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coogar: shouldn't you be studying home economics or introductory technology? what are you doing here?

coogar: that's the point - i deliberately didn't attach my gender to my username, duh!
that was in the past, they both moved on after then.....
until the ex came back to sëxually-harass her in her own home! that was when the old feelings were exhumed and annie1 started feeling "maybe there could be a chance to get back with him....."

coogar: i refuse to be tempted - well done...

coogar: the husband's!

The husband's? No wonder they keep mistaking you for a female.

It's the husband's fault that she cheated? It's the husband's fault that she thought it was no big deal to cheat? It's the husband's fault that she refused to apologize to him? It's the husband's fault that she dumped him? Back up . . . it's the husband's fault that she stoned him with an object at a point in time and he got injured? VIOLENCE! It's the husband's fault that he got chased out of the relationship? It's the husband's fault that he met another woman and married her?

If Annie wasn't/isn't cray-cray, this "couple" would be as straight as a 30cm ruler!

ileobatojo: And as usual, Coogar is deeply embroiled in an argument where both sides pretty much have the same point. 'Girl', you too dey enjoy drama!

coogar: thunder fire your keyboard.....
the 2 parties do not have the same point - one party has chastised the op calling her everything under the sun and the other party is saying - this is not her fault

coogar: i thought cheats rub you the wrong way....

coogar: they should get back together in my opinion too....
• they have a kid together
• there's mutual love between the two
• the child needs a father figure. no other man would treat the kid as good as his own dad
• there's a risk adultery might creep into the man's marriage as he gets to see his ex constantly!

coogar: isn't that enough reason for these lovebirds to get back together? they would forever be in contact with each other because of their son. how soon before these sparks would start flying all over again.....better to make it official than leave the back door open for adultery to creep in. as long as annie1 remains single, her heart would forever be with her ex......

Annie1: I actually left him , I've not told u all the full story .. I cheated on him (covers face) , not physically but emotionally , I was chatting with this dude at work ( it wasn't explicit stuffs but more romantic ( if u didn't have a boyfriend , I would love u to be mine n i fed into it )
Me Ex read all the text message n e confronted me , and did I apologise ? No ! I said well I didn't physically cheat , so what the biggie

Annie1: @ Coogar , girl u r feistyyyyyy
Me loveeeesssss it

coogar: kim kardash: going the divorce route for her is like exchanging handshakes...

coogar: men are very sensible.....

coogar: hahahaha -- how easy to say that out?
it's not like the husband offended her, he didn't cheat! he was serving life cos of vehicular manslaughter......they were in a perfect marriage before the freak incident. he's in prison for the rest of his in the lowest ebb possible and your action would be: divorce? you are not aware that might send the poor old man to his early grave? abeg - be realistic and stop behaving like kim kardashian!

coogar: which question?
see eh......if a situation develops like that movie and my wife sleeps with the houseboy to get a child - i would not be angry with her. i pondered over that story a thousand times and i could not blame that woman for a second - shyte happens, get on with it.

remember, the husband wasn't even too pissed about it when he later discovered. he was only pissed the woman kept the information away from him and it was too late for him to have his own child after the woman ran after the ghana houseboy!

coogar: that nosey old man was her uncle? are you sure?

coogar: kept at what she's doing? after the prison officer became greedy and was asking to sleep with her each visit? wasn't that even the reason she took the houseboy route? access to her husband was denied....she was never going to be intimate with her husband ever again as the dude was serving life.....so what could she have done?

coogar: big rewards come with big risks.....
if i plan a coup and succeed, i would rule over 160 million people. however, if i plan a coup and i fail at it - i would be put to death for treason. thou shall not be caught is the golden rule. people should do what they must do to feel safe in their marriages - no one here should judge anyone with their puritanical/hypocritical views. you want to tell me there wouldn't be at least one philandering married woman on this very forum?

