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Threesha:
says who?

This one no want help she just want go ahead , you can go and do as you like . God will punish you .

Your twisting this stuff using that scripture that are not related , they lost there lives not spiritual Gifts or calling and they never said anything like spiritual gift ,life is not the calling of God . Those are two different things.
Even in the Old Testament there were prophets that the Lord took there lives because of sin but God didn’t take there calling . God rejected saul but that Saul was till king till his death .
The spirit of God was taking away from him because at that time he wasn’t promised to anyone till Jesus came .

Lol now you are calling the word of God antichrist because everything I said had scriptural backing to it , now if it’s an Antichrist saying it means James even Paul were influenced by the Antichrist. Sometimes it’s better to ask the Holy Spirit to teach you than say things you don’t know .

The Bible says The gifts and calling of God are without repentance you arguing against this word means you’re calling God a liar . All those point you brought out those not relate to anyone loosing his Gifts or calling due to sin . So I’ll stick with what my bible tells me even tho they say it’s Antichrist than to what a man think .

No part of the Bible was written by the hands of God so if you say it’s only Jesus talk that is true then how do you know it , the Bible was given by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit and if anyone discard that then it’s the spirit of the Antichrist.

jesusjnr2020:
You say the Bible is the Word of God, right?

But i have given you instances from the Bible which clearly proved you wrong about someone losing spiritual gifts or calling because of sin. I gave you one from the old testament in the Bible about Saul. Most importantly, i also gave you several from the sayings of Jesus in the Bible to prove you wrong, but you chose to believe the saying of someone else above that of Christ.

Now I'm going to give you another in the new testament, but this time not from Jesus but from the church He built.

Acts 5:1-10 (KJV)

But a certain man named Ananias, with Sapphira his wife, sold a possession,
And kept back part of the price, his wife also being privy to it, and brought a certain part, and laid it at the apostles' feet.
But Peter said, Ananias, why hath Satan filled thine heart to lie to the Holy Ghost, and to keep back part of the price of the land?
Whiles it remained, was it not thine own? and after it was sold, was it not in thine own power? why hast thou conceived this thing in thine heart? thou hast not lied unto men, but unto God.
And Ananias hearing these words fell down, and gave up the ghost: and great fear came on all them that heard these things.
And the young men arose, wound him up, and carried him out, and buried him.
And it was about the space of three hours after, when his wife, not knowing what was done, came in.
And Peter answered unto her, Tell me whether ye sold the land for so much? And she said, Yea, for so much.
Then Peter said unto her, How is it that ye have agreed together to tempt the Spirit of the Lord? behold, the feet of them which have buried thy husband are at the door, and shall carry thee out.
Then fell she down straightway at his feet, and yielded up the ghost: and the young men came in, and found her dead, and, carrying her forth, buried her by her husband.

Now this is not in the old testament so you would still have an excuse. So tell me what happened to Ananias and his wife Sapphira if sin cannot make someone lose his spiritual gifts and calling? It made them lose something more than that, which is their lives.

It was after Peter said it was not a lie unto men but unto God, so if the callings and gifts of God are indeed without repentance, who made them lose it and ultimately their lives after they sinned? It not the same Spirit that departed from king Saul after he sinned?

Moreover this saying proves the bolded of your comment a false accusation based on blind sentiments, because this was taken from church of the apostles, so it's only when they did or said something contrary to teachings of Jesus, as that antichrist saying which you chose to believe, that I'd reject.

As you may already know, i place Jesus commandments, as that which He gave to His disciples to teach men to observe His commandments, above that of any other, because a man cannot serve two masters but just one. And mine is Jesus!

Have a nice day.

Lol no need for that unit na uni whatever where u put em .

LUAN:
you better add that agriculture

Michael okpara university

Economics.

