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Why is everything just sex sex sex if you would have obeyed God commandment he would not be here now.

stampo:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders.
This is real matters that needs your advice..

A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.

This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on.
During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.

During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.

My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him..
My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.

The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels
The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.

Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.

Please your advice on this issue is needed.

Good evening sir,
I had a dream where two black goat, male and female where fighting in my compound as it was going on the male put his head inside the females mouth and started to beat her stomach, so after the struggle he remove his head from inside her mouth . I saw blood on the floor seems it was from the female goat . Later the goats had stopped fighting and they where walking around the female down looking dead. my dad was in the Parlor talking with some people (I didn’t see their face) , when I told him about the goat looking dead he didn’t give much attention.

Note: in real life we have three goat two black kid but not as matured like the ones in my dream .

Please interpret.

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

it like this is your husband. He sounds pissed.

The pictures are fake but the story is true

When I was little this woman was invited to a four square church I’m my area even people that don’t attend the church all went to see are . Oboy if you hear all she said you’ll ask yourself am I going to heaven

God save us from bad friends, I pray she makes it

No give up on your dreams

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!


Where am dreaming to be, May all my efforts not be in vain oh Lord, just leaving the studio right now have not eaten anything since morning, busy recording and no assurance that the song will come out well talkless of blowing,


May we not get addicted to the wrong path in life.

Good evening Sir ,

I posted this dream but I’m not sure you saw it so I said let me post it again .


Had this dreams last night,
I saw something like a fish but not really a fish ( it looked like all this unknown creature that stays in the sea) moving in my room so I followed it . I picked a stick from the ground then I saw it change to a little crocodile then it started changing its skin like it was leaving that skin of a crocodile coming out as an alligator, so then i immediately hit it hard with the stick twice , it started to run As i was chasing it , I pick up another stick like a baseball bat and kept chasing it , it hid itself under a table but now it has changed to a huge Python , so I shifted the table so I can hit it well (I was kind of scared ) .

2nd dream
Can’t recall it well but this is it
They were some people we let into our house (satanist ) they were on black , so they were in a room in our house I then entered the room and saw them Having group sex I think my brother was among them , I got angry so I pick a broom and started beating them and chasing them out . So my bro was angry he then took some dry leaves from our kitchen and candle to maybe attack and curse me (I heard something like curse candle in the dream) as he lighted the candle it was as if a black liquid was going up inside the white candle as it was about to reach the top my mother hit the candle away , mean while I went inside after telling him he can do nothing. I took a little dry leave and a candle and lit it up and started praying to reverse anything he did with a candle and dry leaves . Can’t remember the rest Details after I woke up .
Pls interpret

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Good evening sir ,
Please can you interpret this dream .
I was flogging some student for something wrong so I left one and that one boasted about his parent influence as it was the reason for me not flogging him , so it got me angry then I flogged him while flogging him the school bus left us so I had to trek . So walking on the road the journey was looking long this made me to follow a short cut everyone was following. The road were built with planks ( but the planks looked scattered ) and it was really not good , you had to walk gently so you won’t fall . So as I was walking a woman got passed me and said she is tired of working she wants to find her rest , another guy passed again and was saying something similar but I didn’t want to hear it so I didn’t pay attention. I continued my walk on the road so I got to a side that the stick was somehow it was as if when I move my leg I’ll fall . this made me to go back and use the main road as I was walking on the main road I found out that my journey wasn’t long as I thought (cause I actually was already close to my destination) , so I checked my phone and saw that my formal school( d one I passed out from ) are beautifying a road , so I was happy for them.

It will be better, start chasing dreams

Supremedrizzy:
I was watching ball yesterday with a group of guys and I overhead them complaining that their respective girlfriends didn't appreciate the money they sent to them for Xmas, the amount ranged from 20k to 30k. Now what caught my attention wasn't the money they gave their girlfriends but the fact that they had such amount to spare. I went home and thought about my life throughout the night, I'm dead broke, has been surviving on water for days now not knowing where my next meal will come from. Whereas my fellow young guys can afford to send 30k to babes with abeg.

The menial jobs I normally involve in is not forthcoming this time, its as if I came to this world differently abi person swear for me. Was I cursed never to enjoy any good thing in life regardless of the effort I put in to make my life better.

I can't eat good food, afford good cloths, its just struggle struggle and more struggle. I'm tired mehn. Why is so success so elusive

Me where never see 5naira for Christmas they give person 70k he burn em chai God forbid.

Op your brother na cultist ?

Dem look the guy like nobody say dem fit corner em that’s why they did so . I de pity the guy like this . It’s not easy everybody won chop you when you talk you become enemy. Nobody Love anybody na use dem de use ni.

Olayetan:
Poco sef no try for this one, nah money wey them spray am na, they no get any right over that money.

So if person dash am money for backstage, will they claim part of it?

