Your guy is just looking for a way to chance (dump) you.
The spiritual story are all made up lies.
His actions and silent behaviours are all acting.
No right thinking man will sleep with a girl "once" notice all is not well and still continue with her.
To paint a story of meeting a ghost is massive.
My dear if he's truly traumatised as he said he won't even contemplate to stay in that house alone neither day nor night.
If truly he saw a ghost and he thinks the girl is associated with it, by now he must have blocked her number not to talk of being reachable. Then you said "the girl called and he left the car to answer the call" my dear herein lies the answer to your problem.
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There's something serious going on between them and it has been for long.
#myopinion

I just wasted my mb on an ugly girl that wants attention.

AfonjaConehead:
What is this one nahhhh??!!

Abeg this one should go and contest for "Miss Pepper seller".

Werey lol

Back in days when I was still hustling and trying to find my feet, their was this lady, a colleague at work who loved me so much and was ready to show it in every possible means. A couple of times she offered to buy me food or drinks but I declined, the green light was much that some people were suspecting we're already a thing, twice she asked me "Vik na so we go dey dey?" Meaning won't I ask her out.
Deep inside me I know I can't be in a relationship because I was yet to stand and focusing on my goals. I just came back from service then, still in my father's house. Most times I cry when alone because I thought I wasn't making any headway in life.
At a point she became tired of me and moved in with my Supervisor who had been disturbing her for a long time, I didn't know if I was to be happy then because of no more pressures from or sad that she had been taken from me. It was ugly then but God came through for me, I give him praise.

TMKsouth:
On Monday, two Nigerian presidents were in Durban, South Africa for the 2nd Intra-African Trade Fair (IATF).

President Muhammadu Buhari received a special invitation from SA's President Cyril Ramaphosa, together with a handful of other leaders from the continent. Former President Olusegon Obasanjo came in his capacity as IATF's chairman of the advisory council.

Obasanjo no gree come near buhari, not to talk of snapping pictures with him

pocohantas:


Lol. Odiegwu! Nuwa nka anyi n’ile no?
Ejim redpillers na mkpuru amu.

You go know say no be favour when all of us start to flee from you.

Ewooo
Poco-nwa si n'oji ha na sucrutum.
Make Naija girls leave us oyibo girls dey rush us already.

I7 yrs. I was a sales man and butcher in a frozen chicken shop. My monthly salary then was 4k but I got alot of experience that are immense value.

slickycee:
OP you made a lot of valid points.

In particular a man and a woman can't just be friends
I agree but then there's another side you've failed to mention.

First I agree that a females just plans on using her male friends while all her romantic hopes are for her ex and boyfriend
You're right, as a guy your female friend would always try to manipulate you

Nevertheless you too can reap many benefits from such friendship
But first, you need to stop expecting anything from ladies..

You don't owe her anything and she doesn't owe you anything.
You have no intentions of impressing her, all your actions are out of kindness and are in alignment with your character
Not in hopes that one day you'd get the puccy

If that's what you want, get a prostitute or another girl for that , but respect your friendship .

In this my life , I have gained a lot of favors from my female friends, they didn't give me sex, I didn't give them money

But we gave each other from our individual love

Which is greater than sex or any material gift.

I tell myself , I may be a simp in the eyes of men but in my conscience I'm only treating my female friends the way I would love guys to treat my sister and my unborn daughter

I feel it's stupid to show good character just to impress a gender, just be good because that's your nature.

And yes , I'm not impotent , the thought of banging my female friends is something I struggle with, but by Gods grace

I shrugg it off and give my attention to more inspiring thoughts

You can be friends with a lady but don't expect much
Don't even expect anything, just be doing you and living life

Thumbs up Man.
I think we share the same ideology.
To be frank I have received alot of favours from women more than my fellow men. Most times these favours come from their own kindness. It depends on personality and individual mindset.

TMTR:


Listen more to old school artiste, only few new school make sense these days ,let me give you a tip , go listen to monalisa by Lil Wayne ft Kendrick Lamar (lesson to learn here is that it teaches you how to be street Smart) story of OJ by Jay z(where he talks about financial intelligence) don't hurt me by Eminem ft lil Wayne etc, I can go on and on and if you can't understand what they are saying cause of their accent, just Google the lyrics of the songs.

When it comes to local music , I listen to more of high life like osadebe, also listen to fela and king sunny Ade and their likes, tuface included

By now , you must have gotten the point that I am driving at.