The Bible is the word of God and even Jesus said he that theyvis so much more that he couldn’t tell his disciples but when the Holy Spirit comes he’ll guide them to all truth . And they is no place that Jesus said he’ll take the Holy Spirit from you if you sinned that never happened in all the New Testament from the beginning to the End and it cannot happen because he said he’ll be with us till the end of the earth . Well you are just trying to say all what the apostles said are wrong and we shouldn’t follow it forgetting that it was the Holy Spirit in them that gave them what to say .
You can also say they is no gift of the spirit because Jesus didn’t say that with is mouth he only talked about new tongues.
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jesusjnr2020:
Jesus commanded His disciples to teach men to observe His teachings not that of someone else, but you've not posted any of His saying that proves that a man cannot lose his spiritual gift or calling because of sin, except that of someone else which goes against His teachings which clearly shows that a man can lose spiritual gifts and be rejected by God because of sin as those I've posted.

Your are free though to place the sayings of someone else over His, however you should know that there are spiritual consequences for that because Jesus cannot fully back anyone who doesn't fully obey His command.

This story don reach 3 years now watin de make una post em every time ?

Threesha:
I woke up to check my mailbox and saw a disturbing mail from a woman.

According to her, she slept with her landlord to feed her husband and children. This is what she wrote;



What advice do you have for this woman?
Do you think what she did was right or wrong?
Drop your comments below and give her some advice.

Im not agreeing but there are a lot of scriptures that says otherwise I’ve posted them .
It is written that “the gifts and call of God is without repentance” in other words cannot be withdrawn or lost .

jesusjnr2020:
The question wasn't if everyone who sins would lose spiritual gifts or calling as a result, but if someone could lose or not receive spiritual gifts because of sin, so that those didn't lose theirs doesn't mean that there weren't those who did.

The passage I quoted of Jesus teachings proved that there are those who would be lose their calling or not receive spiritual gifts from God because of disobedience as I stated, because that obviously wasn't speaking of the last day, but the days beforehand when God was still calling people.

Here's another saying of Jesus to add to that:

John 15:1-2 (KJV)

I am the true vine, and my Father is the husbandman.
Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit.

So it's not just in the days of king Saul that God used to do so but also in the days of Jesus and beyond.

A man called by God can be rejected yes on the last day but the gifts and calling can’t be taking away .

jesusjnr2020:
You said my comment was not in line with scriptures, and I've proven to you they were with that instance of Saul in the old testament.

Now you're talking of the new testament, so let me also corroborate that instance of Saul with the Gospel of Jesus which He commanded His disciples to teach men to observe as is depicted in the verse you quoted, not something else that He didn't send them.

Matthew 22:2-14 (KJV)

The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son,
And sent forth his servants to call them that were bidden to the wedding: and they would not come.
Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage.
But they made light of it, and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his merchandise:
And the remnant took his servants, and entreated them spitefully, and slew them.
But when the king heard thereof, he was wroth: and he sent forth his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city.
Then saith he to his servants, The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy.
Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage.
So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
And when the king came in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment:
And he saith unto him, Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment? And he was speechless.
Then said the king to the servants, Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
For many are called, but few are chosen.

It's a long passage but it's just one of the instances in the Gospels of Jesus that proves a man who is called can be later rejected by God because of disobedience as Saul was. That's why as you can see at the end, "many are called, but few are chosen". What distinguishes the many called for the few chosen ones is the obedience of God's Word.

Even the chapter you quoted of Jesus contradicts your idea in this case because the promise He made is hinged on the obedience of the commandment He gave to His disciples. So it was only if they did as Jesus had commanded them to do, and teach men to observe what He'd commanded them, that He would be with them always. If they didn't do that He wouldn't. That's why He's not so much with today's church as He was with that of disciples who obeyed His commandment. Today's church doesn't keep His commandment as that church did.

Matthew 7:21 “Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter.
Matthew 7:22 On judgment day many will say to me, ‘Lord! Lord! We prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed many miracles in your name.’
Matthew 7:23 But I will reply, ‘I never knew you. Get away from me, you who break God’s laws.’

This people were not living In the will of the father and they were sinning but still they functioned very well in the calling and gifts and these can only be done with the Holy Spirit presence .

Continue abeg

Baba Abeg come continue Abeg

Lol I understand but no make em your weakness

Ocholu:
Haha.. I love women bro. They're special.

Naso u do person wife were make dem won blind your eyes , this eye u no won use em see woman .

Ocholu:
I won't cheat on you Danny..