coogar: they were disturbing her......one old uncle used to sniff around to see what's going on.....besides, how long can a wife with no child stay by herself in her husband's house if the husband has been sent to life imprisonment? she can never bring another man to her hubby's house to marry(no matter what) and she was too young to rule out remarrying - so either way, the only way to stay in that same house is to get pregnant by all means necessary........she visited the husband in prison to effect the pregnancy but if wasn't to be .....in the end, the houseboy had to do it!

coogar: now, does it not bother you it was her mother and her best friend that told her to sleep with the houseboy? what does that say about the mentality of the nigerian woman in general? forget story - half of the married women you see in nigeria have attempted infidelity or done it before to save their faces if not their marriages! a woman can have everything in life(cars, houses, stacks of money and a good husband) but she would still feel incomplete without a child! this is africa.......not louisiana!

coogar: there's a movie on youtube called "madam dearest" - watch it and tell me what you would have done differently in the woman's shoes.......

slimyem: yeah...
Fvck off too with your "ayam a FINNS" over-sabi attitude!!!

slimyem: 98 percent??
Wow!!
You been really using your head...!
How do you know the bolded again??
Your head?
Are you saying they cannot specifically tailor simplistic and reserved clothes to suit Kate's status?
Are you saying they couldn't have browsed that business strategy like the article implied?
...and how are you this certain again?
Your head...i suppose??

slimyem: you chose what to believe...same as all the other posters here..!
A part of the story says they did actually sent those clothes...another says they denied it..
Except you are a Kardashian or an employee of theirs,how do you know its a made up story and they are not just trying to save face by denying the rumours?

nissparts: Deployment Instructions to "Mrs Woman"
1. Don't ever try to fix him, if he ever develops a fault, I'm his manufacturer and you will need to talk to me about him. You're his wife, not his God. I don't particularly like it when you think you can change him and you attempt to take my place.

nissparts: 2. Well, I'm your God too, but your husband is my deputy in your life. To get the best of him, you need to respect him like you do me. Get more instructions on this from your grandmother Sarah.

nissparts: 4. He's a man of God but he's still a man. Remember a hungry man is an angry man whether the hunger is for food or sex. Don't you ever play politics with him on those issues.

Man of God my face! How many men are truly "men of God"? Coogar, when last did you "visit" the bible app on your phone? A yeye man/ a non-man of God isn't qualified to experience the love and roles of a real woman/woman of God!

Food and s-e-x ? Very wordly examples by "God". Why not hunger for the word of God?

PointB: Umu Igbo,

We we started the journey of Eze Ndi Igbo, it began like a joke. However, with OnlyTruth premier ship and with a successful election we have been able to fine tune to some extent the office of Eze Ndi Igbo Nairaland.

It is in similar fashion that we agreed to test run Eze Nwayi position during the last election. The overriding thought behind the Eze Nwayi was that - we will be able to fine tune and make it work. Many of our women shied away from post as they did not want to sail uncharted waters. However, two brave Igbo women did not decline their nomination, nor was there any out cry against them during the nomination process. It was however in the middle of the election that issues were raised of a candidate, when it was too late for the electoral commissioner to act on the issues raised. A pledge was made to work with the new Eze to establish ground rules for Eze Ndi Igbo election, and Code of Conduct after their inauguration.

However, current event and emerging scenarios has prompted us to move this process forward. Let's assume we actually want to remove and elected official, Eze or Eze Nwayi, on what basis should we do that? And is that basis enough and generally accepted by all? What are are expected of these officials? How did they even get to be nominated let alone elected? These are the questions we seek answers to, and these answers will be there to guide our future activities as an online group.

The cabinet believes it is important to get various Igbo leaders of thought to air their opinion to help us moved forward together. I would urge that we take every bit of it as important as we could, as we need to forge a common front.

Let's go there - https://www.nairaland.com/1097552/eze-ndi-igbo-nairaland-electoral


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Enoquin: I think Ogugua herself should reject the post, this is because it has crossed from mere disagreements to personal matters. Her rejection will not make her less intelligent or achieving and I don't see it as cowardice.

The fact that most people did not know the contestants well shouldn't be the fault of the contestants but of the people who had the opportunity but didn't make use of it...I mean all the information brought up against her now has always been in the public and could be accessed, so why was it not?

