Hmmm!!
Firstly thank you Lord for bringing me this far!!
1)A closer walk with God
2)I will love to increase the content of my bag
3)Network more with people of like mind
4)Build a meaningful relationship that "may" lead to marriage if not still on celibacy.
5) just be happier, wealthier and healthy.
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Amen to all our secret prayers.

IrepChrist:
For those that will seek him genuinely it is very significant. You are seeking God in the early morning of a new year.

Scriptures says
"They that seek me early shall find me"

Please "seeking early" means when you're still alive not when dead as there's no repentance in the grave.
Get it right.

AderonkeOlaniyi:


You can't wait for 2022 or your normal monthly 30k stipend. Which one? Look for something worthwhile to do. 30k can only provide you with plates of amala, ewedu and gbegiri for few days. You can't go far with it

Please don't cross over with this your "vawulence"

Before you start saying it out, make sure you know your partner or spouse, avoid hide my id.
If my wife is the jealous type and I carefreely say am crushing on Tiwa Savage, what do you think she would do if she sees me with a hot colleague?
Therefore study your partner and respect marriage boundaries.
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I've seen a man begging phyno for a selfie because the wife wants it.

Stargurl20:

Just as being married do not stop men from being attracted to other women and even going as far as frolicking, it's exactly the same with women, just that most women are able to tame their attraction towards opposite gender because they respect their marriages.

But is it right?

Kriss216:
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She collected the money from you ist semester final year.


Let's assume you lash her 3 times a day for one year.

30 days in a month minus 4 days of menustration period.,

26*3 = 78 lashes monthly
78*12 = 936 lashes a year(final year)

N500 per lash*963 = N468,000.


How you take dey owe her up to N10 million? Is her kpekus laced with raw golds

Una go dey stress una self dey solve maths on top nothing

Kriss216:
Women and Gossip


Nothing about this gender is worth emulating.


Tueh!

It seems you come from a messed up family?
Did you grow under your mum's care?
Was she caring to you?
Did you actually see any atom of goodness in her?
Was she a kind of role model to you?
How about your sisters, Do you have any?
Was there love in between?
What was your Father's relationship with his family?
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Sorry I asked alot of questions man but the way you guys slam women here prompted me to.
I pray 2022 hits with maturity.

Simple and Beautiful!!
But why are the men in nollywood dieing of poverty, dieing of sickness that can be cured or properly managed.
Imagine someone like Clems Ohameze being giving ordinary 5million or thereabout and he was shedding tears. Few weeks ago an actor died of an ailment that can be cured. This is too freaking. I pray God sees us through in all our endeavour.

Wilfredpat22:
Sir, Let me advice you as I will do to my Big brother

Don’t send her to any school. If she loves you let her find and hustle to pay for school fees. Send her to school and she will come out, do NYSC, and marry someone richer than you.

The school you will send her to has bigger boys that will bang her mercilessy and give her wads of money better than the ‘Change’ she gets from you.

My uncle second wife is a University graduate that left her own bf to be someone second wife because my uncle gave her a car. I don’t even greet her when I visit them

Sir trust me there are better girls out there.

Dear OP,
This is the best advice follow it.

Dear JustMe407,
Alot of people have contributed wisely and positively but then its left for you to just to their contribution. Your mindset is the only thing that can attract or hinder you in life. If you have the opportunity there are a few you can read to help you steady your boat.
1.Bible
2. 7 habits of highly effective people
3. The black jacobins
4. Focus
5. Speed of trust
6. As a man thinks
7. The power of positive thinking
8. Law of attraction
9. Think and grow rich
There is nothing you need to know you can see in the internet especially YouTube and Google, please make use of the positively.
I wish you the very best and God's speed.

