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Angelfrost:
Calm down... Try win Tea mug this coming Sunday fess!

pansophist:
Depends if you have money. Do you have money?

pansophist:
Before I explain what I mean by that, let's define the word "love".

There are at least two definitions of love. One is a verb, which is an action word (eg loving someone the way a parent loves a child). Parental love is not conditional on the gender, health, or height of the child. Their love is a decision.

The second definition is a noun, which is a deep feeling of affection. It's an emotional base, and this is what most people mean when they say they are in love. This type of love fluctuates. It's dependent on fickle things such as looks, status, etc.

By weak/strong, I'm referring to the strength of a person's character, ability, and moral excellence, not necessarily physical prowess (though not excluded). Now that I got the definition cleared, let's get to the meat of the matter.

A weak and a strong person can love in the context of an emotion, but only a strong person can exercise love in the context of a decision. I'll use an analogy to shine this point clearly.

Imagine a relationship between a goat and a lion. The lion can always help and save the goat from the claws of other predators out there, but the goat can't help the lion even if it wants to. It takes strength to love.

The relationship favors the goat because it can always rely on the strength and ability of the lion. The goat doesn't even have to feel obligated to help the lion because it simply can't, but you can always trust the goat to never accept that the lion can't help, because the lion is the strong one here.

This is a paraphrasing of "2 Corinthians 6.14. Which says ''do not be unequally yoked''. Or as they say, Iron sharpens iron. Women by default play by this rule. You'll hardly see a woman pick a man from the trenches.

So as a strong person, it is your responsibility to refuse to fraternize with a weak person, since love is reciprocal, you won't get what you give back. You'll give, rescue, help, and upgrade the weak and they can't reciprocate and even worse, may not appreciate. It's a mindset thing.

Also, manipulations and lies are traits that accompany a weak character. To attune to their weakness, they will resort to lies and manipulations to get their way.

So this is what I meant by that statement, that the weak can not love. At best they will feel emotions, but when it comes to turning up, they just can't even if they want to.

Another example. If not because the West standing for Ukraine, Russia would have crushed Ukraine long ago. Now imagine if Nigeria and Ukraine are in love, we may feel sorry for them, and shout at the Russians, but we simply can't help Ukraine because we lack the means to. Our love for Ukraine is an emotion, not an ability/strength to rescue them from Russian missiles.

Another example. Have you seen a lion eating an antelope? and the family are just standing afar watching? They want to help but they can't because they are weak. So yea, it takes strength to love. Because at the very basic, it's survival of the fittest, strongest, and in our world, richest.

Faber:
it's only a mumu man that will get thrilled by a bitch giving him her phone to go thru to confirm that she is not a flirt. Many phones have double interface or double administrator...like my phone. If you ask me to give you my phone I will just dial 4 digists on the locked home screen and hand you over the visitor mode. I installed WhatsApp. Facebook like chrome, gallery etc on it. You will be going thru my WhatsApp business, my fake gallery, messages etc. You can even browse or search anything you like on google using Chrome. I will still collect the same phone from your hand once it is locked and dial my own 4 digits that will launch me my own admistrator...my real phone.

waywardpikin:
RULE NUMBER 1

If you have to tell people that you are an alpha male, you are unequivocally not an alpha male.

And some people wonder why I hate labels.

Some of us, in trying to prove what we not, we end up perpetuating a stereotype. We huff and puff and one of the first things we say when we walk into a new habitat is:

"Oh I'm an alpha male"

"Oh I'm a red piller"

And we boldly declare it like it's a badge of honour. This is not necessarily a bad thing (I wouldn't be caught dead peacocking), but when you misrepresent everything these adjectives stand for you inadvertently subject what they represent to ridicule.

If you live by the basic tenets of the red pill, you don't have to announce that you are an alpha male or a macho man or whatever, people can sense that when they come in contact with you. We all have an aura. Even through our various styles of writing, everybody carries an aura.

Please let all this need to belong end now. Be your real selves (the best versions at least)!

We've had major clash of egos and chest thumping on this thread because apparently everyone is a guru now and even people that know they are bona-fide simps are claiming scholars. Let's tone down the machismo.

Mitsurugi:
Cultism has got to be one of the dumbest things. If you're intent on carrying guns and engaging in turf wars.... nigga join the army and practice your skills in Sambisa. The only achievement of cultists is to fight over illicit cash, fight over a girl's nyash (na this one worse pass, your Capo will order you to a firefight to protect his babe. Chai!), f.ck without direction, drink like senseless waifs and engage in thuggery. You see such idiots hit 50 without a single achievement in life.

Well one, to breed more cultist children.

Na so my wifey only brother cannot return to ESUT to finish his degree since 2014. Till date no degree, no sensible work.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Nawa oo. This world is a very small place. I just left Best western hotel in nza street not upto an hour ago now.

JONNYSPUTE:
.... You wan come rob me abi? Just come to ind/layout and if I no shoot your blockos,no say I be coward. Lol.

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Lol. Enugu.

ominilongest:
Naira Marley chichi

Davido Ekuro

Kizz Daniel laye

Vector early momo

Tiwa savage ife wa gbono

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Thank God I still have up 100k cash for emergency.

Any other transaction is by transfer.

Albertone:
With all these description, if not that you mentioned her having 2 boys, i'd have sworn that's ahnie.

sweetveek:
After taking profit, you start praying for a dip

yellowgarri2:
Rashford to score next goal for man u.

Badadvisor it's like you aren't watching this game.

Kyase what do you think?

GGMU

SocialJustice:
Kush does not make a person mad, it only amplifies what was already there. Another set are those who abuse a wide variety of drugs but people only see them using kush and assume kush is the cause of insanity.

SocialJustice:
If you haven't experienced chronic substance dependency, you really can't speak on this issue. You think it happens by magic or have you not seen how those who claim to have stopped have a relapse. People who think they should stop should be given as many options not quiting in a flash, it does not work

toyeoye:
Geminis Only

garfield1:
Same to you.inthe world cup in France game against England when you made a promise for every French goal scored

Fuckingmallam45:
We all came here to have fun, no bitterness what so ever, so why the insult? Bro you don't need that.

ppogba:
You seem to see De Jong as a super player.
Na so e dey be until he arrives and turn to another De beek.

garfield1:
Redeem your last pledge sir

Stillwhites:
Bitterness: innate character of typical Nigerian women.

Badadvisor:
Let's do 3 - 0 today boys

NOTORIOUS100:
Bro by osanoba grace, you prediction will be correct.

NOTORIOUS100:
Bro by osanoba grace, you prediction will be correct.