Why should he . Oga the only thing that evil needs to succeed is when Good people sit and do nothing. He shouldn’t mind his business, if you were the husband will you not rather being told.

Keniwit:
Op.. you should av mind you business.

please let me man finish the story so we will know what really happened. It’s too early to draw conclusions.

Reality3080:
guy u have good intentions but let me tell u for sure that u will get your fingers burnt badly n it might even lead to death.

Once u confront d man,the bike man will definitely tell d man n they will plan for d solution cos d husband must not know

So it's either they frame u n involve d husband who will believe whatever they tell him n see whatever u have to say as defence after been guilty.

Or

They kill u straight up so nobody will know d story

Or they afflict u with madness so u won't remember anything again.

They might even have more brutal plans but these are d obvious ones.

Sir , if she no change please leave her life too de short to live forever with your friendimy

Sominablack:
I finally honoured the meeting with my relatives, it was a long one, but at the end I was asked to go and discuss with my family while they discuss further with their daughter, that it's not a matter of rush so that things can be made clearer. Clearer as in how I asked? They were still reliving the past(abortion,past relationship)prior to our marriage although the cautioned their daughter on keeping friends with negative influence. At the end we left but i was disappointed that even the mother and father who were impressed with all my efforts and the mother who visited us in our home to confirm her daughters attitude could not pinpoint things out.

In all, I knelt down to apologise to the larger family who were hearing on our past life for the first time prior to marriage.

Please note I did not beg for her to come back but I stated to the family that whatever decision they come up with I will honorably abide by it.

Because of the long deliberation and how moody and tense everywhere was I could not talk about my childs welfare at that moment.

I have taken the ball to their court and I have done my best.

Thanks all for your support.

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Dominique

Wait make he conclude the story make we see as he end . But him suppose tell him husband no be bike man .

TheWolfen:
So you think the adulterous woman won't look for another guy and be more careful next time? Or the randy bike man won't invite her to a private location for another session of hot sex with a married woman??

All parties in this play won't like you including the husband if he later knew someone was aware of his wife having sex with the bike man he employed to take his kids to school and the person didn't tell him.

You better be careful because the bike man will surely tell the adulterous wife of what you said and you know what they said about women fury?

You should have find a way to tell the husband anonymously if you don't wanna tell him face to face.

If you claim you don't wanna break her home why not tell the woman directly and assure her you will keep her secret as long as she stop doing it?

One thing I know about people who cheat is that they will hardly get a second chance from people like me. That will be the end of the union period

Saul experience is not the New Testament experience, Christ Promised is the Holy Spirit that will be with us . The Holy Spirit was not yet given .

Romans 11:29 For God’s gifts and his call can never be withdrawn.

For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.

1john2:27 But the anointing which ye have received of him abideth in you, and ye need not that any man teach you: but as the same anointing teacheth you of all things, and is truth, and is no lie, and even as it hath taught you, ye shall abide in him.

Matthew 28:20 Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, [/b]lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

jesusjnr2020:
Which scriptures are you speaking of? These?

1 Samuel 9:17

[b]And when Samuel saw Saul, the LORD said unto him, Behold the man whom I spake to thee of! this same shall reign over my people.

1 Samuel 10:6

And the Spirit of the LORD will come upon thee, and thou shalt prophesy with them, and shalt be turned into another man.

1 Samuel 10:10

And when they came thither to the hill, behold, a company of prophets met him; and the Spirit of God came upon him, and he prophesied among them.

1 Samuel 15:26 (KJV)

And Samuel said unto Saul, I will not return with thee: for thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, and the LORD hath rejected thee from being king over Israel.

1 Samuel 16:1 (KJV)

And the LORD said unto Samuel, How long wilt thou mourn for Saul, seeing I have rejected him from reigning over Israel? fill thine horn with oil, and go, I will send thee to Jesse the Beth-lehemite: for I have provided me a king among his sons.

1 Samuel 16:14 (KJV)

But the Spirit of the LORD departed from Saul, and an evil spirit from the LORD troubled him.

You can still check out the instance of Samson in the book of Judges in the Bible, not my own book, if you're still not satisfied.

