justice system so curses and spells were the only available tools. Some families were cursed and still cursed till date. Some forefathers worshipped idols so much that they dedicated their unborn generations to stup!d vindictive gods. If you have access to aged people in your village, approach them and get real life and terrifying stories.

When people compare us with the west, it usually don't make sense. At the time the US and Britain already had laws in place to checkmate crimes, our forefathers were still killing albinos and twins for "Oro" and new yam festivals. It took the intervention of a few missionaries to address some of these issues.

Bottom line, I'm totally for and not against deliverance to delist yourself from any known and unknown covenant. How to go about it, however, is the challenge. Too many doom and fake pastors out there. This might sound senseless but your chances of getting delivered in a 21st century AC fitted church is slim. Bible school pastors can't help either. Ministry for many pastors today is just a means of survival (an avenue to gain followers, money, and fame).

Ishilove:
Madam, don't mind Kobo. Your problem is spiritual and if you are feeling silly over what was revealed to you, then I'm guessing you have been embarking on your deliverance programs without faith. This life is deep and is controlled by the spiritual.

You need to investigate your foundation and find out the origin of this pattern in your family. Start from there.

Jessepaid:
for extraction site depends on your size..

The bigger your body and weight is, the denser your bone is, meaning it will harder to break and extract the tooth, there causing more work and stress to the dentist work..

If you are slim or have a small stature and of low weight, your bones would be less dense, making the dentists work easy..

Extraction can be from 8-15k depending.

For the root canal, they will first have to drill into the tooth to extract the nerves then fill it up.

The tooth remains but is entirely lifeless..

Root canals can be from 80k upward 120k