₦airaland Forum

jay bee:
I thought i'd get in line now since you are being chased right, left and centre. Maybe a lil chasing at acute angle might just do the trick.
anyhoo, u get mouth . . . .u be ma aburo nau no be so
Just looking out for ya

lol---U funny--- Touche.

Mcleo007:
Igbo guys are proud? Why u gurls always say that, I mean igbo ladies? Anyway, I think its common fact yoruba guys are more caring when it comes to making a woman feel so good about herself, which I suppose is the most important and not material things.

Is a lie! Who commonized that fact?! Prove it!!

Da Doctor:
Babe! Dear , Da doctor dey o!!!

see me see wahalas oh!

thats why i shout for help,

How you dey na,

Hope say u dey kampe

sexylogan:
thanx for all your comments.
Let me throw some light into the issue so u grasp the predicament i've found myself in.
My ex and i broke up last year. No beef involved. She had some nasty habits (emotional blackmail and constant nagging as well as always spending above her means among other problems). In the long run, we wud hav likely been a very miserable couple so i called it off.
Anyway, my bday is in May and i was surprised to recieve a dhl parcel with a Bvlgari perfume gift set for men. There was no return address just a hand written card from her saying 'happy birthday'.
I havnt used it and it's been sitting on my dresser since. My elder bro visited me and wen he saw the set he thot i had bought it for him. That got me thinking, do i giv him or find a way to return it bak to her? Becuz i honestly cant get myself to use the items.

First of all, thou shalt not give the gift away, YET. That's just plain rudeness, in my opinion. Even if you don't wanna use it, keep it under your bed, for now. Don't try sending it back either--that's even more rude! What if she meant "it" in a very un-romantic way? Notice she only wrote "happy birthday".

Secondly, What I honestly think is "you're scared". The "gift-acceptance" act is a good way to evaluate you feelings for your ex. Are you sure you've gotten over her?  Being "scared" is not the worst thing in the world. If not accepting the gift is your way of getting over her completely--then cool. No wahala. I just think what you want to do is rude and will hurt her feelings. What if she sees it at your elder brother's place sef? (only God knows what she'll be doing there)--- but really think about it. 

Btw, what was in the gift set? 

fxtopedia:
Why won't you find? Seek and you shall find!!!!

dplus:
@Babe

Remember

Life is in stages when you are old and have no companion or children to call yours then you will undestand the meaning of marriage you are still young so it does not matter to you now just like a Bachelor degree have little or no meaning to a toddler.
God will not come down to help you.
Please Think.

***sighs** --- Ok, will you marry me?  

literary:
yeah, hav been thinking bou that too lately. If chat room can be added to Nairaland, it will do. But guy, no dull urself oooo, Osewa dey hammer every single month. Na google and GEJ fit tell you!

Da Doctor:
BABE! Durling how are u doing?
Please keep telling them.
But guess that wasnt all the gifts i saw with you?
lol,

I'm aight!  

Yes those were the gifts---the Cabin biscuits and ChocoMilo right?

190:
yes you just (saw) it on the front page

kpolli:
if she doesnt gimme a good reason y she lied, divorce straight

mekaboy:


WOW, ALL OF YOU , WHO ARE IN SUPPORT, I THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SPEAKING OUT, WHEN I POSTED THIS, THE FIRST 3 COMMENTS, MADE ME BOOK AN APPOINTMENT WITH A THERAPIST, I THOUGHT I WAS GOING NUTS, I AM HAPPY THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT HAVE THE SAME VIEW.

LOL---pure jokes!

This marriage thing is  not only common amongst Nigerians-- Americans too are on the list, infact they beat Nigerians to it (from my view). The rate at which  I get invited to weddings here was scary, now funny! And who are the people getting married?  My school-mates--- High-school sweet-hearts--lol **smh** I'm always like where exactly are these fools running to? What do these people take marriage for? How can 7 husbands visit your v1gina before you finally "quit" all in the name of marraige and you still feel ok?

Don't get me wrong guyz, some of these marraiges are actually sucessful, but a chunk of the time--they always "kpeme".

 

ogugua88:
I hate the bolded so much. SO much. He can be as wealthy as Bill Gates for all I care. As long as he's human, he isn't perfect lol.