A young guy seeking for a sugar mummy is what i will never understand.

Does it mean he has written himself off?

Like you can't succeed in life without leeching off a woman??

Are you that clueless and "visionless"??

Well..

Dollywood:


We don't need this information.

Are you jealous??

faithfull18:

Is this open to anybody? State or Federal workers? Or which?

Its for everyone but you must register and contribute for 6months.( for govt. workers your is deducted automatically, check your payslip.)

You must have evidence to show you're gainfully employed or self employed.

You must have land with c of o and other land documents.

you must deposit 10% of any amount you will borrow, maximum of 15m

Just locate an MLO or PMB nearest to you for more clarification.

QuinModah:
with National Housing Scheme, if you have remitted in the last 6 months you have access to 7-15 million max and payable in 30yrs. Kindly consult your HR for detailed information.

Wow thanks for this.

NHS fund is being deducted from my salary, I'll definitely look into it.

casualobserver:

He will still be your president, if it is not him it will be Atiku! Know this and know peace!!

There is nothing about Tinubu we don’t already know, more likely it is Obi and his dubious past that will start to unravel. We are already seeing articles about alleged past involvement in drugs, how his father was killed because of drugs and how his brother was banned from the Us because of drugs!

"Alleged past involvement"

Drop verifiable facts not rumours.

The man, his side chick and the gossiper that gossiped to his wife, their conscience will torment them till they die.

Mom007:

Oh you can marry... You may even be happy but that feeling of having met your soulmate.

You mean something like "firstlove"?

Mom007:
Its called love at first sight. Its magnetizim. You can't fight it... Just leave them. Its not something you fight her over. Just talk it out and tell her to pursue her heart. Your own too will come. Look, I've been happily married for almost 10yrs and I am fully convinced that there is one person created by God for everyone. She may have just stumbled on her person in that your friend. Let them be. Your own too will come and when it does, you see those sparks flying between them both? Your own too will come.
Cheers.

So once you miss that one person, you can never marry right??

Very interesting topic.

As a single its advisable you open up to the girl you're dating. Just six months into the relationship or when you feel you want to settle down. Watch her closely, monitor her actions and choices she makes.

Did she become materialistic?

Did her taste in standard of living skyrocket?

If she was spending little on you did she later stop?

You can give her an amount of money you can afford to loose to keep. Can she return the money to you without stories? (Ask her for the money without giving her notice)

These stuffs will help you make a better choice.

Be vigilante. Marriage is very scary when you marry wrong.


Edited: give her what you can afford to loose for safekeeping. Try her out with that.

Kudos.

purples25:
You're not ugly. Know this and know peace.

You didn't continue your "if nairaland is a real city" thread?

Abeg continue oo.

LeoDeKing:
I have100% assurance a familiar name must be there. The first to prove me wrong wins N20k instantly.

You're a fuuuuuuul

Is noilers good for frozen chicken business?

ElBenny:
No boss. I've not for once told him.
But I'm not sure either if she has informed him before.

Give him a glimpse of what to expect. Indirectly inform him about it.

ElBenny:
Good day everyone. I have a serious issue at hand. It's about loyalty and snitching.
I have this friend, his name is Onos (29). Onos is practically my best friend. We've known each other for 8 years now. He's almost the only one who supports my dreams and visions.
He links me up with high paying jobs, offer his skills to help me free of charge and is always talking about how we both will succeed in our common field. I rate him highly. I've sacrificed for him and he has done the same.

Onos' girlfriend (27), Ruby, is my childhood friend. I've known her since I was 6 years old or so. Her family and mine have a common bond. I and Ruby had "something" back in 2014 which was shortlived. Like Onos, I've made sacrifices for Ruby over the years. She's a trustworthy and loyal friend, one whom I don't joke with.
So my best friend Onos and my longterm friend, Ruby are in a relationship.
Their relationship is a year and 6 months old.

Whenever they have issues, I am aware. Onos mentions it to me. Ruby on the other hand gives me the "talk to your friend" kind of vibes in the midst of their fights.
Onos is insecure and thinks Ruby (who is a sales rep.) is cheating on him. Ruby has called me many times to explain that even if Onos is hustling and doesn't have too much money like her other "suitors," she still loves him and can't cheat on him.
They usually would settle and be all loved up again in spite of all their fights

Recently something happened, they had their usual fights.
Ruby was pained when she called me. She said these words; "Onos does not even have money to my taste. I have seen men who have money and offers to take good care of me. My friends even mock me for dating him. I won't let Onos break up with me, I'll make sure I break up with him and see that it pains him. For now let me keep fooling him."

I was shocked to hear these words. I was dumbfounded as well.
Should I call Onos to inform him of what Ruby told me?
Or should I consider my long term friendship with Ruby and not snitch on her by revealing what she has said?

Help guys I'm stuck!

Is your friend Onos aware that you had "something " with his girlfriend in the past?

Your answer would determine.

Dirpetaner:
Thank God your friend is now your boss... at least you now have a connection at the top....don't expect help from him...rather try to prepare yourself with total humility, work with your friend and you will receive your own part of the grace..His grace is different from yours....he got his breakthrough through you dont sit on it....abi you don want anyone you help to be above you..

Exactly.

We all have different "graces".

UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He passed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

Jealousy!!

From your write up I can perceive the stench of your jealousy and envy.
You should even be happy for your friend, atleast you have someone that can cover your "fckups" tomorrow.
When Davido said "we rise by lifting others" what do you think he meant?

If your friend is in a position to determine who gets promoted, do you think he will abandon you?

Just believe that God "have sent your own joseph ahead of time to save you in your moments of famine"

Rekhina:
Yarubas think we north have no sense , they go about telling themselves evil they want against the good north while smiling to us calling us brothers after killing us with opc and Lagos touts blaming igbos for the killings .
We all know Muhammadu buhari is a failure why will yaribas tell us igbos are enemy to the north for hating buhari and his crazy fans if they aren't so wicked?