Listen to artiste that talks more about themselves in their songs, a lot to learn from because they talk about real life experiences.

Movies also not excluded , like I said before I heard about 'dark web' for the first time in my life through a movie.

Truth us there is hardly anything we can't learn from, just learn how to extract knowledge from everything.

Also learn to read , it's very important

Nice one man
You must have an interesting playlist

Gadafii:


Before I go fit buy phone of 200k, I go make sure say I get over 500k in my account, as a guy man like this, I get sure plugs for yaba where I dey buy okrika wears from him hand, when I wash and tidy am well with nice perf, u no fit know say na okrika,

Bros abeg you tidy me this your sure plug phone number??

HenryDion:


I'm a freelance writer. There are tons of skills to acquire. The question is, are you ready to sit down and dedicate months to learn without earning?

There lies your answer.

Please Sir do you have any tips on that?

Mercychen:
Pray for them.

You'll shall not lose them.

Yes I so much believe in prayers but this is not spiritual warfare.
This is science and will need scientific knowledge.

Heloct:
You don't vaccinate sick birds. You medicate them.

Exactly

IKBARUTEN11:
I don't know if it still works

In 2009, when I expressed the same issue, I was advised to add marijuana to the fouls' drinking water. This increased the intake of feed but it worked

You can try it

Please Sir can you explain more on this?
Like you have to boil the marijuana and sieve the water to them?

hisexcellency34:

https://thenationonlineng.net/ill-contest-presidency-zoning-or-not-pius-anyim/

I see no elections come 2023, Atiku Abubakar will go court and he will be declared the rightful winner of the 2019 election.
Mark my words.

joshawesome:
Good morning happy people of nairaland.

I will try to be brief as possible. During the lock down my elder brother was seriously ill, we all thought it normal malaria and typhoid but getting to the hospital he was diagnosed of kidney diseases at it last stage (CKD). We all brace up and gave him all the support needed during the stage from one dialysis section to another something thrice a week.

It became worse and no improvement at sight, I literally do all thing for him, from bathing to feeding and carry him around the hospital but he faith he will come out of it. During the process he used all of his life saving to the extend of collecting and seeking financial assistance from people because the doctor advice to undergo kidney transplants.

On 2 April 2021 we went from dialysis, nurses were complaining that I allow him to drink a lot of water because at that stage he have a daily water intake and also needed blood. He did the blood transfusion and the dialysis but he had a breathing issue, the nurse place him on breathing machine the oxygen got exhausted and he was normal.

We went home by 12am, on getting home we ask for water, I told him to wait because I can even hear noise of water around his thoracic cavity. He was having difficult I had to call one of his friend so that we can take him back to the hospital but he gave up the ghost and we bury him that the same day because that was his wish. Due to his name, I was confused and angry at myself and everyone that we lost him due to 5 million needed for the transplant.

Months later I was able to get over his death a bit and went back to school, wrote the exam and graduated with first class even though the examination I didn't prepared much due to what happened. It was just God hand at work ( It only a fool that say there is no God).

Now the problem is that I can't sleep and remember my brother death that I should have done more. His death is like 5 months from now but it still fresh in my memory recently. My brother play a vital role in my education from paying my fee and monthly allowance and advice. I was thinking of using drugs so that I can sleep at time but talk me out of it. Pls how can I re again myself and also am an introvert I don't have people to talk to and I hardly go out.

Chai. Is a pity.
Take heart bro.
As for the insomnia, boil a cup of water and mix it with raw honey, drink when warm. You can also boil 2 fingers of bananas with a cup of water, drink when warm. May God console you. It's not easy.

wunmi590:


Still look beautiful

1 think she should start thinking of giving birth now, except doctors still advice her to wait a little..

"She should start thinking of giving birth now ", your brother marry am ?

Metrix147:



Cc; https://abntv.com.ng/2021/10/meet-27-new-commissioners-in-abia-and-their-portfolios-must-read/

A state that find it difficult to pay her own workers, 30k minimum wage is even unthinkable, Abia State is among the top 5 states that have the lowest IGR, yet they have 27 commissioners.
Hmmm I feel so bad

Anyahuruagu:
Nwanne the sad truth is that you cannot have it all in one package.

If she's teachable my guy, manage her situation, teach her and correct her in love.
It's now we know if you also love her

I have come to understand that it must not all be there.. Come on I can make good dishes, if my partner cannot do better in kitchen that means i must complement for our companionship and also growth.

That's why we both need each other.
No man is an island and no man on the other hand has it all.