Op continue your story

Well I’m not disagreeing with your point but based on the scriptures I can say it’s only lack of faith because if you read the Matthew 7:7-11 you’ll understand that as long as you asked you’ll receive.

jesusjnr2020:
Sorry for the late response...

Obeying the Word of God, especially the teachings of Jesus, is the prerequisite for receiving the Spirit of God.

So, disobedience of the Word of God or sin can hinder someone from doing so.

God bless.

No according to the scriptures it’s not possible.

rukz:
Thanks for the reply.

Is it possible for someone who has the gift of speaking in tongue to lose it as a result of sin.

jesusjnr2020:
You're welcome.

As for your question, yes!

The Spirit of God can leave someone because of sin so also the gifts that come with Him.

that’s not true .

Romans 11:29 For God’s gifts and his call can never be withdrawn.

For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.

1john2:27 But the anointing which ye have received of him abideth in you, and ye need not that any man teach you: but as the same anointing teacheth you of all things, and is truth, and is no lie, and even as it hath taught you, ye shall abide in him.

Matthew 28:20 Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, [/b]lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.[b]

Don’t worry sis you will come out Strong. Joy comes in the morning.

Channah1:
Yeah. They forget its a small world and it could be their turn next.

That's why I'm just shaking my head because life is a vicious circle.

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Nothing twist there if you see the way dem naked her you will know she was raped brutally.

colorsofrainbow:
Dem don twist the story to now rape
What's the next twist after this?

Las las it’s still d same Biafra killing Biafra.

She told him already , He wasp really pissed he created a thread about it and he wanting to revenge, I don’t know if he later forgave her .

realtalk19:
Sorry to say,what you are afraid of will still eventually happen because either now or later he will find out and it may be disastrous.

The deceit,lies, embarrassment may too much for him to handle and pray the devil don't make him commit double homicide

You should have informed him of your kids at the beginning and save yourself the guilt. It's really not fair on your part.

What will be will be irrespective of your situation.

People are like that always wasting no time to discourage people from helping people.

Channah1:
Amen.

Iam still shocked at the way he took it upon himself to make sure no one believes me.

I don't know him from Adam neither have I ever scammed him or anyone he knows but he just chose to be in the way.

Thanks for your concern, dear.

I don’t see how she is emotionally blackmailing anyone . If you can’t help her why don’t you move away and let someone who can do .it instead of spoiling there minds , Why all this your rant .

If you believe nobody cares then why are you trying so hard so nobody will help her .

If na scam it between Her and God if it’s not it’s between her and God.

Leave the girl to get the help she needs .
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jalodo2:
Mr man, if u prefer waiting to rent a300k befitting apartment ? then its ur choice and shouldnt be anyones problem. Why not use this energy to disturb or stand on ur family neck instead of trying to emotional blackmail strangers to give u their money. Apart from d 70k shared room d lady talked about, what about renting a room with another lady and sharing d rent? Wait for him to tell us he doent know any lady in d world or no lady stays around her, he will instantly condemn any advice given. Wait all u can...... nobody cares, we know u aint begging for money ( like u said) so, y are u hysterically running around opening 6 threads with new moniker over same story? Your fellow men are hustling, u sat down making up superstory to scam them. Na wa

I had noticed this to , they size you from down to up . And fragrance is also good .

Icumsa45:
Shoes are very important. Most women I meet, first look at My feet.

Thank you sir , you talk true .

PericomaNwankwo:
To be honest, while you're free to compliment her, the husband is also free to take the compliment as he seems.

Compliments are harmless but there should be limits okay. Stop getting ahead of yourself in case of next time. What if he had harmed you or did you something that you won't even have the chance to call for help.

You didn't have a limit, you were ahead of yourself. If you tell her all those things, then what would you tell your own girl? The man said he has been noticing you, that means you've been crossing the line for long

I think you're just a guy that is too full of himself .

Compliments is different from subdued lustful admiration.

You look beautiful/ your hair is beautiful/ you are so beautiful/ is totally different from whatever you must have used on her.

If you think you're right, then don't adjust, keep it up and keep it with other women ...


He is just as wrong as you are disrespectful.

It’s reasonable

angelfallz:
A man that gets angry, because another man complimented his wife, can't be said to be reasonable