₦airaland Forum

armyofone: Aren't you being double standard eh? Here is a woman who is in need of money and someone is offering her the money-OP didn't say she will be collecting the money in the 'hotel bedroom' or at midnight.

that's why we pray to marry guys with real head on their shoulder. a real man with good and real head on his shoulder should be able to provide for his lady. maybe money for doing business etc madam here is working hard, spare her jo

Kobojunkie: I said it . . some folks believe that once a woman is married, her brain drops out on the way back to the man's house. The same brain that has served her growing up in the same Nigeria and the same wild streets, suddenly drops out of her skull when she is married and she then becomes sheep that needs to be led everywhere.

The woman may have been collecting checks and payments from her customers at hotels, homes, etc, for years. She probably has a business that she runs that way, but once we hear she is married, she becomes a half-wit that needs to be shepherded.
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igaro: Is it proper for a guy to allow his wife, a God fearing woman, the leeway to go meet an uncle (not related o, just family friends) at a hotel he's lodged in, simply because he wants to assist her with a deposit into his account which will inturn reflect as a boost on her own target in the bank for that month?

coogar: idowu would finish the whole wedding cake in the front row. i don't trust idowu near anything "baked"

coogar: i cannot wait, my dear......
my whole day was spent in the city looking for that big rock that would fit your finger..... I can hear the wedding bells tolling.

Idowuogbo: Can't wait

jidegirl12: There we go.... That's what I'm talking about .... loosen up Babe... Oops

coogar: my darling wife - how was work today? can you meet me in the bedroom when you are done?

coogar: hi babe!

coogar: nigerians don't know the meaning of the word - we have so many stuck-up people here with no fun in their lives. flirting is actually healthy - an ego booster! it's an adult game and kids are not allowed!

coogar: what else is wrong?

jidegirl12: HaHa BABÈ! You must be a very possessive lady.... on top wetin I bet you are getting agitated now !

coogar: if its not cheating - why is it wrong and irresponsible?
am i in the land of philistines?

Kobojunkie: I don't see it either. Story story, I used to have a, friend of a friend, who would even flirt with the plumber if she could get a discount. I mean she had no problem with it as she felt there was no harm to all that. Well, that belief went out the door when her husband started "flirting" with his colleague at work. Long story short, they eventually split up because according to the husband "she was too jealous".

coogar: casual flirting is not cheating - nigerians are generally obtuse about the misuse of the word. touching your hair while talking to a total stranger is flirting.....whether you meant it to be so or not is irrelevant - it's the way people perceive it that matters. you people should learn n understand the meaning of the word!
online banter is not cheating - it would have to be secretive to even qualify as cheating. if i make a passing comment on the wall of my female colleague telling her she's cute - that's flirting but it's not cheating - ithere's a line between flirting and cheating......find it!

slimyem: My people say..."nnkan teeyan o ba ni je,ko kii fi run mu.." (Aint no point sniffing what you won't eat).
Seriously!!

coogar: yeah - i have been the head right from when the relationship started. as the man, i take charge!
yeah - i accept!
yeah - that's the essence of my manhood!
everything in my power must be done to provide for my wife and kids!
she should sit me down and offer her best support - she should understand and trust me completely that i am doing my very best to change the situation....she should also remember when the going was good - i never held back! in a nutshell, understanding one's partner is the key!
i am not ashamed to say sorry to my spouse when i do wrong - it effectively puts out unnecessary arguments - my spouse is also peace-loving, the apologies are promptly accepted and it's all good in the hood!

Chedarking: ...Like any one of these cats commenting is 'rich'

chaircover: I am almost certain that coogar is married
BOY oh BOY how could I forget Jaybee
errrrrmmmmmm saga is not married but please pretty please can he be on the list. Id just like to see how he will deal with his woman using his razor to shave her eyebrows
PS I sent you a PM

Tgirl4real: I will include Coogar then.

minute: Is it right?
Here's an idea. Why not get an education, develop some interests besides your ex, and become
a person a guy WANTS to be with

coogar: ....i was attacked and i would not hesitate to give it back in good measure, pressed down and violently shaken together....