Dear JustMe407,
Alot of people have contributed wisely and positively but then its left for you to just to their contribution. Your mindset is the only thing that can attract or hinder you in life. If you have the opportunity there are a few you can read to help you steady your boat.
1.Bible
2. 7 habits of highly effective people
3. The black jacobins
4. Focus
5. Speed of trust
6. As a man thinks
7. The power of positive thinking
8. Law of attraction
9. Think and grow rich
There is nothing you need to know you can see in the internet especially YouTube and Google, please make use of the positively.
I wish you the very best.

AGurlnoname:


Lol, no wahala. For instance, I was struggling on which career path I should take even though I read a professional course. I never even had passion for the course I read but I was made to understand the real purpose of my existence through the course.

See life isn't all about hustle and get money but also finding your purpose, impacting lives and living a happy life. You can enter my mail and let's continue, if you don't mind.

It seems you read law
Your last paragraph is what I am battling with. I've seen a few ways to make more money, go abroad, catch all the fun but I still question myself "is that all I want in life".

tallestguy4u:


Don't get this wrong, you don't give tithe, but you pay it to God not just anywhere or any place, but where you worship. It is a commandment, not giving.

"Pay" so if I don't pay God some money what happens?
I personally don't remember "paying" him some money before he sent his son to die for me( which is the best gift ever to me) so I wonder how "paying" tithe will bring me blessing when his "word" say "ask and you shall be given".
By the way, when you say "pay" it sounds more like bribe.

digitite:
My brother, find a passion. Do intense research. Manage money very well and socialise with the right crowd. Some women can bring blessing, so do not neglect all of them.

Lol
Please how can I know the ones with blessing?

I won't miss it next year.
Is their any beach in South East?
Atleast a place to cool off and catch fun

olas24u:


Well i dont think their is any site that will tell you the story according to how its fits,you are a nigerian and your needs and and targets are different,Go on social media and type association of nigerians in newzealand ,once you are accepted in the group,you can start dropping questions and getting answers and counter arguments from nigerians in that country.But you are on the right track.

Thanks

Cousin9999:
Age differences aren't about the gap. They're about the life stage. A person in their mid twenties is not usually at the same place in life as someone in their early thirties. And it may be unfair for an older person to commit to someone who hasn't yet determined if they're ready to enter a certain stage.

That said, sometimes, when you know, you know. If you both love each other, and you're committed to building a great relationship and life together, do it.

But you might want to wait a while before having babies. Take your time.

Dear Cousin9999,
In usually look forward to your comments here, as you contribute intelligently, please when you say "you might want to wait before having babies" what do you actually mean?

olas24u:
Go to newzealand get documented,get a good education in healthcare,just change the course or complete it and start another if you have age on yourside.nursing is okay

Dear olas24u, can be elaborate or direct me to a site where I can get more info on this your idea.
Thanks

goody234:


In developed climes you don't have owners being a law unto themselves and throwing a persons stuff out ...it will never happen !! the owner will go the legal route to get him out ...Are we not a lawful country again what has common sense got to do with an idiot owner throwing a grown mans stuff out ...Lawless behaviour is our norm in nigeria , let that owner try that with me that his head will be bust open ..idiot man !!

In developed climes he will be sensible enough to know that prolonging his stay is a crime and he will move so why not replicate the same here.
Common sense, being logical in reasoning is something many people unfortunately done have.
I AM NOT IN SUPPORT OF THE MAN HITTING HIM BUT AGAINST HIS UNWISE DECISION

goody234:


Notwithstanding he still needs some time to move and the owner throwing his stuff out is just plain wrong .....he has every right to call the police and get that owner locked up ..."FREE ACCOMMODATION" or not .
Thats the problem with Nigeria too many cowboys running around thinking they know it all

I wonder what you mean by "cow boys", in developed climes contracts are being honoured to the core and should anything happen it must be mutual.
The agreed to separate mutually, common sense should have told him his is to vacate even before writhing resignation letter.
You don't bring sentiment and emotions where logic should be applied.

goody234:


how much is enough time ?..quit notice is normally 3 months what are you talking

Dear goody234, the guy is not a tenant per say. His school gave him "FREE ACCOMMODATION" because he is "WORKING FOR THEM" he "IS NOT" paying rent. He tendered his resignation "wholeheartedly" thereby "TERMINATING" his contract with the school that give him free accommodation. He wasn't forced to resign.
So this has nothing to do with 3 months whatever.
So he should move.