Ok sir I will be waiting , thank you .

greencard:
I will try to finish the story later in the evening after work. the matter tie wrapper

She really got a hold on you , so how did you free her?

greencard:
Jaye friends still felt Jaye was enjoying with his gf, not knowing he needs help and dying in silence. But because Jaye was isolated, they couldn't do much .

It took the grace of God , and Jaye's Street sister who attend same church with Jaye back in his childhood that force a conversation with Jaye about his gf not being an ordinary person.

Jaye still couldn't help himself, so this street sister summon courage and led jaye to the lady and tell Jaye to renounce their relationship . Jaye couldn't even utter a word .he just stood there like a fool looking. The sister, knowing what was playing now said "Jaye no do again"..guess what the lady replied , she said are you Jaye ? Abi Jaye, can you really say that? Jaye just look away like a mumu man..it was such a sorry sight.

Good evening sir ,
Please can you interpret this dream .
I was flogging some student for something wrong so I left one and that one boasted about his parent influence as it was the reason for me not flogging him , so it got me angry then I flogged him while flogging him the school bus left us so I had to trek . So walking on the road the journey was looking long this made me to follow a short cut everyone was following. The road were built with planks ( but the planks looked scattered ) and it was really not good , you had to walk gently so you won’t fall . So as I was walking a woman got passed me and said she is tired of working she wants to find her rest , another guy passed again and was saying something similar but I didn’t want to hear it so I didn’t pay attention. I continued my walk on the road so I got to a side that the stick was somehow it was as if when I move my leg I’ll fall . this made me to go back and use the main road as I was walking on the main road I found out that my journey wasn’t long as I thought (cause I actually was already close to my destination) , so I checked my phone and saw that my formal school( d one I passed out from ) are beautifying a road , so I was happy for them.

Thank you God bless you

TayehJiboluwa:
Anti-progress and anti-success forces are at play here. As your dad is in the dream, it means these evil forces or this problem is from your foundation. Deal with them violently in your prayers.

Abeg contribute let’s learn from it.

greencard:
What people don't understand, they question

I know someone who has had similar experiences

If I have gotten the time, I will contribute

But lostchild, you're a lucky man

You could have been dead or better yet a walking dead

Good evening Sir, I dream about me traveling in a plane when the plane is about moving something will happen it will land.
The recent one was we were traveling the man was trying to enter the sky but he couldn’t the plane had fault ,so he had to land the plane so not to cause a crash , then we all came down from the plane,
My dad was now complaining that he cannot go and pay money to ticket again tomorrow .

About Last year this kind dream was much
Now this year it has started again.

Jesus Is not an apostle Sir , Jesus is God

Digitallegendzx:
But Qur'an can never,will and forever continue to exist the way it is... As a matter of fact and proof to avoid unnecessary agurement and being qoute by religion bigots there is only one version of Qur'an forever Allahu Akbar...i believe in Bible as it was mentioned in the Qur'an also apostles Jesus peace be upon him.

Worldly music can’t take you to hell sir.

cutecommend:
Some things look odd, but can take someone to hell...

(1) Tribal or racial hatred: Things like "I hate Fulani people, I hate igbo people, I hate Yoruba people, I hate so so people" will surely take you to hell...You can dislike certain acts or behaviors of a tribe, but it is ungodly to hate people of a tribe.

(2) Enjoying other people's evil act: Do you know you can enjoy someone's lie, someone's fornication, someone's deception, someone's wicked act etc.. Though you didn't commit it, but the fact you enjoyed or found pleasure in what the person did will take you to hell ..

(3) Insincerity: Things like you telling someone to fill your name in a list of those present for a meeting, when you are absent will take you to hell....Things like putting early time in office register when actually you came late will take you to hell....

(4) Worldly music: Worldly can be enticing and sweet to the ear, but know this that if you are enjoying worldly music when Jesus comes, you are going no where with Jesus

(5) Not Confessing: If you steal from someone, and you tell God to forgive you, He will forgive you. But if God ministers to you to go and return what you stole back to the owner and you refuse, you won't make heaven...Same: If you slept with your EX few days before wedding day, or you committed adultery, and God ministers to you to confess it to your partner. If you disobey, you will not make heaven..

(6) Being ashamed to walk with your Bible on the road can lead you to hell....

This things happens , Lostchild talking about things related to this done make me carry caution. You can learn from that Mans life . May God bless him.

You speak a whole loads of truth that’s why I’m always eager to read whatever you’re saying . God bless you

Lostchild:
Nigerians and Ghanaians Are Brothers In Wickedness.

When I was at the age of 7/9 I started having the feeling that, I am not a Nigeria person el. As I grew up, it became evident within my character and life that I am not a Nigerian person, even though I am a Nigeria national.

I experience so much evil in Nigeria that, I became convince that, wherever I go, If I see Nigerians I may likely run away from that place.

Why?

Because Nigerians are too extreme for my likings.

Nigerians are very good people, but for me nigerians are too extreme in persons.

