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@ chxta,
it looks very bleak for nigeria. indeed i fear it will become even more embarrassing for us.

but my brother, i bet you wont be able to stop ur eyes from watching the eagles.

i guess mr bassey answered in a roundabout manner. what he is saying is that if obj choose to run for a third term, he'll blame him; olusegun obasanjo.

i'll blame him too. for he ought to be able to resist the temptation.

yeah very ugly like papa like pickin.

you've said that before!

kola what are women?
so for you its tit for tat.
ummmmn!

true, na madness.

if its indeed true then craze craze things really de happen.
nna na wa o

e be like say cletus bobo fear him head o he come take off.
still try more maybe he go change him mind come back.

so far we've been saying NO. including me! i never did and never will.
So does that mean we arent that submisive to our man? as in total submission, him being the head and all that?
And guys, common, lets hear from you. what would you do?

ha ha
damigurl, so na only mumu go do am?
ok what if he demands it? what then?

I came across this story somewhere,
Jude and roseline and have been happily married for about two years, then one day Jude happened upon roseline's payslip and was the beginning of katakata.
"so you earn this much, eh?"
"what if i earn this much?" roseline retorted. the husband was quiet for a while then he said
"henceforth, you must bring your paycheck home to me as your husband. i am the head of this home and must take charge in everything including your finances. i will determine how best we spend our resources".
roseline was adamant in her refusal and this has caused untold strain on the marriage, threatening it.

Now dear Nairaland users, would you as a woman faithfully submit your salary to your husband to determine how you spend it?
and as a man, would you demand your wife submits her salary to you?

Please lets hear your views.

my dear i think i understand your fear about losing ur son. if i'm not mistaken, ur girl is igbo, and the tradition holds that because you didnt pay for her bride price before she gave birth you cant lay claim to the baby and that the son actually belong to the girls father. (correct me if i'm wrong)
Now, this is really very tricky as it appears to me oi isnt really forthcoming about her real feelings. like HA said, girls say its ok when its really not ok. i think, she got a lot of pride and hates to think you'd marry her only for the sake of the baby hence she put on that i-dont-care-one-way-or-the-other attitude.
you've got real issue to deal with here. you have to come to terms about ur feelings for oi. you really need to work that out b4 moving on.
i think oi is bitter cos she wants you to love her for her and not cos of the baby and she's hiding her bitterness/hurt well.
as to your new girl saying the kid isnt yours, i think she's talking trash. totally and selfishly biased.
you've got to sit with oi and be completely honest and pray she does same with you.
best of luck.

chxta,
nna na wa for wetin?

why AIT de go forth and back now? i tire o.

pie1ect i dont understand this story, you say the yankee guy found out she got pregnant for someone else and still went ahead to propose? i no understand that part.
and you say na ss3 student de girl get belle for? that's weird.
another thing wetin the guy de do reach four years? na four years dem de take do masters?

you need change?
ok go shop for yourself then but like buckeye said, when you get back everything u bought would become fake and so rejected.

thank you Kola,
@ ghanarules
Its a pity u're in fantasyland, believing your players are so famous and skilful when in actual fact, they are over the hill.
by the way, its not MR bagoma.

conscience, you know why i think you're biased?
you started by mocking Ribadu. you even stated that he better not be proud of his antagonism of IBB insinuating that he should grovel at his(IBB) feet. apportioning glory to that....... words fail me to describe ur IBB.
why do you see everything bad in obj. to me he hasnt done as much as i would want but i can clearly see he's done and is doing something for this country. whether u like him or not he is positively moving the nation forward. you may not like his speed, but then u have no idea about what he has to contend with. you think the whole rot could be turned around in day? or even in 8 yrs? no, think again.
criticise, but be fair.

@ kwame,
you are very much welcome to nairaland.

stopped making resolutions long time ago cos i always end up not keeping them.
no resolutions for me. just want to live the good life.

yes, why dont we all wait see.

@ jalal,
catherine zeta-jones and barbara? i've not seen any resemblance.

@pkrix,
yes, when you look at the quality of the total package as compared to nigerian productions, we'll find that we are light years from them.

that is not to say that theirs(when u are mine) is perfect.just far, far better than what we have here.