Righteousness2:
You and your Sin Partner are Playing skipping rope with your Destinies.

Take this Admonishment seriously!
Fear GOD! Don't involve the Holy Spirit in your sexual immorality. The Holy Spirit is a Holy being who does not tolerate nonsense.
Blasphemy against HIM is not Forgivable.

Don't Destroy your soul with your hands. Fear GOD!

Dear OP take this advice

switosman:
what sort of lily lever men we have around these days. this is just the beginning of the meaning of life and you are considering opting out. Boy man up and arise to your responsibility that you took on by yourself. Nobody forced you, you live by the choices you make. Go out there and make money, take care of the woman and her coming baby like you were taken care till you come of age.

"MOTIGBESIONAL SPOKER"
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Awon werey
(I need that Beyonce's cheering meme to augment this post Please)

Why do some Nigerians ave this shitty entitlement mentality?
They gave you free accommodation because you work in their school, you tendered your resignation "wholeheartedly" and you still want to remain in their house. Are you crazy?
They gave you enough time and even extended it for you maybe that was what gave you the audacity to think you can go to police and make a stupid case.
What if they have employed a new teacher to replace you who will also need accommodation? Will you start telling them this your BS ?
Why didn't you save enough money to cover for your accommodation be tendering your resignation letter?
Just get out of that house. You can't eat your cake and still have it.

Tinubuadvocate:
Stupid bloody scammer .only God knows what those children will become in future.

They will grow and become great people that you will later carry bag for

CallMeDrino:


https://www.instagram.com/tontolet/p/CX5CWH6IeBe/?utm_medium=copy_link

So Jesus nah your gee abi?
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.ehhh, Tonto, bobrisky say you dey ogogoro and shekpe sotey you drunk come dey shit for bed na true?
Which kain BS be That?

Wow
You want to keep it as a pet? You must be a caring human being.
Just name it "Aisha" or "chi-chi"
Don't ask why?

PENNYSWAP:


As in Eeeeeehhh...

I dated one full time ashawoooooo...
Like full time runz girl, we begin use rubber till we begin knack raw... for like 8months

I fvck this girl and she fvcks other men for money cuz it was a distant relationship,

The day I discovered she be runz girl , I thought my world has ended... went to test countless time and was negative...

I still Dey shock till now , I come tag am my mama prayers

"I come tag am my mama prayers "
Guy you funny oo

Eastcoastboy:


That's for them tho, but imagine now that all these you said gains popularity nd it becomes widespread and stamped even the Olosho on the street will throw caution to the wind and start Knacking raw thereby giving rise to;
1. High immorality rate( more than what we have now)
2. Increase and the spread of STDI's. (Especially Hepatitis B. Which is more deadly than HIV/AIDS people don't even know this.
3. High rate of unwanted pregnancy amongst young people.

I've looked at this carefully from the lense of a SRHR ( Sexual Reproductive Health Right) Peer Educator that I am. So I'm not disputing your assertions because the facts are glaring. But all I want to say is that FEAR appeal that has been used to champion this campaign has helped to maintain decency to a certain extent so promoting this might just end up throwing the small moral we have to the mud.

So we should keep spreading lies just to maintain decency?

Immorttal:
If HIV is real, then two individuals is just enough to spread it to the whole world in just a month!!

I like this sense of reasoning.

phemmyfour:
Are men cheating with men or other women? Women cheat too and called it revenge

You even care respond to her. As if women even married don't cheat and bring back another man's child home. Ever since I read her thread about telling her fiance to under go a vasectomy for her selfish reasons I knew she was mad.