Kudos Man.
Seeing intelligent comments like this is a very big relief to a troubled soul.

solidmyk:
Darkweb has always been the home of creepy stuffs, imagine streaming live gore videos
One of the funniest shit is that Nigerians involved in the dark web ain't that much going by the listed countries here yet they're been tagged to being notorious in criminality

Please what do you mean by streaming "live gore videos"??

Promzy99:
Strange things do happen guys. Yerterday being sunday, My babe and I went out 2 take some bottles as usual @ one of our favourite bar in Oyigbo. So it happend that we finished late cos of the interesting nollywood movie that was showing on African magic @ the bar.

She got calls 4rm home that there is a heavy presence of Army men harrassing and flogging people. For safety purpose, I decided that we lodge in nearby guest house to spend the nite and this is our first time spending the nite 2geda.

While sleeping, (me I wasn't that deep at sleep cos of the alcoholic drink) with her left leg wrappd around me, I startd feeling some wet sensation. Immediately, I turnd on my phone's torch, lol and behold my babe was zapping. I got shocked. I woke her up with anger, she feeling very sorry, hugged me and was pleading with me seriously with tears dripping down her eyes. I couldn't help but to feel sorry for her too.

She said she's been battling with that issue since childhood.

Please, how can I help her?

Wall Gecko to the rescue.
Eating Wall Gecko roasted with palm oil, fresh pepper, salt and a touch of scent leaves can do the wonders.
No jokes please.

FIFApresident1:
Type dullardi.nho without the dot(.) And see what it turns to.

President Buhari

President Buhari

Iyaebe:
Proceeds from extortion,kudos anyway

Allow those who were extorted to do the talking.
As if your penny is in it

Shebi if I go there nah start poultry nobody go say make i pay tax.

Now that they have received their own ENVELOPE what next?

smk513:
ok we met at my friends wedding, nice looking girl with an eye of a loyal being, has good aura and charisma, and me knowing fully well that am a patient dog whose partner must be one that
alligns with my kind of person, i went for it and we were good after a 1month of toasting. Fastforward to our relationship, i was a good guy to her, loving, and most importantly caring. I spend money abeg, me sef know sey i never
spend that kind money on any girl since them born me.

At a point in time, she had asked me for her school fees of almost 130k, i declined cos i just replaced her AC worth over 180k, told her sorry to say but am not your dad and im dead broke at this moment, i dont have. Infact i decided to give her a 3weeks space
so I can face my work and hustle to double up. After the 3 weeks we got back, while giving her doggy, I figured there was a change in her anus, looked like something had penetrated there, obviously a diiicck, asked her what happened, she denied saying nothing that it probably is those times
that I use to finger her annuss while giving her doggy that has changed the look, I didnt blv but i knew she had cheated on me.

Guy how you manage put hand inside person nyash?
Abeg helep my konfusion

Gadafii:
most of the girls i have been with, they always the one cheating with me on their main guys.

the only girl i met without boyfriend, i told her if she cheat me on and i find out, i will break her neck

My MAN!!
You gave her a peep into the future

Candidlady:


shush! Its called "hairnet" mr! No come mumu us

Some boxes have "shower cap" written on it

luscioustrish:
Didn’t say anything

Chai! Like he went on Ghost mode?

ChiefSosa:
Sefan.ru

Maybe you like playing games just like me.
Pes was my favourite

umunaija:
End time is truly here, give your live to God. Jesus don't want you to perish, that's why he died on the cross for you. Anything can happen anytime, I just lost a cousin day before yesterday, strong, young and healthy young man, he just said that he can't breathe and that was it. Nobody knows his time, please always be ready. Don't let this message speak against you on judgement day. God bless you

Your cousin died, you now remembered God out of fear. How about all this while you he was living in good health? Did you remember God then?
I pray your repentance last for a life time and become genuine.

Sonnobax15:

Yeah...I do have a male cousin (my dad's sister's son) who used to live with us back then.....He do normally go to work and used to return late in the evening....Most times,my dad would deliberately wants all of us to starve and wait for him(my cousin?/) To return back from work first before we'll eat at the same place.....But the dude was always fond of rejecting, thereby putting all our efforts of waiting to no avail....... He'd wait till when it's dark like around 9p.m , and would go out and buy mama-put food..

Na one day one day my popsman sit am down and clear am all him fvck up....Like wait,you dey catch me witch abi wizard for my own house?

Bro I did exactly this not quiet long ago. Sometimes nah see finish we dey avoid. I can understand him somehow