Little by little the truth will keep coming out

Sweetplum:
What a funny advert. Confused voter wanted to colonise others into vote candidates n not party.

It is what it is!

We are voting competence not party.

Oga pls call this rubbish off.
A relationship without boundaries is no relationship. The truth is that she doesn't rate you at all. That's how SAY NO TO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.

LeoDeKing:
We igbos love Nnamdi Kanu.

He was sent by Abiama to come rescue umu Chineke. He is our god.

And by our creation, we don't take responsibility for anything done by us.

We therefore blame Tinubu, Buhari, fulani herdsmen and dss for this.

Written by a stewpid yoruba boy

Candora:
He will learn.
Personally, I would prefer it if my man can cook.
What if I need serious pampering and romance ??

Nigerian women and pampering

Do you people pamper men?

Righteousness2:
What the GOD of Chosen cannot do, Does not Exist.
The GOD of Chosen is so Great.
To HIM alone be All the Glory.

Please is the God of chosen different from the God worshiped in Redeem and Mountain of fire?

Or is God now deliberately "choosing to answer more prayers from chosen angle?

Or do we no have multiple Gods in Christianity?

What is this stupidity of God of this and that?

Sweetvie:
Lmao... Like seriously it so beautiful can't help it and m not using any skin care on it

Lol

Drop pics lets compare it with poco's own

lhordspy:
Is he there to defraud the woman of her dollars too. All in the name of fund mobilisation. What happened to the $150m you cunningly obtained few days ago. ?

Pandora happened to it right?

Madam okonjo iweala, please stay a little far from that man,Peter.....make your purse no miss, vanish, Evaporate, disengage, dissapear (any word sha that can best describe criminally minded pandora looter)


Yoruba call it - bi Afowora bi ole.


He has an history in Lying alot after commiting a Scam.

He has a history of lying while tinubu have a history of doing drugs made manifest in his shaky hands, he also has a history of looting Lagos treasury made manifest in laundering it with bullion van.

nedekid:

Ensure to prepare before traveling. Get someone to include your name in their utility bill months before your trip.
That is what you will use as proof of address. You will also use that address to receive post from the bank including your well come pack. It has to be someone you trust if not the receiver can use your details to steal your money through identity theft.
Basically with this you can go online to try opening with one of the majors ie Lloyd's, hsbc, sartanda, Barclaya etc.
If you still have difficulties, then try with the online banks, the requirements are not as stringent. Eg monzo.
So I did one of the majors and a monzo. Majors for major savings and the monzo for small savings and regular expenses.
The nice thing is that I was able to set up a PayPal account instantly and can receive and make payments. I think naija cards with paypal can only pay not receive.
So generally, na to de save money for stable environment. Supprisenly, the overdraft offered me ehh, in all my banking in naija, no bank has ever offered me that much as a new customer oh. That one na for if person get better business to do, na him I go touch am
Dont forget to roam the phone line before returning to naija ohh, cause the banks need to reach you at any time or else I hear they close accounts.
Na the end tori be that

This is not the first time I'm screenshoting your comment.
There's always something to learn. Thanks

Sweetvie:
You got a beautiful hand
Like mine
Mine is so beautiful that sometimes I just stare at it and be asking my myself is the hand for me lol

Women sef!!
So you would stare at your own hands and be wondering if it is yours?

NoToPile:


https://www.nairaland.com/971395/new-born-babies-u-new/1298#62300796

You can follow that recipe.

Thanks.
I appreciate.

Nwatachoba1:


If u no sabi use hot water to do it,my dear leave am o

U won't like to drink watery pap.. u just have to do it half done

Buy ur corn and Guinea corn,soak am for some days to make it soft, add ginger and grind am together, use neat white cloth to strain am or sieve am(removing the chaff) once u are done..pour it into a cloth or lining (something to drain the water away approximately for 3days or till u feel the water has drained off...

To make it solid, use kettle and let the water boil very very well, use lil water to make the pap liquid (not watery o) add ur hot water den cover it for some minutes, den keep stirring till it gets tick

Note: can't be tick like custard, when u put milk,e go lost..lol

Hope this helps

It's same process for normal corn pap

Just different when trying to use hot water


Na man I be o

My wife or gf no fit use cooking and all shakara me

Thanks man!!

Man wey sabi process corn to pap na cooking soup go come be wahala?

I appreciate, God bless

NoToPile:
Na God dey help person.

For morning children cereals, I make tombrown (soya, gero, groundut, corn) the main cereal for the children, cornflakes and amazing day is a back up not the main cereal the adults also take the tombrown sometimes.

I switched from full cream to skim milk miksi, it's cheaper, still better than no milk at all.

For washing plates
Liquid soap, made 5 liters for 1k, the thing dinot foam well like morning fresh also tried buying kogi soap( they said 3 large ones 500) I say kogi soap this costly? I maintained the local liquid soap jeje

Detergent I buy in carton to save small 10tenten kobo here and there.


No wastage of food at all at all.


The Mata just Taya persin.

Please if possible you can make a thread on how to make Tombrown.
Thanks

Nwatachoba1:


My dear, na the smallest morning fresh plastic I dey buy now, soap(dudu osun) peak milk sachet(inside my fridge plus milo sachet) I stopped taking checkers custard,now na to grind Guinea corn,corn and ginger(pap)

Etc

Please how can i prepare the guinea corn, corn and ginger pap?

Anticipating for your reply.

Thanks

Fahvvy:
Why not?!!!!!
Se.x before marriage is irresponsible! Just as expecting a guy you're dating to pay your bills is criminal ...

On this mandate I stand !!