Nigerians are too greedy for my personels, and they can do anything to satisfied their unlimited greedy heart.

The Origin Of Yahoo boys.

419 started in Lagos during the early 90's. As time went by, it advance and got into the Internet which is know as yahoo.

The name yahoo boys originate from the yahoo messenger in those days as it was the highest and only means of communication from the first, second and third and fourth batch of yahoo boys from the year 2000, 2003, 2006 and 2009.

Ghana and ghanians was never into yahoo. It was Nigerians that spread yahoo into Ghana, opening their eyes into the curse wealth.

I repeat; Nigeria is the elder brother of Ghana in all areas and in all levels.

As yahoo grows, it began to advance in length and breath and width. Yahoo began to spread as one of the cancer of greed that has no cure.

LAST NIGHT.

I woke up to a documentary on national geography channel, presented by Mariana van zeller, who came to Ghana and Nigeria to do a documentary concerning the dark market of internet love scammers.

I was very sleepy when watching it, but from what I saw, instantly remove sleep from my eyes and brought shame to me as an afrik nigeria born.

In her documentary, she did scores of interviews and from what I saw in the eyes of the white lady, she was even afraid from what she saw and heard.

This was a very old but popular trend in Nigeria and Ghana. When they catch a new client that has paid them little, they will take the names, pictures and all he necessary Info's of their client to popular yahoo juju priest.

They will demand $15 to $20 K from the client and the juju priest will sent out demons that will manipulate the client to pay the money.

The agreement was that, the client will be heavily debted and will commit suicide. They asked the mask yahoo boy if he agreed to the suicider death of the client ? He happily said, YES.

The sleep in my eyes, instantly dissappears.

I was sadden how heartless a black man can be.

The yahoo ghania boy on mask said, he has used juju to collect not less than $120k from all his client and many of them must have committed suicide.

The presenter asked them some sorrowful but heartfelt questions and the answer they gave to her to justify their act of greed, really terrified and saden my soul.

When I look at the face of the white lady, I can see tenderness and dissapointment. I, myself too was dissapointed because they were all with their Nigerian and ghanian girlfriends who keep enjoying the curse wealth from yahoo.

After they have made money from their dead conscience, they will buy cars and flunt around ☆☆☆★☆ hotels, gallavanting in big boys life style

When the younger boys and girls see their cars and houses, they too wants to enjoy this quicker means of instant success.

Greed - rooted yahoo has made all the Nigeria girls to go into prostitution. They do not want to endure hardship but need quick instant gratification to satisfied their greedy android heart.

95% of Nigeria boys and girls are now into yahoo and runs. They do not want to suffer the cross like me.

They do not want to share Christ suffering.

They do not want to carry the cross of trials.

They do not want to endure humiliation like me.

They do not want to endure hunger.

They are not patient in (suffering)

They want to avoid pain at almost any cost

They want instant relief and gratification.

They want the crown, without paying the price of the crown.

They want to enter the promise land without walking through the wilderness.

No, poverty is not the cause of their wickedness.

It is has a result of greed.

Greed as made them to find joy and estacy from the losses of others.

6 children no boy ,that can spell trouble

Truvelisback:
Some men no wan know that one oooo. As a woman, If u like born like 6 children, if boy pikin no dey inside, u are in a hot seat.

All this things they are saying self . Withdrawal or not relating with people from the outside world is part of the habit of those in boarding school. All of them should just chill Abeg.

Is it a sin?

God1000:
Abeg they should stop disturbing us and desist from public display of wealth

This is a beautiful write up. I googled on how to live a fasted life and this appeared . Thanks for this blessing.

True and he behaved like a woman sometimes.

Magnoliaa:
If it was a woman, he and his likes, including the female misogynists would not have any problem believing it. Meanwhile, both men and women do crazy things to each other, including their closest gender friends.

Why should he lie , I don’t understand you

KiNg0G:
I smell lies

To get cheap likes

I’m good o . Hope the burden is not to heavy . Don’t worry you would still get old then people won’t notice much again .

Nuttella:
BJ howfar?

It’s true God made you really beautiful, sha I heard it’s not easy to be like that

Nuttella:
It also makes men to be insecure when they are in a relationship with a beautiful woman.

I can totally relate to all.


"You know you are beautiful, I dont want them to steal you from me
"Fine girl like you no get money?
"Fine girl like you, why you never marry?
"Fine girl like you no get boyfriend?
"Fine girl like you suppose get job easily na.
"Fine girl like you no suppose dey do anything wey go stress am, na to just marry you keep you for house

I have gone to church and felt a bit weird when a female usher told me "sister you are beautiful" same thing happened in a eatery I went to today, I asked the lady why she was talking to me in a kind of tone and laughing unnecessarily, she said
" cause you are a black beauty" I'm not use to ladies complimenting me, felt a bit weird.


Anyways, beauty is vain, my focus is on serving God.