It is quite disheartening that despite efforts being made by some igbo people, they have been shouted down...pray, how does all this unite the igbos? It is good to have dissenters but there are lines that shouldn't be crossed...

FreeGlobe: say that to the birds. how can we tell policewoman did not win when the umpire was biased, that was wgy we asked for nairaland custom poll. As far as I and other concerned igbos are concerned we dont want ogugua, she must be enjoying this cheap publicity.

. . .she didn't ask for it.

I think this matter should be transferred to Afam4eva'a website, www. Very appropriate, since he's all for seclusion.

advocate666: Ogugua88, Yorubas love you so much that I don't know why you are not contesting to become the queen of yorubaland.

Igbos do not want you. Go away.

coogar: you lots are pathetic.....
ogugua should be impeached because she's more educated, more exposed, more diplomatic, more intelligent and more tolerant than you "mgbeke" breeds? where was this gnashing of teeth when the election process was going on? ogugua contested an election, won an election fair and square and now she must be impeached because she has spoken the truth?

may amadioha deliver the worst strain of chicken pox on the offspring of whoever made this thread or the people conspiring against ogugua. ogugua is my ezenwanyi and no jupiter can touch her. if you billygoats don't have anything to do than gossip about a woman young enough to be your daughter, then buy a long rope - find a strong beam to tie it to and do the obvious......

desist from this plan before i bring my 4 apocalyptic horsemen on this thread.....

Yikes! The drama is getting more intriguing by the minute. From what I can read, the Ezenwayi didn't volunteer to "lead" these confused lot. She was on her own with her policies when they said "oya fine gal, come lead us". I'm suspecting these people voted for her because of her yellow fine face and the fact that she's from Amelika. Yikes! Their political and traditional minds were fast asleep when they were chanting "Na ogugua I vote for". Now policies are clashing and they're crying foul.

I do agree that the/these people should be allowed to choose who to lead them, and also, a leader is usually a reflection of his/her people/society. GEJ is the president of Nigeria (which makes a lot of sense). Clearly, ogugua isn't a reflection of these ones. . .she's far more intelligent. So, if they want to impeach, that's really their cup of coffee. Don't you think? The babe in question has nothing to lose, rather a lot to gain from the impeachment.

Useless set of people, I must affirm.

advocate666: ogugua, your reign is dead on arrival. You have lost your people.

donchris33: Boko Haram are no more human than we are. The difference between Boko Haram and the rest of Nigeria is that they are not keyboard warriors, sitting behind laptops and computers, ranting out of anger and frustration. They plan. They do not like something, so they strategize and execute. They set goals for themselves and achieve these goals time after time. As sad as it may be, the reality is that terrorist groups like Boko Haram are successful. Why? Because they act.

We can emulate Boko Haram in a positive way.

@ ogugua. the post above was curled from one of your threads titled: WE CAN LEARN A LESSON FROM BOKO HARAM. you condemn ndigbo all the time of kidnapping but you praise boko haram that have taken a lot of innocent lives.

coogar: it depends on who is doing the asking........
if she's "fit", of course i would be silly to pass up such opportunity even if i am seeing someone else..........but if she's not my type, haaaaaa - i would quickly tell my girlfriend about it! i have to make her think i don't "cheat" and examples like this gives her confidence i am 100% perfect - it's the oldest trick in the world.

How does that make you feel, SlimShady?

Tgirl4real: I really don't know the title to give this...
How do u FEEL when someone (an opp sex) goes out of his way to serve u, run errands for u, try to please u and be there for you even when it is obvious you can't date the person?
It is clear this person likes you and if things were different he/she would have loved to date u.
I do know how to handle such situations, but it sometimes saddens me esp. when the person is someone 'lower' than you. I usually try my best to reject/reciprocate such gestures in the most polite and humble way possible.
But to be sincere, it can be awkward.

So, how do u feel?

Does it excite you?
Make u proud?
Do u feel like u are taking advantage of the person?

coogar: whatever you do - don't reveal the fact that......

2buff: Where the heck have you been?